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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate?

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By *he Senior ServiceMan
over a year ago

DONCASTER

What you on about you have a stunning body. Stop beating yourself down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

It's us men who should feel inadequate, I mean a vast majority of the women on here are just stunning, that definitely includes yourself so don't pull yourself down. It could always be worse you could look like me haha

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

As said before you look stunning but a man's permanent state of mind is hormy and desperate no matter how he looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is rubbish - you look great so why would handsome men not contact you?

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

You are joking,right?

I think the reason they wouldn't approach you in the street would be that they feel they wouldn't stand a chance with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More like ur out off there league because ur very beautiful infact any man would be the luckyest man in the world to have you spend time with them ur that beautiful and sexy

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"More like ur out off there league because ur very beautiful infact any man would be the luckyest man in the world to have you spend time with them ur that beautiful and sexy "

But I often get ghosted on fab and never asked out or looked twice in the streets so wondering why these handsome would bother unless they just like just chasing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More like ur out off there league because ur very beautiful infact any man would be the luckyest man in the world to have you spend time with them ur that beautiful and sexy

But I often get ghosted on fab and never asked out or looked twice in the streets so wondering why these handsome would bother unless they just like just chasing "

The people who ghost you are very stupid to say the least and if you walked past me I would probably have to do a dubble check in two modes one check in man mode about how beautiful you are and the second check would be tv/ts mode about clothes make up and style lol x

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

I think most of us feel like that sometimes and I am sure there is an element of that with a lot of the men on here.

You are gorgeous though Jas and a lovely person so maybe even if their initial message was sent with that intention, if you get to know them you may find there can be more to it than just that. I think most men would feel lucky to get the chance to get to know you x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Nothing to do with leagues - or even being "out on the street".

"Out on the street", unless you are going to a place where it's likely you'll be chatted up, or an environment for getting to know people, chances are most people would be passed by, not because they're unattractive but simply because people are going about their daily business and not looking for anything more - whereas here the main raison d'etre of the site is to meet and get to know people, so there's no real comparison between the two environments.

If you're continually being ghosted or finding that meets don't happen then sadly it's something that does happen on here, but you can minimise the chances of it happening by taking your time getting to know people a little, and having a reasonable level of certainty they are genuine before agreeing to meet, it's what I do, and hasn't failed me yet

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It's a false equivalence. Guys on the street don't know you are looking for a guy and for what. Guys on the street don't get to see a profile and sexy photos of you. Guys on the street aren'tppresented with an easy way to message you to show interest. Guys on the street may very well be eying you up and you just don't notice. A lot of guys on the street are not looking for anybody anyway.

Why on Earth would you compare reactions to you here with what happens on the street?

If you like somebody who likes you on here then go for it. To be honest, it sounds like you are over-analysing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

You are a woman on fab...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

Same goes for guys with regards to your profile, I can assure you, at least from my perspective. But I defo agree about guys messaging females on here they would not look twice at them out of Fab. I would say that Fab increases a female's 'attractiveness' by about 3/4 points on Fab if we're saying out of 10 (not for all, though, some really are 'high scorers' - and I'm only using that score thing to show what I mean about guys on here... and I'm not perfect either).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus it's a lot moren intimidating approaching someone in real life than on Fab where you can 'take a chance'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me thinks the OP doth protest too much!

You’re a babe of gorgeous proportions and if you ever drop by my supermarket let me know I will meet you on the condiments isle !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys no longer approach on the street these days they could be shy scared or nervous that they’ll get rejected

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

There’s loads of couples together where one looks out of the others league. It’s often termed “punching above your weight”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way I see it is if you're attracting hotter people on here than you get in real life then it's probably the 'fab' effect of making average looking people seem like 10/10s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "
may I ask why you think that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens in clubs when the couple's woman gets huffy when she thinks she's in the ryman league and this fellas Mrs is Premier League and on a par with J Lo

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I'd say it's because you're an attractive women and they've hopefully got similar interests... everyone is attracted to different people, why not you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I sometimes get the impression that people message us because they're horny, it's usually easy to tell. No idea if they're desperate but neither of us ever consider someone to be out of our league because of the way they look compared to the way we look.

Loads of people are out of my league intellectually though but it wouldn't stop me talking to them, I might learn something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "
snap very often think that with most of the messages i get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

I always feel that all women are out of my league & as for being ghosted ive been ghosted since day 1 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

That's how I see it, when someone better looking and a better body messages. I think its a realistic thought. I dont complain is I'm getting the better end of the stick... so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The odds are stacked in your favour, Women get a plus 4 on here, men get a minus 4 from real life.

I agree, most men wouldn't give half the women on here a 2nd look in the street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What we think is and who we think are attractive is down to personal choice. The stereotypical version of good looking is something the media make up it's not what we all find attractive. We all have bits of our own body we don't like and parts we do. I believe We're all individual and stunning in our own way. I believe being sexy is to do with the mind not the body. There are some unbelievably sexy attractive women on this site of all shapes and sizes. That's all down to the way they project their sexual confidence.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

maybe its because he/they feel more confident behind a screen? myself my motto has always been a 'No' dsnt hurt, ill always take a shot, here or in real life!

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

wow thanks guys. Thought I get trolled for asking this question. But yes, I often go past gorgeous men out and about, none turn around have a look, never ever get asked out for a drink or bought a drink in bars and clubs... but on fab, I get tons of messages, from some really model looking men. But I never met one in person so maybe all talk and no action on fab.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"wow thanks guys. Thought I get trolled for asking this question. But yes, I often go past gorgeous men out and about, none turn around have a look, never ever get asked out for a drink or bought a drink in bars and clubs... but on fab, I get tons of messages, from some really model looking men. But I never met one in person so maybe all talk and no action on fab. "

You won't know unless you try.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Have more faith in yourself. Everyone is equal on fab

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I think like that.. why is it attractive women don’t message me, is it cuz I’m handsome, cuz every time I send a face pic, I get blocked

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "
you are certainly a desirable woman on here look lovely in your pics sure many guys are attracted to you

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

I'm ugly as sin. Let's chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is hilarious......

I never look at anyone’s pictures and feel they are out of my league......

The main reason is because they never look that good in person......

Don’t get me wrong there are very stunning people online.... but out of meeting 100 people I would say 0nly 5 looked exactly like their pictures or better.... The other 95 looked almost like their pictures .... with a little more weight and age....

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"There’s loads of couples together where one looks out of the others league. It’s often termed “punching above your weight” "
Bens been doin that for years LOL

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

I think due to the ratio of men to women that some ladies will get a lot more attention than they may IRL...

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Its so easy to see a hot pic and hit the message button without even thinking why, do you actually want to get to know that person or is it just interactive porn ? I’d imagine a large proportion of messages are from people who won’t or can’t ever meet.

A lot harder to approach a real person in the street.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"This thread is hilarious......

I never look at anyone’s pictures and feel they are out of my league......

The main reason is because they never look that good in person......

Don’t get me wrong there are very stunning people online.... but out of meeting 100 people I would say 0nly 5 looked exactly like their pictures or better.... The other 95 looked almost like their pictures .... with a little more weight and age...."

I’m confused you have only met one person off Fab in two years so not much to go off.

Always told we look better in the flesh than our pics and get more attention in the real world than the fab world.

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By *irthyGuy30Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Had a hot MF couple indicate to me a while ago that the lady reckoned I was out of her league because of all the hot women on my profile from my days performing in amateur porn scenes. I was gutted as she looked well fit and I just see myself as an average kind of bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

I can’t imagine anyone passing you in the street and not looking twice smoking hot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure I will get shot down for this, but I can’t help but think if this was a man saying this he would be told he is looking for attention, or to shut up bragging.

But hey it might be reverse psychology, as now you have plenty of men who may message you that you may see as your ‘average joe’ so to speak.

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I’m sure I will get shot down for this, but I can’t help but think if this was a man saying this he would be told he is looking for attention, or to shut up bragging.

But hey it might be reverse psychology, as now you have plenty of men who may message you that you may see as your ‘average joe’ so to speak. "

From a man it would definitely come over as a terrible humble-brag, and very unlikely, but the nature of fab is that men massively outnumber women so to me the OPs point reads as self-deprecating, and probably relatable to many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a wise old man once said 'beauty is within the eye of the beholder'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure I will get shot down for this, but I can’t help but think if this was a man saying this he would be told he is looking for attention, or to shut up bragging.

But hey it might be reverse psychology, as now you have plenty of men who may message you that you may see as your ‘average joe’ so to speak.

From a man it would definitely come over as a terrible humble-brag, and very unlikely, but the nature of fab is that men massively outnumber women so to me the OPs point reads as self-deprecating, and probably relatable to many."

And I’m sure many men have the same self deprecating feelings. I don’t think the ratio of women to men has anything to do with it.

Many men have been shot down in threads when asking similar questions.

Or people saying lucky the green tick is there so they can judge past posts.

And now all the compliments from men etc are responding which again wouldn’t happen on a male post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

I have fucked some beautiful young men and I look like I ate you! I think you need to work on your self esteem a bit, maybe?!

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

I used to think like that!! But why is anyone out of someone's league!???

I changed my mind set and the women I'd always think were out my league are the ones I'd have no issue in trying my luck with!! Not just on Fab but out socialising and actually have a lot of luck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing as leagues, I never look and think oh my good she's far too good looking for me. You have nothing to lose

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Never met a lady who is confident out of anyones league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is hilarious......

I never look at anyone’s pictures and feel they are out of my league......

The main reason is because they never look that good in person......

Don’t get me wrong there are very stunning people online.... but out of meeting 100 people I would say 0nly 5 looked exactly like their pictures or better.... The other 95 looked almost like their pictures .... with a little more weight and age....

I’m confused you have only met one person off Fab in two years so not much to go off.

Always told we look better in the flesh than our pics and get more attention in the real world than the fab world. "

Fab is a wasteland in the USA...... the meetings I based my post off was from dating sites/apps.... a fetish site , and few USA based swinging sites ....

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I think like that.. why is it attractive women don’t message me, is it cuz I’m handsome, cuz every time I send a face pic, I get blocked "

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I think due to the ratio of men to women that some ladies will get a lot more attention than they may IRL... "

I still don't believe this thing about men outnumbering women

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

I have no doubt in my mind that 90% of men that message me would not give me a second glance out in the "real" world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you on about you have a stunning body. Stop beating yourself down"
theres more about a woman than her body. Dont you think looks matter? I'm not saying shes not nice looking but if you cant see a face then she could look like a smacked arse lol. All of us. Not the Op in particular.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I’m sure I will get shot down for this, but I can’t help but think if this was a man saying this he would be told he is looking for attention, or to shut up bragging.

But hey it might be reverse psychology, as now you have plenty of men who may message you that you may see as your ‘average joe’ so to speak.

From a man it would definitely come over as a terrible humble-brag, and very unlikely, but the nature of fab is that men massively outnumber women so to me the OPs point reads as self-deprecating, and probably relatable to many."

I like the proof that men outnumbering women as I really don't believe it.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"As a wise old man once said 'beauty is within the eye of the beholder'"

True but these guys who would find on the cover of a magazine or Instagram

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a wise old man once said 'beauty is within the eye of the beholder'

True but these guys who would find on the cover of a magazine or Instagram "

Ah you don't want to be bothered with them spice boys, too high maintenance

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I’m sure I will get shot down for this, but I can’t help but think if this was a man saying this he would be told he is looking for attention, or to shut up bragging.

But hey it might be reverse psychology, as now you have plenty of men who may message you that you may see as your ‘average joe’ so to speak. "

I definitely not bragging or seeking attention... just curious if anyone else has this issue where they have people messaging that they would never have the opportunity in person.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"As a wise old man once said 'beauty is within the eye of the beholder'

True but these guys who would find on the cover of a magazine or Instagram

Ah you don't want to be bothered with them spice boys, too high maintenance "

True, I rarely chat to them back tbh. I hardly get a conversation going even if I tried tbh

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I’m sure I will get shot down for this, but I can’t help but think if this was a man saying this he would be told he is looking for attention, or to shut up bragging.

But hey it might be reverse psychology, as now you have plenty of men who may message you that you may see as your ‘average joe’ so to speak.

From a man it would definitely come over as a terrible humble-brag, and very unlikely, but the nature of fab is that men massively outnumber women so to me the OPs point reads as self-deprecating, and probably relatable to many.

I like the proof that men outnumbering women as I really don't believe it. "

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"What you on about you have a stunning body. Stop beating yourself down theres more about a woman than her body. Dont you think looks matter? I'm not saying shes not nice looking but if you cant see a face then she could look like a smacked arse lol. All of us. Not the Op in particular. "

lol yeah I look like I been hit by a bus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure I will get shot down for this, but I can’t help but think if this was a man saying this he would be told he is looking for attention, or to shut up bragging.

But hey it might be reverse psychology, as now you have plenty of men who may message you that you may see as your ‘average joe’ so to speak. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you on about you have a stunning body. Stop beating yourself down theres more about a woman than her body. Dont you think looks matter? I'm not saying shes not nice looking but if you cant see a face then she could look like a smacked arse lol. All of us. Not the Op in particular.

lol yeah I look like I been hit by a bus "
well if you know you are good looking why would you think you're out of anyones league? No one is too good for anyone else.

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By *borofucktoyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Always hated the 'league' system..Great if your at the top, sucks at the bottom ...just puts people into boxes like each league is some exclusive club

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"What you on about you have a stunning body. Stop beating yourself down theres more about a woman than her body. Dont you think looks matter? I'm not saying shes not nice looking but if you cant see a face then she could look like a smacked arse lol. All of us. Not the Op in particular.

lol yeah I look like I been hit by a bus well if you know you are good looking why would you think you're out of anyones league? No one is too good for anyone else. "

I don't think I'm good looking at all. But maybe the lesson learnt from this discussion is noone should be put into a league category?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

Yup!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you on about you have a stunning body. Stop beating yourself down theres more about a woman than her body. Dont you think looks matter? I'm not saying shes not nice looking but if you cant see a face then she could look like a smacked arse lol. All of us. Not the Op in particular.

lol yeah I look like I been hit by a bus well if you know you are good looking why would you think you're out of anyones league? No one is too good for anyone else.

I don't think I'm good looking at all. But maybe the lesson learnt from this discussion is noone should be put into a league category? "
correct. There shouldnt be categories. Each to their own. If you click you click. If you dont it just means no attraction. Not you're not good enough

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By *ovestrap69TV/TS
over a year ago

Croydon


"What you on about you have a stunning body. Stop beating yourself down"

This.

OP are you OK?

Feeling down and need some complements?

Half of the men in here would give their right ballocks to meet you.. The other half would give both their bollocks..

Where is this feeling coming from?

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By *ovestrap69TV/TS
over a year ago

Croydon


"What you on about you have a stunning body. Stop beating yourself down theres more about a woman than her body. Dont you think looks matter? I'm not saying shes not nice looking but if you cant see a face then she could look like a smacked arse lol. All of us. Not the Op in particular.

lol yeah I look like I been hit by a bus "

Which bus is this?

The one which is full of angles.

So you now have all their beauty?

It also goes to show. Just cos you think someone is pretty or out of your league. Dont meant you will click if you chatted to them..

Or they to you.

Me I think you and all women in here are pretty.

Maybe we would click maybe we would not.

But if I meet anyone I try to ensure my partner will enjoy a good night. Laugh, chat and explore..

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By *opite_xWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

I feel like this aaall the time!

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"a man's permanent state of mind is hormy and desperate no matter how he looks"

speak for yourself. I'm in no way desperate.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"What you on about you have a stunning body. Stop beating yourself down theres more about a woman than her body. Dont you think looks matter? I'm not saying shes not nice looking but if you cant see a face then she could look like a smacked arse lol. All of us. Not the Op in particular.

lol yeah I look like I been hit by a bus

Which bus is this?

The one which is full of angles.

So you now have all their beauty?

It also goes to show. Just cos you think someone is pretty or out of your league. Dont meant you will click if you chatted to them..

Or they to you.

Me I think you and all women in here are pretty.

Maybe we would click maybe we would not.

But if I meet anyone I try to ensure my partner will enjoy a good night. Laugh, chat and explore.. "

Number 10 bus to Oxford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get messages from really handsome men on fab and I'm thinking this man wouldn't even look twice at me if I passed him on the street, is he messaging me just because he's feeling horny and desperate? "

Don't put yourself down. Plenty of people throughout their life will do that to you because of their own insecurities, jealousy or simply to make themselves feel better.

Fuck em. (Not in the good way)

You look fab, flaunt it girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been seeing someone for nearly two years. He is very much out of my league but oddly he says that I'm out of his.

I think we all feel insecure sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened a few times to us but my wife only gets turned on by other men off if they are out of her league.

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