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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

When BI sexual or bicurious couples are looking for a BI man to meet for MFM fun.

What is they are actually looking for? And please forgive me ignorance.

I have an understanding of how it all works lol but im just curious.

Is it usually being comfortable in close proximity? Comfortable with touching?

Giving and receiving oral? Or anal? And if so are most Bi men in couples Top or Bottom? Or both?

Im asking because ive always been open to meeting the right Bi couple to explore boundaries but most have NO Straight men plastered on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication with the individual couple is key OP as not everyone will want the same thing. I think it's important that you know what your own boundaries are and work from there. Then when you get chatting and understand more about what the other wants you'll know whether it's right for both parties.

If it helps as an example, we pretty much will engage in most aspects of both play except anal. We're upfront about that and that's what we personally would be looking for in any guy joiningus for MMF. And whilst even on that we're very much "never say never" we wouldn't cross that boundary unless everyone was comfortable.

Like I said communication, is everything, before and during

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*bi play

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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

"Communication with the individual couple is key OP as not everyone will want the same thing. I think it's important that you know what your own boundaries are and work from there. Then when you get chatting and understand more about what the other wants you'll know whether it's right for both parties.

Like I said communication, is everything, before and during"

Just read your profile. Het

exible . I like that word lol

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

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"When BI sexual or bicurious couples are looking for a BI man to meet for MFM fun.

What is they are actually looking for? And please forgive me ignorance.

I have an understanding of how it all works lol but im just curious.

Is it usually being comfortable in close proximity? Comfortable with touching?

Giving and receiving oral? Or anal? And if so are most Bi men in couples Top or Bottom? Or both?

Im asking because ive always been open to meeting the right Bi couple to explore boundaries but most have NO Straight men plastered on their profile."

Trouble is op, most couples including ourselves, like to play with people who are into bi play and no what they're doing. It's just a fact, after discovering what you like, to go for experienced people. Maybe putting bi curious on your profile could help. As others have said, communication is key. Write to other bi curious people who are in the same boat. Good hunting, you won't regret it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When BI sexual or bicurious couples are looking for a BI man to meet for MFM fun.

What is they are actually looking for? And please forgive me ignorance.

I have an understanding of how it all works lol but im just curious.

Is it usually being comfortable in close proximity? Comfortable with touching?

Giving and receiving oral? Or anal? And if so are most Bi men in couples Top or Bottom? Or both?

Im asking because ive always been open to meeting the right Bi couple to explore boundaries but most have NO Straight men plastered on their profile."

what boundaries would you like to push then? what is it you would like to try?

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