FabSwingers.com forum: How do you search?

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Fabbers advise me to search for a guy so I do.

The first thing I do is put down my preferences with age, location etc then I scroll and look at profiles purely based on their avatar. If I'm super turned on by their avatar pic. I read their profile then I just wink at them. I'm too shy and nervous to send initial message.

How does everyone else search for profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t and never have so just wait for men to message us which is strange but it’s how we approach fab and it works for us.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We are more likely to see people interacting on the forums. I (Luke) read through most profiles of most people I haven't come across before. If, based on their profile text and forum banter, I think we might have an enjoyable conversation I'll ping them a message responding to something they have written.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabbers advise me to search for a guy so I do.

How does everyone else search for profiles?

Just same as you I guess.

Do you get many reactions from winks? I’m like you with winking, and to shy to message straight away. Mostly my winks get completely ignored.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I always feel embarrassed to send a message first, because of my age.

I will do if they've asked for advice or something in the forums, but 95% of the time, filters won't allow it.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I cast my line in and hope for a nibble.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I search local guys but most of them don't have any pics & those that do are either a) just dick pics or b) I'm not attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabbers advise me to search for a guy so I do.

How does everyone else search for profiles?

We’ve slowed down with initial messages due to the lockdown, at one point we had far too many conversations going on at once and ended up being on here far too much.

Suppose things will be different once we can start meeting again

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I always ticked the verified button too

I wish it would say verified by actual meets though ..

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By *appyjack7890Man
over a year ago

Brigg

I rarrly bother with winks, I just tend to look through the people close by, and read through their profile. If they sound like the sort of thing I am looking for the I will send them a message and a face pic. Seems to work for me

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I search local guys but most of them don't have any pics & those that do are either a) just dick pics or b) I'm not attracted to

eeek, I'm actually really hesitant about meeting local men. next county works for me

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Single men we mostly start chatting to guys that message us if things click we arrange something we have met guys through people close by as well strange bumping into them in Tesco lol

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Single men we mostly start chatting to guys that message us if things click we arrange something we have met guys through people close by as well strange bumping into them in Tesco lol"

That be my worse nightmare

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