FabSwingers.com forum: Reasonable distance

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's a reasonable distance to travel for a meet?

I'm trying to sort a mmf for a lady friend, the guy said she was very attractive, but wont travel 45 mins for the meet.

I've said he can speak on the phone to her to prove shes genuune too.

Am I expecting too much?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Why not book a hotel half way.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

you're expecting more than he's prepared to give, so in this case yes, you're expecting too much.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe he is using the distance as an excuse as he actually doesn't find her attractive or has got cold feet about meeting during Covid19 pandemic

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"you're expecting more than he's prepared to give, so in this case yes, you're expecting too much.

Or maybe just making an excuse as not too interested. 45mins away is not that far and even i travel that distance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair enough.....the lady in question isnt keen on hotel meets

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

His reasonable and your reasonable are two different things. Mine is within 20-30 minutes drive for example. Other people may find 1 hour+ reasonable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you're expecting more than he's prepared to give, so in this case yes, you're expecting too much.

Or maybe just making an excuse as not too interested. 45mins away is not that far and even i travel that distance."

I've travelled 2 and a half hours...twice..for the same couple!

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Everyone is different. Personally we dont drive and due to family reasons we couldnt wander too far from home anyway. As long as we can use taxis at a reasonable price that's been ok with us. Aside from the occasional weekend away and club visit, I think about 15 miles / 30 min travel is our upper limit. So several next towns over for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looks like I'm a bit more willing than most!

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We work on an hour each way if we're travelling. We've had guys say they'll travel any distance for a meet so either (a) they're exaggerating or (b) they're THAT desperate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We work on an hour each way if we're travelling. We've had guys say they'll travel any distance for a meet so either (a) they're exaggerating or (b) they're THAT desperate."

Yep...I get that...

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