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"Are you not totally won over by those that are concerned if you are well or hows your lockdown going..... "Oh we must have the same guys messaging us!!  | |||
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"People rarely seem to bother reading past the first couple of lines imo
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"I had to block men because of this it's so annoying as I'd like to meet one. The issue is I'm very specific about my requirements and state it in my profile but it's not read. I'll get 100's of messages from men I'm not attracted to. So annoying. " Bless them as it’s really not their fault as they suffer from a condition called in the building trade TIT BLINDNESS. We get it all the time,corrrr tits send message and your norks are twice the size of my wife’s so you affect men twice as much. The profile is the window into your sexual soul so by not reading it shows a total lack of respect so use block and move on. Best of luck op. T | |||
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"Just block single guys from messaging you and do your own searching, problem solved x" Exactly, solution is in your own control... Block anyone from mailing you and do the work yourself, sorted | |||
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"I had to block men because of this it's so annoying as I'd like to meet one. The issue is I'm very specific about my requirements and state it in my profile but it's not read. I'll get 100's of messages from men I'm not attracted to. So annoying. " How would a man know if you're attracted to him without messaging? Tbh best thing is to block and hunt for yourself, thats what we do. | |||
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"I had to block men because of this it's so annoying as I'd like to meet one. The issue is I'm very specific about my requirements and state it in my profile but it's not read. I'll get 100's of messages from men I'm not attracted to. So annoying. " Yes the wife gets the same problem on here, but some of the blokes are top quality | |||
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"Are you not totally won over by those that are concerned if you are well or hows your lockdown going..... " That pretty much covers the current men. | |||
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"Also too many profiles messaging me recently don't have any pics. I do try and find men I like but due to them mainly not having a pic or only having a profile pic of their cock I can't see if they are suitable "You could do an experiment with your profile. Hide all but just a few pics. Cut the text down to just 2 or 3 lines - the absolutely most important thing about men you want to meet. Keep it really simple. Such as "Want to meet tall men with long hair, no beards." See if that helps. I love to do profile experiments. It really makes a difference to the messages I get.
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"Also too many profiles messaging me recently don't have any pics. I do try and find men I like but due to them mainly not having a pic or only having a profile pic of their cock I can't see if they are suitable
You could do an experiment with your profile.
Hide all but just a few pics. Cut the text down to just 2 or 3 lines - the absolutely most important thing about men you want to meet. Keep it really simple.
Such as "Want to meet tall men with long hair, no beards."
See if that helps.
I love to do profile experiments. It really makes a difference to the messages I get.
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"I had to block men because of this it's so annoying as I'd like to meet one. The issue is I'm very specific about my requirements and state it in my profile but it's not read. I'll get 100's of messages from men I'm not attracted to. So annoying. " At least you can now search , find then message the people you want to talk to? How are finding that process? | |||
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"I had to block men because of this it's so annoying as I'd like to meet one. The issue is I'm very specific about my requirements and state it in my profile but it's not read. I'll get 100's of messages from men I'm not attracted to. So annoying. " it happens to everyone. People just see an avatar they like. ie your boobs and thats it. dick thinks. brain still asleep | |||
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"Also too many profiles messaging me recently don't have any pics. I do try and find men I like but due to them mainly not having a pic or only having a profile pic of their cock I can't see if they are suitable "I've been shocked by how many male profiles have no pics recently. It's as bad as 101 cock pics. | |||
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"Love the no Tories then suppose better not wear blue if was to meet you " Got to be the first time I've seen anyone rule someone out because of their political stance  | |||
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"It's not only men op, I get lots of couples messaging me too despite specifically saying no couples. " I bet it’s the male half of the couple sending the message after not bothering to read your profile lol | |||
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"I had to block men because of this it's so annoying as I'd like to meet one. The issue is I'm very specific about my requirements and state it in my profile but it's not read. I'll get 100's of messages from men I'm not attracted to. So annoying. " I always read to the end. Even if they are Fabswingers equivalence of war and peace. Saves wasting my time too | |||
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"I had to block men because of this it's so annoying as I'd like to meet one. The issue is I'm very specific about my requirements and state it in my profile but it's not read. I'll get 100's of messages from men I'm not attracted to. So annoying. " Block men and look for yourself. You’re very welcome X | |||
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"It's not only men op, I get lots of couples messaging me too despite specifically saying no couples. I bet it’s the male half of the couple sending the message after not bothering to read your profile lol" You would think so, wouldn't you? However it's a mix. Often I think what they think im meaning is, ' I will meet one of you without the other' I'm always polite in my reply though as I know how tough it is on here for some couples. | |||
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"Also too many profiles messaging me recently don't have any pics. I do try and find men I like but due to them mainly not having a pic or only having a profile pic of their cock I can't see if they are suitable
You could do an experiment with your profile.
Hide all but just a few pics. Cut the text down to just 2 or 3 lines - the absolutely most important thing about men you want to meet. Keep it really simple.
Such as "Want to meet tall men with long hair, no beards."
See if that helps.
I love to do profile experiments. It really makes a difference to the messages I get.
Mine is so short yet they still struggle to read 3/4 lines "Too many words maybe. | |||
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"I find even if you do read profiles write a nice message And be responsible I still don’t get a reply or I gets blocked. Almost given up with this site now. So said as been here since 2009 and it’s changed so much for the worse. Not as friendly as it use to be. Use to message get a reply chat even if there was no interest in meeting. Oh the good old days "I agree, it certainly isn't as friendly. I think that will happen with any site when it gets as big as Fab though unfortunately. | |||
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"Also too many profiles messaging me recently don't have any pics. I do try and find men I like but due to them mainly not having a pic or only having a profile pic of their cock I can't see if they are suitable
You could do an experiment with your profile.
Hide all but just a few pics. Cut the text down to just 2 or 3 lines - the absolutely most important thing about men you want to meet. Keep it really simple.
Such as "Want to meet tall men with long hair, no beards."
See if that helps.
I love to do profile experiments. It really makes a difference to the messages I get.
Mine is so short yet they still struggle to read 3/4 lines
Too many words maybe. "Quite possibly, most men prefer picture books | |||
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"Also too many profiles messaging me recently don't have any pics. I do try and find men I like but due to them mainly not having a pic or only having a profile pic of their cock I can't see if they are suitable
You could do an experiment with your profile.
Hide all but just a few pics. Cut the text down to just 2 or 3 lines - the absolutely most important thing about men you want to meet. Keep it really simple.
Such as "Want to meet tall men with long hair, no beards."
See if that helps.
I love to do profile experiments. It really makes a difference to the messages I get.
Mine is so short yet they still struggle to read 3/4 lines
Too many words maybe.
Quite possibly, most men prefer picture books "One thing I haven't tried yet is to put my profile text across a pic of my boobs. | |||
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"Also too many profiles messaging me recently don't have any pics. I do try and find men I like but due to them mainly not having a pic or only having a profile pic of their cock I can't see if they are suitable
You could do an experiment with your profile.
Hide all but just a few pics. Cut the text down to just 2 or 3 lines - the absolutely most important thing about men you want to meet. Keep it really simple.
Such as "Want to meet tall men with long hair, no beards."
See if that helps.
I love to do profile experiments. It really makes a difference to the messages I get.
Mine is so short yet they still struggle to read 3/4 lines
Too many words maybe.
Quite possibly, most men prefer picture books
One thing I haven't tried yet is to put my profile text across a pic of my boobs. "Haha what a brilliant idea! | |||
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"Also too many profiles messaging me recently don't have any pics. I do try and find men I like but due to them mainly not having a pic or only having a profile pic of their cock I can't see if they are suitable
You could do an experiment with your profile.
Hide all but just a few pics. Cut the text down to just 2 or 3 lines - the absolutely most important thing about men you want to meet. Keep it really simple.
Such as "Want to meet tall men with long hair, no beards."
See if that helps.
I love to do profile experiments. It really makes a difference to the messages I get.
Mine is so short yet they still struggle to read 3/4 lines
Too many words maybe.
Quite possibly, most men prefer picture books
One thing I haven't tried yet is to put my profile text across a pic of my boobs. "That might actually work! | |||
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"Also too many profiles messaging me recently don't have any pics. I do try and find men I like but due to them mainly not having a pic or only having a profile pic of their cock I can't see if they are suitable
You could do an experiment with your profile.
Hide all but just a few pics. Cut the text down to just 2 or 3 lines - the absolutely most important thing about men you want to meet. Keep it really simple.
Such as "Want to meet tall men with long hair, no beards."
See if that helps.
I love to do profile experiments. It really makes a difference to the messages I get.
Mine is so short yet they still struggle to read 3/4 lines
Too many words maybe.
Quite possibly, most men prefer picture books
One thing I haven't tried yet is to put my profile text across a pic of my boobs.
That might actually work!"Mind you woman are just as bad at not reading profiles. | |||
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"Also too many profiles messaging me recently don't have any pics. I do try and find men I like but due to them mainly not having a pic or only having a profile pic of their cock I can't see if they are suitable
You could do an experiment with your profile.
Hide all but just a few pics. Cut the text down to just 2 or 3 lines - the absolutely most important thing about men you want to meet. Keep it really simple.
Such as "Want to meet tall men with long hair, no beards."
See if that helps.
I love to do profile experiments. It really makes a difference to the messages I get.
Mine is so short yet they still struggle to read 3/4 lines
Too many words maybe.
Quite possibly, most men prefer picture books
One thing I haven't tried yet is to put my profile text across a pic of my boobs.
That might actually work!
Mind you woman are just as bad at not reading profiles. "Really? In 11 years on the site, that has only happened to me twice. | |||
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"I find even if you do read profiles write a nice message And be responsible I still don’t get a reply or I gets blocked. Almost given up with this site now. So said as been here since 2009 and it’s changed so much for the worse. Not as friendly as it use to be. Use to message get a reply chat even if there was no interest in meeting. Oh the good old days
I agree, it certainly isn't as friendly.
I think that will happen with any site when it gets as big as Fab though unfortunately."Yes I agree. It’s a shame as back then the site was so good. Lovely people to chat to | |||
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"Also too many profiles messaging me recently don't have any pics. I do try and find men I like but due to them mainly not having a pic or only having a profile pic of their cock I can't see if they are suitable
You could do an experiment with your profile.
Hide all but just a few pics. Cut the text down to just 2 or 3 lines - the absolutely most important thing about men you want to meet. Keep it really simple.
Such as "Want to meet tall men with long hair, no beards."
See if that helps.
I love to do profile experiments. It really makes a difference to the messages I get.
Mine is so short yet they still struggle to read 3/4 lines
Too many words maybe.
Quite possibly, most men prefer picture books
One thing I haven't tried yet is to put my profile text across a pic of my boobs.
That might actually work!
Mind you woman are just as bad at not reading profiles. "I'll admit half guilt there, I have got chatting to a few guys & chatted for a while before reading their profiles. Usually fellow forum users however | |||
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"I had to block men because of this it's so annoying as I'd like to meet one. The issue is I'm very specific about my requirements and state it in my profile but it's not read. I'll get 100's of messages from men I'm not attracted to. So annoying. " It seems you are best off blocking incoming messages from men and carrying out your own search. You can filter out guys with no photo. It's also worth keeping an eye on the forum. You can get an idea of what guys are like from what they post. | |||
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