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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering, are there any women on here that actually prefer married or attatched guys?

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By *rs Robinson1Woman
over a year ago

Chapel Row


"Just wondering, are there any women on here that actually prefer married or attatched guys?"

Single guys are less complicated lol dont mind attached guys whos wife/GF are aware and happy with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you talking guys who play away or male halfs of couples who meet alone?

I dont do married guys who are playing away, simply because i dont want a guy on a timer, there no fun in playing with a guy whos clock watching and having to rush back home before the wife get in and leaving me unfinished, not not after a quicky while their wifes at bingo i want nice long un hurried sessions

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Are you talking guys who play away or male halfs of couples who meet alone?

I dont do married guys who are playing away, simply because i dont want a guy on a timer, there no fun in playing with a guy whos clock watching and having to rush back home before the wife get in and leaving me unfinished, not not after a quicky while their wifes at bingo i want nice long un hurried sessions

"

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering, are there any women on here that actually prefer married or attatched guys?"

Your wife should know where you are using your cock. It's called respect.

There will be a few that don't mind shagging a married fella/lady .....they don't consider the pain they can cause ...each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering, are there any women on here that actually prefer married or attatched guys?"

Get yourself to a club as nobody seems to have a clue who is attached there or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering, are there any women on here that actually prefer married or attatched guys?"

Yes and no.. as I like quick meets married guys are easier... But they cant always meet when I want...

I've found single guys can get a bit clingy and have had a few issues with them..

So some of us don't mind.. but I'd rather someone says so I know.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering, are there any women on here that actually prefer married or attatched guys?

Your wife should know where you are using your cock. It's called respect.

There will be a few that don't mind shagging a married fella/lady .....they don't consider the pain they can cause ...each to their own "

The married man/ woman are the ones that need to consider the pain. They are the ones that are married and should take responsibility for their actions. It's not as though anyone meeting them is 'forcing' them to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, I am actually single at the mo but just wondered as some women have said to me that theor meets are more passionate, horny and memorable with married/attatched guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would consider myself a qualified expert in this field.

I had a lot of wonderful times swinging with my first wife Tina when we were in our late 20s and early 30s, but underlying tensions due to my drinking getting out of control led to divorce.

14 years later I finally sobered up and married again.

My wife wants no part of the swinging scene at all. She finds it repulsive and is not slow to let those views be known. She knows all about my past and wants it to stay there.

However, sex is a drug and I am an addict. I adore the whole thrill of having sex with new partners. I will never, ever tire of it.

I lead a secret "half-life" that I discreetly veil from my wife. I don't feel any need to lie to people about being married and would certinly appreciate new friendships with married couples and single females - but I do appreciate there is a contradiction, a hypocrisy at the centre of this secret life of mine.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Nope not wanting married men.. well only one..but im good and behaving..so is he..

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By *appyTrancerMan
over a year ago

Bristol

So, what if the man has permission to play away? Surely the pain / respect / lies aspects are dismissed in those cases? Granted, you will always come second to the wife, and you may not get a meet exactly when you want it, but that's life. Surely you don't get meets exactly when you want with single guys - they're single guys ffs, the most whined about thing in the swinging world!

Just saying like lol.

HT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as I prefer single guys as they have no complications, can stay the night, take their time, not clock watch, not worry about perfume smell, the phone ringing in midst flow etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone, I am actually single at the mo but just wondered as some women have said to me that theor meets are more passionate, horny and memorable with married/attatched guys."

To be honest I would have thought they would have difficulty in holding back given they are not getting any at home though perhaps that is the reason its more passionate etc, they won't know when they will get the next chance so want it to last?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'My wife wants no part of the swinging scene at all. She finds it repulsive and is not slow to let those views be known. She knows all about my past and wants it to stay there.'

Did you not think to discuss this before marrying? How would you feel if your wife was cheating on you? You are not exactly showing her any respect..

I think the problem swingers have with cheats is that swinging has honesty as its basis and if you can't be honest with the one you profess to love, your marriage will be on skids row soon enough..... Good luck for the day she finds out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once found a guy that could only meet at 7 in the morning !

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So, what if the man has permission to play away? Surely the pain / respect / lies aspects are dismissed in those cases? Granted, you will always come second to the wife, and you may not get a meet exactly when you want it, but that's life. Surely you don't get meets exactly when you want with single guys - they're single guys ffs, the most whined about thing in the swinging world!

Just saying like lol.

HT "

It matters not if he has permission. Life is complicated enough, and as you say there are so many single guys to play with in long sessions why settle for a quickie between meetings?

I like to keep in touch between meets with playmates, it wouldn't be appropriate or appreciated in my view, texting/phoning a married man...no matter how "understanding" their wife is.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Once found a guy that could only meet at 7 in the morning !"

Friend of mine was seeing a married woman who could only meet between 9 and 10 at night...that's when she walked her dog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

let's be honest and get the hypcorisy out the way, most women on here know that literally all the men who claim to be single are married or in relationships of some sort. It is way obvious when a guy cannot accomodate and only does day meets, like me lol, although I am a doorman so thats my excuse, but you get the jist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering, are there any women on here that actually prefer married or attatched guys?

Your wife should know where you are using your cock. It's called respect.

There will be a few that don't mind shagging a married fella/lady .....they don't consider the pain they can cause ...each to their own

The married man/ woman are the ones that need to consider the pain. They are the ones that are married and should take responsibility for their actions. It's not as though anyone meeting them is 'forcing' them to meet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'My wife wants no part of the swinging scene at all. She finds it repulsive and is not slow to let those views be known. She knows all about my past and wants it to stay there.'

Did you not think to discuss this before marrying? How would you feel if your wife was cheating on you? You are not exactly showing her any respect..

I think the problem swingers have with cheats is that swinging has honesty as its basis and if you can't be honest with the one you profess to love, your marriage will be on skids row soon enough..... Good luck for the day she finds out!

"

Maybe she wont find out though.

What she doesnt know about, cant hurt her.

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By *enguy30Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Are you talking guys who play away or male halfs of couples who meet alone?

I dont do married guys who are playing away, simply because i dont want a guy on a timer, there no fun in playing with a guy whos clock watching and having to rush back home before the wife get in and leaving me unfinished, not not after a quicky while their wifes at bingo i want nice long un hurried sessions

"
god! Why can't you live near me?! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you talking guys who play away or male halfs of couples who meet alone?

I dont do married guys who are playing away, simply because i dont want a guy on a timer, there no fun in playing with a guy whos clock watching and having to rush back home before the wife get in and leaving me unfinished, not not after a quicky while their wifes at bingo i want nice long un hurried sessions

"

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By *enguy30Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

I make a point of saying I'm not single on my profile, and make a point of saying me and my gf play alone. We both don't advertise our couple profile because we just get hounded by single men with no pics or verifications..... With all this in mind, women still think I'm cheating on my gf, and according to one woman, the fact that I can only do morning meets proves it!!...... It's obviously nothing to do with the fact I work till midnight! Lol..... Rant over, apologies

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Can't accommodate don't always mean sometimes attached ....... My house is rented out n I'm at my sisters I could only accommodate in Turkey if anyones interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't accommodate don't always mean sometimes attached ....... My house is rented out n I'm at my sisters I could only accommodate in Turkey if anyones interested"

Looks out passport lol

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Perfick my pool n beds waiting for you mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perfick my pool n beds waiting for you mmmm"

ooooo where's my water wings lol

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

[Removed by poster at 11/06/12 09:19:48]

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

You planing on bursting my water bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You planing on bursting my water bed "

do i look like the kinda girl who woud do that.....hell yes! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The married man/ woman are the ones that need to consider the pain. They are the ones that are married and should take responsibility for their actions. It's not as though anyone meeting them is 'forcing' them to meet."

So unmarried people don't have to take responsibility for their actions? :S

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

We'll use my bed of nails then

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Or airbed in my pool....... I look forward to getting very wet we you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or airbed in my pool....... I look forward to getting very wet we you "

Have you looked closely at my shoes....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I make a point of saying I'm not single on my profile, and make a point of saying me and my gf play alone. We both don't advertise our couple profile because we just get hounded by single men with no pics or verifications..... With all this in mind, women still think I'm cheating on my gf, and according to one woman, the fact that I can only do morning meets proves it!!...... It's obviously nothing to do with the fact I work till midnight! Lol..... Rant over, apologies "

not a valid reason for not having a couples profile as there is a facility to block approaches from single males. We use that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would consider myself a qualified expert in this field.

I had a lot of wonderful times swinging with my first wife Tina when we were in our late 20s and early 30s, but underlying tensions due to my drinking getting out of control led to divorce.

14 years later I finally sobered up and married again.

My wife wants no part of the swinging scene at all. She finds it repulsive and is not slow to let those views be known. She knows all about my past and wants it to stay there.

However, sex is a drug and I am an addict. I adore the whole thrill of having sex with new partners. I will never, ever tire of it.

I lead a secret "half-life" that I discreetly veil from my wife. I don't feel any need to lie to people about being married and would certinly appreciate new friendships with married couples and single females - but I do appreciate there is a contradiction, a hypocrisy at the centre of this secret life of mine."

just don't let your weakness for addiction spoil your second try too.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield


"Or airbed in my pool....... I look forward to getting very wet we you

Have you looked closely at my shoes....lol

"

I did are they stuck or nailed on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or airbed in my pool....... I look forward to getting very wet we you

Have you looked closely at my shoes....lol

I did are they stuck or nailed on "

gerra shoe box you two!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Just wondering, are there any women on here that actually prefer married or attatched guys?"

Like everything, some do, some don't.

Don't expect just answers to your question though, there will be marraige guidance too soon ( if not already )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or airbed in my pool....... I look forward to getting very wet we you

Have you looked closely at my shoes....lol

I did are they stuck or nailed on "

Why dont you come find out ....stud ...pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering, are there any women on here that actually prefer married or attatched guys?

Like everything, some do, some don't.

Don't expect just answers to your question though, there will be marraige guidance too soon ( if not already )"

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Thanks everyone, I am actually single at the mo but just wondered as some women have said to me that theor meets are more passionate, horny and memorable with married/attatched guys."

I don't know about that as as far as we know we have never met a married man ( I say as far as we know as they say they are single and we do our checks but you still never know )

But I would have thought the clock watching would put paid to the fun.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Once found a guy that could only meet at 7 in the morning !

Friend of mine was seeing a married woman who could only meet between 9 and 10 at night...that's when she walked her dog. "

haha yes we have had that from from a man on another site of him turning up with the dog he was meant to be walking , asked us where could he put it while we played

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

Maybe she wont find out though.

What she doesnt know about, cant hurt her. "

in which case... that attitude is flippant... and cold and calculated....

the 3 words I would always mention is "behind someones back"....

the moment you find out the other person is playing "behind someones back" and you still decide to play with them.. you become as complicit as the person cheating....

at that point you still had a decision... no one took your free will away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or airbed in my pool....... I look forward to getting very wet we you

Have you looked closely at my shoes....lol

I did are they stuck or nailed on

gerra shoe box you two! "

lololol

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield


"Or airbed in my pool....... I look forward to getting very wet we you

Have you looked closely at my shoes....lol

I did are they stuck or nailed on

Why dont you come find out ....stud ...pmsl "

I'd love to cum Sandie

I thort you wer cumin to or on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or airbed in my pool....... I look forward to getting very wet we you

Have you looked closely at my shoes....lol

I did are they stuck or nailed on

Why dont you come find out ....stud ...pmsl

ooo - ooo - ooo...

I'd love to cum Sandie

I thort you wer cumin to or on me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering, are there any women on here that actually prefer married or attatched guys?"

Just picking up on this topic...

If your question was coming for the angle of you being married/attached and looking for fems prefering that; i sympathise with you - as an ex "swinger" with my wife; i found it hard to find a sexual partner when she didnt want to play - its a tough one ; but there again; its not so easy for single guys to as we (single for 18 mths) are out numbered lol - good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering, are there any women on here that actually prefer married or attatched guys?"

I just read a couple's profile somewhere and they were actively looking for married men, because they are less likely to be clingy/ want to get too involved.

So yes, some people do look for married/ attached guys.

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