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By *andS09 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex.

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln

Yes I do enjoy soft play it is more fun and can last longer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."

Social for us would be a must anyway, there a plenty of soft swap couples on here though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yeah that's how we do things. We used to full swap but for various reasons moved to soft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def try to start with a social meet and drink first x

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By *andS09 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

That’s what we are wanting to do meet for a social maybe a couple of drinks and see how things go rather than getting someone’s hopes up for more when we meet

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"That’s what we are wanting to do meet for a social maybe a couple of drinks and see how things go rather than getting someone’s hopes up for more when we meet "

Make it clear in your profile and first message. You won't get any hopes up then

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By *andS09 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes definitely need to sort our profile out to be honest we have just been using it to browse and use the club reviews and discussions up until now x

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By *edhead72Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham and Ashby

I love the idea of no expectations. Just meet for that drink, enjoy the moment. If everyone’s feeling it then sure back to the room/ house and allow things to unfold with no expectations. If that’s just one more drink absolutely fine anything else is an exciting bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."

We’re very organic about the whole thing...as long as it’s all inclusive we don’t ever go into it with preconceived notions of exactly what might happen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of people on here. We go for the same option as you.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."

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Think you'll find soft play is quite popular really

After all, we've all got to start off somewhere

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By *andS09 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Thanks for posting on the thread and letting us know that it’s a thing people are interested in we hope to find someone who fits the bill very soon to explore with x

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We play soft swing or full swing depends on what the couples we meet want , both are really enjoyable

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth


"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."

Absolutely, I even put on my profile that I'm often happy with just a kiss and cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft play and fully sex played with cpls...

Both been fabulous nights

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have had some fantastic meets that have been soft play only.

Personally I don't see penetrative sex as an *aim* of sex, more just an element of the overall thing that if it happens it happens.

My preference is just to go with the flow, within individual and agreed boundaries, and see where it leads

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Just remember, not everybody's idea of what is soft play, is the same as yours, try and sort that out before meeting.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We're not new and we only do girl on girl, soft swap, full sex with own partner. No messing with condoms! Plenty of hot fun to be had

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."

Yes, totally. We have only done soft-swapping so far although we're open to more. Soft-swapping is still very enjoyable with the right person/people and we get that some people want to explore cautiously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have gone full circle from soft play to full swap back to soft play only.

We have found soft play to be so much more erotic, intense, sensuous and hedonistic than full swap.

Soft play also takes away some of the uncertainty. One or two couples we've met and played with as foursums and in groups, it was the male's objective to nail my partner and then he got upset and wanted to leave while his wife had only just really got started and was intent at continuing to sample and enjoy her pleasures with the both of us after he was spent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."

Yes we d love too

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By *asmartsCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Definitely plenty on here looking for the same as you guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only play in the soft end of the spectrum.. but love the voyerstic side of open play at clubs ( )

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We've had some great soft play meets, they can be very erotic, lots of teasing It's a broad church here, there'll be plenty of people keen to meet you.

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By *orkcouple101Couple
over a year ago

york


"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."

We've only ever done soft swap...great fun xx

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Yes absolutely. A social is always a must anyway and we are equally comfortable with soft or full swap. Commented on these forums before that one or two or our most fun evenings were with couples who only soft swapped........

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By *illingMeSoftlyCouple
over a year ago

North West

One of our best meets was soft only x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just remember, not everybody's idea of what is soft play, is the same as yours, try and sort that out before meeting."

Definitely this. Discuss your boundaries beforehand. Also don't be afraid to remind them of your rules/ stop, if they are doing something you didn't agree to.

Don't let people try and guilt trip you into doing more than you want to. Soft play is great. If they want more, you're just not compatible.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Is there many people interested in just meeting up having some drinks and then soft play rather than full sex? For us who are only just really starting it’s something we would be interested in and then see how far it went rather that arranging a meet for full sex."

Whilst we are a full swap couple, we enjoy soft play meets. As a rule we always go at the speed the other parties are comfortable with. Sometimes it has gone further, sometimes it hasn't. We always respect others boundaries.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We always do socials first and although we are happy to full swap with the right people we would be equally happy with just soft swap. Most of the fun is in the playing and we have each other to fuck

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