FabSwingers.com forum: Intimidating profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every single day. I stupidly think most would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes quite frequently lol

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Just send a cheeky wink.. But lots we think are above us.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

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No !

No one is out of anyones league just that think they are .

Just send the message whats the worst that could happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, seen some that say they're looking for higher class or along those lines. I've not messaged since I don't own a yacht.

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By *auti Lass and MoleCouple
over a year ago

Bicester

Everybody is scared of being rejected.

Silly really. Wish it wasn't the case. Xx

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By *oung_chuckMan
over a year ago

Of course, I think we all feel that to some degree.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

No, we let them make up there mind if they like us or not, it's a confidence we have grone over time, mostly from going to clubs,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

No !

No one is out of anyones league just that think they are .

Just send the message whats the worst that could happen?"

100% agree but it’s interesting - we assumed it was more likely that because it was the internet that people wouldn’t feel this way. Wouldn’t have given it any thought but we’ve been told that about ours which is laughable.

People are just people at the end of the day and we all have such a wide variety of tastes that it totally makes sense that you should never presume anything.

If you do one thing this weekend you have to reach out to somebody you normally wouldn’t (respect filters etc) and take the chance.

We’ve all had a reminder of late just how short life is-live it! xx

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Yes

Mostly couples..

And it’s the profiles that are obviously run by the males ..

And the use of the word “ professional “ as if that actually means anything on this site ..

I probably out earn most on here but nowhere on my profile do I state this, as it’s immaterial..

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

often and yet now I count some of them as my friends

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If we read a profile and see that we aren't compatible we accept that but we never feel we're out of anybodies league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Mostly couples..

And it’s the profiles that are obviously run by the males ..

And the use of the word “ professional “ as if that actually means anything on this site ..

I probably out earn most on here but nowhere on my profile do I state this, as it’s immaterial.."
I'm the female half of a couple and also the main user.

I have the word professional mentioned in our profile but only to relay to people veiwing I dont have public face pics for this reason,I also agree that it means nothing on here but dont think it puts people off messaging you. Stating that you out earn most on here is slightly presumptuous though is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely. Some I know I wouldn't stand a chance with so I just admire secretly lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. I just admire from afar thank God for my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a lot of profiles where the writer seems a bit ranty and intimidating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I am out of anyones league but I usually assume they wouldn't be interested, if I fancy them

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Yes

Mostly couples..

And it’s the profiles that are obviously run by the males ..

And the use of the word “ professional “ as if that actually means anything on this site ..

I probably out earn most on here but nowhere on my profile do I state this, as it’s immaterial.."

I kind of assumed that "professional applicants only" and "I like the finer things in life"... Was a metaphor for you'll be paying me for it? What a cynic I have become.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never felt intimidated by anyone’s profile. I’m out of the age range of many though. However there have been numerous occasions where my age has been overlooked and people contact me anyway. I know my worth and leagues never enters my head, but, for what it is worth I wouldn’t be interested in anyone who thought they were out of my league anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mrs) am probably guilty of this quite often with regards to other couples even though I know it's irrational. I wish I was bolder sometimes

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

Absolutely!

Even when they wink us, I think to myself ‘really’

Probably really silly to feel this way though.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Not a matter of scared of being rejected, I just know they are setting the bar which is above my level.

People may stipulate 5 star hotels and exceptional profiles whatever that means. I assume this is the top percentile of conventionally good looking people.

Plus it doesn't interest me when people just list of their own 'wants'. It's like a job application or box ticking exercise. Jumping through hoops for someone doesn't really excite me. If I feel they are out of my league in terms of looks but their profile seems friendly and interesting I will take a chance and message. Worst outcome is getting deleted or ignored. If I still can't handle it now then I really shouldn't be here for purposes of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often looked at a profile we liked when we lived in the midlands

We never messaged them because we thought no way would they meet us

One night in chams they approached us and we had a great night

Proves that even miricales happen lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are certainly profiles I'd avoid. Any with a great deal of physical preferences or demands. Especially those who put down other's.

I'd certainly give a wink or a message if I thought I may be someone's type

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

All the time.

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"All the time. "

Exactly how I feel!

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"Yes

Mostly couples..

And it’s the profiles that are obviously run by the males ..

And the use of the word “ professional “ as if that actually means anything on this site ..

I probably out earn most on here but nowhere on my profile do I state this, as it’s immaterial.. I'm the female half of a couple and also the main user.

If you understood my statement, it clearly states that I don’t mention it on my profile..

Professional means someone who has a professional qualification in usually law,medical or engineering..

It doesn’t mean someone who works in a call centre and worked their way up to heap of HR lol

How we water down the professions these days

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

There are plenty of profiles that seem out of our league. However, we have been known to send a cheeky little message just to test the water with promising results...

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By *eamteamCouple
over a year ago

Toen

Someone did spell it as profesional couple on their profile. It did make us chuckle

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By *ntheshadows1975Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

Most definitely. Sometimes i do send a message in the hopes of getting one back. There is no harm in trying but i normally think " i won't get one back so why bother"

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"Someone did spell it as profesional couple on their profile. It did make us chuckle

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most every profile that catches my eye

Jay

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

"Yes, seen some that say they're looking for higher class or along those lines. I've not messaged since I don't own a yacht."

Screw the yacht, you have a catamaran to take you home. You win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone on here are probably out of my league but I still enjoy looking and hoping lol

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By *reaming of pleasingMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know

Every time! Unless I think they are completely unattainable then I’ll drop a message, don’t ask don’t get do you!

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By *siancouplehantsCouple
over a year ago

K-PAX

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

No !

No one is out of anyones league just that think they are .

Just send the message whats the worst that could happen?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a guy, every female profile is by default automatically out of my league.

Many are not intimidating, but the ones that are, are a good read & facinating, byt just no point in sending a message.

Would be interesting to see how many women actually go for a normal guy who would otherwise have been seen as under-league

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By *uxomBoobs195Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I get a few men that message me and when I look at there photos, all I think is "if I was in a bar and you spotted me, you wouldn't take another look at me" they tend to be the very toned, Gym going, muscle bound pouty type guys. The 'popular guys at school" sort of look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, seen some that say they're looking for higher class or along those lines. I've not messaged since I don't own a yacht.

Screw the yacht, you have a catamaran to take you home. You win

And a double-decker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

All the time

I don't ping them a message because I think what would be the point? I'd just be cluttering up their inbox

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

All the time

I don't ping them a message because I think what would be the point? I'd just be cluttering up their inbox

We felt that way about you

I'm sure many people wouldn't mind you cluttering up their inbox.

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By *iercedlotsCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Almost everyone that looks at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but sent a message anyway. Got a reply and we chat often now. Hoping to meet up for coffee soon..

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"I get a few men that message me and when I look at there photos, all I think is "if I was in a bar and you spotted me, you wouldn't take another look at me" they tend to be the very toned, Gym going, muscle bound pouty type guys. The 'popular guys at school" sort of look.

Very honest thing to say ..

But we know it’s what happens on here .

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

"Yes, seen some that say they're looking for higher class or along those lines. I've not messaged since I don't own a yacht.

Screw the yacht, you have a catamaran to take you home. You win

And a double-decker

Sold to the lady teasing me with the yummy chocolate bar

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

All the time

I don't ping them a message because I think what would be the point? I'd just be cluttering up their inbox

Yeh right ! You can clutter mine anytime.

However on the point raised by the OP I know my place and my limits on here

; I will happily message anyone but not about meeting there is no point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

Basically all female profiles on here are out of my league. With most, I never bother to try. What's the point of me sending a message to someone who's looking for a body builder with a 10 inch cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

THIS.

Then I question whether they're desperate or could actually be attracted to me...

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Only those with a profile as long as the ghettysburg address! So off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's very kind of the posters who have complimented me. However believe it or not, I'm genuinely quite self conscious and shy

But thank you none the less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body shape and age are the biggest stumbling blocks for me followed by a glowing description of all their experiences which makes my limited experiences pale into insignificance so I don’t bother.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Apparently my profile is intimidating to some ..so I've been told..but not due to people thinking they're out of my league.. it's more a case of them not getting my humour..and thinking I'm some sort of trannie football hoolie on a night out..

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Yes, quite often

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Everybody is scared of being rejected.

Silly really. Wish it wasn't the case. Xx"

I agree , some on my hotlist I haven’t got the balls to message

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Yes, seen some that say they're looking for higher class or along those lines. I've not messaged since I don't own a yacht."

Are Sunseakers not yachts?

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

You. You've been on our hotlist since you joined. Too scared to message you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, seen some that say they're looking for higher class or along those lines. I've not messaged since I don't own a yacht.

Screw the yacht, you have a catamaran to take you home. You win

And a double-decker

Sold to the lady teasing me with the yummy chocolate bar

Nice peach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We saw a profile that we thought was well out of our league, as their pics were regularly in the top fabbed list. After fabbing a few of their pics, to our surprise, they fabbed a whole load of ours.

About six months of messaging later, we got to meet them, only to be thoroughly disappointed at how crap they were when it came to the fun part. The grass is not always greener on the upper end of the top fabbed pics list.........

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

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We are not worthy ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

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Yeah I do this alot, generally after looking at the pictures, you kinda know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I feel that way, but then if people aren't willing to even talk to me it's not really me that's the problem.

That's not me being rude btw. Its just my opinion

I will always remain polite and never pushy

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

If they are so up themselves they probably shag like a cement bag.

We like real people, fun people, intelligent playful and don’t need mirrors.

I (the male) like to see a bed head and smudged make up.

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

"Yes, seen some that say they're looking for higher class or along those lines. I've not messaged since I don't own a yacht.

Are Sunseakers not yachts?"

No but Sunseekers are!

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

THIS.

Then I question whether they're desperate or could actually be attracted to me...

Same here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for me I have a long hot list full of good people than I don't message because I assume already the answer....

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

THIS.

Then I question whether they're desperate or could actually be attracted to me...

Same here... "

Marks out of two, I'd give you one

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Yes, seen some that say they're looking for higher class or along those lines. I've not messaged since I don't own a yacht.

Are Sunseakers not yachts?

No but Sunseekers are! "

Drat, no wonder I cannot contact them to buy one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every single day. I stupidly think most would be

I know exactly how you feel

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Every single day. I stupidly think most would be

I know exactly how you feel

Think about statistics, 10% and nothing. 90% and one.

Just go to clubs there are less dreamers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, seen some that say they're looking for higher class or along those lines. I've not messaged since I don't own a yacht.

Are Sunseakers not yachts?

No but Sunseekers are!

Drat, no wonder I cannot contact them to buy one!"

I find the engines are a bit too noisy on them, try going for a Sunsneaker instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People say that about our profile, it's so weird to hear that as we're just normal people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't really found many intimidating, but I am still not bold enough to approach some.

Maybe I will pluck up courage with the wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

No !

No one is out of anyones league just that think they are .

Just send the message whats the worst that could happen?"

This

When I first came on here, I'm ashamed to admit that I would sometimes read verifications and think "christ...they're an unlikely pairing...." but you never really know what goes on via the pm exchanges or whatever else in the build up to meeting someone. I can knock someone back (or be knocked back !) because I don't find them attractive. But the "league" talk is unnecessarily disparaging I think.

Realise you used the phrase referring to other folk you would potentially be interested in and not the other way round OP

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Doesn’t bother us if they look hot and nice people we will contact them! The ones you often think are out of your league are often far from

It when you meet them

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Yes, seen some that say they're looking for higher class or along those lines. I've not messaged since I don't own a yacht.

Are Sunseakers not yachts?

No but Sunseekers are!

Drat, no wonder I cannot contact them to buy one!

I find the engines are a bit too noisy on them, try going for a Sunsneaker instead."

Your knowledgeable about these, what about a princess-seaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time!

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By *ovestrap69TV/TS
over a year ago

Croydon

I'm reading all the replys.

And seeing how some have replyed..

And got to day. Everyone that think that someone is out of their league. Like really.

You all are damn hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

Not really, we just think they are to far up themselves and wouldn't be the kind of folk we would want to meet cause we like down to earth folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, seen some that say they're looking for higher class or along those lines. I've not messaged since I don't own a yacht.

Are Sunseakers not yachts?

No but Sunseekers are!

Drat, no wonder I cannot contact them to buy one!

I find the engines are a bit too noisy on them, try going for a Sunsneaker instead.

Your knowledgeable about these, what about a princess-seaker "

We're all seeking our own little princess but bloody high maintenance if you ever get your hands on one.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

There are a lot of people on my hot list i would love to chat to, but there is no way i will message them - 10 years on fab has taught me that there are 'leagues' and i am not in the premier one.

Any messages i send are normally chatty and maybe a little silly, i love to write naughty stories but would never dream of sending one as a first message and as for asking to meet anyone ....... no chance !

I know the answer before i ask .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, if I fancy them and meet their preferences then I'll message, you have nothing to lose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

All the time

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

All the time with couples. It why we rarely reach out to them.

Mrs x

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

All the time. We don't see the point in trying to contact anyone who says they wants a, b or c when we are x, y or z. People want what they want and if we are clearly not it, we just dont bother. If we are wrong, nothing to stop them saying hello to us first though.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Apparently my profile is intimidating to some ..so I've been told..but not due to people thinking they're out of my league.. it's more a case of them not getting my humour..and thinking I'm some sort of trannie football hoolie on a night out..

You mean, you're not a trannie football hoolie?

I fucking love your profile and pics. You crack me up

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Yes

Mostly couples..

And it’s the profiles that are obviously run by the males ..

And the use of the word “ professional “ as if that actually means anything on this site ..

I probably out earn most on here but nowhere on my profile do I state this, as it’s immaterial.. I'm the female half of a couple and also the main user.

If you understood my statement, it clearly states that I don’t mention it on my profile..

Professional means someone who has a professional qualification in usually law,medical or engineering..

It doesn’t mean someone who works in a call centre and worked their way up to heap of HR lol

How we water down the professions these days

Professional is it a abbreviation for head up my fucking arse

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yeah, I do.

It's not like I don't understand people like different things and types because I totally get it, yet when it comes to me.. well, I just question what I could offer if that makes sense.

I'm not even sure what/who I'm looking for at the moment, if anything at all, so that doesn't help.

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Few I have come across....yes.

I wish xx

MsD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fairly often we come across these profiles, we get a few winks and messages from people we also think is out of our league so we either ignore if it's a wink or politely make an excuse.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Everybody is scared of being rejected.

Silly really. Wish it wasn't the case. Xx

I agree , some on my hotlist I haven’t got the balls to message

I'm the same and there are even fewer who have tv/ts on their profiles.

Without that im even less inclined to send a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see lots, but still sometimes pay a respectful compliment.. But actually get called names etc by ones that I definitely know are not out of my league!! Stay true I say and be polite, never harassed or bombarded anyone and always politely accept rejection.. Were all different

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

I always steer away from those profiles.

When I start reading a profile and they start giving bullshit about being the last cookie in the jar, I instantly block and move on.

Newsflash nobody is better than nobody!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Mostly couples..

And it’s the profiles that are obviously run by the males ..

And the use of the word “ professional “ as if that actually means anything on this site ..

I probably out earn most on here but nowhere on my profile do I state this, as it’s immaterial.. I'm the female half of a couple and also the main user.

If you understood my statement, it clearly states that I don’t mention it on my profile..

Professional means someone who has a professional qualification in usually law,medical or engineering..

It doesn’t mean someone who works in a call centre and worked their way up to heap of HR lol

How we water down the professions these days

Professional is it a abbreviation for head up my fucking arse"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha so true... ??????

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

Of course, but not in the sense that most people see it.

In the past I've looked at a profile and looked at the verifications.

If they're all from good looking, gym fit, floppy haired mid 30's guys it's kind of pointless me wasting time messaging.

If I look nothing like the people they meet, clearly I'm not in that league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it’s not so much that the people are “ out of my league” - no one on here is out of any others “ league “ but that after a while you get a feeling of who might just ignore you so you have wasted the time writing a message - and I never just “ copy paste”.

Therefore I just decide it is better to look for people who are more genuine and might at least respond , even if to say they are not interested- which is absolutely fine

Happily there are lots of nice people on here

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We always try to be friendly to everyone and will often chance a wink to a profile that interests us.

Often though, we don’t expect a response as we think they’re looking for younger than us, or have specifics that rule us out.

We’ve been pleasantly surprised in the past though and the people we thought were ‘out of our league’ had had the same misguided thoughts about us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve only came across one couple who actually sent us a message that looked extremely hot but they came across all wrong, we would never have sent them a message first as we thought we would have been punching well above our weight.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"I always steer away from those profiles.

When I start reading a profile and they start giving bullshit about being the last cookie in the jar, I instantly block and move on.

Newsflash nobody is better than nobody!

Agree

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

There are lots that look like they want a scenario out of a hard core pirn film and they post profile pictures to match. Good luck to them but I always think I'd be so out of my depth I'd be a key down for them. I suppose it's about focussing on the profiles you think make you comfortable and leaving others to find their own partners.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"There are lots that look like they want a scenario out of a hard core pirn film and they post profile pictures to match. Good luck to them but I always think I'd be so out of my depth I'd be a key down for them. I suppose it's about focussing on the profiles you think make you comfortable and leaving others to find their own partners."

Each to their own x

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By *KMaxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Well I'm a short, fat, bald bloke, so I'm probably not everyones cup of tea.

But fuck it, nothing ventured, nothing gained eh!

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

"Yes

Mostly couples..

And it’s the profiles that are obviously run by the males ..

And the use of the word “ professional “ as if that actually means anything on this site ..

I probably out earn most on here but nowhere on my profile do I state this, as it’s immaterial.. I'm the female half of a couple and also the main user.

If you understood my statement, it clearly states that I don’t mention it on my profile..

Professional means someone who has a professional qualification in usually law,medical or engineering..

It doesn’t mean someone who works in a call centre and worked their way up to heap of HR lol

How we water down the professions these days

Professional is it a abbreviation for head up my fucking arse"

yeah and spend a night talking about brexit or the Dow Jones. Prefer someone who says they like a laugh and a drink other than margo or Jerry in Surbiton.

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By *xx90292Man
over a year ago

London

I really don’t get those profiles that say- ‘if you wink at me I will block you‘ ?

I obviously do get what they mean but I find it all a bit arrogant. .just accept the compliment and move on if you don’t find an attraction

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Just message them, dint be shy as a profile is just words after all if someone wanna chat they will chat if not they won’t u be surprised who you get to chat to over the course of a week

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Yes

Mostly couples..

And it’s the profiles that are obviously run by the males ..

And the use of the word “ professional “ as if that actually means anything on this site ..

I probably out earn most on here but nowhere on my profile do I state this, as it’s immaterial.. I'm the female half of a couple and also the main user.

If you understood my statement, it clearly states that I don’t mention it on my profile..

Professional means someone who has a professional qualification in usually law,medical or engineering..

It doesn’t mean someone who works in a call centre and worked their way up to heap of HR lol

How we water down the professions these days

Professional is it a abbreviation for head up my fucking arse

yeah and spend a night talking about brexit or the Dow Jones. Prefer someone who says they like a laugh and a drink other than margo or Jerry in Surbiton. "

MICE, C,ENG behind a name won’t conquer the hole in front of you excuse the pun

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

No one on here is out of my league!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the biggest issue to be age.

So many profiles look promising until I get to the age bit

One profile in paticular I am one year above the upper limit. I respect the individuals choice and will not attempt to message or wink even if the site would allow it.

Another thing is people posting a status requesting help, even with non sexual things, and when you message with an offer of assistance it gets lost in all the other messages, deleted or just ignored. Its a bit offputting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey guys, any females looking to chat to hubby and me? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! But I guess if you don't ask you don't get..

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

I most certainly do get intimidated by extremely buffed up guys profile.

Not sure if they’d be into a curvy lady like myself.

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"I've seen a lot of profiles where the writer seems a bit ranty and intimidating "

I will always tend to stay away from ranters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen a lot of profiles where the writer seems a bit ranty and intimidating

I will always tend to stay away from ranters "

Totally get why you would. However, we feel that if we're not straight to the point/ranty on our profile then we get inundated with everything we're not looking for

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

My profile is sarcastic and not serious at all ..

And I do well on here ..

You don’t have to take yourselves too seriously on here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all the time and when you bite the bullet and message with an ice breaker it goes down like the Titanic. Why bother? Its why i let my paid membership lapse

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It's not that I think someone is out of my league per se, because I'm bloody amazing (honest).

I do have a peek at their verifications, and if they're all from beautiful women then I do make an assumption that they're not going to be interested in someone that looks like a potato in drag so I don't message. Daft really, but it's the assumption I make.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I find the biggest issue to be age.

So many profiles look promising until I get to the age bit

One profile in paticular I am one year above the upper limit. I respect the individuals choice and will not attempt to message or wink even if the site would allow it.

I think if I was only one year out I'd give it a bash if they hadn't blocked my age group. Maybe the answer would be no, but it's not like it's 20 years out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i feel like everyone is too good for me & when i do get the courage to message its usually a lame mesaage i send them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My success rate suggests that everyone IS out of my league.

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By *rSshMan
over a year ago

Poundbury

It’s kinda subjective I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think that no matter what you have to offer some people are just rude. I am down to earth and get pleasure making people happy. That's my bag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes definitely. Some I know I wouldn't stand a chance with so I just admire secretly lol."

Oh shurrrrt up you look amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

I most certainly do get intimidated by extremely buffed up guys profile.

Not sure if they’d be into a curvy lady like myself. "

Weird this place all the good people are bowing done to the rude people, you simply want someone to make you feel wanted. Well that's my thoughts unless I am on the wrong site!

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

I most certainly do get intimidated by extremely buffed up guys profile.

Not sure if they’d be into a curvy lady like myself.

Weird this place all the good people are bowing done to the rude people, you simply want someone to make you feel wanted. Well that's my thoughts unless I am on the wrong site! "

Was that aimed at me??

I don’t see myself bowing down to anyone

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

Ping them a message.

Stranger things have happened!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

I just read the profile again. Take a deep breathe and type a message lol

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

I have come across a lot more arrogant profiles, that have made think they are not for me than intimidating.

I am bang average at best and had fun with all kinds of people over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to have a rather intimidating profile so im told when guys mail .

Hasnt put them off mailing though.

I think after a certain time (14) yrs on fab . I know what interests me and what wont .

I used to have a funny profile but after a good many years it needed a revamp as my tastes had changed. I no longer met couples and only interested in single lads .

So thought it best to let folks know.

Yes i probably could have worded it better but who the hell reads them really .

But im a pussy cat really . Tiger only comes out much later .

Id never think of anyone being below me to meet with them . Its the banter gets me not looks .

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We don't feel intimidated as such, but we do feel that some people are out of our league and wouldn't give us a second look, so we don't bother sending a message.

We have a few on our hotlist that fall into that category, so we just look at their profiles and fantasise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don’t do leagues.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

"
We're probably the wrong people to answer this - we're realistic about how much time we have to meet others, and we're not shopping for people who think they are in the premier league, since that doesn't exist...

However, guess what? No-one is out of our league. They may choose not to play in our league, but we think we're the best shags we've ever had, and that's what matters. We reckon people like us might also have that experience of us - there are no leagues, just maps where those who are congruent with us might find the chance to have some fun.

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

We're probably the wrong people to answer this - we're realistic about how much time we have to meet others, and we're not shopping for people who think they are in the premier league, since that doesn't exist...

Please please please, can we join your league, only if we were closer.

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

"all the time and when you bite the bullet and message with an ice breaker it goes down like the Titanic. Why bother? Its why i let my paid membership lapse"

Depends what you call an ice breakers! Guys and even couples who start with 'how's you', 'hi' or other 2-3 word messages, don't stand a chance in hell. Constantly astounded how thick and unimaginative people are. Instant delete I'm afraid.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Yes

Mostly couples..

And it’s the profiles that are obviously run by the males ..

And the use of the word “ professional “ as if that actually means anything on this site ..

I probably out earn most on here but nowhere on my profile do I state this, as it’s immaterial.. I'm the female half of a couple and also the main user.

If you understood my statement, it clearly states that I don’t mention it on my profile..

Professional means someone who has a professional qualification in usually law,medical or engineering..

It doesn’t mean someone who works in a call centre and worked their way up to heap of HR lol

How we water down the professions these days

"
Oh get over yourself.

I have more than one professional qualifiation, as defined by post nominal letters. So does Ms Icebreaker, who is a leader in her (post nominal confirmed and regulated) profession. Do you need to know this in order to decide if you want to have sex with us? If you do, guess what? You're not for us. I want to be desired because of my sexuality and my attitude to gender, not my CV, which is boring as fuck.

Mr Icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s kinda subjective I guess. "

True!

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By *intteaMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Absolutely!

Even when they wink us, I think to myself ‘really’

Probably really silly to feel this way though."

I have to ask - how did it go with the plumber?

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By *intteaMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Absolutely!

Even when they wink us, I think to myself ‘really’

Probably really silly to feel this way though."

I have to ask - how did it go with the plumber?

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

see an awful lot of "professionals" and i prefer enthusiastic amatures, if i wanted a professional id look on "adult work"

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No. We look for people who we think we'll be compatible with in terms of just getting along as we do like that element to our meets. And they don't have to be professionals, lol.

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By *ove2lickJemWoman
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

"Yes

Mostly couples..

And it’s the profiles that are obviously run by the males ..

And the use of the word “ professional “ as if that actually means anything on this site ..

I probably out earn most on here but nowhere on my profile do I state this, as it’s immaterial.."

Please can you buy Mrs Berry a yacht?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Mostly couples..

And it’s the profiles that are obviously run by the males ..

And the use of the word “ professional “ as if that actually means anything on this site ..

I probably out earn most on here but nowhere on my profile do I state this, as it’s immaterial..

Please can you buy Mrs Berry a yacht?

xx"

(please include the maintenance pack too)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Mostly couples..

And it’s the profiles that are obviously run by the males ..

And the use of the word “ professional “ as if that actually means anything on this site ..

I probably out earn most on here but nowhere on my profile do I state this, as it’s immaterial..

Please can you buy Mrs Berry a yacht?

(please include the maintenance pack too)"

P.S. As long as I don't have to drop my knickers for it.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

All the time. If anything we tend to even reject the ones we think are "too beautiful" for us for fear of disappointment!! How ridiculous is that?! Although lots of verifications are terrifyingly intimidating so whenever we see those it's always a no anyway.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

You can't live life not taking a chance and a risk and not knowing ?

You've got to be in it to win it, it's no good assuming they won't want you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can't live life not taking a chance and a risk and not knowing ?

You've got to be in it to win it, it's no good assuming they won't want you.

This 100%!

Do it Guys and Girls, reach out to a profile today you normally wouldn’t as I suspect many of you might get a pleasant surprise. xx

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By *ornysquirtingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

somerset

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

Yes we regularly see profiles and think your just too hot for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't live life not taking a chance and a risk and not knowing ?

You've got to be in it to win it, it's no good assuming they won't want you.

This 100%!

Do it Guys and Girls, reach out to a profile today you normally wouldn’t as I suspect many of you might get a pleasant surprise. xx"

Great post because I can confirm been getting a few unexpected pleasant surprises recently so it's no harm in being proactive on occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"all the time and when you bite the bullet and message with an ice breaker it goes down like the Titanic. Why bother? Its why i let my paid membership lapse

I am not a 3 word messenger. Lol. I usually try to be polite and maybe a bit funny. Last couple I messaged said I was childish and blocked me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"all the time and when you bite the bullet and message with an ice breaker it goes down like the Titanic. Why bother? Its why i let my paid membership lapse

I am not a 3 word messenger. Lol. I usually try to be polite and maybe a bit funny. Last couple I messaged said I was childish and blocked me. "

Some of the stuff I've posted on here is pretty childish, but I'd like to think I can be serious when it's appropriate too. Difficulty is getting those two sides of my personality across in a first message.

Most people seem to be talking about not having a chance with people they see as out of their league... what happens if they say yes and then you have to try and live up to their expectations?

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"all the time and when you bite the bullet and message with an ice breaker it goes down like the Titanic. Why bother? Its why i let my paid membership lapse

I am not a 3 word messenger. Lol. I usually try to be polite and maybe a bit funny. Last couple I messaged said I was childish and blocked me. "

For some people you cannot win. Strangely I find that it’s the ones with very little in their profiles that are so easily offended by your childishness/banality/rudeness/directness or any of the other usual negative things thrown back at you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I increasingly think that it's the unassuming (no red flags but not too overdone) profiles that lead to the most interesting people.

Anyone I've thought was out of my league, wasn't.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

"Yes

Mostly couples..

And it’s the profiles that are obviously run by the males ..

And the use of the word “ professional “ as if that actually means anything on this site ..

I probably out earn most on here but nowhere on my profile do I state this, as it’s immaterial.. I'm the female half of a couple and also the main user.

Absolutely not. The stats say that people from Knob Creek usually earn more than anyone else in the country. Wonder why....

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

Yes but not so much from their profile pictures more from their demands on their profile write up.

Some, not many do come across as being so far up their own backside, its unreal. I wonder how they ever meet because they typically looking for someone that doesn't exist

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"Yes

Mostly couples..

And it’s the profiles that are obviously run by the males ..

And the use of the word “ professional “ as if that actually means anything on this site ..

I probably out earn most on here but nowhere on my profile do I state this, as it’s immaterial.. I'm the female half of a couple and also the main user.

Absolutely not. The stats say that people from Knob Creek usually earn more than anyone else in the country. Wonder why...."

Ahh I’m glad you’ve heard of my little township, join us and rise in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally have a rule of thumb: if they come across as arrogant or too many ‘demands’ in their status/profile,I generally give them a miss.

I find those traits unattractive.

We all have our likes and dislikes though. We can’t all be someone else’s ‘Cup of Tea’-but confidence is something you should all have,if you’ve signed up to a swinger’s site.

Know your worth but don’t treat others with contempt,or that you’re doing them a favour.

We’re all here for fun. Treat others as you wish to be treated yourself.

(There’s waay too much philosophy in my response-but you get the gist).

Have fun!

CH x

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yeah we’re always really flattered when we receive winks & messages back

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Perhaps not out of my league but usually they are just not my type, even if they continually insist otherwise.

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By *na_Luv_4PlayCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

We would chat to anyone.. love beautiful people not just looks but the person.. our favourite saying.. if you want to be loved be lovable ??

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By *j321Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Yep looked at a few out my league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah we’re always really flattered when we receive winks & messages back

I have had some lovely winks and messages with attachments during these last 4 months. It's like I am picking up from where I left off prelockdown! I am just being myself as I have always been and things always work out for the better.

Happy days. I been smiling every day and given the circumstances as a singleton that has been a blessing. Thank you Fab

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

we will chat with anyone so nothing puts us off unless the profile says they are not interested in couples in which case we respect their preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

We would chat to anyone.. love beautiful people not just looks but the person.. our favourite saying.. if you want to be loved be lovable ?? "

Boom!

Everyone that knows me will love this:

"If you want to be loved be lovable"

Cor blimey! What a line and that is exactly what we should all be doing. Let happiness thrive and plenty of love to go around on Fab

Lovely thread and I can't wait to share the love with my known fellow like minded friends that I have known for years on here. Some new friendships have been forming over the last 4 months so will explore when the time is right x

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By *urpeesandwineCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

If a profile interests us we will send them a nice message to see what they think. Most reply, some don’t but as in life - nothing ventured, nothing gained. The worst that can happen is they say no thanks or no reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not out of my league just too far away!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

If I think someone is hot I’ll message them and say they look great in their pics. The vast majority reply to say thank you - most start a decent conversation - a few end up in a very hot meet (or did do pre covid).

Fortunately for me I’m not remotely insecure - if someone doesn’t fancy me that’s not an issue. But if they do - GET IN!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever come across a profile and assumed that somebody was out of your league and so not bothered to even try or do you just ping them a message regardless?

Fortunately for me I’m not remotely insecure - if someone doesn’t fancy me that’s not an issue. But if they do - GET IN!!!

Well said Peachy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not really what’s the worst someone can say no thank you well ok then happy swinging

I mean it’s truly they loss anyway because if they would have took the time to consider me they find out they would meet a very nice and polite person who is absolutely wild in the bed room who has a high sed drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah we’re always really flattered when we receive winks & messages back

Winked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for getting involved, some interesting opinions xx

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