FabSwingers.com forum: Married or single?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do people prefer to meet married or single men/women off here? Are hotwives/hothusbands or attached more attractive than unattached? I'd be interested in the responses of couples Vs singles who are seeking partners.

Also if you prefer married, is them having permission a must, or are you not bothered?

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

Here to meet respectful peeps

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Single for us, partner aware or not unless we're meeting a couple of course. Of course we've met married men and realised during the social.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Single for us, partner aware or not unless we're meeting a couple of course. Of course we've met married men and realised during the social."

So you're happy meeting attached or unattached men but not married?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Single for us, partner aware or not unless we're meeting a couple of course. Of course we've met married men and realised during the social.

So you're happy meeting attached or unattached men but not married?"

No, sorry I wasn't clear.

We want to meet unattached men. Genuinely single. But we know that we have met men and only realised after that they have a partner. We don't meet single women anyway and we try not to meet couples who are in ltrs but not with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here to meet respectful peeps "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single or couple. Not up to me to confirm if that single person is indeed single though. Plus there is something very hot about a husband giving you permission to fuck his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet people who already have a relationship and are looking for fun and enjoyment and not wanting anything more serious xx

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By *reaming of pleasingMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know

Preferably single but if it’s all ok with all parties concerned married is fine

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We meet consenting adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not really bothered if a woman is married or not, I just need to know so I know where I stand or what kind of discretion needs to be implemented.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We meet consenting adults.

Lol, do all of the above?

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I don't mind as long as the partner knows (I would want to speak to both parties before play) as nobody wants drama

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Prefer to meet single men. Less hassel to organise things with.

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

We don’t usually meet single guys, but when we have met, and then played, with them at clubs it’s never entered my head to ask them if they’re actually single and I’m sure they would lie if they were married anyway

Sassy

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

We are all here for adult fun but must say I think we have all met the odd pysco on here lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am happy to meet married people, it's not my business. But if I was ever to be asked about it by an unsuspecting partner, I wouldn't lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met both.....but there is something really horny about meeting a married woman

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

I’ve met unattached, attached and married, in the company of their partner and without. Important in all cases is knowing that appropriate discretion will apply.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

"We meet consenting adults.

Lol, do all of the above?"

Well I am a greedy girl, with a fella who likes to share me, join in and join others.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It partly depends on their motivations. If somebody is cheating and being a shit to their partner then I think that would bother us. If we understood their reasoning, like it's acceptable in their relationship or it's a sexless or bad relationship we're going to be a lot more sympathetic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet respectful and co consenting adults.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I prefer single guys, will & have played with married guys in the club with their partners consent &/or joining in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I'd prefer married lady's or married couples as there's less drama. There normally just out for a bit of extra fun like myself.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

we don't mind singles or married - we just like people to be honest. We've met singles who are married but have met as couple initially & we know the other half is OK with each other doing their own thing.

We've met others who say they're single but then during the social we realise that no they're not - theyre the ones we try to avoid.

Going solo is not for us tho & we make that very clear at the start

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems like married is marginally the preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as long as everyone is upfront from the start then there is no confusion. Still upto the individuals to make their own choices

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish

We don't do the Spanish inquisition. We see this as meeting naughty people for having fun. If it is a couple and they are married that is cool, if they are a couple but not actually Married is there really a difference?

If a Guy is on here and is cheating on a partner, that is his cross to bear not ours.

If we started questioning everyone's morality, we would have to question our own Vows to forsake all others unto Thee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no preference, were all adults, as long as both parties are happy, just go with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is always the best policy. As long as all parties are open and honest with each other, themselves and those their respective partners then I don't think it matters.

But never be a cheater! I never would, and I never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are all here for adult fun but must say I think we have all met the odd pysco on here lol

Ooooh yes!!! Agreed.

We prefer to meet single men. Would prefer to meet someone regularly rather than different people but that’s quite hard to find. Singles tend to dip in and out of the lifestyle when they find a relationship elsewhere. Have had a few married men contact us and I think I’d rather know that the wife consents rather than him cheating.

As someone else has stated though, when meeting singles in a club or wherever, you don’t know if they’re being truthful anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet married girls as I'm married myself.

Married girls tend to just want fun, not a relationship.

Any married girls visiting Dorset soon, feel free to message me, lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are surprised at the sheer number of cheats on here.

Who on earth wants to meet dishonest people?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Single.

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

I have no issue meeting married women, whether cheating or not. Tbh, I do get a kick, out of sleeping with another man's wife/girlfriend. I'd prefer them to be single, but I don't ask

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I only look for single men, I've played with friends hubbies/partners in clubs but I'm not looking to meet attached men

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Don't really mind. It's their relationship and their choice.

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

"We are surprised at the sheer number of cheats on here.

Who on earth wants to meet dishonest people? "

Other dishonest people so they can have great sex

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Don't really mind. It's their relationship and their choice. "

exactly

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Single men or couples for me. I've occasionally met with the husband of a couple I know well, but it has always been the wife & I who have arranged for that to happen.

Honesty is really important to me, so if I suspect or discover that a man is in a relationship then it's a definite no from me.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Don't really mind. It's their relationship and their choice.

exactly

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like honesty so I know what I’m dealing with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single men or couples for me. I've occasionally met with the husband of a couple I know well, but it has always been the wife & I who have arranged for that to happen.

Honesty is really important to me, so if I suspect or discover that a man is in a relationship then it's a definite no from me. "

We agree.

Honesty is very important.

It is a shame that people think it has no value these days...

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I have met attached previously but it felt awkward and one became quite pushy as if I should meet him cause his wife was away so lesson learned stick with singles

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"I just like honesty so I know what I’m dealing with "

Ditto

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

We assume single guys are married regardless of what they say initially. Safest stance to take and not been often proved wrong but always a good surprise when its true.

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