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By *etite_delight OP   Woman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

What are your thoughts on girl friend experience with a married woman? as a couple, a hot husband, a hot wife or as a singleton x

With experience I mean daily messages and chats (both naughty and friendly), occasional dates that ends up with a play, cuddles and pillow talks?

How long can/does it last? how can you differentiate this from poly- relationships? or a relationship if you are single yourself?

ps: please disregard the current covid situation as this is a general discussion question , considering there is no health risk/pandemic to be mindful about for people X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a lovely young lady approach us to be a part of our relationship but she got cold feet after we agreed(could have been fake) but definitely something we are open to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't want an actual girlfriend so why would I want a 'pretend' girlfriend?

The only girlfriend experince I would want would be for half an hour to a couple of hours once a month - the only contact being arranging a, hypothetical, meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If secure in your relationship go for it...can be very exciting...

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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago

Camberley

Yes please.

I'm definitely looking for something like this.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I find GFE is somewhat a FWB. I've done it a few times and the woman get's cold feet after getting caught up with her emotional feelings.

Hard to find the right woman, but requires understanding and trust. I'm up for it though

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By *etite_delight OP   Woman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"If secure in your relationship go for it...can be very exciting..."

Did you experience that as a couple? if so, can you tell me what was the exciting part for you? x

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Yes we’ve had experiences like this, lots of fun to be had so long as you set boundaries first etc

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What are your thoughts on girl friend experience with a married woman? as a couple, a hot husband, a hot wife or as a singleton x

With experience I mean daily messages and chats (both naughty and friendly), occasional dates that ends up with a play, cuddles and pillow talks?

How long can/does it last? how can you differentiate this from poly- relationships? or a relationship if you are single yourself?

ps: please disregard the current covid situation as this is a general discussion question , considering there is no health risk/pandemic to be mindful about for people X "

Possible complications come to mind.

Does tagging the word experience on to girlfriend remove the need for anybody to think of it as an actual relationship? Does it make people think they owe fewer of the usual courtesies expected of a relationship e.g. consideration of feelings, helping out in times of trouble etc?

I think it's probably entirely different from a poly relationship or an actual girlfriend otherwise why the need to call it something different.

I'm not saying it's wrong just that it probably needs right boundaries that everyone involved understands and agrees to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*tight boundaries

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

I'd welcome it

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Was seeing a lady a couple of years ago, she was married so just afternoon hotel meets, got talking an we invited aanother lady to join us, we acted as bf / gf looking to bring in another party, it went very well and had some great chat an meetings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve made some lovely girly friends and with the right people it can be amazing, just think it depends on how you all mutually click that matters most x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like a Lover and would expect that to mean more than just a shag every now and again. Communication and enjoying each others company

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By *irtycpl7980Couple
over a year ago

Northumberland

Lucy has this option available to her and whilst she hasn’t had a ‘boyfriend’ in those terms she has definitely had a few FWB that she chats to via messenger on a casual level then she meets for regular sex.

Adds to the spice

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"What are your thoughts on girl friend experience with a married woman? as a couple, a hot husband, a hot wife or as a singleton x

With experience I mean daily messages and chats (both naughty and friendly), occasional dates that ends up with a play, cuddles and pillow talks?

How long can/does it last? how can you differentiate this from poly- relationships? or a relationship if you are single yourself?

ps: please disregard the current covid situation as this is a general discussion question , considering there is no health risk/pandemic to be mindful about for people X "

I used to see a couple where I was her boyfriend for week day fun when the mood took her.

So I was just a booty call away when she was horny and we would send pictures to her hubby when we where having fun.

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By *etite_delight OP   Woman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


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Possible complications come to mind.

Does tagging the word experience on to girlfriend remove the need for anybody to think of it as an actual relationship? Does it make people think they owe fewer of the usual courtesies expected of a relationship e.g. consideration of feelings, helping out in times of trouble etc?

I think it's probably entirely different from a poly relationship or an actual girlfriend otherwise why the need to call it something different.

I'm not saying it's wrong just that it probably needs right boundaries that everyone involved understands and agrees to."

Yes , it removes the option going further than that. I also see as entirely different than poly as it doesn’t involve candle light romance, sharing:help-out on life struggles and going holidays together vs.. So, I just want to see if that’s doable for long term or people tend to get confused feelings on that

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Been looking for that for 2 years... I’ve got very close to finding it, but no complete success yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am able to act as a girlfriend and have boyfriends alongside my marriage. I'm perfectly comfortable with messaging every day, kissing and cuddling, pillow talk, staying over, showering together, etc. I can keep this separate from my marriage. Hubby doesn't mind as long as it doesn't negatively interfere with our relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am able to act as a girlfriend and have boyfriends alongside my marriage. I'm perfectly comfortable with messaging every day, kissing and cuddling, pillow talk, staying over, showering together, etc. I can keep this separate from my marriage. Hubby doesn't mind as long as it doesn't negatively interfere with our relationship."

Need someone like you in our relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silk (My partner)has relationship/friendships with women that go beyond I guess the normal realms of fab. I am a cuckquean so I do enjoy this element and have full knowledge and access to his phone fab accounts etc.... the other women also know about me. I guess it depends on the individual and couples dynamics and what works For all parties.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What are your thoughts on girl friend experience with a married woman? as a couple, a hot husband, a hot wife or as a singleton x

With experience I mean daily messages and chats (both naughty and friendly), occasional dates that ends up with a play, cuddles and pillow talks?

How long can/does it last? how can you differentiate this from poly- relationships? or a relationship if you are single yourself?

ps: please disregard the current covid situation as this is a general discussion question , considering there is no health risk/pandemic to be mindful about for people X "

I can’t see how this could work.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Possible complications come to mind.

Does tagging the word experience on to girlfriend remove the need for anybody to think of it as an actual relationship? Does it make people think they owe fewer of the usual courtesies expected of a relationship e.g. consideration of feelings, helping out in times of trouble etc?

I think it's probably entirely different from a poly relationship or an actual girlfriend otherwise why the need to call it something different.

I'm not saying it's wrong just that it probably needs right boundaries that everyone involved understands and agrees to.

Yes , it removes the option going further than that. I also see as entirely different than poly as it doesn’t involve candle light romance, sharing:help-out on life struggles and going holidays together vs.. So, I just want to see if that’s doable for long term or people tend to get confused feelings on that "

OK. This is just me but I think this is liable to lead to confused feelings. Very few women are genuinely able to maintain long term sexual relationships without deeper feelings developing or that nagging feeling of being used developing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she makes me sandwiches as well why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re not against it with the right person in the right circumstances. If it happens it happens. I’m not forcing it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To be honest most of my meets fall into what you describe OP not that I would call it by that name personally.

Meets tend to involve meeting around lunchtime, doing something socially together for a few hours, maybe grabbing food and a few drinks, before heading to a hotel for the night and spending time both intimately and just enjoying each others company before falling asleep together, waking the next morning and spending a few more hours enjoying spending time together, maybe going for brunch before going our separate ways until the next time we meet.

In between seeing each other it's all maintained by regular messages and chats etc.

Works quite well for me

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"To be honest most of my meets fall into what you describe OP not that I would call it by that name personally.

Meets tend to involve meeting around lunchtime, doing something socially together for a few hours, maybe grabbing food and a few drinks, before heading to a hotel for the night and spending time both intimately and just enjoying each others company before falling asleep together, waking the next morning and spending a few more hours enjoying spending time together, maybe going for brunch before going our separate ways until the next time we meet.

In between seeing each other it's all maintained by regular messages and chats etc.

Works quite well for me "

Now I would class that as a romantic relationship scenario!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"To be honest most of my meets fall into what you describe OP not that I would call it by that name personally.

Meets tend to involve meeting around lunchtime, doing something socially together for a few hours, maybe grabbing food and a few drinks, before heading to a hotel for the night and spending time both intimately and just enjoying each others company before falling asleep together, waking the next morning and spending a few more hours enjoying spending time together, maybe going for brunch before going our separate ways until the next time we meet.

In between seeing each other it's all maintained by regular messages and chats etc.

Works quite well for me

Now I would class that as a romantic relationship scenario! "

It all comes down to how you both approach it and deal with it though - if you're both on the same wavelength it doesn't have to entail the connotations you suggest, or not in the way you appear to be suggesting.

It's actually no different from what some would describe as an FWB situation, which to me is what the OP described.

Either way it works for me and those I have met and without any complications too

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By *etite_delight OP   Woman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"To be honest most of my meets fall into what you describe OP not that I would call it by that name personally.

Meets tend to involve meeting around lunchtime, doing something socially together for a few hours, maybe grabbing food and a few drinks, before heading to a hotel for the night and spending time both intimately and just enjoying each others company before falling asleep together, waking the next morning and spending a few more hours enjoying spending time together, maybe going for brunch before going our separate ways until the next time we meet.

In between seeing each other it's all maintained by regular messages and chats etc.

Works quite well for me "

Do you have long term /regular friends out of those scenarios or usually doesn’t last long? X

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"To be honest most of my meets fall into what you describe OP not that I would call it by that name personally.

Meets tend to involve meeting around lunchtime, doing something socially together for a few hours, maybe grabbing food and a few drinks, before heading to a hotel for the night and spending time both intimately and just enjoying each others company before falling asleep together, waking the next morning and spending a few more hours enjoying spending time together, maybe going for brunch before going our separate ways until the next time we meet.

In between seeing each other it's all maintained by regular messages and chats etc.

Works quite well for me

Do you have long term /regular friends out of those scenarios or usually doesn’t last long? X "

In some instances it's been one offs, in others it's been more than that - the principle is still the same regardless.

For me a meet is about more than just sex though, it's stepping into a bubble with someone and leaving life at the door for the duration of the meet and just enjoying time with that person both in and out of the bedroom.

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By *etite_delight OP   Woman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


" In some instances it's been one offs, in others it's been more than that - the principle is still the same regardless.

For me a meet is about more than just sex though, it's stepping into a bubble with someone and leaving life at the door for the duration of the meet and just enjoying time with that person both in and out of the bedroom."

True! Guess it’s eventually down to the person you meet and whether there is a mutual enjoyment or not with the scenario going forward.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


" In some instances it's been one offs, in others it's been more than that - the principle is still the same regardless.

For me a meet is about more than just sex though, it's stepping into a bubble with someone and leaving life at the door for the duration of the meet and just enjoying time with that person both in and out of the bedroom.

True! Guess it’s eventually down to the person you meet and whether there is a mutual enjoyment or not with the scenario going forward. "

Exactly that - like a lot of things on here, there is no "right way" or "wrong way" only "your way" and then finding people you're attracted to (and they you of course) that match that - it really is as simple as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see the girlfriend experience as the girl being my girlfriend for the time we are together (which for Fab meets is not for long or that often). We might have a drink, or lunch, and a laugh, and when it comes to sex I want to make her feel like she is the centre of my universe at that moment. And after, we go our separate ways until the next time. Hence, it's the girlfriend "experience", without being an actual girlfriend. It totally works as long as both parties know what's expected of each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this idea and definitely looking for it x

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