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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I love to find a submissive man. How submissive can a man be? Like here's an scenerio, would you be feel comfortable if a woman you never met before, you only seen body photos. Ask you to meet her blind folded in a car or hotel room blind folded waiting for her. She meets you. You can only hear her voice. She guides your hands where she wants you to touch her. She plays with your body sensually or how ever it pleases you. But only by her asking permission first. Then leaves. All this time you are blind folded and instructed by her. Would you do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes! do with me as you wish baby girl Mmmm x x

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By *f579Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Yes I would

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

when I mean submit... like let the woman have total control over the sexual experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when I mean submit... like let the woman have total control over the sexual experience? "

Yep you make the rules but there are no rules mwahahaha x x

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"when I mean submit... like let the woman have total control over the sexual experience?

Yep you make the rules but there are no rules mwahahaha x x"

humm... I prefer rules set beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when I mean submit... like let the woman have total control over the sexual experience?

Yep you make the rules but there are no rules mwahahaha x x

humm... I prefer rules set beforehand "

That's my point you make the rules like you just made the 1st 1 been rules set out before lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would trust a Domme to visit you, you've never met before and she allows herself into your room/home - you can't see, blindfolded......

Really?

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"You would trust a Domme to visit you, you've never met before and she allows herself into your room/home - you can't see, blindfolded......

Really?

"

i know its a really tall order but hey his hands isn't tied up so he can always remove the mask at any time... but this scenario be a real test for submission

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"You would trust a Domme to visit you, you've never met before and she allows herself into your room/home - you can't see, blindfolded......

Really?

"

hotel room or in a car park or woods. obviously you chatted extensively, seen each other verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to find a submissive man. How submissive can a man be? Like here's an scenerio, would you be feel comfortable if a woman you never met before, you only seen body photos. Ask you to meet her blind folded in a car or hotel room blind folded waiting for her. She meets you. You can only hear her voice. She guides your hands where she wants you to touch her. She plays with your body sensually or how ever it pleases you. But only by her asking permission first. Then leaves. All this time you are blind folded and instructed by her. Would you do it? "
get my heart racing just reading this hell yes I would be up for it

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ive submitted to someone Ive never met before, but we chatted before anything happened and limits were respected. I dont think I would submit to a total stranger, where nothing was discussed beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No maybe not the first time

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Ive submitted to someone Ive never met before, but we chatted before anything happened and limits were respected. I dont think I would submit to a total stranger, where nothing was discussed beforehand. "

not a total stranger. you been chatting, Swapping photos for ages and both have good verifications on fab

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Ive submitted to someone Ive never met before, but we chatted before anything happened and limits were respected. I dont think I would submit to a total stranger, where nothing was discussed beforehand.

not a total stranger. you been chatting, Swapping photos for ages and both have good verifications on fab"

Well if limits were respected, thats the same as any first meet, so yes, but I guess you would want someone with no limits, or very few.

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By *exysurferMan
over a year ago

Bromley

I’d be up for this Jasmin. As you say, assuming we’re both verified, chatted, swapped pics and there’s the option to remove the blindfold if needed I’d be well up for this.

Happy to discuss limits and let you take control.

Willing to travel or meet half way for it. Let me know if you’re intrested in taking it further x

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Ive submitted to someone Ive never met before, but we chatted before anything happened and limits were respected. I dont think I would submit to a total stranger, where nothing was discussed beforehand.

not a total stranger. you been chatting, Swapping photos for ages and both have good verifications on fab

Well if limits were respected, thats the same as any first meet, so yes, but I guess you would want someone with no limits, or very few."

oh course, that's a given. he can always remove the mask and walk away if it's no fun. or just say no thanks.

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By *etasubTV/TS
over a year ago

West of Newcastle-upon-Tyne

Love to be controlled and used for a woman or man's pleasure so no problem

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Not in that scenario, I’d have to of met them a couple of times first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d want to talk/message with you first ... but yes I would.

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By *firsttimeCouple
over a year ago

halifax


"I love to find a submissive man. How submissive can a man be? Like here's an scenerio, would you be feel comfortable if a woman you never met before, you only seen body photos. Ask you to meet her blind folded in a car or hotel room blind folded waiting for her. She meets you. You can only hear her voice. She guides your hands where she wants you to touch her. She plays with your body sensually or how ever it pleases you. But only by her asking permission first. Then leaves. All this time you are blind folded and instructed by her. Would you do it? "

I've been looking to arrange this for my hubby for months xx

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I love to find a submissive man. How submissive can a man be? Like here's an scenerio, would you be feel comfortable if a woman you never met before, you only seen body photos. Ask you to meet her blind folded in a car or hotel room blind folded waiting for her. She meets you. You can only hear her voice. She guides your hands where she wants you to touch her. She plays with your body sensually or how ever it pleases you. But only by her asking permission first. Then leaves. All this time you are blind folded and instructed by her. Would you do it?

I've been looking to arrange this for my hubby for months xx"

is that your husband's dark cock in your public pics. looks good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to find a submissive man. How submissive can a man be? Like here's an scenerio, would you be feel comfortable if a woman you never met before, you only seen body photos. Ask you to meet her blind folded in a car or hotel room blind folded waiting for her. She meets you. You can only hear her voice. She guides your hands where she wants you to touch her. She plays with your body sensually or how ever it pleases you. But only by her asking permission first. Then leaves. All this time you are blind folded and instructed by her. Would you do it? "

If it's you yes... bring your strap on

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I’d want to talk/message with you first ... but yes I would. "

yes that's the scenario. long period of time chatting, phone calls, sharing videos and photos.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I love to find a submissive man. How submissive can a man be? Like here's an scenerio, would you be feel comfortable if a woman you never met before, you only seen body photos. Ask you to meet her blind folded in a car or hotel room blind folded waiting for her. She meets you. You can only hear her voice. She guides your hands where she wants you to touch her. She plays with your body sensually or how ever it pleases you. But only by her asking permission first. Then leaves. All this time you are blind folded and instructed by her. Would you do it?

If it's you yes... bring your strap on "

Thats for the second meet

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By *heekydevil69Man
over a year ago

Aberporth

I'd love that but no matter how dominant the woman is i always seem to just take control and dom the hell out of her

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By *londe_ready_69Couple
over a year ago

Colchester

Yes please sounds like heaven

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By *ubberclubberMan
over a year ago

Southsea

Sounds like an awesome scanario with a bit of discussion leading up to it.

A hotel would be my preference I think

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"You would trust a Domme to visit you, you've never met before and she allows herself into your room/home - you can't see, blindfolded......

Really?

i know its a really tall order but hey his hands isn't tied up so he can always remove the mask at any time... but this scenario be a real test for submission "

Curious to know how that is "a real test of submission"?

Whilst I can see it could be a hot scenario if all the relevant checks and balances are in place beforehand and a level of trust and respect has been built based on messaging, talking on the phone etc - I wouldn't really say it proves anything about someone's submissiveness or otherwise personally.

All it proves is someone is willing to participate in that particular scenario.

Submission is a very individual thing between two (or more) consenting partners so while something like that would potentially prove a willingness to comply, personally I don't see submissiveness as something you have to be tested on, more something that two (or more) individuals agree and explore and shape to their own mutually agreed definition of submission.

For some that may amount to no more than one person serving drinks and the like, for others it may be a whole more extreme level.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I think for some that would be a hot experience.

However, if I, as a dominant man, put up such a scenario asking for a woman, the abuse I would receive in the thread and privately would be off the scale.

Some of us online bang on about safe practice, this applies to men as well as women.

Just read the thread in the Scotland forum on worst meetings, and you will see that men are not inherently immune from being a victim.

So although I respect OP and I am 100% sure she would be safe, but part of being a modern dominant is not only being a safe person but encouraging submissives to be safe in their practices. This is done by working within the normal safe practices that some have already mentioned in this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to find a submissive man. How submissive can a man be? Like here's an scenerio, would you be feel comfortable if a woman you never met before, you only seen body photos. Ask you to meet her blind folded in a car or hotel room blind folded waiting for her. She meets you. You can only hear her voice. She guides your hands where she wants you to touch her. She plays with your body sensually or how ever it pleases you. But only by her asking permission first. Then leaves. All this time you are blind folded and instructed by her. Would you do it? "

Its a no from me im afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow this is more popular than I first thought

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Wow this is more popular than I first thought

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I think you have to balance the Fab male reasoning into that popularity though

It's potentially a hot scenario but not one that I would enter into without a high level of personal comfort for my own safety and certainly not with a random lady from the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow this is more popular than I first thought

I think you have to balance the Fab male reasoning into that popularity though

It's potentially a hot scenario but not one that I would enter into without a high level of personal comfort for my own safety and certainly not with a random lady from the site."

Sure...

I've done a switch moment with a trusted male, known ages!

Door unlocked, me blindfolded, sat in a chair waiting....

The intensity of a blood rush, before he even touched me! ...

Its amazing! Never experienced anything like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love this. Submitting to a woman I’ve only seen a few body shots of, allowing her to dominate and do whatever she wants to me would be a great feeling. The idea that I could pass her in the street and have no idea it was her is hot too.

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By *pinnakerMan
over a year ago

bristol

Nope. Seen to many videos where this turns out to be a man and the woman is there just for the voice and not participate

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"You would trust a Domme to visit you, you've never met before and she allows herself into your room/home - you can't see, blindfolded......

Really?

i know its a really tall order but hey his hands isn't tied up so he can always remove the mask at any time... but this scenario be a real test for submission

Curious to know how that is "a real test of submission"?

Whilst I can see it could be a hot scenario if all the relevant checks and balances are in place beforehand and a level of trust and respect has been built based on messaging, talking on the phone etc - I wouldn't really say it proves anything about someone's submissiveness or otherwise personally.

All it proves is someone is willing to participate in that particular scenario.

Submission is a very individual thing between two (or more) consenting partners so while something like that would potentially prove a willingness to comply, personally I don't see submissiveness as something you have to be tested on, more something that two (or more) individuals agree and explore and shape to their own mutually agreed definition of submission.

For some that may amount to no more than one person serving drinks and the like, for others it may be a whole more extreme level."

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By *firsttimeCouple
over a year ago

halifax


"I love to find a submissive man. How submissive can a man be? Like here's an scenerio, would you be feel comfortable if a woman you never met before, you only seen body photos. Ask you to meet her blind folded in a car or hotel room blind folded waiting for her. She meets you. You can only hear her voice. She guides your hands where she wants you to touch her. She plays with your body sensually or how ever it pleases you. But only by her asking permission first. Then leaves. All this time you are blind folded and instructed by her. Would you do it?

I've been looking to arrange this for my hubby for months xx

is that your husband's dark cock in your public pics. looks good "

No his is the one with my lipstick stain on xx ?? would you be interested in living out your fantasy with him

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"when I mean submit... like let the woman have total control over the sexual experience? "

Yes, I would really like to try this. Luke

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By *odkaboy2Man
over a year ago

bristol

That’s a yes from me

I would need to see a good list of verifications but giving myself entirely has been a massive turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to find a submissive man. How submissive can a man be? Like here's an scenerio, would you be feel comfortable if a woman you never met before, you only seen body photos. Ask you to meet her blind folded in a car or hotel room blind folded waiting for her. She meets you. You can only hear her voice. She guides your hands where she wants you to touch her. She plays with your body sensually or how ever it pleases you. But only by her asking permission first. Then leaves. All this time you are blind folded and instructed by her. Would you do it? "
wow yes!

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Much harder to find a dominant woman

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By *andG2018Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Nottingham

Seems like a lot of desperate guys on here that will do anything for a meet

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I'd set this same thing up - cancelled for covid. It's incredibly hot, whichever way round.

Yes, you need to have levels of trust and understanding, a sixth sense and all that.

Lots of men would stampede at the opportunity to do this, and they don't have to be a submissive sort to enjoy it either.

Pick your man wisely and have fun

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I'd set this same thing up - cancelled for covid. It's incredibly hot, whichever way round.

Yes, you need to have levels of trust and understanding, a sixth sense and all that.

Lots of men would stampede at the opportunity to do this, and they don't have to be a submissive sort to enjoy it either.

Pick your man wisely and have fun "

I know the exact sub i want. i have a sixth sense for him

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I love to find a submissive man. How submissive can a man be? Like here's an scenerio, would you be feel comfortable if a woman you never met before, you only seen body photos. Ask you to meet her blind folded in a car or hotel room blind folded waiting for her. She meets you. You can only hear her voice. She guides your hands where she wants you to touch her. She plays with your body sensually or how ever it pleases you. But only by her asking permission first. Then leaves. All this time you are blind folded and instructed by her. Would you do it?

I've been looking to arrange this for my hubby for months xx

is that your husband's dark cock in your public pics. looks good

No his is the one with my lipstick stain on xx ?? would you be interested in living out your fantasy with him "

i be interested in the bbc you have in your pic actually is he a fellow fabber?

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"I love to find a submissive man. How submissive can a man be? Like here's an scenerio, would you be feel comfortable if a woman you never met before, you only seen body photos. Ask you to meet her blind folded in a car or hotel room blind folded waiting for her. She meets you. You can only hear her voice. She guides your hands where she wants you to touch her. She plays with your body sensually or how ever it pleases you. But only by her asking permission first. Then leaves. All this time you are blind folded and instructed by her. Would you do it? "

I would tie Mr up for you, if I could watch ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done this kind of thing on fet meets

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

I would love this expeireance, and i imagine You would be a hot tease.

What would be even hotter is when im all horny and desprate You remove the blindfold while leaving me tied..

Then Your fb enters the car while You two play im forced to watch so horny.

You then leave together telling me You have a hotel room booked which i had paid for.

The bull returns saying heres a gift shoving Your wet knickers in my mouth.

I get untied and told i can go and You two are staying the night and im to return at 11am in the morning as You will both be needing a lift home

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

Bump

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By *egmelpoolMan
over a year ago

liverpool

As a submissive man I love to surrender all control to my partner. I love having to please her as directed and having her decide what will happen and even if I can cum.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Cat in hells chance, even if I had an ounce of submissive nature in me.

What is your outcome if you did take on a sub, lady?

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Imagine the outcry if a man had posted this. Either way.. I think its way unsafe to do and I'm a bit surprised how popular this seems with the guys

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Imagine the outcry if a man had posted this. Either way.. I think its way unsafe to do and I'm a bit surprised how popular this seems with the guys"

Hey, you cannot knock the fantasy though.

Everything has to start somewhere... just make it in the right direction.

Have fun, or don’t do it...

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By *akstriderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I love to find a submissive man. How submissive can a man be? Like here's an scenerio, would you be feel comfortable if a woman you never met before, you only seen body photos. Ask you to meet her blind folded in a car or hotel room blind folded waiting for her. She meets you. You can only hear her voice. She guides your hands where she wants you to touch her. She plays with your body sensually or how ever it pleases you. But only by her asking permission first. Then leaves. All this time you are blind folded and instructed by her. Would you do it? "

Would I do it? That's the fucking dream lol x

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