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"Abit like this lol" No, yours are tasteful. I'm talking very close up so it's the only thing in the picture and then lips spread wide | |||
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"Ladies,I might be going out on a limb, but if someone told you a very close up shot of you spreading your legs and all is hot... I think they were lying. Just my opinion and everyone likes doing things, but what is the overriding consensus? Not close up can be hot but I'm talking close enough and pussy spread wide so you can see what was for lunch." Maybe you need to read a few anatomy books if you think you can see what a woman had for her lunch by looking up her vagina. Also, how about letting folks run their profiles as they see fit. Porn mags made a fortune from showing such pics back in the day so there's obviously a market for that style of shot so don't decry those that show or appreciate them. | |||
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"Abit like this lol" Your lady is amazing! | |||
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"lots of open leg shots on my profile pics and vids as im a lover of legs spread" Eddie Stobart lives and is touring Yorkshire!  | |||
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"It goes both ways doesn’t it. Just as there’s a thing as too many cock shots, too many vag pics are just as off putting. It’s a tough balance to strike , hope I found it ? "You did!  | |||
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"Ladies,I might be going out on a limb, but if someone told you a very close up shot of you spreading your legs and all is hot... I think they were lying. Just my opinion and everyone likes doing things, but what is the overriding consensus? Not close up can be hot but I'm talking close enough and pussy spread wide so you can see what was for lunch." I know what you mean OP. I'm not a fan myself lol. Some I've clicked on to their profiles and immediately clicked back off just that little bit more traumatised than before  | |||
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"It goes both ways doesn’t it. Just as there’s a thing as too many cock shots, too many vag pics are just as off putting. It’s a tough balance to strike , hope I found it ? "Jamie, again, same with yours, none look like they have been taken with a super zoom lens. You are so right though, cock or vag - to many isn't a good thing | |||
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"I occasionally post open leg photos, some closer than others. Not often, but occasionally. People still fab them so can't be that gross?" Kitty, there isn't a single photo of this that I would put in the category that I am talking about. | |||
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"Ladies,I might be going out on a limb, but if someone told you a very close up shot of you spreading your legs and all is hot... I think they were lying. Just my opinion and everyone likes doing things, but what is the overriding consensus? Not close up can be hot but I'm talking close enough and pussy spread wide so you can see what was for lunch. Maybe you need to read a few anatomy books if you think you can see what a woman had for her lunch by looking up her vagina. Also, how about letting folks run their profiles as they see fit. Porn mags made a fortune from showing such pics back in the day so there's obviously a market for that style of shot so don't decry those that show or appreciate them." Thank you oh wise one. I'll jump on Amazon now and order a few  | |||
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"I occasionally post open leg photos, some closer than others. Not often, but occasionally. People still fab them so can't be that gross? Kitty, there isn't a single photo of this that I would put in the category that I am talking about. " Oh good! You had me worried there lol | |||
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"I occasionally post open leg photos, some closer than others. Not often, but occasionally. People still fab them so can't be that gross? Kitty, there isn't a single photo of this that I would put in the category that I am talking about. Oh good! You had me worried there lol" | |||
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" Not close up can be hot but I'm talking close enough and pussy spread wide so you can see what was for lunch." Oh dear. Is anyone else going to tell him that what goes in the mouth one end doesn't come out of the vulva? Or do I have to do it myself? Have we had the Where Babies Come From talk yet, while I'm there? | |||
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"Some of them you feeling like saying “if you still at the kebab shop grab us a Fanta and some chips” ??"
They're the ones I'm talking about.
I get that some open leg photos are hot, I agree with that too, and everyone has there own personal preferences.
For the haters and those that have sent me abuse by private message, I'm just asking if others agree with mine.
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" Not close up can be hot but I'm talking close enough and pussy spread wide so you can see what was for lunch. Oh dear. Is anyone else going to tell him that what goes in the mouth one end doesn't come out of the vulva? Or do I have to do it myself? Have we had the Where Babies Come From talk yet, while I'm there? "Hopefully that will also be in these anatomy books I've just ordered from Amazon. Who knew this forum and thread could be so educational | |||
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" For the haters and those that have sent me abuse by private message, I'm just asking if others agree with mine. " That really is unacceptable, sorry you have received abusive messages. | |||
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"If you don’t like it, don’t look.... simples!! I have posted a pretty graphic one just to be naughty though!! LOL!! Jo x" Love it !! Stunning pics open wider please ha xx | |||
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"If you don’t like it, don’t look.... simples!! I have posted a pretty graphic one just to be naughty though!! LOL!! Jo x" And I've just fabbed it! Love your nipples too  x | |||
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"If everyone liked the same sort of photos the galleries here would be boring everyone has their own preferences as to what they find sexy or erotic.." Agreed, and nice pics also btw  | |||
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" For the haters and those that have sent me abuse by private message, I'm just asking if others agree with mine. That really is unacceptable, sorry you have received abusive messages. " If OP's are going to stick their head over the parapet and take pot shots at people and their profiles (particularly when it's a thinly veiled body shaming way) then don't be surprised when folks take pot shots back. Personally, I agree with you about the abusive messages and much prefer the block button as it also means the OP won't inadvertently stumble across our profile in the future and have his delicate sensibilities scarred for life | |||
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"Stop moaning & stop the negative criticism. Lots of People have got hang ups about their bodies... don't body shame people and their pictures. The pictures obviously make them feel good and / or they enjoy taking them and posting. No one is making you look."  | |||
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" For the haters and those that have sent me abuse by private message, I'm just asking if others agree with mine. That really is unacceptable, sorry you have received abusive messages. If OP's are going to stick their head over the parapet and take pot shots at people and their profiles (particularly when it's a thinly veiled body shaming way) then don't be surprised when folks take pot shots back. Personally, I agree with you about the abusive messages and much prefer the block button as it also means the OP won't inadvertently stumble across our profile in the future and have his delicate sensibilities scarred for life "Interesting to see how you have correlated body shaming with asking for opinions on a certain style of photo. Thank you for the abusive private message too, it was an interesting read and actually says a lot more about you than it does me. As I stated in the original post, I know we all like different things. Hence asking for opinions. There is no body shaming, pointing fingers, verbally attacking anyone or even,as you put, a conceited c**t. | |||
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"Ladies,I might be going out on a limb, but if someone told you a very close up shot of you spreading your legs and all is hot... I think they were lying. Just my opinion and everyone likes doing things, but what is the overriding consensus? Not close up can be hot but I'm talking close enough and pussy spread wide so you can see what was for lunch." I don't like it. I often see women with stunning figures in these kind of poses and imagine how I would find them far more attractive in a different pose. But I don't see the point in telling people what I think of their pics unless they ask me for an opinion. Much the same as saying you don't like someone's outfit or hair. If they're happy then leave them to it. | |||
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"And he wasn't body shaming, he gave his opinion and asked for others. Seeing so many people have a go at other people on this forum these days, people not supposed to have an opinion anymore?" I'm sure many people who body shame would argue that it's just an opinion. Many racists would say their views are just free speech. Even if you accept that it's not body shaming, it's certainly being unpleasant about the photographs that many people have of their bodies. Being emotionally intelligent and thinking about the effects of your views isn't much to ask is it? I certainly don't agree with people sending the OP abusive messages though - if that happened. | |||
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"How is asking for an opinion on a certain style of photo, shaming in any way shape or form. Are you really comparing asking an opinion of a photo style to being racist?? Jeez, is this where we have now got to "I thought you would do that lol If you can't see how saying unpleasant and nasty things about people's bodies is body shaming then I think you have an issue or two with reality. You seem to be quite happy to be unpleasant about people and their pictures but not so happy that people have a poor opinion of this. | |||
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"I know, let's not compare this to racism. The only thing I can see that people might have aggravated people is where he's said 'pussy spread wide so you can see what was for lunch' which could have been put better. " I didn't 'compare' it to racism. I compared it to people saying cruel and nasty things about people using the ' it's only free speech' argument'. The act of saying 'its only....' is often belittling and bullying. | |||
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"Scanned the thread and possibly missed something but can't see anything that sounds like body shaming....(stand to be corrected on that one though). There is a world of difference between saying you don't find a style of photo attractive or erotic or even lacking a bit of class and saying that something is disgusting or that the person should not be showing their body. That is body shaming! Are those who state in their profile that they want slim/gym fit only folk bodyshaming against fat people? Are the guys who state they want BBWs only and love "real curves" bodyshaming slim women for not meeting their standards? Everybody needs to calm the fuck down....I'm sick of the racist/homophobic/transphobic..whatever fucking phobic card being played every time someone expresses an opinion that differs from someone else's." There's no need for swearing and ranting. This is getting very unpleasant. | |||
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"Scanned the thread and possibly missed something but can't see anything that sounds like body shaming....(stand to be corrected on that one though). There is a world of difference between saying you don't find a style of photo attractive or erotic or even lacking a bit of class and saying that something is disgusting or that the person should not be showing their body. That is body shaming! Are those who state in their profile that they want slim/gym fit only folk bodyshaming against fat people? Are the guys who state they want BBWs only and love "real curves" bodyshaming slim women for not meeting their standards? Everybody needs to calm the fuck down....I'm sick of the racist/homophobic/transphobic..whatever fucking phobic card being played every time someone expresses an opinion that differs from someone else's." Did you scan past the comments about kebabs and seeing what folk had for breakfast and lunch? | |||
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"By unnecessarily bringing racism into the conversation, you did compare it to that. Read your comment again." I've made my argument. You've made yours. I think you've misinterpreted what I was trying to say and perhaps that's my fault - I clearly havnt been able to make my point in a way that makes sense to you. I'm going to leave this because we are getting into a yes you did / no I didn't argument ....and besides, I need to cook the dinner | |||
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"Scanned the thread and possibly missed something but can't see anything that sounds like body shaming....(stand to be corrected on that one though). There is a world of difference between saying you don't find a style of photo attractive or erotic or even lacking a bit of class and saying that something is disgusting or that the person should not be showing their body. That is body shaming! Are those who state in their profile that they want slim/gym fit only folk bodyshaming against fat people? Are the guys who state they want BBWs only and love "real curves" bodyshaming slim women for not meeting their standards? Everybody needs to calm the fuck down....I'm sick of the racist/homophobic/transphobic..whatever fucking phobic card being played every time someone expresses an opinion that differs from someone else's. There's no need for swearing and ranting. This is getting very unpleasant." Apologies....I usually swear. | |||
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"Scanned the thread and possibly missed something but can't see anything that sounds like body shaming....(stand to be corrected on that one though). There is a world of difference between saying you don't find a style of photo attractive or erotic or even lacking a bit of class and saying that something is disgusting or that the person should not be showing their body. That is body shaming! Are those who state in their profile that they want slim/gym fit only folk bodyshaming against fat people? Are the guys who state they want BBWs only and love "real curves" bodyshaming slim women for not meeting their standards? Everybody needs to calm the fuck down....I'm sick of the racist/homophobic/transphobic..whatever fucking phobic card being played every time someone expresses an opinion that differs from someone else's. Did you scan past the comments about kebabs and seeing what folk had for breakfast and lunch?" I honestly do not see that as body shaming though. Childish and immature, yes, quite possibly. But not body shaming. | |||
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"How is asking for an opinion on a certain style of photo, shaming in any way shape or form. Are you really comparing asking an opinion of a photo style to being racist?? Jeez, is this where we have now got to
I thought you would do that lol
If you can't see how saying unpleasant and nasty things about people's bodies is body shaming then I think you have an issue or two with reality.
You seem to be quite happy to be unpleasant about people and their pictures but not so happy that people have a poor opinion of this.
"Sorry, can you please show me where I am being unpleasant about people and there bodies?? Asking for an opinion on surfing is not being unpleasant or nasty. | |||
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"Well this thread has taken an interesting turn. Can someone tell me how to delete a thread, as clearly we can't have grown up conversations and express an opinion on here anymore." Report it to admin and they'll take it down. | |||
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"And he wasn't body shaming, he gave his opinion and asked for others. Seeing so many people have a go at other people on this forum these days, people not supposed to have an opinion anymore?" Seems there's quite a few very abrasive folks on here. Kind of unnecessary. To answer the op. I much prefer clothed or lingerie shots... And there are some great pics on this site... And I also think some filthy ones work well too.... And some aren't to my taste but that's the beauty... We all have different taste and from a guy with only one photo Im not criticising anyone else's pics... Puts tin hat on! | |||
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"Funnily enough i posted a pic like that yesterday for the first time ever. I thought it looked ok as not showing off my insides too much." Some great shots bluebell.. Kudos | |||
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"Scanned the thread and possibly missed something but can't see anything that sounds like body shaming....(stand to be corrected on that one though). There is a world of difference between saying you don't find a style of photo attractive or erotic or even lacking a bit of class and saying that something is disgusting or that the person should not be showing their body. That is body shaming! Are those who state in their profile that they want slim/gym fit only folk bodyshaming against fat people? Are the guys who state they want BBWs only and love "real curves" bodyshaming slim women for not meeting their standards? Everybody needs to calm the fuck down....I'm sick of the racist/homophobic/transphobic..whatever fucking phobic card being played every time someone expresses an opinion that differs from someone else's." | |||
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"Some of them you feeling like saying “if you still at the kebab shop grab us a Fanta and some chips” ??" And, labia shaming is off. Misogyny is alive and well. | |||
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"Well this thread has escalated "What did you have for tea Kitty? | |||
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"Well this thread has escalated
What did you have for tea Kitty? " | |||
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"We are not a fan, would rather see a tasteful pic of a tutty rather than "POW look at this" " | |||
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"Well this thread has taken an interesting turn. Can someone tell me how to delete a thread, as clearly we can't have grown up conversations and express an opinion on here anymore." I'm back from making the dinner
I hate to disagree with you again OP lol... but actually, I think there has been a grown up conversation - and (on the whole) an adult exchange of views about those differences. I'd have a pint with you - if I ever go to a pub again | |||
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What did you have for tea Kitty? "I had gnocchi, it was yummy | |||
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"Does spunk dripping out on a close up not appeal at all ?" Does to us  | |||
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"Ladies,I might be going out on a limb, but if someone told you a very close up shot of you spreading your legs and all is hot... I think they were lying. Just my opinion and everyone likes doing things, but what is the overriding consensus? Not close up can be hot but I'm talking close enough and pussy spread wide so you can see what was for lunch. I know what you mean OP. I'm not a fan myself lol. Some I've clicked on to their profiles and immediately clicked back off just that little bit more traumatised than before "This!! | |||
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" For the haters and those that have sent me abuse by private message, I'm just asking if others agree with mine. That really is unacceptable, sorry you have received abusive messages. If OP's are going to stick their head over the parapet and take pot shots at people and their profiles (particularly when it's a thinly veiled body shaming way) then don't be surprised when folks take pot shots back. Personally, I agree with you about the abusive messages and much prefer the block button as it also means the OP won't inadvertently stumble across our profile in the future and have his delicate sensibilities scarred for life
Interesting to see how you have correlated body shaming with asking for opinions on a certain style of photo.
Thank you for the abusive private message too, it was an interesting read and actually says a lot more about you than it does me.
As I stated in the original post, I know we all like different things. Hence asking for opinions. There is no body shaming, pointing fingers, verbally attacking anyone or even,as you put, a conceited c**t. "I think the lunch comment isn’t the most pleasant observation .... up until that point you were asking a question. | |||
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"Well this thread has taken an interesting turn. Can someone tell me how to delete a thread, as clearly we can't have grown up conversations and express an opinion on here anymore." I hadn’t got to this .... grown up conversation.... “what she had for lunch”???? | |||
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