FabSwingers.com forum: Phone chat with female part of couple x

By *issyEM OP Woman
over a year ago

Nearly

I get that question if happy to chat with female part of couple before meet up?

Why is important?

By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Of i was planning to meet up with a couple, I'd want to verify that the female half of the couple actually existed and that she was as involved in meeting up as the guy is.

It seems there are too many couple accounts where the female doesn't exist or when the time comes to meet, she suddenly has some family emergency or a reason not to be there but the guy still wants to meet and its usually because there never was a female to begin with.

Its a precaution so you don't get fucked over by a single guy trying it on as a way to get meets and he can't get meets on his own.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously there is the whole checking you are who you say you are thing, unfortunately there are a lot of people out there who aren’t and that’s a big step to reassure some people.

Personally think though that for a lot of women it’s important to know that there’s some kind of connection between potential play partners more than there is between men. I could be wrong and not saying it’s not important to men just that it’s different for many reasons for women and this chat can help to cement that before a meet

By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Only down side to that is that we wouldn't want to give our phone number out, would happily chat before hand if no numbers had to be exchanged

Mrs

By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"Only down side to that is that we wouldn't want to give our phone number out, would happily chat before hand if no numbers had to be exchanged

Mrs"

We've never had any problems with giving our number out for a 'reassurance chat' and the other party ringing on a withheld number. After seven years on here no-one has ever abused their position of being in possession of said number either but we do use a lot of due diligence when arranging to meet on here.