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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

So today my beautiful 24yr daughter informed me that since splitting with her boyfriend of 2yrs she has joined a dating site and enjoying casual sex with a few men. I was actually quite amused although did tell her to always use condoms. Would you have been happy or shocked?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be sad if my son split with his girlfriend, they seem to be soulmates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So today my beautiful 24yr daughter informed me that since splitting with her boyfriend of 2yrs she has joined a dating site and enjoying casual sex with a few men. I was actually quite amused although did tell her to always use condoms. Would you have been happy or shocked?."

At least you gave her some solid and sensible advice. Glad to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it makes me happy, so. I'd also be happy if my children were comfortable enough to talk to me about it! (In broad strokes, mind)

You sound like a good mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on which particular site it is and what she used as a profile name?

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

As long as they are safe both with protection & with meeting it wouldn't bother me. Its not my life to live

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I’d be sad if my son split with his girlfriend, they seem to be soulmates."

I was sad when she split with her boyfriend but did not want her to marry the first boyfriend she had. They enjoyed special times together but drifted apart. He has since got engaged to somebody else.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would be concerned if my daughter was having casual sex during this pandemic.

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"As long as they are safe both with protection & with meeting it wouldn't bother me. Its not my life to live "

I just want her to be happy and live a little before she settles down. And today she looked very happy.

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I would be concerned if my daughter was having casual sex during this pandemic. "

She has not met anyone since April but was telling me about people she had met.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"As long as they are safe both with protection & with meeting it wouldn't bother me. Its not my life to live

I just want her to be happy and live a little before she settles down. And today she looked very happy."

Isn't that what all parents want for their kids? Its great she has a supportive mum

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By *oliteguyMan
over a year ago

Melksham

I guess I’d feel glad that she felt she could talk to me about that.

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"As long as they are safe both with protection & with meeting it wouldn't bother me. Its not my life to live

I just want her to be happy and live a little before she settles down. And today she looked very happy.

Isn't that what all parents want for their kids? Its great she has a supportive mum "

I try to be. She actually knows i am on here and said she now understands why which was a relief because at first she was shocked.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Good that she feels she can be open and honest with you.

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Depends on which particular site it is and what she used as a profile name? "

Tinder. No idea of her profile name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on which particular site it is and what she used as a profile name?

Tinder. No idea of her profile name"

I was just being cheeky.

It’s great that you have that relationship with her and you can both understand it.

She’ll come to you for advice on almost anything if you’ve shared this info with each other and that is a priceless relationship.

I sincerely hope my son feels he can ask me absolutely anything when he begins his sexual adventures but in reality I very much doubt he will.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Depends on which particular site it is and what she used as a profile name?

Tinder. No idea of her profile name"

Think the fishing was obvious, don’t you?

Personally, I wouldn’t expose my daughter to a hypocrite,

Equally, be her safety net, if she hasn’t a friend she can tell where and who she is meeting, suggest yourself.

Will show support.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on which particular site it is and what she used as a profile name?

Tinder. No idea of her profile name

Think the fishing was obvious, don’t you?

Personally, I wouldn’t expose my daughter to a hypocrite,

Equally, be her safety net, if she hasn’t a friend she can tell where and who she is meeting, suggest yourself.

Will show support."

Hypocrite?

What basis do you have for that accusation?

The humour of my response is clear to see and as the op had said she’s perfectly comfortable with the situation I thought it safe ground for a cheeky reply.

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Depends on which particular site it is and what she used as a profile name?

Tinder. No idea of her profile name

Think the fishing was obvious, don’t you?

Personally, I wouldn’t expose my daughter to a hypocrite,

Equally, be her safety net, if she hasn’t a friend she can tell where and who she is meeting, suggest yourself.

Will show support."

I asked who she had met and she told me. I have always had a great relationship with my daughter. Once upon a time she was overly shy so just glad this has boosted her confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would feel happy that she felt we had that kind of relationship to be able to talk about such things. My own daughter is far too young to be there yet but I hope when she gets to your daughters age we can have that kind of trusting relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So today my beautiful 24yr daughter informed me that since splitting with her boyfriend of 2yrs she has joined a dating site and enjoying casual sex with a few men. I was actually quite amused although did tell her to always use condoms. Would you have been happy or shocked?."

As long as she is enjoying it and is safe/happy I’d be pretty happy too. X

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By *iger-NWMan
over a year ago

Preston

I presume she has not been having casual sex during Covid?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Its a sign of the times Bluebelle most young one now meet online

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Oh and if you don't want her to know about your activities here be careful with your photos because if she's looking for casual sex she might end up on her too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if it makes any difference, but i have sons, but i would just probably accept it, they are old enough, just as long as they take care of themselves and are happy

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

In all honesty, I couldn't care less if our daughter joined a dating site etc. It's her life after all.

You gave the correct advice and that's all a parent can or should do. They are their mistakes to make. Be a shoulder to cry on, be a counsellor to hear their worries, give advice when asked, but, let them fly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be concerned if my daughter was having casual sex during this pandemic.

She has not met anyone since April but was telling me about people she had met."

Correct me if I'm wrong but weren't we in lock down in April??

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I would be concerned if my daughter was having casual sex during this pandemic.

She has not met anyone since April but was telling me about people she had met.

Correct me if I'm wrong but weren't we in lock down in April??

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Yes i believe you are right. That will definately get mentioned next time i speak to her. She lives with her dad so i am not aware of what she does until she tells me but that is a concern.

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