FabSwingers.com forum: Undisplayed verifications.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am i the only one who finds profiles with undisplayed verifications a little bit suspicious?

We all know how easy it is to fiddle the system...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i the only one who finds profiles with undisplayed verifications a little bit suspicious?

We all know how easy it is to fiddle the system..."

I find it very suspicious. I understand that they might not want to show the verification(s) for many different reasons...or they may have only been verified once by someone who has now left the site (so the veri can't be shown).... but it's still well dodgy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very suspicious then

I don't show mine because I've received a few emails in relation to whom I've met and why they're meeting me because they told them they're exclusive and shite like that. To be honest, it's no one's business who I meet.

If someone wants to know if I'm 'genuine' I'm happy to publish the veris for a short while so they can read them.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Displaying/not displaying - both can be mixed blessings. I display one and not the others. I like to receive them and may display later but surely it's up to the individual?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Mine all say that Im the best shag on the site, but I hide them so that others dont feel inadequate

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

"I'm very suspicious then

If someone wants to know if I'm 'genuine' I'm happy to publish the veris for a short while so they can read them. "

Well said. The green tick says you are verified, end of!

I agree with your reasons too! Too much hastle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had to hide a few of my verifications.

I kept getting the Dyson company ringing me up begging to model their new hoover on me. I'm just sick of them hounding me all the time

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I have lots. Some I display some I don't. I do find it weird though when a profile has been on ages and has no friends list AND no veris showing

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

No I dont! I dont show mine.. Never had one from anyone I know anyway.. just phone or cam so not really relevant. Someone may verify me after meeting me but I doubt I would display those either. Its private as are the people on my friends list.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I have lots. Some I display some I don't. I do find it weird though when a profile has been on ages and has no friends list AND no veris showing

Ok Im officially weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't show ours, but there sure as hell ain't anything suspicious about us !

We like to have fun but don't like to brag about it ..

Get the picture ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We don't show ours, but there sure as hell ain't anything suspicious about us !

We like to have fun but don't like to brag about it ..

Get the picture ?

No need to be so aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I dont! I dont show mine.. Never had one from anyone I know anyway.. just phone or cam so not really relevant. Someone may verify me after meeting me but I doubt I would display those either. Its private as are the people on my friends list."

I met you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't show ours, but there sure as hell ain't anything suspicious about us !

We like to have fun but don't like to brag about it ..

Get the picture ?

No need to be so aggressive.

Not being aggressive fella, just explaining things as they are ...... but id you think that's aggressive, you should see me when I'm in a bad mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A question for the people that choose to hide their veri's for their own reasons... and getting narked that other people may find this suspicious...

I understand why all of you choose to hide your veri's, all very good reasons.

But can you see it from someone else's point of _iew- a profile that is over a few months old, with hidden veri's... could be a dodgy bloke pretending to be a female for some weird reason??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We don't show ours, but there sure as hell ain't anything suspicious about us !

We like to have fun but don't like to brag about it ..

Get the picture ?

No need to be so aggressive.

Not being aggressive fella, just explaining things as they are ...... but id you think that's aggressive, you should see me when I'm in a bad mood

i'm quaking in my boots here.....no,really i am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine all say that Im the best shag on the site, but I hide them so that others dont feel inadequate

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I met you

LOL but you never said how lovely I was or that i dont fart in the hottub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we don't show ours.why? because we can and its nobody else's business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question for the people that choose to hide their veri's for their own reasons... and getting narked that other people may find this suspicious...

I understand why all of you choose to hide your veri's, all very good reasons.

But can you see it from someone else's point of _iew- a profile that is over a few months old, with hidden veri's... could be a dodgy bloke pretending to be a female for some weird reason?? "

You're right, it could be, but if that's the case then all you have to do is move on to a profile which displays the 'all important' veris - if that's what floats ya boat

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"A question for the people that choose to hide their veri's for their own reasons... and getting narked that other people may find this suspicious...

I understand why all of you choose to hide your veri's, all very good reasons.

But can you see it from someone else's point of _iew- a profile that is over a few months old, with hidden veri's... could be a dodgy bloke pretending to be a female for some weird reason?? "

I do understand it completely and I always write them for men I meet and allow them the choice of displaying them. But it can cause problems displaying them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we don't show ours.why? because we can and its nobody else's business"

Exactly !

And for thoae who don't like the idea - move on .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't show ours, but there sure as hell ain't anything suspicious about us !

We like to have fun but don't like to brag about it ..

Get the picture ?

No need to be so aggressive.

Not being aggressive fella, just explaining things as they are ...... but id you think that's aggressive, you should see me when I'm in a bad mood

i'm quaking in my boots here.....no,really i am."

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I have lots. Some I display some I don't. I do find it weird though when a profile has been on ages and has no friends list AND no veris showing

Ok Im officially weird "
you choose to hide yourfriends list as do I but you cand see who hasn't got a friends list on their profile.

Its how I roll. I am suspiscious of certain profiles . I have been on the scene 4 years as a single and now a couple I have never had a no show or a so called timewaster..so the way I do things for me serves me well

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

"A question for the people that choose to hide their veri's for their own reasons... and getting narked that other people may find this suspicious...

I understand why all of you choose to hide your veri's, all very good reasons.

But can you see it from someone else's point of _iew- a profile that is over a few months old, with hidden veri's... could be a dodgy bloke pretending to be a female for some weird reason??

I do understand it completely and I always write them for men I meet and allow them the choice of displaying them. But it can cause problems displaying them."

I usually leave a general veri after a meet just to confim they turned up and genuine, not all the gorey details but I never ask for one nor do I get offended if the ones I give aren't displayed.

I do like to receive them though for my own pleasure and memories

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham

I keep mine hidden because I found they caused more trouble than they were worth. Got a lot of 'why him and not me' or 'thought you weren't free that weekend' ...if someone wants to see some I will switch them on briefly for them to read, no problem. I am totally genuine

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"A question for the people that choose to hide their veri's for their own reasons... and getting narked that other people may find this suspicious...

I understand why all of you choose to hide your veri's, all very good reasons.

But can you see it from someone else's point of _iew- a profile that is over a few months old, with hidden veri's... could be a dodgy bloke pretending to be a female for some weird reason?? "

That's fine, if people (such as the OP)want to say it is suspicious in a blanket statement… as long as the suspicious finger pointers don’t mind a counter accusation of “Does anyone else think those who feel the need to display long lists of verification are trying to prove something or feel inadequate in some way, so much so that they just can’t help but brag at how much sex they have had?”.... and don't get narked about it.

Or we could all just let people choose to display or not whatever they fucking like on THEIR OWN profile without the need to point fingers and talk generalised shit.... just a thought

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Someone told me you can't verify a phone contact now,is that true? I can Understand they can get you in trouble I was chatting to someone who said she'd not met anyone,but the verification said different lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question for the people that choose to hide their veri's for their own reasons... and getting narked that other people may find this suspicious...

I understand why all of you choose to hide your veri's, all very good reasons.

But can you see it from someone else's point of _iew- a profile that is over a few months old, with hidden veri's... could be a dodgy bloke pretending to be a female for some weird reason??

Or we could all just let people choose to display or not whatever they fucking like on THEIR OWN profile without the need to point fingers and talk generalised shit.... just a thought

Now that is a good answer. If I'd not had so much Cidre to drink I may have said exactly the same ...

Thank you polo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i the only one who finds profiles with undisplayed verifications a little bit suspicious?

We all know how easy it is to fiddle the system...

I find it very suspicious. I understand that they might not want to show the verification(s) for many different reasons... but it's still well dodgy.

How on earth can those two comments really go together and even start to make sense?!, you either dont understand why people hide veries and therefor find it dodgy or you do understand why they do it which cant really make it dodgy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i the only one who finds profiles with undisplayed verifications a little bit suspicious?

We all know how easy it is to fiddle the system...

I find it very suspicious. I understand that they might not want to show the verification(s) for many different reasons... but it's still well dodgy.

I understand why people might want to hide their veri's, for many different reasons. -Fair enough.

I also know that some profiles are made by dishonest people that hide veri's... to hide the fact that they are not a 'real' person and just some sad old git wanking in a darkened room. - This is dodgy.

One thing that amuses me greatly is that people get so uptight when other people don't agree with them. The OP asked a question. I (and others) stated our opinion. I don't think anyone said what people should or shouldn't do. So why the abusive posts from some people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose not to show mine! what happens between me and my meet is our business and is not a point of reference for a potential meet! I don't feel the need to *advertise* who I've been with and what we did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own; I only display the social meet ones nothing more and I'm not going to either

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok Im officially weird "

Don't worry, you are not alone...there are lots of us about

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Am i the only one who finds profiles with undisplayed verifications a little bit suspicious?

We all know how easy it is to fiddle the system..."

Do we?

If it is the type of veri is hidden that you find suspicious, don't forget you can search for people with meet veri's

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

the thing I find quite funny about those who use verifications as the "be all and end all" or as some sort of crutch to lean on is this.....

just how many other situations in life would you implicitly trust the opinions of someone you have never known or met.... about someone else you have never known or met......

not many....

I only show ones with people who I have met at socials or are not too graphic.... who I play with is no ones business but mine.....

I would like to think that I would be able to use my own judgement to assess any situation... and for the most part I can....

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

There is no need to show verifications , i for one rarely read peoples veris, i prefer to make up my own mind and never take someone elses word as gospel.

In particular the verifications that go into detail about what people did are really none of my business , all i need to see if that a profile is verified as genuine by other users , the rest i will decide for myself.

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I love receiving veri's for the memories and usually display them. I won't usually display multiple veri's by the same person as it looks a bit territorial on some people profile when they do it.

Each to their own but I won't arrange a meet with anyone who hasn't got substantial veri's unless they can quickly and easily verify themselves on cam. What the veri's say doesn't matter much, but are useful in deciding if the person is real, if they'll turn up and an insight into their sense of humour.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"We don't show ours, but there sure as hell ain't anything suspicious about us !

We like to have fun but don't like to brag about it ..

Get the picture ?

No need to be so aggressive.

I don't blame them!

I struggle to understand why people waste time worrying about how others use the site. Other sites I'm on there's no verification system or facility to hide pictures or add friends and the men pay to join.

Some how on these sites people meet without needing an aide memoir from total strangers who to shag.

How's this for a radical idea: when you come across a profile that doesn't match your idea of how it should be, ignore and move on to the next one!

There, problem solved, no angst.

No need to thank me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just trust your own instincts and judgements

Why does it matter after all ..... there will always be people who abuse the system ...

Personally I steer clear of the people whose profiles need me to scroll and scroll to see the verifications !!! or they read like something out of a porn film!!!

Its a personal preference after all .. some like to brag about their sexual prowess and some like to keep that part just for themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Im dodgy and weird too

That pleases me,its nice to have a bit of an edge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of mine have asked not to be seen as they don't want people knowing they are bi, apparently it ruins their chances with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love receiving veri's for the memories and usually display them. I won't usually display multiple veri's by the same person as it looks a bit territorial on some people profile when they do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer to meet people who've been verified... I don't need to know the intimate details of how many they've been with and what each individual said they got up to! I don't give a stuff how suckable the guys cock is (in their opinion) It doesn't make me sit up and say "ooh must meet him cos 23 girls said his cock was suckable and he has magic fingers" I'll make up my own mind on that thanks!! I thought the point was to see if they'd met people, so you could see they genuinely went out and did so, not a *blow by blow* account of said meet!

an endless list of verifications gets boring and often reads like a boast!! puts me right off!!

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By *ong vaseMan
over a year ago

barnsley

well we \ i must be a little thick...lol. cos my profile is telling me i am verified, but when i log in it tells me i ought to look at being verified?..so i dont know if im verified or not?,,i dont even know if the pics are on or not. so for some...me..it wouldnt be easy to con ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's verified by other users... and getting photo verified by the admin at fab! photo veri quite easy to do and no one sees the pic on your profile

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By *ong vaseMan
over a year ago

barnsley

ok..thnx for that. so...are my pics being seen. the woman in the pic is a meet..im single. i think also the lack of reading of a profile. im being hit on by males. who obviously want her as well...lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i the only one who finds profiles with undisplayed verifications a little bit suspicious?

We all know how easy it is to fiddle the system..."

Stop worrying about whos met who, there is nothing suspicious about not displaying verifications, we dont show ours but if you want to meet us and were interested then send us a message we would be more than happy to show you ours if its that important to you.

On the other hand look for the green tick on the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's interesting to read the different _iews, I have veris showing but they are only social meets tho if I had saucy ones id not show them anyway as it's private....anyway my point is this, I have been asked as Im sure others have to verify someone i have only exchanged a couple of emails with and they get miffed when I refuse so that makes me think veris aren't really worth a lot after all, as someone said its only another person's opinion. Have seen less than handsome/beautiful people chat on cam in the rooms yet if you look at the veris they are 'so hot' 'gorgeous' 'sexy' etc etc etc .....I think it's ok to have them but I'd not meet anyone on the strength of them or not meet someone because they either dont display or dont have any....they are opinions but have to say if someone has a cast of thousands on their list I do find that a bit off putting ....I don't wanna meet a guy who is still warm from his last woman lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's interesting to read the different _iews, I have veris showing but they are only social meets tho if I had saucy ones id not show them anyway as it's private....anyway my point is this, I have been asked as Im sure others have to verify someone i have only exchanged a couple of emails with and they get miffed when I refuse so that makes me think veris aren't really worth a lot after all, as someone said its only another person's opinion. Have seen less than handsome/beautiful people chat on cam in the rooms yet if you look at the veris they are 'so hot' 'gorgeous' 'sexy' etc etc etc .....I think it's ok to have them but I'd not meet anyone on the strength of them or not meet someone because they either dont display or dont have any....they are opinions but have to say if someone has a cast of thousands on their list I do find that a bit off putting ....I don't wanna meet a guy who is still warm from his last woman lol

I agree with all that.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Well being a more mature guy I need all the help I can get. All of those I`ve verified have been given freely if I`ve found their company agreeable. Whatever they do with those verifications is entierly up to them!

To the OP, don`t forget that some hidden varifications only appear as a green tick because the sender of the verification has left the site for whatever reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site gives us all tools to use, how we use them is up to us. If someone doesnt trust a profile that doesnt show verifications well walk past the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"..... but have to say if someone has a cast of thousands on their list I do find that a bit off putting ....I don't wanna meet a guy who is still warm from his last woman lol

I don't really see how it matters how many people others' have met, do you believe that someone who has only 3 verifications is somehow more desirable, elite, less of a slut, than maybe someone who has been swinging a while and has many varied verifications and therefore potantially more tr_stworthy?

After all you are a swinger yourself, I'm assuming you've met strangers for sex, are you a better class of swinger if you aren't showing many verifications.

You could always turn the tables and see it as a person with a lot of visible verifications is not hiding anything from those who want to _iew their profile. The person with 2 veris showing could be hiding 200 unseen veris.

Throws your assessment process out the window really doesn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being suspected !

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

we must be well suspicious then.didnt realise we had to show them like cub badges.

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

Well we have 2 verifications both were happy to be displayed, but both couples are no longer on the site so it seems our veris cannot be displayed??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im with you on this.i've got no verifications & dont want them,who i play with is private!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't display either friends list or veris , I have 2 veris on here that's all because I don't give or receive them now a point I will tell any possible meet. If that makes me dodgy then so be it but that is how I choose to run my profile.

Did I spell choose right , always confuses me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't display either friends list or veris , I have 2 veris on here that's all because I don't give or receive them now a point I will tell any possible meet. If that makes me dodgy then so be it but that is how I choose to run my profile.

Did I spell choose right , always confuses me. "

But just to say, despite the fact that she is HIGHLY suspicious, she is bloody lovely too (Bussy, 42, meeting in forums)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did I spell choose right , always confuses me.

But just to say, despite the fact that she is HIGHLY suspicious, she is bloody lovely too (Bussy, 42, meeting in forums)

Cheque in the post

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

This may seem radical but why dont you just skip those profiles. I only meet people with verifications but i dont go round reading them all i just usually look at the top one or two.

There is the option to hide them on here, im sure there is nothing suspicious about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have stopped messaging or replying to non verified profiles or those who don't show them. We understand there are genuine reason for not showing but we have had more problems than we care to mention. Its easy for someone to set up fake profiles and verify themselves.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

gut feeling works better than displayed verifications

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

It's been interesting reading all the different opinions, I'm with the OP on hidden veris, I do find it a bit suss, but as I don't message anyone initially I would expect someone who messaged me to show their veris for a short while on request if I asked, if they didn't then to paraphrase Dragon's Den - I' out.....As for non veried by meet, I'm dead suspicious - was contacted recently by a couple with no veris who'd been on here over a year so I asked why and they explained, I spoke on the phone and then met the lady of the couple for a social drink and now we're looking to arrange to meet up for some fun.....sometimes there's good reasons why folk aren't veried/hide their veris/show them all.....it's all part of life's rich tapestry.....

For the record, I show all my veris, some of them are funny as hell and deserve to be read by a wide audience (I meet a lot of jokers!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gut feeling works better than displayed verifications"

Nail head there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont show mine, I also dont give them, I dont think its necessary for everyone on the site to know who ive met...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very suspicious then

If someone wants to know if I'm 'genuine' I'm happy to publish the veris for a short while so they can read them. "

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I was just thinking the other day how interesting the 'wanting or appreciating approval' scene is on here compared to how people would behave in real life. I was originally thinking of the people who ask you to fab their photos. I just don't get it. Would you ask someone to give you a compliment in real life? It really smacks of insecurity to me - 'please like me so I can show everyone how much I am liked!' But, as with everything on here it's just my opinion and nobody needs to agree with it.

As to verifications, I am typical of the 'not necessary' camp for similar reasons to others.

1. My life on here is private, I don't brag and don't tell. Who you tell is your business but I use the same principles on here as I do with dating. If it was a dating site I wouldn't be looking for a list of ex's and I don't see why this is different. I can decide for myself.

2. I would never ask for a veri. I have received them but when users leave the site the veri disappears.

3. I trust my judgement about someone I am attracted to rather than what a guy says about how good it felt when his cock was inside her. Imagine that in a night club... 'I've fucker her, she was really dirty' 'Oh cheers mate, I wasn't sure but now I can ask her...Excuse me, would you like to dance?'

4. The veris are no guarantee, as the forums prove. Whether they are singles, couples, groups, male, female, whatever, there will always be someone who gets pissed off with someone who may have more medals than an African general leading a coup.

Now to prove me right a just need someone who shares my _iew, or is open minded and willing to see if it is valid to come round and fuck me. I am fresh out of the bath and I smell fucking gorgeous! Trust me. You don't need a friends list or a verification, I can prove I exist many different ways, including a few you'll particularly like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i the only one who finds profiles with undisplayed verifications a little bit suspicious?

We all know how easy it is to fiddle the system..."

I do it because people have put info in their verifications I would prefer most people do not know. As in they are being too personal. Verifications should be literally 'yes this person is real and worth meeting' but people get a little over the top at times. It's very kind but I don't want the world to know all my personal info before meeting me!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

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I show some but not all of my veris. I don't like too much intimate information, not do I show the ones which (unintentionally) reveal info I don't want to be openly on the internet.

I will happily provide veris for my meets. I meet socially first so most veris I write are based on having a coffee together. The exception is if I find someone to not be like his pics (or even a different person) or if I have found them to be offensive/unpleasant. But since the vast majority are who they claim to be and pleasant, even if I choose not to play I will happily give them a veri.

I find veris which tell if they look like their pics and are on time, well groomed and pleasant are of far more use to me than the pornographic ones.

But if I wanted to meet someone who had hidden their veris I would consider asking to see one before meeting. It's perfectly possible to post one up for ten minutes and then take it off again.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I meet unverifiwed people. I must be suspicious as hell!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I meet unverifiwed people. I must be suspicious as hell!

Unverified!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very suspicious then

If someone wants to know if I'm 'genuine' I'm happy to publish the veris for a short while so they can read them. "

i like your style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very suspicious then

If someone wants to know if I'm 'genuine' I'm happy to publish the veris for a short while so they can read them.

i like your style.

I agree with you on this some peeps like to advertise and some dont each to teir ownx

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By *eisty1Woman
over a year ago

BBW LAND

I chose to hide mine as had problems in past of someone on here mailing the people I have met and asking when where ect and ended up to much hassle.... So now I chose not to show I don't have anything to hide just don't need the hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I decided to hide my verifications and friends list from Day 1, and it does not appear to have done me any harm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gut feeling works better than displayed verifications"

SSsshhhhhh!!! We'll have non of that sort of crazy talk. People thinking for themselves and taking responsibility for their own thoughts, that will never catch on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met three people off of here, two have left the site and one has asked me not to display the verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or we could all just let people choose to display or not whatever they fucking like on THEIR OWN profile without the need to point fingers and talk generalised shit.... just a thought

couldn't agree more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i the only one who finds profiles with undisplayed verifications a little bit suspicious?

We all know how easy it is to fiddle the system..."

Hmmm it's called preference...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP said that when people hide their veri's he finds it a little bit suspicous and asked if anyone felt the same. He DIDN'T make a blanket statement about ALL people being fake when they don't display veri's. He clearly had a gut feeling about some of the profiles he'd seen and was merely asking a question and for other people's opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I prefer not to read them, the comments are a bit pointless really, all similar generic stuff, they were nice friendly, best bj ever, don't miss out on this one, treat her well guys etc etc. The fact they're verified is enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, I don't find it a problem if people don't display the verifications as I'm capable of making my own decision on whether I'll approach them or not.

All that green tick proves is that they've gone on meets in the past. As far as whether I'll enjoy their company or not and vice versa is another story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't display my veris nor my friends list. For the simple reason that they are mine to do with as I wish. That I am verified should be enough. If it isn't, well, there are plenty of others to choose from. I have profile pics and a face pic in private. And will happily send that to someone after I have chatted a while and if it looks like we could meet. After all, this isn't blind date

I rarely accept a Friends invite on here, but that's not because I am not a friendly person. I just don't feel the need to. I know a few people on here. They aren't on my Friends list, nor have they verified me.

This isn't Facebook and I don't need a visible list of Friends who aren't real friends or a list of verifications to boost my self image, confidence or credentials. Does that make me weird?

Hippo x

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