FabSwingers.com forum: recognised

By *uckyFarmers OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

How would you feel if you was recognised when you our out and about.. from fab,,we love it around Somerset Clevedon...

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

We'd love it as long as they're not family or weird neighbours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it happened in real life I’d hate it. If someone messaged me on here (and I knew they’d keep it secret), I’d find it a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is all about respect and discretion. If I see someone I acknowledge with a simple and respectful salutation that I would normally give. I respect lives outside of the swinging circle.

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By *ewsub4dommeMan
over a year ago

thirsk

As long as they weren't some sort of stalker id be fine

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"How would you feel if you was recognised when you our out and about.. from fab,,we love it around Somerset Clevedon..."
By strangers it would be ok, but not someone we know. What goes on in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. We don’t even put our correct postcode in to be discreet, so unlikely to be recognised.

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By *arnsleycpl4uCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Hubby was a manager for a large company and a guy we played with got a job as a cleaner he was mortified

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I’ve been recognised a couple of times by people I know in everyday life. I was really embarrassed!

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

I have a very distinctive look, or so I am told so get recognised a lot. Doesn't bother me anymore. My family and close friends know about this side of my life so I have nothing to hide.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"How would you feel if you was recognised when you our out and about.. from fab,,we love it around Somerset Clevedon..."

I get recognised all the time , shopping , driving and when I could go to the gym

Most don’t say anything but message me on here to say they have seen me

A few have come up to me (don’t really like that tho)

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We don’t mind as long as they are discreet about it

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We wouldn’t like to be approached in public tbh, in clubs is fine or a message on here but it would freak us out tbh

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By *hubbycheckerMan
over a year ago

Porstmouth

I've recognised a couple of people not sure if they did me or not, I never said nothing and probably wouldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recognised a few people in my local area while our and about, one of the ladies is on this thread and local to me!

One of the couples has no idea and we chat but don't let on i know who they are. Another couple i have said I have seen them out and about and they said next time come and say hi...So I did. Was hornt for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s happened loads of times.

Old class mate from 20 years ago, a local school mum and a random taxi driver. The taxi driver was by far the most uncomfortable about it. He kept saying I looked familiar from “somewhere” but wouldn’t spit it out till he was about to drop me off. Then he finally said.... “erm I think it could fab”

Oh and another time was at a kids party, I couldn’t fathom why one of the dads was looking at me awkwardly, till about an hour into jelly and ice cream the penny finally dropped.

Fab is a very small world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not for me thank you

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I've had a few message after spotting me out & about, that doesn't bother me so much. If someone tried to talk to me tho I'd find that pretty creepy as I'm rarely alone lol

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

I gave bern spoteed in work by a few who msg me and say they have seen me around my work

Met a few to keep the piece, n just say hello if we see sach other in work , now becone good freonds with them

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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Mrs worries about this especially with work colleagues but doesnt bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This wouldn't bother us at all. Most people in our life already know. Family and work colleagues do..never been a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see someone it is a simple hi. No need to mention anyone's public life unless you playing then when the door closes it is back to normal life. Respect and discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recognised a few on here and some i have messaged and others I have told them when being out.

We keep our face pictures to friends only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have recognised a few on here and some i have messaged and others I have told them when being out.

We keep our face pictures to friends only. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have recognised a few on here and some i have messaged and others I have told them when being out.

We keep our face pictures to friends only. "

It is always fun to message someone you have seen and say hello. Not In a stalker away but a friendly way. See if they like the idea of having been recognised. If they do great it could be more fun, if not then simply leave them be

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"How would you feel if you was recognised when you our out and about.. from fab,,we love it around Somerset Clevedon..."

I go to clevedon every other day and I’ve never seen you ,but I’d like too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been recognised and messaged, but never out and about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend, somebody we didn’t know or knew from Fab would be fine...some vanilla types from work & the kids schools etc not so much. Mostly though we don’t give a fook

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

I was recognised while shopping in Sainsbury's once.

He messaged on fab later and asked if it was actually me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if you was recognised when you our out and about.. from fab,,we love it around Somerset Clevedon..."

Nothing to hide so not an issue for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually felt awkward cos it was a friend of my nephew who had a crush on me from being about 12. Now in his 30s and obviously on here. He approached me in the pub to say thank you for making his teenage boys dream come true. Pmsl embarrassed but flattered too.

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick

My wife and I was recognised by one of her work colleagues and he attempted force her her into a meet or he would make the rest of her colleagues aware. Straight away she removed the profile but the damage was done and she's and I no longer have a active cpls account

Not always a happy story from be recognised folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We wouldn’t like to be approached in public tbh, in clubs is fine or a message on here but it would freak us out tbh "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife and I was recognised by one of her work colleagues and he attempted force her her into a meet or he would make the rest of her colleagues aware. Straight away she removed the profile but the damage was done and she's and I no longer have a active cpls account

Not always a happy story from be recognised folks

Really sorry to hear that. Some people just ruin it for others. It is a adult site but guess we soon find out who is an adult and who is baby throwing their toys out of the pram. You should have reported him to the admin team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been recognised a few times. Once in Asda with my MUM, guy was stalking us in the aisles so much so that my Mum asked did I know him.

Another time was at the gym, on the treadmill the guy actually came up to me with his phone in hand and asked 'Is this you??' He then asked me to verify him afterwards!

The last time was a taxi driver who took me to pick up my car from the garage, sent me a message afterwards asking if I had been his fare and would I like to meet him. I hadn't even looked at him properly when I got in the taxi and he only had friends photos, which he wouldn't let me see, so I declined.

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By *unandlaughter69Couple
over a year ago

Boston

"How would you feel if you was recognised when you our out and about.. from fab,,we love it around Somerset Clevedon..."

Has happened a few times and they always showed up respect by being discrete

we met some friends while out at a swing club too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was recognised while shopping in Sainsbury's once.

He messaged on fab later and asked if it was actually me x"

I can see why, I’d recognise that creme egg anywhere

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We've been recognised a few times, we're always happy to chat when it happens.

We much prefer people to introduce themselves at the time, rather than message us afterward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's a woman who works in my local shop. I give her a wee smile knowing that I've seen what she gets up too at the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw a former bosses daughter on here! Looked fantastic but was in a couple looking for woman. What I’d of given for an evening with her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would hate being approached when out, just message here.

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By *otlipsandSirCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We have been recognised a few times by strangers as hot lips has a distinctive hair colour,didn't bother me however hot lips wasn't so keen .

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By *ymguy1966Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Doesn't bother me but it does Sheila.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

As long as they were discreet about it and sent a simple message on here that would be fine. We have in the past ended up playing with someone we know from "the real world". It was fun and sexy.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We have been recognised on a number of occasions and Mrs M at least 3 times whilst out on her own.

We usually come back to a message on here asking if we were in ..... or was that you at....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see someone from here in a restaurant we just messaged them on here the next day they was with friends dont think its right to approach people when there doing there normal things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see someone from here in a restaurant we just messaged them on here the next day they was with friends dont think its right to approach people when there doing there normal things "

I totally agree with you. There is life outside of swinging. I would do the same

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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Not recognised in person as such but we were chatting to a great guy on here for a while, really hit it off and wanted to meet, but from chatting realised our kids were from the same school and knew each other

we decided against it as a bit too close to home. Still chat from time to time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had some guy said he knew us on couples profile and was threatening show all lads in our local pubs

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By *orkiemanMan
over a year ago

Morley

There is a couple on here who I recognise, our kids went to same school and played in same football team but I would never approach them amd let them know I have seen them on here. I think that crosses the line. Years ago, on another site they sent me a message asking for a meet and sadly I had to decline because it would have been awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've recognised a few people when we've been out and about in Manchester. Don't know if they recognised us as we didn't disturb them. There was eye contact and a smile or two but we do that anyway to people we find sexy and interesting while we are out having fun in the bars.

We've also been recognised by an old work friend of Ben's. He couldn't help himself from dropping fab hints when he was on the phone to him. Thankfully he is a great guy who goes with the flow so there's no problem with him knowing.

It's such a shame that this lifestyle has to stay in the shadows. I think the world would be a much kinder place if everyone embraced it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of my job and very conservative family, I am careful to not post any pictures that could make me easily identifiable.

I’d love to not have to hide this aspect of my life but can’t see that ever happening.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I’ve been recognised twice..

Once in Chester and once in altrincham..

Both times were respectful and shared a drink ..

I’m not ashamed to be doing this ..

I don’t do things I’m ashamed of ..

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"Because of my job and very conservative family, I am careful to not post any pictures that could make me easily identifiable.

I’d love to not have to hide this aspect of my life but can’t see that ever happening. "

I’ve never heard of an employment contract that would in anyway be able to stop you living a swinger lifestyle..

It’s not breaking any laws ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because of my job and very conservative family, I am careful to not post any pictures that could make me easily identifiable.

I’d love to not have to hide this aspect of my life but can’t see that ever happening.

I’ve never heard of an employment contract that would in anyway be able to stop you living a swinger lifestyle..

It’s not breaking any laws .."

This is true, but if it was common knowledge I wouldn’t be Bliss who is really good at her job, professional and respected. I’d be Bliss, the snapper who is on a swinging site and meets people for sex. I’m not ashamed in any way of who I am but I would absolutely be treated differently so it’s better to keep the separation xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because of my job and very conservative family, I am careful to not post any pictures that could make me easily identifiable.

I’d love to not have to hide this aspect of my life but can’t see that ever happening.

I’ve never heard of an employment contract that would in anyway be able to stop you living a swinger lifestyle..

It’s not breaking any laws ..

I agree with you as I am in the same boat.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"Because of my job and very conservative family, I am careful to not post any pictures that could make me easily identifiable.

I’d love to not have to hide this aspect of my life but can’t see that ever happening.

I’ve never heard of an employment contract that would in anyway be able to stop you living a swinger lifestyle..

It’s not breaking any laws ..

That’s so sad people would judge like that ..

I’m good at my job and couldn’t care less what my colleagues think ..

A shame we judge people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen a few that i recognised, let w of the women know, was all cool, the 3 guys i didnt let them know.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

If it was a respectful recognition of who we was then we'd probably be excited.

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By *over123Man
over a year ago

Simonstone

Funny this thread has come up, I've just recognized a couple who go the same gym as myself, I havent messaged them yet, I have there facebook ect.

Not sure if I should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was a respectful recognition of who we was then we'd probably be excited. "

Exactly how i was with 2 local fems, said hi on fab let them know it was me, what happens on fab stays on fab

Even exchanged naughty pics with one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny this thread has come up, I've just recognized a couple who go the same gym as myself, I havent messaged them yet, I have there facebook ect.

Not sure if I should "

Sounds a bit creepy that you have their FB ect!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"How would you feel if you was recognised when you our out and about.. from fab,,we love it around Somerset Clevedon..."

if approached in correct manner then ok... been recognised on and approached on here years ago, ended up having some great times! please say hello

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By *over123Man
over a year ago

Simonstone

"Funny this thread has come up, I've just recognized a couple who go the same gym as myself, I havent messaged them yet, I have there facebook ect.

Not sure if I should

Sounds a bit creepy that you have their FB ect!

Reading it back it does sound creepy.

I should have explained myself better. We are friends so have them on facebook, same circle of friends ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny this thread has come up, I've just recognized a couple who go the same gym as myself, I havent messaged them yet, I have there facebook ect.

Not sure if I should

Sounds a bit creepy that you have their FB ect!

Reading it back it does sound creepy.

I should have explained myself better. We are friends so have them on facebook, same circle of friends ect

Phew!

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We've been recognised due to one of her tattoos at Asda. We now don't show those pics as we were properly mortified at the time and wouldn't want it to happen again.

We have, conversely, recognised others when it and about but would never approach to make ourselves known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long it’s discreet I wudnt mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't mind at all as long as it was discreet. Although I'd be gutted if they caught me dashing into Tesco in my comfies lol x

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By *uckyFarmers OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

What a great way to live. Respect and enjoy Lin and Steve x

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By *uckyFarmers OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

That's lovely ... X

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By *uckyFarmers OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Our life is fun and like many of you it's respectful, often a saucy message on here is how we know we've been recognised which is a great turn on.

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By *uckyFarmers OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

That is extremely horny. Not many honest people on here x

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By *uckyFarmers OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

?? that's an asshole of a man! Sorry for you both...takes the fun out of life! Years ago someone from work recognised me, cruel and tried to say they'd put it on social media! But do they not realise they would expose themselves as nasty little people.

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By *uckyFarmers OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

It really is about respect x

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By *uckyFarmers OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Discrete shows respect that is what I lost people forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to keep the two worlds very far apart so our privacy is paramount to us, we have been on here long enough to realise sadly that their is a tiny % of nut jobs that are on the site and the less we have to do with them the better.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

You always get horror stories of mindless idiots on these kind of threads that reaffirms to be that unless your on a prearranged meet, the first rule of fab swingers is there is no fab swingers.

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By *ubicon MangoMan
over a year ago

willenhall

While staying at a hotel for a work meeting, the room cleaning lady recognised me from fab, who i had been messaging for a while, i burst out laughing as she was really excited to see me. We had a good chat, and talked about pros and cons of fab, we good friends even today, but it was creepy and i was like SH!T for a few moments, but if i recognised some one, i would never aproach as i like discretion, but have recognised people from work, even a client i work with, but blocked her for profesional reasons.

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By *rd wheelMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Yes by my Aunt lol she has kept the secret safe though

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