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By *ose and her beast OP   Couple
over a year ago

Watford

What's everyone's opinion on regular swinging partners better or do you prefer a new face everytime

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

A regular would be great but not so easy to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer regular until I get bored and want a change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is SO much better. I tend to feel more relaxed and comfortable with a regular playmate. And more willing to push boundaries

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Regular is best for us. We can build up a rapport and learn what each other likes. Besides, finding new people all the time sounds exhausting!

Damn, OP! You are hot!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Prefer regular.

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By *ose and her beast OP   Couple
over a year ago

Watford

I'm glad we aren't the only ones x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Regular would be great

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Regular for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A combination. I do love having lots of one night stands as I love the thrill and intrigue of someone different and a new experience. But some familiar regulars is nice and often better sex. Plus I have hubby.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Doing my best to find one but it's not as easy as I'd hoped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you manage not to bond with someone regular and keeping it NSA? I mean, how do you cope with oxytocin flooding your brain?

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By *ose and her beast OP   Couple
over a year ago

Watford

We find it pretty easy to seperate are swinging friends for the regular ones

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"How do you manage not to bond with someone regular and keeping it NSA? I mean, how do you cope with oxytocin flooding your brain?"

I do bond, but it's more a bond of friendship than anything else x

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By *um6a9funMan
over a year ago

Messy End

Regular is a lot of people’s preference, but sometimes knowing that something is only going to be a one off can often be more relaxed!

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Being friends and regular is our preferred. Also like a social with them when it doesn't always turn kinky

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts.

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

In the main our best experiences have been with couples we want to see more frequently and explore and grow with them too. Yeah, quite happy to say we don't necessarily seperate friends and swing friends but do expect to know someone has a certain degree of discretion before we mingle the two.

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By *ymguy1966Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"What's everyone's opinion on regular swinging partners better or do you prefer a new face everytime"

Regular for me, I like to build a friendship too

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts. "

Lots of couples have single profiles too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts. "

I'd say your view is a bit "out of date" on the scene..

Swinging is for all (singles & couples) otherwise why do couples look so much for 3sums.

Also theres couples that play solo too and even have single profiles too..

My view anyway !

And yes i do prefer regular (i have a swing partner & always more chance to push boundaries)..however the trill to meet someone new is also good...so I choose a bit of both .

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By *elsh_naturist_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Definitely regular!

Prefer to find a special someone for a variety of good times!

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Much prefer regular from both a singles and couples point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular would be ideal really.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

A mixture of both. It's good to build confidence with regular people who we become friends with but also like the thrill and excitement of the first time. We never have any expectations that it will be more than a one time thing necessarily but it's nice when it does.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts. "

I'm part of a couple as well as single (meeting on my own). Had regular partners for me only as well as the ones who joined husband and me. In both ways the answer is the same - prefer regular until it's time for new.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"What's everyone's opinion on regular swinging partners better or do you prefer a new face everytime"

What are your thoughts on this, OP?

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

Regular and friendship for me x

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"How do you manage not to bond with someone regular and keeping it NSA? I mean, how do you cope with oxytocin flooding your brain?"

Being clear about boundaries in advance. Not cuddling too much after.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts.

I'm part of a couple as well as single (meeting on my own). Had regular partners for me only as well as the ones who joined husband and me. In both ways the answer is the same - prefer regular until it's time for new."

Ditto, regular allows trust and knowledge, confidence, boundaries to stretch and explore, dare I say friendship... So many benefits for regulars

... But the one thing you don't get is the excitement of meeting someone brand new, which also has a pretty special excitement about it.

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

Not sure, the excitement, nerves, etc are brilliant on a first meet but the comfort and experience of a regular is also great. So both

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By *ose and her beast OP   Couple
over a year ago

Watford

Only had a few regulars but they have become very good friends can't beat the nervous excitement of brand new people but knowing people's tastes and kinks

Is a nice comfort love meeting like minded people as not many people get the lifestyle

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We have a small circle of "friends" we can play with on a semi regular arrangement ...that said we have had some very horny eventful one offs LOL

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Nearly all of our regulars have left this world: family, money, work etc

We love meeting new people though. Happy couples or sexy single black guys are more than welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we prefer to make friends and see how it goes however having regular sex friends can become complicated in the end. I think that is why we like clubs and new party invites as we don't know what we feel like on the night.

That is what makes swinging so exciting for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular is SO much better. I tend to feel more relaxed and comfortable with a regular playmate. And more willing to push boundaries "

Totally agree!

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Regular is SO much better. I tend to feel more relaxed and comfortable with a regular playmate. And more willing to push boundaries

Totally agree!"
Yep works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts. "

Perhaps some of us singles like to meet regulars and then indulge in swapping together or introducing others...

I find this far easier to do with someone I know a little better

Single people are still swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer good connections for sure

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

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By *hilledout-coupleCouple
over a year ago

telford

As above would love regular but like hens teeth to find x

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We're not as regular as many swingers. We have however played with the same couple four times and will do in the future, as it just gets better

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts. "

So do you believe singles can't be swingers? X

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

Regular fun would be great. Not easy to find though. xxx

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

We prefer regular but sometimes a quick meet is horny

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By *un and Frolics 1Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

From a couple's view, we like regular single guys and couples, although we find couples are harder to find. Its not only about sex its also about friendship.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"I find it strange that most people that have answered the question are from single profiles and thus cannot give a proper answer as in fact it was posed about swinging. In my veiw swinging is all about sopping partners not finding someone for nsa sex. If more couples were to answer maybe the answers would be different!!!!!!. Any thoughts. "

So singles can't give a proper answer? According to who? As one part of a couple I can say that singles are part of the swinging scene. Swinging is a mindset, not a relationship status. When I was a single fem I was still a swinger, I was looking for 3sums, 4 sums and moresums. Do you tell the single men that you are looking to fuck that they are not part of the swinging scene?

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By *elleshellsCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

Love love love regular guys - boundaries can be really pushed when you feel more comfortable with someone!

Any Manchester lads - who can accom - fancy being a regular?!?!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Although I like meeting new people, I discovered long ago that the best sex is with people I know well.

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"What's everyone's opinion on regular swinging partners better or do you prefer a new face everytime"

Definately a regular for me. Trust and builds deeper connections

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By *cac9186Couple
over a year ago

london

We would love regular couple

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Regulars are great

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"We would love regular couple"

So would we....

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Although I like meeting new people, I discovered long ago that the best sex is with people I know well. "

Obviously haven't met us yet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer a regular friend

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Definitely a regular for me as you learn how to press each others buttons far more deeply and can make some amazing friendships that way too.

The rest of the time you can fill up as you wish

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By *erynaughtyMan
over a year ago

Derby

A regular and very discreet set up is my preference

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Regular is better for me. I'm not anti a one off for a special occasion but mostly regular x

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

A regular would be lovely. With planned meets, the Build up all and the laughter. absolutely brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular play partners are so much better than one off meets. You relax, enjoy more, experiment and explore boundaries feeling safe and trusting of each other.

Her x

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley


"Regular is SO much better. I tend to feel more relaxed and comfortable with a regular playmate. And more willing to push boundaries "

Exactly this, we much prefer regular playmates. Far more relaxed which leads to far more fun.....

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Regular is best, if you can find it

Jo x

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

I stand corrected even though in every dictionary it says that swinging is between a couple that like to have casual sex with other couple. Cannot help but notice that most of the profile on fab have lots of verification by different people and not many repeat meets so I guess although regular must be what everyone craves for but it seldom happens.

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By *az080378Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

Would much prefer regular but like others have said,it's hard to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stand corrected even though in every dictionary it says that swinging is between a couple that like to have casual sex with other couple. Cannot help but notice that most of the profile on fab have lots of verification by different people and not many repeat meets so I guess although regular must be what everyone craves for but it seldom happens. "

"Swinging - engage in group sex or swap sexual partners within a group, especially on a habitual basis"

I have 100's of verifications as I've been on/off here for over 10 years now. I don't display them all though as people love to pass judgement (despite the majority being from hosting club events). Just enough to show that I'm genuine. I don't ever ask people to re-verify if we meet regular either. I've been lucky enough to have some amazing regulars over the years. But have also continued to meet on my own. That's the beauty of being a single swinger, you can do as you please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular would be good, it's nice to get to know someone as well alittle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never used to bother me as it was all just good fun but now with covid ive changed my mindset and after lockdown will only meet regular or those who want regular the only prob with regular is every now and then you find that clingy one and i dont do clingy ..just fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stand corrected even though in every dictionary it says that swinging is between a couple that like to have casual sex with other couple. Cannot help but notice that most of the profile on fab have lots of verification by different people and not many repeat meets so I guess although regular must be what everyone craves for but it seldom happens. "

Not everyone wants/does repeat verifications.

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