FabSwingers.com forum: BDSM - Markings/Bruising

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't see a lot of BDSM related topics on these forums so hopefully this doesn't put people off too much. Any submissives out there who enjoy being marked from spankings and other impact play and look at the souvenirs from a scene later?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes we love bdsm

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By *s1212Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

"Oh yes we love bdsm

So do we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup especially if the Mr is gonna be away working all week it’s nice to walk past the mirror and catch a glimpse of a nice big bruised ass

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Not a sub but I love leaving marks as little reminders for the between session time. Both ouchies as well as body writing and things like that.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not just look at them later but press into them. This isn’t specially a sub thing , lots of people do it

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I love leaving marks as reminders if during bdsm play - even better when you get sent pics of what you’ve done a few days later as they develop!

Had a few myself - a lady at xtasia with long nails once left several long marks on my back during a passionate encounter which I have to say did look quite good for the while they were there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yup especially if the Mr is gonna be away working all week it’s nice to walk past the mirror and catch a glimpse of a nice big bruised ass

Yes, agreed. It's nice to see then and be reminded everytime you see or feel them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not just look at them later but press into them. This isn’t specially a sub thing , lots of people do it "

I will start pressing in to them once they fade a little bit. Currently I feel every single bruise when I breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very nice to see the faded marks next time you're with someone. They are a reminder of something far more intimate than just sex.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I used to love fingerprint bruises where a guy had gripped me tightly.

I had a Dom for a while who was a master at biting. He'd leave rows of bruises down my shoulders, right where my bra straps sat. Not painful exactly, just giving me a constant awareness which in turn reminded me of the session. They'd fade over a few days, I'd have a day or two of unmarked skin and then we'd meet again. It was quite lovely.

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By *rafficvanMan
over a year ago

Middletown

"I don't see a lot of BDSM related topics on these forums so hopefully this doesn't put people off too much. Any submissives out there who enjoy being marked from spankings and other impact play and look at the souvenirs from a scene later?

.... Talk about this just bought myself a face strap

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

I love the feeling after a good spanking of my arse being red raw and glowing.

Even a couple of days later when it's still tender to sit down.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

There are plenty of bdsm threads on here and people on here that are experienced in bdsm. They are also careful about their topics as I they know that certain threads disappear, as this one may.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is when the sub really wants the bruises but can't handle the pain

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are plenty of bdsm threads on here and people on here that are experienced in bdsm. They are also careful about their topics as I they know that certain threads disappear, as this one may.

Why would it disappear? Does Fabs have any policy against discussing these topics?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The problem is when the sub really wants the bruises but can't handle the pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Masochist here, lurve receiving marks, but they unfortunately do not last more than a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few marks, just enough as when I sit down at work in the following days. I know how naughty I have been x

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We both love marks, k recieving them with pride and S dishing them out, we are a masochistic and sadistic couple who work well together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both love marks, k recieving them with pride and S dishing them out, we are a masochistic and sadistic couple who work well together."

I would love to know more about you guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A submissive I've been playing with came round again Sunday morning for a post night shift bangathon....

As I was getting into her from behind. I could see bite marks and grappling marks I'd given her during the week. Turned me on no end so I could cum again.

I was biting my lip a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are plenty of bdsm threads on here and people on here that are experienced in bdsm. They are also careful about their topics as I they know that certain threads disappear, as this one may.

Why would it disappear? Does Fabs have any policy against discussing these topics?"

Discussing BDSM in its self isn't an issue and is perfectly acceptable, However you have to be careful when discussing injuring people even when its Consensual.

Most threads like this go OK but you always get some people who discuss really graphic or illegal things.

I know for example extreme BDSM photos are rejected.

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By *oner HornCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Absolutely!

Both me and Horn wear our Mark's with pride.

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By *f579Man
over a year ago

Midlands

I love nail marks on my back, legs and bum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are plenty of bdsm threads on here and people on here that are experienced in bdsm. They are also careful about their topics as I they know that certain threads disappear, as this one may.

Why would it disappear? Does Fabs have any policy against discussing these topics?

Discussing BDSM in its self isn't an issue and is perfectly acceptable, However you have to be careful when discussing injuring people even when its Consensual.

Most threads like this go OK but you always get some people who discuss really graphic or illegal things.

I know for example extreme BDSM photos are rejected. "

Yes, I guess this makes sense.

I was going to upload photos of some of my marks (which I'm ridiculously proud of

) but I figured it wouldn't be approved. Oh well, I will just keep spamming my Master with those photos

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Porn us to blame for.......

Me wasting far to much time winking instead of working!

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By *berthesadistMan
over a year ago

Ormskirk

sadist here bruises are very satisfying to look back on. Welts in the moment and the reactions of a masochist recieving what they want is the best thing ever

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"There are plenty of bdsm threads on here and people on here that are experienced in bdsm. They are also careful about their topics as I they know that certain threads disappear, as this one may.

Why would it disappear? Does Fabs have any policy against discussing these topics?

Discussing BDSM in its self isn't an issue and is perfectly acceptable, However you have to be careful when discussing injuring people even when its Consensual.

Most threads like this go OK but you always get some people who discuss really graphic or illegal things.

I know for example extreme BDSM photos are rejected. "

Discussion around marking do tend to get taken down.

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Watton

We both very much enjoy impact play, and there is a real buzz for us to leave marks of some kind, but not scars

It is even more enjoyable when our play partner is proud of their marks, wearing them as a badge of honour and pride

We have found some fantastic items which give fantastic whelps, and we love using every day items. iPhone cables can be amazing!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We both very much enjoy impact play, and there is a real buzz for us to leave marks of some kind, but not scars

It is even more enjoyable when our play partner is proud of their marks, wearing them as a badge of honour and pride

We have found some fantastic items which give fantastic whelps, and we love using every day items. iPhone cables can be amazing!!!"

Oh yes, no scars and certainly nothing permanent. Just a good old bruise that will change colour and start itching as it heals

I can imagine cables being good. Wooden spoons are also fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I alway felt guilty for leaving purple rather than just a red mark .... but that is what she wanted and it was my duty x

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By *r and Mrs BlackCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

He likes to mark his territory and I love it...

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Last woman I marked and I “dined out” if you like, for about 3 weeks after I left some lovely bruises around her ankles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" He likes to mark his territory and I love it...

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Yes i love it , my privat pictures have show that side of me

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Cane and whip marks denote ownership and are incredibly erotic.

I've taken a sub with an freshly caned arse to a swingers club and the guys went wild over her.

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By *iger-NWMan
over a year ago

Preston

[Removed by poster at 08/07/20 07:28:44]

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

Yes I do, and crave more xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time for a bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love being marked, love the reminders when I’m owned

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Genie got a good ass beating earlier and will have some bruises and reminders of being a good girl.

One of my favourite toys is a homemade rubber paddle, made from a truck mud flap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people have different reactions

some wear them as badge of pride, some use them to boast as if to say "i can take more than you can"

i enjoy impact play but my pain levels vary so rarely get to the stage where marks are left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely love being marked, love the reminders when I’m owned

The marks can be a very intimate and personal reminder for both of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! There is a time and place for it however being a Dom or Sub isn’t just about the spanking, canning, paddling, whipping or errrrr the utilisation of household items ?? check out one of our photos. That was actually a wooden spatula from the kitchen, always brings a smile when you cook with it

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

I'm a total masochist with a high pain threshold and don't mark easily, but I love having marks after a session. On my single profile (I think it's hidden at the moment) I have an excellent photo of the marks left when I called a few friends over to give me a good spanking. I'd had a play session which had left me no marks and I was disappointed, so I called a couple over to administer some firm spanks, and the next night a single male friend came over with his belt....

I couldn't sit comfortably for days.

C (her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh yes

Spatula and the belt - happy memories here as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are plenty of bdsm threads on here and people on here that are experienced in bdsm. They are also careful about their topics as I they know that certain threads disappear, as this one may.

Why would it disappear? Does Fabs have any policy against discussing these topics?"

The problem is that UK case law (R v Brown) came down against consensual marking inside a BDSM environment. Albeit I'd imagine that they judges may have been somewhat bias due to that particular case involving homosexual partners but alas it is still law. And it is states that you cannot legally consent to anything from actual bodily harm up. Whether bruises constitute abh type injuries is subjective.

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By *cotsboyMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Genie got a good ass beating earlier and will have some bruises and reminders of being a good girl.

One of my favourite toys is a homemade rubber paddle, made from a truck mud flap.

Fantastic photos on your profile looks like we have very similar interests

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By *CandBCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

"There are plenty of bdsm threads on here and people on here that are experienced in bdsm. They are also careful about their topics as I they know that certain threads disappear, as this one may.

Why would it disappear? Does Fabs have any policy against discussing these topics?

Discussing BDSM in its self isn't an issue and is perfectly acceptable, However you have to be careful when discussing injuring people even when its Consensual.

Most threads like this go OK but you always get some people who discuss really graphic or illegal things.

I know for example extreme BDSM photos are rejected. "

Lol. Pics of even quite slight marks disappear. The site censors them quite heavily.

Ironic since they list SM as an interest, but not the BD that wouldn’t leave the marks they so obviously disapprove of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love having my body marked so I can look at the marks and have horny memories

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

Love it but I repair quickly ! X

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By *orkshireBeef26Man
over a year ago

Kirkella

Kitty

I'd Love to Spank and Mark you xx

Also Love to be your Boyfriend for Cuddles and Making you Tea..

Andy Xxx

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

I love impact play, but never been a fan of the cane.... although tram lines do look lovely, I prefer to see a nice red/blue arse

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By *allum29Man
over a year ago

Banbury

I love impact play and leaving marks with toys, teeth and nails. It's a great reminder of the session and I know some people like the reminder feeling the bruises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love having my body marked so I can look at the marks and have horny memories "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"people have different reactions

some wear them as badge of pride, some use them to boast as if to say "i can take more than you can"

i enjoy impact play but my pain levels vary so rarely get to the stage where marks are left"

Yes, I can see that the point about it becoming competitive and people trying to say "I can take more pain than you" is valid. I don't have a very high threshold for pain so I can't take nearly as much as I would mentally like. So when I find myself in some marks I become ridiculously happy and proud

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Love marks on me, reminders of the fun and naughtiness that was had mmmmm!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marks are like a visual and physical memory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do bdsm big time and impact is just part of that. The marks are an intensly personal reminder and we love them!

Sadly we have to reserve those pictures for a fetish website, they keep being rejected as 'too rude' for here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on who is approving them, one of ours showing the results of a caning I got was not approved but I submitted it again the next day and it was

M x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Love marks on me, reminders of the fun and naughtiness that was had mmmmm!!"
me too but only from the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

K loves bruising but isn't a fan of the pain so just looking for some workarounds for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love it. Specially when I'm out in public and can feel the bruises on my ass when I sit down

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Absolutely love it. Specially when I'm out in public and can feel the bruises on my ass when I sit down

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oh that is an awesome feeling... sadly I rarely bruise on my bottom

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Little reminders are yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many above, Slut love her reminders and to see the marks until they disappear

Leaving a blank canvas for more

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By *adHatter_RestrainedAliceCouple
over a year ago

In The Hills

Adore them, reminders to keep me going and when I spot them in the mirror brings a smile to my face

Alice x

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

My current dom likes to bite my breasts until he leaves bruises and I love it!

Early on in my journey I found I love bring spanked and one very lovely man offered to see how much I could take starting with his hand, then a paddle, then his belt (the sound of him pulling it off is the sexiest sound!) And finally a cane. My arse was bright red and a couple of days later I went to get a Hollywood wax forgetting completely about the bruises and my lady queried them so I had to lie and just say I fell really heavily

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By *urlyCatzWoman
over a year ago

Blackpool

I only like my ass when it's adorned with pretty blues/purples & reds, not so much the yellows.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes I do x it feels sexy upon reflection thag I've given my body to someone else to be used x

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By *henanigans100Couple
over a year ago

Buckie

Six red stripes, 3 on each buttock is a beautiful sight. We rarely use our cane but when we do we both have the extra pleasure of being aware of the marks, F more than M obviously! Especially if taken from behind over the next few days. Our little secret

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yup

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

"There are plenty of bdsm threads on here and people on here that are experienced in bdsm. They are also careful about their topics as I they know that certain threads disappear, as this one may.

Why would it disappear? Does Fabs have any policy against discussing these topics?

Discussing BDSM in its self isn't an issue and is perfectly acceptable, However you have to be careful when discussing injuring people even when its Consensual.

Most threads like this go OK but you always get some people who discuss really graphic or illegal things.

I know for example extreme BDSM photos are rejected.

Lol. Pics of even quite slight marks disappear. The site censors them quite heavily.

Ironic since they list SM as an interest, but not the BD that wouldn’t leave the marks they so obviously disapprove of. "

I tried posting one of me laying on my front with an anal hook in that was linked by rope to my collar...you actually couldn’t see anything explicit as it was taken from my head down but it got rejected as being ‘too rude for this site’

On the subject of markings, yes I love the feeling of sitting down a day or two after a session and feeling that twinge of pain from a bruised bottom! My favourite markings I think came from a belt rather than anything out of the toy box!

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By *urlyCatzWoman
over a year ago

Blackpool

"There are plenty of bdsm threads on here and people on here that are experienced in bdsm. They are also careful about their topics as I they know that certain threads disappear, as this one may.

Why would it disappear? Does Fabs have any policy against discussing these topics?

Discussing BDSM in its self isn't an issue and is perfectly acceptable, However you have to be careful when discussing injuring people even when its Consensual.

Most threads like this go OK but you always get some people who discuss really graphic or illegal things.

I know for example extreme BDSM photos are rejected.

Lol. Pics of even quite slight marks disappear. The site censors them quite heavily.

Ironic since they list SM as an interest, but not the BD that wouldn’t leave the marks they so obviously disapprove of.

Yet someone else was allowed to post a picture of me with a red bum, the paddle that had caused it and a hook in place that I wasn't aware had been taken. Go figure.

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I love the marks my dom leaves, especially if he's really gone to town on me and I'm black and blue before he even leaves my flat..

He likes me to send him pictures a day or to later when the real bruises start appearing..

I know I've been a really good sub when I've got bruises, took all he had to give and didn't use the safe word..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a dominate me tattoo on my leg x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

couple hear with male who enjoys being dominated.

Yes enjoy being marked, welts scratches, bites....we all have our kinks. X

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Im gutted that I seem to have magical skin that doesn't show heavy bruising and seems to heal all too quickly.

I love to see purpling and yellowing colours especially from big pressure bites rather than little nips and even more so if they come with balls of tissue damage underneath. Its delicious if they remain pokeable for days after to bring about thoughts of how they were earned.

I do like to see and touch the same where I have given this too as it brings feelings of a connection, trust and care between the two of you.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"The problem is that UK case law (R v Brown) came down against consensual marking inside a BDSM environment. Albeit I'd imagine that they judges may have been somewhat bias due to that particular case involving homosexual partners but alas it is still law. And it is states that you cannot legally consent to anything from actual bodily harm up. Whether bruises constitute abh type injuries is subjective. "

This cant be stated enough. Too many people believe that consent is enough in the eyes of the law to allow intentional harm or that they have the right to a private life.

Sadly not only do you have to contend with R v Brown (operation spanner) and the offences against the person act but you also have to deal with the 'Common law police disclosure' guidance which replaced the 'notifiable occupations scheme'. This allows the police to pass information about someone to an employer, or regulatory body, where there is a perceived public protection risk.

This is why discretion and privacy for a lot of kinksters is of paramount importance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the pain but don't want the Mark's

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I love BDSM but only practice with people who they know what are doing and who i completely trust , you wouldn't practice shibari or rope with someone who nothing knows about apart of having a rope, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!!!!

I am an absolute masochist. I LOVE bruises and marks left behind from an impact session.

Every time you poke one of those bruises, you get a little flashback of how it came to be...

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