FabSwingers.com forum: Dommes on the hunt

By *inran OP Woman
over a year ago

Dudley

I was just wondering how other dominant women found finding submissive play partners on here.

I get that I'm fussy and want someone to have had some bdsm experience before.

I'm also more into wider bdsm than a lot of the Dommes on here.

I find it really tricky to find the right people.

Yes I know this website isn't all about kink and there are others that I am a part of.

Subby guys girls or masochists how do you find it?

What helps cut through people to find those with a similar approach.

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

"I was just wondering how other dominant women found finding submissive play partners on here.

I get that I'm fussy and want someone to have had some bdsm experience before.

I'm also more into wider bdsm than a lot of the Dommes on here.

I find it really tricky to find the right people.

Yes I know this website isn't all about kink and there are others that I am a part of.

Subby guys girls or masochists how do you find it?

What helps cut through people to find those with a similar approach. "

I’m in the early stages of exploring my sub/bottom side and put a post up about female dommes on fab who would domme another woman. Got lots of interest and chat but little has come of it.

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By *inran OP Woman
over a year ago

Dudley

I love Domming women but find this is the hardest of my itches to scratch via fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was just wondering how other dominant women found finding submissive play partners on here.

I get that I'm fussy and want someone to have had some bdsm experience before.

I'm also more into wider bdsm than a lot of the Dommes on here.

I find it really tricky to find the right people.

Yes I know this website isn't all about kink and there are others that I am a part of.

Subby guys girls or masochists how do you find it?

What helps cut through people to find those with a similar approach. "

I haven't had any success in finding any subs on Fab yet.

There are so many wannabes or guys with no experience at all apart from what they have seen in porn!

I think if you want to find someone who is not going to be too needy or requires a lot of training you will need to look on the Fet website! Those of us in the know will immediately understand what I mean!

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By *inran OP Woman
over a year ago

Dudley

I am on there.

I have found a couple of awesome subs on here one who I still see.

I do some teaching so I tend to leave that website with my serious side and this one as my playful one.

It's somewhat comforting to find it's not just me though

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I was just wondering how other dominant women found finding submissive play partners on here.

I get that I'm fussy and want someone to have had some bdsm experience before.

I'm also more into wider bdsm than a lot of the Dommes on here.

I find it really tricky to find the right people.

Yes I know this website isn't all about kink and there are others that I am a part of.

Subby guys girls or masochists how do you find it?

What helps cut through people to find those with a similar approach.

I haven't had any success in finding any subs on Fab yet.

There are so many wannabes or guys with no experience at all apart from what they have seen in porn!

Yes I share the same experience as you. Too many wanna be subs. there easy to spot so you don't waste too much time.

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By *unshine94Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

Hey all I’m a sub guy and find it hard to find a Dom , I’d love to try pegging and serving a mistress

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland

"I was just wondering how other dominant women found finding submissive play partners on here.

I get that I'm fussy and want someone to have had some bdsm experience before.

I'm also more into wider bdsm than a lot of the Dommes on here.

I find it really tricky to find the right people.

Yes I know this website isn't all about kink and there are others that I am a part of.

Subby guys girls or masochists how do you find it?

What helps cut through people to find those with a similar approach.

I haven't had any success in finding any subs on Fab yet.

There are so many wannabes or guys with no experience at all apart from what they have seen in porn!

When you know, you know

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it's no different really from finding any other potential meet - it's about finding connection, chemistry and people that match what you are looking for - it's just the added "niche" factor makes it that bit more difficult because it makes the potential pool smaller.

As a submissive male whose submission is not an overriding factor, I don't actually advertise the fact, or specifically look for dominant partners.

I much prefer to find those that cater to that side of my sexuality organically through chatting to people and getting to know them a little - experience has shown it actually works better that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to find a domme but for most people I’m too young which is a shame, I want to try so many things and I’m very open minded, I did meet a domme before but we didn’t really explore many kinks it was mainly me giving oral but I hope I can find a domme to fully submit to and explore all my fantasies and test my boundaries and push them

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