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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people on here have such a downer on married men????....so many times have been called a cheater.... aren't we all cheating in some way or another

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Why do people on here have such a downer on married men????....so many times have been called a cheater.... aren't we all cheating in some way or another "

no, I am single

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm not. Not even when I take exams!

To be honest I have no problem meeting married men. Unfortunately, as they can usually only meet between 2pm and 4pm on the second Tuesday after a full moon, it doesn't make the meet enjoyable, so I tend to avoid them.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

No, we're not as we are both here and know what the other is doing. Z

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Why do people on here have such a downer on married men????....so many times have been called a cheater.... aren't we all cheating in some way or another "

Call me stupid but if your wife doesnt know then that does make you a cheater

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why do people on here have such a downer on married men????....so many times have been called a cheater.... aren't we all cheating in some way or another "

Nope, not cheating. In what way would a single person be cheating on here??

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Everyone has an opinion on the rights and wrongs of everything. Don't worry what other people think ...

As adults - we each choose our path through life - and we have to live with those choices.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Why do people on here have such a downer on married men????....so many times have been called a cheater.... aren't we all cheating in some way or another

Nope, not cheating. In what way would a single person be cheating on here?? "
...if you have a girl/boy friend...?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why do people on here have such a downer on married men????....so many times have been called a cheater.... aren't we all cheating in some way or another

Nope, not cheating. In what way would a single person be cheating on here?? ...if you have a girl/boy friend...?"

In which case they wouldn't be single

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

as for married people on here, not my business to be honest what others do.

I just believe people should be able to make informed choices across all preferences on here and that takes honesty on the part of the married/committed person to advise the potential meet.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Why do people on here have such a downer on married men????....so many times have been called a cheater.... aren't we all cheating in some way or another "

oooh... the "we all lie" defense...

bit of a difference between "I've only had 1 jaffa cake" when you have had 2..... and "i've been having sex behind the back of the one i profess to love more than any other in the world"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im single, i have a FB who ive been seeing amost 2 yrs but we arnt exclusive, im not deceiving anyone

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Why do people on here have such a downer on married men????....so many times have been called a cheater.... aren't we all cheating in some way or another

Nope, not cheating. In what way would a single person be cheating on here?? ...if you have a girl/boy friend...?

In which case they wouldn't be single "
Most people here seem to associate single with being 'not married'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok I worded it wrong lol....but aren't we allowed to have some fun as well....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

looks like I've opened a can of worms here ....lol

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why do people on here have such a downer on married men????....so many times have been called a cheater.... aren't we all cheating in some way or another

Nope, not cheating. In what way would a single person be cheating on here?? ...if you have a girl/boy friend...?

In which case they wouldn't be single Most people here seem to associate single with being 'not married'?"

Well I count single as single ...

Someone could be married or attached / in a relationship... any of these aren't single. IMO.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"ok I worded it wrong lol....but aren't we allowed to have some fun as well.... "

Yes, I suppose so - your wife's profile is always very busy, she's having loads of fun! Z

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

Not his thread again...take a read back through you'll get all the answers you need from as recent as a week ago...can't anyone think of anything diff ffs...why don't you take your wife shopping OP ?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm single...so who would I be cheating on?!!

It would NEVER cross my mind to contact someone and berate them for cheating and being on site. What does annoy me is I have "no married men" on my profile yet they contact me, then bitch and whine when I delete their message.

The bottom line is people generally don't give a fuck what others do, but you'll find married men, getting away with cheating on their wives, start threads on the forums about people not meeting them etc.

The ones that just get on with it don't get a lot of grief I bet.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why do people on here have such a downer on married men????....so many times have been called a cheater.... aren't we all cheating in some way or another "

Maybe if you were upfront on your profile and stated that you were married, people who are not interested in meeting with married / attached people playing away wouldnt get in touch with you ...... and you wouldnt get to the point of being called a cheater so often??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've always been open with my marital status...I love my wife but am in a sexless marriage and cant stand the thought of maybe the next 20 years or more without making love to a women is that so wrong?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

any person on here can have fun...

it is the bleating you get from some black/white/big/small/bi/married people as to why others don't want to meet them...and asking for justifications

rather than selecting profiles who state they will meet you and focusing on selling yourself better to them.

if you did sell yourself better, you would have plenty meets and not have time to moan.

good luck

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I've always been open with my marital status...I love my wife but am in a sexless marriage and cant stand the thought of maybe the next 20 years or more without making love to a women is that so wrong? "

To me, personally, yes - it's wrong. I'd be looking at why the marriage is sexless and perhaps trying to work on it, how would you feel if you discovered your wife was sleeping with other people? Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well miss trees has but me in my place lol...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Tell you what you should do, put it on your profile that your married then people can see it and its up to them if they contact you and dont start forum threads about being called a cheater as your just drawing attention to the fact.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why do people on here have such a downer on married men????....so many times have been called a cheater.... aren't we all cheating in some way or another

Maybe if you were upfront on your profile and stated that you were married, people who are not interested in meeting with married / attached people playing away wouldnt get in touch with you ...... and you wouldnt get to the point of being called a cheater so often??"

Clue for you: any profile with "discreet" more than once and asking for the same in playmates, code for married and cheating!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not going to win on this am I....if I told my wife that I would not be making love to her any more and she wanted to have other lovers it would not bother me I'd say go for it, because I would have loved my wife to join me on here as I'm not a jealous sort of guy...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Tell you what you should do, put it on your profile that your married then people can see it and its up to them if they contact you and dont start forum threads about being called a cheater as your just drawing attention to the fact."

That's the point surely? Someone will look at this thread and think "hmmmmm" ...or am I being cynical? Yeah...right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok ok I give up.....I'm in a minority I can see that....and yes I will add to my profile I'm married.....

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"ok ok I give up.....I'm in a minority I can see that....and yes I will add to my profile I'm married..... "

And while you're at it, remove the useless disclaimer....can't see your Missus being too happy if you spend the kids college fund on legal action cos someone's pinched your cock pic

For my tuppence worth, I don't mind meeting attached folk, but I like to know they're attached so that I don't waste my time messaging them for a lastminuteshag.com as they won't be able to make a quick trip to the Offie last long enough to get to mine and give me a good seeing to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not going to win on this am I....if I told my wife that I would not be making love to her any more and she wanted to have other lovers it would not bother me I'd say go for it, because I would have loved my wife to join me on here as I'm not a jealous sort of guy... "

oh ok, so you sat your wife down and said "listen dear, just cos you dont wanna shag anymore, i do, so im joining a swingers site, alright?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not going to win on this am I....if I told my wife that I would not be making love to her any more and she wanted to have other lovers it would not bother me I'd say go for it, because I would have loved my wife to join me on here as I'm not a jealous sort of guy... "

Just ask her then, she might like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok my profile now say's I'm married....hope that satisfies some of you .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does seem to be one rule for men and another for women though. There are loads of women on here presenting themselves as single who have wedding rings on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as I am single so don't have to lie to anyone about where I am going, what I have been doing, I've no need to take the wedding band off nor explain why I am not wearing it because I forgot to put it back on after a meet, nor do I have to explain why I smell of another person's perfume etc etc.

I am looking for single guys; to me cheaters are not single, not free and not available, certainly not when I am either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people on here have such a downer on married men????....so many times have been called a cheater.... aren't we all cheating in some way or another

Maybe if you were upfront on your profile and stated that you were married, people who are not interested in meeting with married / attached people playing away wouldnt get in touch with you ...... and you wouldnt get to the point of being called a cheater so often??

Clue for you: any profile with "discreet" more than once and asking for the same in playmates, code for married and cheating! "

Along with cannot accommodate and doesn't mention anywhere that they are single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok my profile now say's I'm married....hope that satisfies some of you ..... "

There are women on here who dont mind meeting married men, so why worry about the ones who dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people on here have such a downer on married men????...."

Because a lot of swingers are here with their partners enjoying a fully open and honest relationship with each other ....they won't like deceitful men (and women) because it goes against their values.


" so many times have been called a cheater.... aren't we all cheating in some way or another "

Genuine singles can't be cheating on partners they don't have!

Couples who are swinging together and have full knowledge of what each other is doing can't be labled as cheaters. The whole point being they they are honest and happy ....not lying and sneaking off behind each others backs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, we're not as we are both here and know what the other is doing. Z"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we have ponded this dilema,

and to be honest we both have said if your honest then neither one of us would stop the other having sex, and has a couple that the fem allows the male to play solo, we wouldnt care if he met a married women or not, As to the reason why she playing on her own or him isnt our problem or our right to judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take an interest in whether people are married or not, I am not and that is all that concerns me, but I agree with someone earlier the main problem with meeting married men is the lack of flexibility of when they can meet and for how long, single guys just are better meets generally xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

contact the above lol, apart from weds and sats any night is fine lmao

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"No, we're not as we are both here and know what the other is doing. Z

Ditto "

and us

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It does seem to be one rule for men and another for women though. There are loads of women on here presenting themselves as single who have wedding rings on."

Difference is they're not starting threads moaning about their lack of shags or bothering me to meet. They'd get the same response if they did.

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