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"Any couples into 3 way poly relationship? If so tell us. We want the same x" 4 way would be even better. | |||
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"We are.. Had been in 1 for a short while over a year. Started off as her meeting him alone, and went from there. Then we all agreed, it is what it is lol. They went away for weekends, meals out, cinema etc stayed at his every other weekend.. It was weird at first but it worked.. They always went out of town so didn't get seen off friends/family the whole time.. If anything it brightened our relationship up 1 thing we didn't do tho was all meet together.." Very interesting guys! something we are thought about x | |||
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"It takes EFFORT and all need to be on the absolute same page With a HECK load of communication more than normal " Yes we know that x | |||
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"I'm poly but tend to meet and relate one to one. I do however, sometimes hang out with one of my lovers and his wife. It's very natural and easy.. We all get on well. But I only have intimacy with him. " I love being like that with metas | |||
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"Four way would be fab " It would. but finding a couple that are basically into wife swapping isn't gona happen. Lol | |||
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"Have enjoyed this with several couples over the years some lasted several years even holidays together ?? " You have had several long sexual relationships with couples? | |||
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" Oddly we just postedvthis elsewhere....but what we said was...We are very much open marriage which provides individual freedom as well as fun as a couple. Certainly not all plain sailing, but we have ironed out the kinks now. ( Excuse the pun ) We consider ourselves bombproof from a relationship point of view. And when there is an emotional connection, we are cool with it. Currently there is a regular,weekly overnight connection between Mrs and a guy. We both know, that the mental and emotional connection between them will grow. But our deep affection is not compromised. She can give herself wholly to him when she is in his bed. And they have created their own sexual repertoire which belongs to them. Works for us" This is very much like us bombproof, but the difference is we don’t flaunt our lovers or even talk about them much, we are in a solid loving relationship, best friends, we play as a couple and we give each other space to see other people as singles as and when needed and don’t try and fill 100% of each other’s needs - which is impossible and futile. The feeling I think is called compersion. | |||
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" Oddly we just postedvthis elsewhere....but what we said was...We are very much open marriage which provides individual freedom as well as fun as a couple. Certainly not all plain sailing, but we have ironed out the kinks now. ( Excuse the pun ) We consider ourselves bombproof from a relationship point of view. And when there is an emotional connection, we are cool with it. Currently there is a regular,weekly overnight connection between Mrs and a guy. We both know, that the mental and emotional connection between them will grow. But our deep affection is not compromised. She can give herself wholly to him when she is in his bed. And they have created their own sexual repertoire which belongs to them. Works for us This is very much like us bombproof, but the difference is we don’t flaunt our lovers or even talk about them much, we are in a solid loving relationship, best friends, we play as a couple and we give each other space to see other people as singles as and when needed and don’t try and fill 100% of each other’s needs - which is impossible and futile. The feeling I think is called compersion." Compersion - only came across this word a couple of weeks ago and explains how I feel about Mr being with another man. x | |||
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"Did this with a couple in my late teens early 20's which was really comfortable but as has been said it needs lots of open honest conversation, would love to do it again though. " How old was the couple? Why did it end? | |||
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"We are.. Had been in 1 for a short while over a year. Started off as her meeting him alone, and went from there. Then we all agreed, it is what it is lol. They went away for weekends, meals out, cinema etc stayed at his every other weekend.. It was weird at first but it worked.. They always went out of town so didn't get seen off friends/family the whole time.. If anything it brightened our relationship up 1 thing we didn't do tho was all meet together.." Sounds great. Did you find a partner for yourself? | |||
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"Did this with a couple in my late teens early 20's which was really comfortable but as has been said it needs lots of open honest conversation, would love to do it again though. How old was the couple? Why did it end?" They were late 30s I moved away with work unfortunately | |||
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"This is something we are very interested in also... has people got any pointers into what to look for... Xx" I know it sounds odd but try not to look for it. We weren't looking for a quad relationship but we just got really close to another couple who we all ended up really liking, and then it progressed really naturally. Trying to find someone who you trust and can have fun with is the most important though we think. Mrs Red x | |||
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"I do often wish there was a third person in our relationship, but not necessarily for sex... " kissing holding hands? | |||
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"I’ve enjoyed a 3way relationship long term worh a cuck couple but a proper 4way dynamic would be amazing " Like having a gf and a bf to romance and sexual How long lasting? | |||
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" Oddly we just postedvthis elsewhere....but what we said was...We are very much open marriage which provides individual freedom as well as fun as a couple. Certainly not all plain sailing, but we have ironed out the kinks now. ( Excuse the pun ) We consider ourselves bombproof from a relationship point of view. And when there is an emotional connection, we are cool with it. Currently there is a regular,weekly overnight connection between Mrs and a guy. We both know, that the mental and emotional connection between them will grow. But our deep affection is not compromised. She can give herself wholly to him when she is in his bed. And they have created their own sexual repertoire which belongs to them. Works for us" Sounds perfect. I too have the freedom in my marriage xx | |||
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"We have been looking for something like this for the past year, but no luck. " Hi let’s chat | |||
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"I'm poly but tend to meet and relate one to one. I do however, sometimes hang out with one of my lovers and his wife. It's very natural and easy.. We all get on well. But I only have intimacy with him. " We are the same with twisted wife for now but we are hoping when things get back to normal and we can go to clubs together we will all play together. I sleep with them both once a week and only have sex with him for now but we are hoping that will change, it just takes time and trust | |||
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"Any couples into 3 way poly relationship? If so tell us. We want the same x" Well when myself and my first wife were in our mid to late 20's we had a 19yr old Lad basically move in with us in our marital bed for around 2 and a half years and he was HUNG like a horse fucking awesome in bed with my mrs and although he played straight he allowed me to touch and suck whilst i was down pleasuring the the mrs he made sure that was under the duvet and nothing was ever spoke about it . So yeah LOVED IT while it lasted BUT he got too emotionally attracted to the mrs and as WE had kids he had no job so we returned as a couple to just play daily 3 somes with different lads always the same age for the stamina i guess . | |||
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"We very interested if any local to staffs" God you guys look fab | |||
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"Any couples into 3 way poly relationship? If so tell us. We want the same x" . It must be very arousing. What it is the best. A beautiful unicorn or a stag to join a couple? | |||
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"From a previous thread. We lived in an exclusive poly relationship for more than 20 years. The sex is actually a very small aspect to it. It is exactly the same as a couple with all of life's normal stresses and joys but with 3 of you. You do have a 3rd person for support and sharing the stresses which can be great but it truly only works if all of you are completely in love. For us it just worked even though it was unplanned and one day we just realised what we had become. We don't think you can go out looking for such a relationship it will find you if you are fortunate enough." | |||
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