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"Why would you have to declare it? " I like you but I think you should know... I have pubes " If a guy freaks out because your foof has fur then that's on him. I was in 2 minds when I first grew mine back but in all honesty I've found most guys don't really care if there's hair or not. Surprisingly a fair whack prefer some there. "I actually really like it, feels all warm and womanly, maybe its my age haha. And I dont know, feels like theres a bit of a stigma to having pubes these days  | |||
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"does this mean all men can be lazy too and grow beards?" I wish they would, as long as they trim them neatly & I'll do the same | |||
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"Why would you have to declare it? " I like you but I think you should know... I have pubes " If a guy freaks out because your foof has fur then that's on him. I was in 2 minds when I first grew mine back but in all honesty I've found most guys don't really care if there's hair or not. Surprisingly a fair whack prefer some there. I actually really like it, feels all warm and womanly, maybe its my age haha.
And I dont know, feels like theres a bit of a stigma to having pubes these days "Mine have grown on me too. I first grew them for a charity wax, I was kinda sad to see them go. With the lockdown & not meeting there was no reason to get waxed so I just neaten them into a heart now. I've had lots of positive comments & messages which has been nice off women as well as men. If you like it then it doesn't matter if anyone else does.  | |||
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"I love a great big bushy beard! Ive already had a message as a result of this thread saying that "men would be more likely to want to go down on me if i was shaved" "Not sure I'd want to play with someone who wanted me to change any of my appearance to suit them tbh there's plenty of men out there  | |||
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"And Bossy, Im having the biggest hair envy after looking at your pics (head hair that is although the heart is lovely) I love the pretty colours soooo much! "Thank you | |||
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"No harm in asking a prospective meet's opinion on the furry foof - especially if you're hoping for plenty of oral " good round about way of letting them know | |||
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"Why would you have to declare it? " I like you but I think you should know... I have pubes " If a guy freaks out because your foof has fur then that's on him. I was in 2 minds when I first grew mine back but in all honesty I've found most guys don't really care if there's hair or not. Surprisingly a fair whack prefer some there. I actually really like it, feels all warm and womanly, maybe its my age haha.
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"Why would you have to declare it? " I like you but I think you should know... I have pubes " If a guy freaks out because your foof has fur then that's on him. I was in 2 minds when I first grew mine back but in all honesty I've found most guys don't really care if there's hair or not. Surprisingly a fair whack prefer some there. I actually really like it, feels all warm and womanly, maybe its my age haha.
And I dont know, feels like theres a bit of a stigma to having pubes these days "Pubes are great. Nothing wrong with them on a lady whatsoever. | |||
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"If hes not willing to put tongue work in on a natural Bush then he doesn't deserve it when it's all groomed...these millennial folk have to learn what it was like for us back in the day stairing down the barrel of a untrimed soaking wet backy pouch... "Dear god, you make it sound so inviting! | |||
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"If hes not willing to put tongue work in on a natural Bush then he doesn't deserve it when it's all groomed...these millennial folk have to learn what it was like for us back in the day stairing down the barrel of a untrimed soaking wet backy pouch... "Omg I have just wet my knickers | |||
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"If hes not willing to put tongue work in on a natural Bush then he doesn't deserve it when it's all groomed...these millennial folk have to learn what it was like for us back in the day stairing down the barrel of a untrimed soaking wet backy pouch...
Omg I have just wet my knickers"glad I could help | |||
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"If hes not willing to put tongue work in on a natural Bush then he doesn't deserve it when it's all groomed...these millennial folk have to learn what it was like for us back in the day stairing down the barrel of a untrimed soaking wet backy pouch... Dear god, you make it sound so inviting! " oh I never said it wasnt inviting it's far from horrid I'd say it's almost an irregular occurrence in these days of the eggshell finish and padded brass of today .. | |||
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"does this mean all men can be lazy too and grow beards?" Laughing hard | |||
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"Have become very lazy over lock down and am still sporting tuftyness down below. I kind of like it but recently read a story about a woman who started dating after her marriage ended and when things got frisky with a younger guy he apparently screamed when he discovered her downstair hair! Is this something you would warn people about before you met them?? Dont want my muff to scare any young men "I can’t say how off putting that would be, a man screaming because of pubic hair. I’d be kicking him right out of bed | |||
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"Why would you have to declare it? " I like you but I think you should know... I have pubes " If a guy freaks out because your foof has fur then that's on him. I was in 2 minds when I first grew mine back but in all honesty I've found most guys don't really care if there's hair or not. Surprisingly a fair whack prefer some there. I actually really like it, feels all warm and womanly, maybe its my age haha.
And I dont know, feels like theres a bit of a stigma to having pubes these days "If you like it, then keep it. People shouldn't wax/shave because of society pressure, or because they are worried what people think. Why would you want to spend time with anyone, who would only meet you because you were shaved/smooth because that was their preference, and not yours? It's your body.... Never feel pressured xx | |||
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"Have become very lazy over lock down and am still sporting tuftyness down below. I kind of like it but recently read a story about a woman who started dating after her marriage ended and when things got frisky with a younger guy he apparently screamed when he discovered her downstair hair! Is this something you would warn people about before you met them?? Dont want my muff to scare any young men "Bloody millennials | |||
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"Have become very lazy over lock down and am still sporting tuftyness down below. I kind of like it but recently read a story about a woman who started dating after her marriage ended and when things got frisky with a younger guy he apparently screamed when he discovered her downstair hair! Is this something you would warn people about before you met them?? Dont want my muff to scare any young men "This actually happened to me the first time I went to bed with my latest FWB. We met up for a brunch date and got in well, so went back to my place, initially just to chat and listen to music. Things gradually got more intimite and we moved to the bed but she stopped me taking her knickers off. I happened to notice some hair peeking out of the top of her waistband and asked her if she was embarrassed because she hadn't shaved and she admitted that she was - she'd not been to bed with a man since a relationship break-up months before and hadn't shaved since then as there'd been no point. She hadn't expected to end up in bed with me that day so hadn't thought she'd need to shave. I managed to convince her that it was no problem to me at all and she did let me take off her knickers and go down on her, which relaxed her as she saw how enthusiastic I was despite the hair (and there was quite a lot of it, it grew thick). I told her that I thought she was really sexy with a bush and I'd have no problem with her being as hairy as that every time we met up. She did relax about it but the next time she came over most of the hair was gone as that was how she was more comfortable. I think any man who can't cope with the fact that hair grows on a woman's body isn't mature enough to go to bed with one. Everyone has their preferences and that's fine, but to get freaked out by something as natural as hair is just silly. I doubt the man in question insisted that the woman had a shaved head - after all, that's where hair grows thickest on a woman's body. Personally I like women with pubes and I like women without them. Ultimately it's the woman's body so the woman's decision and no-one should have to broadcast their intimate grooming choices in advance. | |||
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"Have become very lazy over lock down and am still sporting tuftyness down below. I kind of like it but recently read a story about a woman who started dating after her marriage ended and when things got frisky with a younger guy he apparently screamed when he discovered her downstair hair! Is this something you would warn people about before you met them?? Dont want my muff to scare any young men
This actually happened to me the first time I went to bed with my latest FWB. We met up for a brunch date and got in well, so went back to my place, initially just to chat and listen to music. Things gradually got more intimite and we moved to the bed but she stopped me taking her knickers off. I happened to notice some hair peeking out of the top of her waistband and asked her if she was embarrassed because she hadn't shaved and she admitted that she was - she'd not been to bed with a man since a relationship break-up months before and hadn't shaved since then as there'd been no point. She hadn't expected to end up in bed with me that day so hadn't thought she'd need to shave. I managed to convince her that it was no problem to me at all and she did let me take off her knickers and go down on her, which relaxed her as she saw how enthusiastic I was despite the hair (and there was quite a lot of it, it grew thick). I told her that I thought she was really sexy with a bush and I'd have no problem with her being as hairy as that every time we met up. She did relax about it but the next time she came over most of the hair was gone as that was how she was more comfortable.
I think any man who can't cope with the fact that hair grows on a woman's body isn't mature enough to go to bed with one. Everyone has their preferences and that's fine, but to get freaked out by something as natural as hair is just silly. I doubt the man in question insisted that the woman had a shaved head - after all, that's where hair grows thickest on a woman's body.
Personally I like women with pubes and I like women without them. Ultimately it's the woman's body so the woman's decision and no-one should have to broadcast their intimate grooming choices in advance. "That said, if you or any other Fab ladies are concerned about the current states of your bushes, feel free to send me pictures of them and I'll give you an honest opinion before you head out on your next dates  | |||
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"Why would you have to declare it? " I like you but I think you should know... I have pubes " If a guy freaks out because your foof has fur then that's on him. I was in 2 minds when I first grew mine back but in all honesty I've found most guys don't really care if there's hair or not. Surprisingly a fair whack prefer some there. "And may I saw how lush and lovely your bush is? I'd be happy to have it on my face. | |||
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"No harm in asking a prospective meet's opinion on the furry foof - especially if you're hoping for plenty of oral "I've been with women who didn't even trim and they got plenty of oral from me. I've never understood this idea that pubes are somehow disgusting enough to be a barrier to oral. Yes, oral is *easier* on a shaved pussy but there's something delightfully primal about eating your way through a bush... Again, personal preferences are fine, but if someone would refuse to go down on a woman because they haven't shaved then the issue is theirs not hers. | |||
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"No harm in asking a prospective meet's opinion on the furry foof - especially if you're hoping for plenty of oral "Incidentally - your pictures are beautful but I especially like the 12th of April... | |||
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"We've never had a problem with meets because of K's hair, a lot of men really like it and chase after her as a result. I remember when fully shaved really became the norm and in reality it is very boring!" I think K's hair is lovely (as is the rest of her) and I can see why guys would chase her. I'd do some running in her direction myself. | |||
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"Why would you have to declare it? " I like you but I think you should know... I have pubes " If a guy freaks out because your foof has fur then that's on him. I was in 2 minds when I first grew mine back but in all honesty I've found most guys don't really care if there's hair or not. Surprisingly a fair whack prefer some there. I actually really like it, feels all warm and womanly, maybe its my age haha.
And I dont know, feels like theres a bit of a stigma to having pubes these days
If you like it, then keep it.
People shouldn't wax/shave because of society pressure, or because they are worried what people think.
Why would you want to spend time with anyone, who would only meet you because you were shaved/smooth because that was their preference, and not yours?
It's your body.... Never feel pressured xx " | |||
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"Not comment on you particularly OP, but if anyone had a huge bush it would definitely scare me away. I don’t mind *some* hair, but if it looks ungroomed then it sends me the signal that the person doesn’t take care of themselves " There is nothing unhygienic about pubic hair at all. It's there for a reason and can be kept clean like any other part of the body. And if you can see their pubes you can surely already tell if 'take care of themselves' in most ways? | |||
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"I mention my well behaved bush on my profile. "You do! I've imagined it often...  | |||
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"Not comment on you particularly OP, but if anyone had a huge bush it would definitely scare me away. I don’t mind *some* hair, but if it looks ungroomed then it sends me the signal that the person doesn’t take care of themselves " Do you prefer if they curl it or straighten it? | |||
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"I'm also sporting a lockdown bush and have decided when the waxing salons open again that I will only be getting my bikini line and undercarriage done and keeping a nice, hairy triangle on top. Funnily enough I've received more negative comments about it from older men than younger men. A lot of younger men seem to be really into it at the moment. I guess they've probably grown up in the era of everyone being smooth so its an exciting novelty for them. I probably would mention it in advance to any new meets. Not because I'm willing to change for them. More to decide if their reaction would stop me wanting to meet them. " I think these things go in cycles like fashion. People like something, everyone does it, then people start to get bored of it and want a bit of variety. I remember I was watching some 70s porn and all the women had bushes. Then this one woman slid her knickers down and she was completely hairless. In the context of the film, her being shaved was extremely erotic, not because it was inherantly sexier but because she was the only one and the variety and unexpectedness of it was hot. But when I watch modern porn it's the opposite - every time a woman undresses I'm hoping this one will have hair
(yes I know there's plenty of porn that advertises hair but you know what I mean).
(also - this is a personal quirk but seeing a shaved pussy on 70s film stock makes it even hotter as I expect it in modern picture quality but not in that grainy film look - have I just discovered a new fetish? ) | |||
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"I’ve let mine grow since Dec and it’s here to stay ... it’s mine and if you don’t like it then jog on . I agree that younger men seem fascinated ..the older ones have the negative comments ..I have been mentioning that I’m sporting the natural look "I'm sure your bush is utterly delightful and any man lucky enough to see it will not be at all disappointed. | |||
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"I’ve let mine grow since Dec and it’s here to stay ... it’s mine and if you don’t like it then jog on . I agree that younger men seem fascinated ..the older ones have the negative comments ..I have been mentioning that I’m sporting the natural look
I'm sure your bush is utterly delightful and any man lucky enough to see it will not be at all disappointed. "Thanks | |||
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"I'm also sporting a lockdown bush and have decided when the waxing salons open again that I will only be getting my bikini line and undercarriage done and keeping a nice, hairy triangle on top. Funnily enough I've received more negative comments about it from older men than younger men. A lot of younger men seem to be really into it at the moment. I guess they've probably grown up in the era of everyone being smooth so its an exciting novelty for them. I probably would mention it in advance to any new meets. Not because I'm willing to change for them. More to decide if their reaction would stop me wanting to meet them. " Your 21st April picture - bush and vinyl. Two of my favourite things | |||
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"Not comment on you particularly OP, but if anyone had a huge bush it would definitely scare me away. I don’t mind *some* hair, but if it looks ungroomed then it sends me the signal that the person doesn’t take care of themselves Do you prefer if they curl it or straighten it?" Might start putting hair clips in mine ha ha | |||
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"Not comment on you particularly OP, but if anyone had a huge bush it would definitely scare me away. I don’t mind *some* hair, but if it looks ungroomed then it sends me the signal that the person doesn’t take care of themselves " How strange. So we wash clean our teeth wipe our bum ect ect that's considered looking after ourselves good hygiene ect. But god forbid if you don't trim your pubes your not looking after ourselves. It called natural because it is natural. OCD on cleanliness me thinks | |||
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"No harm in asking a prospective meet's opinion on the furry foof - especially if you're hoping for plenty of oral
I've been with women who didn't even trim and they got plenty of oral from me. I've never understood this idea that pubes are somehow disgusting enough to be a barrier to oral. Yes, oral is *easier* on a shaved pussy but there's something delightfully primal about eating your way through a bush...
Again, personal preferences are fine, but if someone would refuse to go down on a woman because they haven't shaved then the issue is theirs not hers. "Agreed - wasn't saying who the issue is with, was just suggesting it can be an issue and best to raise it before a meet to avoid disappointment of either party | |||
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"A lot of profiles ask for "smooth in the important places" and other such euphemisms that basically mean they don't want to meet people with pubic hair. If I have pubic hair at the time we just don't meet them. If they don't state it we assume they don't mind either way." L's bush in your most recent pictures is very sexy - as is she in general. | |||
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"I’ve always been hairy down below and never warned any fella before joining fab, and nobody ever got up and ran off screaming. However so many men on here are a bit wary i do let them know, because i’m not shaving it or my pits for no-one."
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"I’ve always been hairy down below and never warned any fella before joining fab, and nobody ever got up and ran off screaming. However so many men on here are a bit wary i do let them know, because i’m not shaving it or my pits for no-one." Good for you girl. Shame we can't see your Bush and pits | |||
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"A lot of profiles ask for "smooth in the important places" and other such euphemisms that basically mean they don't want to meet people with pubic hair. If I have pubic hair at the time we just don't meet them. If they don't state it we assume they don't mind either way. L's bush in your most recent pictures is very sexy - as is she in general." thank you | |||
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"Not comment on you particularly OP, but if anyone had a huge bush it would definitely scare me away. I don’t mind *some* hair, but if it looks ungroomed then it sends me the signal that the person doesn’t take care of themselves Do you prefer if they curl it or straighten it? Might start putting hair clips in mine ha ha " Hahaha | |||
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"At first I was like noooo, why should I tell them? They are meeting me, they'll be happy enough regardless of my hair. Then I realised I do actually try and gauge their hair preference and make sure I'm not outside of it. Even with my partners I make sure they are not ermm... put off by my hair? They've never been so but I think societal pressures have left me feeling like anything longer than a couple of mms might make their cock shrivel up permanently inside of them." That's definitely societal pressures. Obviously I was a young woman from the mid 70s on when you were considered a bit daring if you removed more than the stray hair that stuck out of the side of your bikini bottoms  . That's shaped my indifference to pubic hair I think | |||
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"I’ve always been hairy down below and never warned any fella before joining fab, and nobody ever got up and ran off screaming. However so many men on here are a bit wary i do let them know, because i’m not shaving it or my pits for no-one. Good for you girl. Shame we can't see your Bush and pits " I have seen them (in picture form) and they are quite spectacular, I can assure you. | |||
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"At first I was like noooo, why should I tell them? They are meeting me, they'll be happy enough regardless of my hair. Then I realised I do actually try and gauge their hair preference and make sure I'm not outside of it. Even with my partners I make sure they are not ermm... put off by my hair? They've never been so but I think societal pressures have left me feeling like anything longer than a couple of mms might make their cock shrivel up permanently inside of them." You're absolutely gorgeous and the idea of anyone being put off you by pubic hair is beyond my comprehension. | |||
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"Why would you have to declare it? " I like you but I think you should know... I have pubes " If a guy freaks out because your foof has fur then that's on him. I was in 2 minds when I first grew mine back but in all honesty I've found most guys don't really care if there's hair or not. Surprisingly a fair whack prefer some there.
And may I saw how lush and lovely your bush is? I'd be happy to have it on my face. "Thank you | |||
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"Why would you have to declare it? " I like you but I think you should know... I have pubes " If a guy freaks out because your foof has fur then that's on him. I was in 2 minds when I first grew mine back but in all honesty I've found most guys don't really care if there's hair or not. Surprisingly a fair whack prefer some there.
And may I saw how lush and lovely your bush is? I'd be happy to have it on my face.
Thank you "Never thought I would ever compliment someone on their pubes but yes, your lady bush is quite striking. | |||
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