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Do you like the thrill of meeting someone new or keeping old friend?

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Personally I prefer keeping old friends.where do you stand on this?

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Both but I get a buzz of excitement meeting someone new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always prefer meeting old friends. The chemistry (not just sexual) gets better the better you know someone.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Both

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I like to keep my circle of friends quite small and find meeting the same people regularly allows you to learn about each other and the sex gers better & better. But it is nice to occasionally go to clubs & meet new people or arrange one to one socials and take things from there

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

The thrill of tasting something new vs exploring the next level with someone you know, depends on the mood. And when tired and needy , sometimes just need someone who knows you well and asks for nothing

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There is nothing more amazing than the build up to a first meet. The getting to know each other’s likes and dislikes, talking about what you want to do and then the social is my favourite. Flirting, butterflies and anticipation of that first touch. I love it.

In saying that, I’ve met some amazing regular fun friends here that works perfectly and each time gets better and better. You know what you’re getting and how to turn each other on.

Both are great.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Both for me. I wouldn't give up an old friend for a new one though

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We're quite new to this still but from our experience so far I think we will do a bit of both. We've met some people we definitely want to have more fun with but also like the build up and thrill to meeting someone new.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want to experience the thrill of meeting someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely both..

Love the excitement of a new meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never met anyone yet new to this so don’t really know how it goes but I can imagine it being exciting

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Both. We like the social side and repeat play with friends is always fun. Still like meeting new people as well. It's nice to meet new people and a thrill not knowing what going to happen next. Flirting to see if things will progress to the next level or not.

Cant win them all obviously but fun to see where things go.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I love the excitement of meeting new people. I do like regular FWBs too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to keep old friends but could be tempted with a newbie if it felt right

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By *nique_78Woman
over a year ago

Home, somewhere in Norfolk

Both, old friends started out as someone new at one stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be nice to get 1 meet fullstop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thrill of meeting someone new is why I keep coming back to the site. Obviously I run away and delete my account when it gets to a certain stage though. Rinse and repeat.

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Ive recently cone back to fab after a few years and ive been looking up old friends, havent met anyone yet but feels easier and safer to meet people I know I can trust and that are safe and fun

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Love new but you can't beat the thrill of old friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am on the autistic spectrum so I find it hard to relax with new people... I may come across fine but women are very good at hiding what’s actually happening.

So- I don’t really enjoy that first meet with someone new very often... it may be fun... and the memories of what we did turn me on.... but the actual sex isn’t as good as with someone who I have slowly allowed to see the real me.

That takes a long time for me- and there is only one couple on here that are taking the time to patiently achieve that... that’s when the hottest, kinkiest fun happens!

Mrs P x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Both. The day I stop getting butterflies when meeting both is the day I leave Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The meeting someone new. The excitement, that naughty feeling and being kissed and touched by someone new. Is the reason why we are on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting someone new. Or someone old you haven't seen for awhile. I couldn't be doing with meeting the same people too regularly.

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By *inks_n_GigglesMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Meeting someone new, always that one off buzz, when you first see them, see their smile, see the real person behind all the chat, then you know instantly if its going to be great or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to keep my circle of friends quite small and find meeting the same people regularly allows you to learn about each other and the sex gers better & better. But it is nice to occasionally go to clubs & meet new people or arrange one to one socials and take things from there "

What she said

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

Half the fun is meeting people for the first time. Weather that be in clubs or out of them. Not sure what people say are old friends as it starts to become more than it should be if you have regular fucks with the same person. Once is good, twice is great and a third time we'll sparks can fly but that would be it as I have my hubby and don't want any ties.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Old friends you can count on. Though love that buzz excitement of meeting new people

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I enjoy both, but I usually have more fun with old friends than on a first meet.

I am very selective about who I choose to call a friend though.

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By *orchOliverMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

You never know when a new meeting will turn into an old friend with time.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

An old friend, but if he wants to bring someone new..always up for a threesome

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Friends superb but after meeting them all the time the sex gets predictable so the thrill of meeting new people adds to the excitement got to have s mixture of both

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london

like to remain friend.But the anticipation of meeting new person is a thrill for a lot of people.That is why swining is so addictive

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Love the thrill of meeting new but also the comfort and erotic times with old friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You never know when a new meeting will turn into an old friend with time."

Bingo!

Pre lockdown my preference was always for regular with friends because as people mentioned, chemistry/connection gets better.

Due to lockdown my screen time increased so been fortunate enough to engage with many people I never spoken with and reconnected with those I have known of for years! Have many things in common with similar interests, but some will fizzle out (for various reasons) as is the way for all new potential meets.

All I know is this has been the perfect time to get to know more people and there are a few more that are yet to engage so time will tell how things go there...

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

There's always a distinct thrill to be had in meeting someone new, but re-visiting old friends is just as exciting...

....with the 'new', it's the anticipation of what's to come - and with the 'old', it's the knowledge of what's to come...

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

There are one or two guys and women I'm more than happy to keep meeting, but I do love totally anonymous sex with one or more guys too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I crave for new - now more than ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Love the thrill. But sometimes familiarity is nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on what you are after on here

For some it is purely sexual experimentation and the lure of new is overwhelming.

For others it is finding a special FB and stick with them to add spice to their life.

For me I suppose I , like many others I think, am in the middle - I love seeing friends who I know and enjoy and to add a little new fun to the mix

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