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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Why do men say to me I'm interested in them just because I view their profiles? (I gone into mode now) but I be interested to hear from men if they think the same...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men say to me I'm interested in them just because I view their profiles? (I gone into mode now) but I be interested to hear from men if they think the same... "

I think it maybe depends on the guy? I get alot of messages from other guys and ladies don't really tend to reply to my messages which I get because no doubt I'm message 1 of 1000 in their mail box.

If an attractive female views my profile I like to think that it would mean they would be likely to have a conversation with me if that makes any sense at all?

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey


"Why do men say to me I'm interested in them just because I view their profiles? (I gone into mode now) but I be interested to hear from men if they think the same... "

Men don’t have that much interest from ladies as you might from men xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went from mode to non mode the other day as I don't care if people see I have viewed their profile and they can think what they want from it.

If they message me off the back of it, then I deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. If someone looks without messaging they are most likely, either, just curious about something I’ve posted on the forum or more probably not interested.

I use stealth mode as I don’t want people thinking I was interested because I looked. I’m a nosey fucker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to find this stealth mode you all speak off

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

I nosy in stealth mode too because I won’t know if there’s anything there or not until after looking, I don’t know any other way to check

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

If viewers like what they see they might chat but if not they don't deserve to be harassed for a little peek and run

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"If viewers like what they see they might chat but if not they don't deserve to be harassed for a little peek and run "

If I'm dipping my toes... I send a wink. I had a gorgeous gal after my own heart winking at me the other day, I winked back but then read her bio saying she doesn't reply back to winks. But she winked first so Im guessing she wants me to message her. But because I'm not into women and she winked first. I'm leaving it for her to message. So basically if I'm interested I wink or directly send a message. certainly not just by looking at their profile. But men do question why I looked at their profiles if I am not interested...

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Why do men say to me I'm interested in them just because I view their profiles? (I gone into mode now) but I be interested to hear from men if they think the same...

I think it maybe depends on the guy? I get alot of messages from other guys and ladies don't really tend to reply to my messages which I get because no doubt I'm message 1 of 1000 in their mail box.

If an attractive female views my profile I like to think that it would mean they would be likely to have a conversation with me if that makes any sense at all? "

unfortunately most profiles I view I am not interested

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I nosy in stealth mode too because I won’t know if there’s anything there or not until after looking, I don’t know any other way to check "

but it shouldn't be an issue checking people out. I duno how people can assume I'm interested just because I looked. so staying stelth mode to avoid any unnecessary discussions

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By *siancouplehantsCouple
over a year ago

K-PAX

We sometimes look at a guys profile because he looked at us 1st..Then we get a message from him saying "Hey I noticed you looked at my profile"..Very annoying

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i


"I nosy in stealth mode too because I won’t know if there’s anything there or not until after looking, I don’t know any other way to check

but it shouldn't be an issue checking people out. I duno how people can assume I'm interested just because I looked. so staying stelth mode to avoid any unnecessary discussions "

Exactly this, if I look and don’t message or wink then I’m obviously not interested but if we don’t use stealth mode, we get a new bombardment of why not and preference apparently isn’t a good enough reason somehow

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By *irenGuy70Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

To some guys it's no skin off their nose to spend 1 minute sending a message to try to elicit a response from someone that's noticed them. I personally wouldn't message unless it was a frequent viewer, or a wink, and I thought I was what they were looking for and they were what I'm looking for. I look at profiles for all sorts of reasons, not just because I might fancy them as I generally like looking at profiles, however if most people messaged me just because I looked at them I think I'd might have to go ninja myself

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Why do men say to me I'm interested in them just because I view their profiles? (I gone into mode now) but I be interested to hear from men if they think the same... "

I decided to show briefly, but then it would be obvious to those I perv at frequently & that may not be good!

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By *reaming of pleasingMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know

Wouldn’t think they were interested unless there has been a wink or fabbed some pics, anything else I’d assume they were just looking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often look at the profiles of people who post on the forums....often its just being nosy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because most men get very few views from women (that they can see anyway), so when one does look, they get all excited!

I don't care who's viewed my profile, it means nothing if they don't take the extra step and message me.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Over 200 views so far, nothing for the women on here but out of those I’d say 10 I’d like a wink or message.

That they don’t, doesn’t bother me but one or two who do look, I must admit I’m surprised as I’m certainly not what they’re looking for at all

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Wouldn’t think they were interested unless there has been a wink or fabbed some pics, anything else I’d assume they were just looking!"

I'm really confusing as I fab and wink at people I'm not sexually interested in, just wana make friends with them

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

To be honest it’s nice to know someone looked at me. but I will only message if I’m interested but I am also looking for that quirky profile

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By *estrained_DallianceMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'd probably only think they were interested if repeated viewings... But to be honest unless someone sends a wink or a message I'd assume just browsing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men say to me I'm interested in them just because I view their profiles? (I gone into mode now) but I be interested to hear from men if they think the same... "

Wishful thinking?

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