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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it a turn on or a turn off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel the urge to do it, but so far I haven't found a woman who likes it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I wouldn't be a fan

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Turn off. I like to control that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That never happened to me. And never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/07/20 18:34:07]"

Too slow.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

He would get a slap

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He would get a slap"

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK? "

Probably not.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK? "

More like a punch in the balls

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Very much depends on who it is. When M does it I absolutely love it, but its not something I would necessarily allow a meet to do.

K

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Like all things sexual, if it's consensual, then yes please I love it

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls"

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yea, that’s not going down well.

I am nobody’s slut.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner "

And you would be knocked out cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it, BUT... only with my husband

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea, that’s not going down well.

I am nobody’s slut. "

Yeah okay many would believe you

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

It very much depends on the moment sometimes I like to grab hold of their cheeks and do it myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd puke.

And puke is a turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold"

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It very much depends on the moment sometimes I like to grab hold of their cheeks and do it myself "

Wowsers fair play to you

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!! "

No man has the advantage over me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

No man has the advantage over me "

You haven't met the right man yet

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Yea, that’s not going down well.

I am nobody’s slut.

Yeah okay many would believe you "

Is this supposed to be funny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Um no. Not for me thanks

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Yea, that’s not going down well.

I am nobody’s slut.

Yeah okay many would believe you

Is this supposed to be funny? "

Grin face, suspect so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea, that’s not going down well.

I am nobody’s slut.

Yeah okay many would believe you

Is this supposed to be funny? "

I didn't find it funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!! "

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Is this supposed to be funny?

Grin face, suspect so "

He gets a grim face from me for that one

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

No man has the advantage over me

You haven't met the right man yet "

You're not getting it are you?

In more ways than one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think this is generally one of those porno film things rather than real life with the odd exception

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By *interfoxWoman
over a year ago

maesteg

Turn off for me I'd probably be sick.

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes this thread is getting very worrying for me.

OP clearly Doesn’t understand his audience and believes every woman on here is subject to fulfilling his fantasies.

I think you need to go back to the drawing board OP.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Yes this thread is getting very worrying for me.

OP clearly Doesn’t understand his audience and believes every woman on here is subject to fulfilling his fantasies.

I think you need to go back to the drawing board OP.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?"

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this supposed to be funny?

Grin face, suspect so

He gets a grim face from me for that one"

Yeah I second that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just no - couldn’t do it and don’t want it done to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right man, right time, turned on, go for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this supposed to be funny?

Grin face, suspect so

He gets a grim face from me for that one"

I think we can all be a slut for someone..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

No man has the advantage over me

You haven't met the right man yet

You're not getting it are you?

In more ways than one "

What exactly ain't I getting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes this thread is getting very worrying for me.

OP clearly Doesn’t understand his audience and believes every woman on here is subject to fulfilling his fantasies.

I think you need to go back to the drawing board OP.

"

No you just don't get me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop "

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

No man has the advantage over me

You haven't met the right man yet "

Yes I have. Ones that respect boundaries which clearly you don't.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"Yes this thread is getting very worrying for me.

OP clearly Doesn’t understand his audience and believes every woman on here is subject to fulfilling his fantasies.

I think you need to go back to the drawing board OP.

"

Agree, I think perhaps he thinks he is being funny & having a banter, but some of his comments suggest that he doesn't know when to stop or when he's overstepped the line

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right man, right time, turned on, go for it.

"

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

All depends on the moment in time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off."

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way. "

Read back over some of your comments OP, you are not coming across in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure. "

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It very much depends on the moment sometimes I like to grab hold of their cheeks and do it myself "

Now this with a couple of helping hands...

Yum!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

No man has the advantage over me

You haven't met the right man yet

Yes I have. Ones that respect boundaries which clearly you don't."

You are along way from the truth with me, but okay that's your opinion which you have taken from this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Read back over some of your comments OP, you are not coming across in a good way. "

I have and I don't think it's me coming across in a bad way, but people taking me in a bad way

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

No man has the advantage over me

You haven't met the right man yet

Yes I have. Ones that respect boundaries which clearly you don't.

You are along way from the truth with me, but okay that's your opinion which you have taken from this thread. "

You are now trying to make out that this wasn't a serious post because of some of the replies. Well done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has happened toe a time or two, I enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

No man has the advantage over me

You haven't met the right man yet

Yes I have. Ones that respect boundaries which clearly you don't.

You are along way from the truth with me, but okay that's your opinion which you have taken from this thread.

You are now trying to make out that this wasn't a serious post because of some of the replies. Well done. "

It is a serious question.

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here. "

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Read back over some of your comments OP, you are not coming across in a good way.

I have and I don't think it's me coming across in a bad way, but people taking me in a bad way "

Well, from here, you are coming across as totally disrespectful towards some of the ladies who have replied.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's very rare I'd enjoy this. Try it on without a very clear idea that I'd enjoy it and you'd find out very quickly. Persist at your peril.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the minority from the looks of it but I really enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking. "

What I said was jokingly. Anyways its okay for someone to say they would punch me in the balls and knock out is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Read back over some of your comments OP, you are not coming across in a good way.

I have and I don't think it's me coming across in a bad way, but people taking me in a bad way

Well, from here, you are coming across as totally disrespectful towards some of the ladies who have replied. "

Some who? How many have I come across disrespectful too?

I think you are making something out of nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd bite him. Hard.

I have an extremely sensitive gag reflex and a phobia of vomiting, so do not enjoy this. It's one of the few things I won't ever do.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"It very much depends on the moment sometimes I like to grab hold of their cheeks and do it myself

Now this with a couple of helping hands...

Yum!

"

I love to give oral

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking.

What I said was jokingly. Anyways its okay for someone to say they would punch me in the balls and knock out is it?

"

Maybe read back over the order of things that lead up to that...

No...unwanted sexual violence isn’t ok.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The right man, with the right touch and connection, it can be great. I'd not want it to be the only way of enjoying the fun though

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

“Yes doctor, my penis was in her mouth and I thought she’d like it so I grabbed her head and basically pounded her mouth, and that’s when she bit ... hard... and that was the last time I saw my penis”

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’d love to see a guy do that to me.... don’t think any would have the balls to though unless I coached his hand behind my head and physically pushed his hand on me

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way. "

Don’t get you? I’ve watched you ‘not get’ the signals from other posters and if I’m honest, I find your responses extremely worrying. You don’t read stop signals and don’t respect boundaries.

I’m not trying to flirt with you when I tell you I’m nobody’s slut, I’m telling you that nobody treats me that way because that’s not my scene.

I always get alarm bells ringing when a guy doesn’t take no for an answer in text format because it’s a pretty good indicator of how you’ll be treated in person.

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

Absolutely adore it xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

OP, this just isn't funny in any way at all.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Read back over some of your comments OP, you are not coming across in a good way.

I have and I don't think it's me coming across in a bad way, but people taking me in a bad way

Well, from here, you are coming across as totally disrespectful towards some of the ladies who have replied.

Some who? How many have I come across disrespectful too?

I think you are making something out of nothing. "

There are 2 who you have shown very little respect towards & I'm not the only one who has pointed this out to you.

K

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking.

What I said was jokingly. Anyways its okay for someone to say they would punch me in the balls and knock out is it?

"

Look back at the conversation...you said you would slap me with your boner...I said I'd punch you in the balls.....you then said maybe a couple of thrusts...to which I replied you be knocked out cold.

Its like you would continue even if the person wasn't enjoying it.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Don’t get you? I’ve watched you ‘not get’ the signals from other posters and if I’m honest, I find your responses extremely worrying. You don’t read stop signals and don’t respect boundaries.

I’m not trying to flirt with you when I tell you I’m nobody’s slut, I’m telling you that nobody treats me that way because that’s not my scene.

I always get alarm bells ringing when a guy doesn’t take no for an answer in text format because it’s a pretty good indicator of how you’ll be treated in person. "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Don’t get you? I’ve watched you ‘not get’ the signals from other posters and if I’m honest, I find your responses extremely worrying. You don’t read stop signals and don’t respect boundaries.

I’m not trying to flirt with you when I tell you I’m nobody’s slut, I’m telling you that nobody treats me that way because that’s not my scene.

I always get alarm bells ringing when a guy doesn’t take no for an answer in text format because it’s a pretty good indicator of how you’ll be treated in person.

"

Yes. We're setting boundaries here. Our boundaries are not negotiable or fun.

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking.

What I said was jokingly. Anyways its okay for someone to say they would punch me in the balls and knock out is it?

Look back at the conversation...you said you would slap me with your boner...I said I'd punch you in the balls.....you then said maybe a couple of thrusts...to which I replied you be knocked out cold.

Its like you would continue even if the person wasn't enjoying it."

100% agree with you. To be like that in text is a huge red flag for me.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

There is a time and place for most things op.

It will be someone’s kink somewhere, and if boundaries are set and a signal (such as dropping a piece of cloth to stop) is set up, go for it OP.

You just need to find an open minded lady.

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

Only if I was really comfortable with the guy and he built up to it or we were in cnc mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Don’t get you? I’ve watched you ‘not get’ the signals from other posters and if I’m honest, I find your responses extremely worrying. You don’t read stop signals and don’t respect boundaries.

I’m not trying to flirt with you when I tell you I’m nobody’s slut, I’m telling you that nobody treats me that way because that’s not my scene.

I always get alarm bells ringing when a guy doesn’t take no for an answer in text format because it’s a pretty good indicator of how you’ll be treated in person. "

I have to disagree with you there

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking.

What I said was jokingly. Anyways its okay for someone to say they would punch me in the balls and knock out is it?

Look back at the conversation...you said you would slap me with your boner...I said I'd punch you in the balls.....you then said maybe a couple of thrusts...to which I replied you be knocked out cold.

Its like you would continue even if the person wasn't enjoying it.

100% agree with you. To be like that in text is a huge red flag for me. "

But that's the point ... just not getting it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Don’t get you? I’ve watched you ‘not get’ the signals from other posters and if I’m honest, I find your responses extremely worrying. You don’t read stop signals and don’t respect boundaries.

I’m not trying to flirt with you when I tell you I’m nobody’s slut, I’m telling you that nobody treats me that way because that’s not my scene.

I always get alarm bells ringing when a guy doesn’t take no for an answer in text format because it’s a pretty good indicator of how you’ll be treated in person.

I have to disagree with you there "

How many men have you had sex with, OP?

Because I can tell you from personal experience that if a guy doesn't respect boundaries in a text format, with a screen between us, there is no way he is going to respect them when we are in the same room together.

I learned that the hard way, and so have many other women I know.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Don’t get you? I’ve watched you ‘not get’ the signals from other posters and if I’m honest, I find your responses extremely worrying. You don’t read stop signals and don’t respect boundaries.

I’m not trying to flirt with you when I tell you I’m nobody’s slut, I’m telling you that nobody treats me that way because that’s not my scene.

I always get alarm bells ringing when a guy doesn’t take no for an answer in text format because it’s a pretty good indicator of how you’ll be treated in person.

I have to disagree with you there "

We're telling you how we see it. Our perception matters, even if you disagree with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men don’t understand that consent is sexy, that lots of things are fun and sexy if they are consensual, and they are within boundaries

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Don’t get you? I’ve watched you ‘not get’ the signals from other posters and if I’m honest, I find your responses extremely worrying. You don’t read stop signals and don’t respect boundaries.

I’m not trying to flirt with you when I tell you I’m nobody’s slut, I’m telling you that nobody treats me that way because that’s not my scene.

I always get alarm bells ringing when a guy doesn’t take no for an answer in text format because it’s a pretty good indicator of how you’ll be treated in person.

I have to disagree with you there "

Of course you do. Because you believe that as a Male, you are right and you are entitled to what you want.

Not done yourself a single favour in this thread.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking.

What I said was jokingly. Anyways its okay for someone to say they would punch me in the balls and knock out is it?

"

And just for the record OP. Sexual violence is an absolute no no in any respect but if a man carried on with a sexual act I didn't want to do then a punch in the balls or being knocked out cold would be the least of his worries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking.

What I said was jokingly. Anyways its okay for someone to say they would punch me in the balls and knock out is it?

Look back at the conversation...you said you would slap me with your boner...I said I'd punch you in the balls.....you then said maybe a couple of thrusts...to which I replied you be knocked out cold.

Its like you would continue even if the person wasn't enjoying it.

100% agree with you. To be like that in text is a huge red flag for me. "

Absolutely agree, I would never ever meet someone that was this oblivious, and who couldn’t even respect my boundaries in text form, let alone in person. Massive red flag

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Don’t get you? I’ve watched you ‘not get’ the signals from other posters and if I’m honest, I find your responses extremely worrying. You don’t read stop signals and don’t respect boundaries.

I’m not trying to flirt with you when I tell you I’m nobody’s slut, I’m telling you that nobody treats me that way because that’s not my scene.

I always get alarm bells ringing when a guy doesn’t take no for an answer in text format because it’s a pretty good indicator of how you’ll be treated in person.

I have to disagree with you there

Of course you do. Because you believe that as a Male, you are right and you are entitled to what you want.

Not done yourself a single favour in this thread. "

Not sure about that, at least he has established some that aren’t interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Don’t get you? I’ve watched you ‘not get’ the signals from other posters and if I’m honest, I find your responses extremely worrying. You don’t read stop signals and don’t respect boundaries.

I’m not trying to flirt with you when I tell you I’m nobody’s slut, I’m telling you that nobody treats me that way because that’s not my scene.

I always get alarm bells ringing when a guy doesn’t take no for an answer in text format because it’s a pretty good indicator of how you’ll be treated in person.

I have to disagree with you there

Of course you do. Because you believe that as a Male, you are right and you are entitled to what you want.

Not done yourself a single favour in this thread.

Not sure about that, at least he has established some that aren’t interested.

"

Nobody should be interested in non consensual potential assault

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Very much depends on who it is. When M does it I absolutely love it, but its not something I would necessarily allow a meet to do.

K"

This. N loves it when I do it, but it's majorly a trust thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do it even if asked.

Just dont like it

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Not sure about that, at least he has established some that aren’t interested.

"

Hahah! A few to cross off his list

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Depends.

What book is the guy currently reading?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mrs lives it when she's had a few especially haha

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Don’t get you? I’ve watched you ‘not get’ the signals from other posters and if I’m honest, I find your responses extremely worrying. You don’t read stop signals and don’t respect boundaries.

I’m not trying to flirt with you when I tell you I’m nobody’s slut, I’m telling you that nobody treats me that way because that’s not my scene.

I always get alarm bells ringing when a guy doesn’t take no for an answer in text format because it’s a pretty good indicator of how you’ll be treated in person.

I have to disagree with you there

Of course you do. Because you believe that as a Male, you are right and you are entitled to what you want.

Not done yourself a single favour in this thread.

Not sure about that, at least he has established some that aren’t interested.

Nobody should be interested in non consensual potential assault "

For interest, where has he said non consensual?

I suspect there is a lot of projection on this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Don’t get you? I’ve watched you ‘not get’ the signals from other posters and if I’m honest, I find your responses extremely worrying. You don’t read stop signals and don’t respect boundaries.

I’m not trying to flirt with you when I tell you I’m nobody’s slut, I’m telling you that nobody treats me that way because that’s not my scene.

I always get alarm bells ringing when a guy doesn’t take no for an answer in text format because it’s a pretty good indicator of how you’ll be treated in person.

I have to disagree with you there

Of course you do. Because you believe that as a Male, you are right and you are entitled to what you want.

Not done yourself a single favour in this thread.

Not sure about that, at least he has established some that aren’t interested.

Nobody should be interested in non consensual potential assault

For interest, where has he said non consensual?

I suspect there is a lot of projection on this thread!"

Read his responses again

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I mean, I like doing this with enthusiastic consent from whoever is receiving.

But the way you're talking about it is a bit.. off.

That's what I mean. I dont mean it in another way.

Don’t get you? I’ve watched you ‘not get’ the signals from other posters and if I’m honest, I find your responses extremely worrying. You don’t read stop signals and don’t respect boundaries.

I’m not trying to flirt with you when I tell you I’m nobody’s slut, I’m telling you that nobody treats me that way because that’s not my scene.

I always get alarm bells ringing when a guy doesn’t take no for an answer in text format because it’s a pretty good indicator of how you’ll be treated in person.

I have to disagree with you there

Of course you do. Because you believe that as a Male, you are right and you are entitled to what you want.

Not done yourself a single favour in this thread.

Not sure about that, at least he has established some that aren’t interested.

Nobody should be interested in non consensual potential assault

For interest, where has he said non consensual?

I suspect there is a lot of projection on this thread!

Read his responses again "

I’ll stand by what I said.

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By *orrow my wifeCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking.

What I said was jokingly. Anyways its okay for someone to say they would punch me in the balls and knock out is it?

And just for the record OP. Sexual violence is an absolute no no in any respect but if a man carried on with a sexual act I didn't want to do then a punch in the balls or being knocked out cold would be the least of his worries."

Wow lighten up hun . No one mentioned non consensual but you first started the mention of violence!!

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By *urekamanfor2Man
over a year ago

Shoreham


"Is it a turn on or a turn off? "

I have a regular last that loves that to the point of really gagging/ choking.

Horses for courses.

No play here for that kind of slap or punch in the balls that sounded threatening and more than a little crazed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looks like I've been blocked by quite a few of you now SMH. Geez talk about over reacting much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls"

Oh dear ......

On a lighter note yes its something that my good lady enjoys

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking.

What I said was jokingly. Anyways its okay for someone to say they would punch me in the balls and knock out is it?

And just for the record OP. Sexual violence is an absolute no no in any respect but if a man carried on with a sexual act I didn't want to do then a punch in the balls or being knocked out cold would be the least of his worries.

Wow lighten up hun . No one mentioned non consensual but you first started the mention of violence!!"

I dont need to "lighten up"

What I said was in relation to his comment that came across like he would not stop, hence my comment about the slap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like I've been blocked by quite a few of you now SMH. Geez talk about over reacting much! "

Agreed fellas, odd that you were threatened violence and was only asking a reasonable question...

We are blocking them too

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By *orrow my wifeCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking.

What I said was jokingly. Anyways its okay for someone to say they would punch me in the balls and knock out is it?

And just for the record OP. Sexual violence is an absolute no no in any respect but if a man carried on with a sexual act I didn't want to do then a punch in the balls or being knocked out cold would be the least of his worries.

Wow lighten up hun . No one mentioned non consensual but you first started the mention of violence!!

I dont need to "lighten up"

What I said was in relation to his comment that came across like he would not stop, hence my comment about the slap"

No read it back re your slap and punch , I am sure you are lovely really but I think an apology is appropriate? S x

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By *orrow my wifeCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Lighten up this is supposed to be fun and a perfectly polite posting originally S x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Is it a turn on or a turn off?

I have a regular last that loves that to the point of really gagging/ choking.

Horses for courses.

No play here for that kind of slap or punch in the balls that sounded threatening and more than a little crazed "

I personally think that anyone who puts a person into a place of fear, deserves a punch in the balls.

Don’t find that crazy at all.

Equally not everyone has had an unproblematic life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK? "

I think it went wrong from this point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That never happened to me. And never will."
never say never !

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking.

What I said was jokingly. Anyways its okay for someone to say they would punch me in the balls and knock out is it?

And just for the record OP. Sexual violence is an absolute no no in any respect but if a man carried on with a sexual act I didn't want to do then a punch in the balls or being knocked out cold would be the least of his worries.

Wow lighten up hun . No one mentioned non consensual but you first started the mention of violence!!

I dont need to "lighten up"

What I said was in relation to his comment that came across like he would not stop, hence my comment about the slap

No read it back re your slap and punch , I am sure you are lovely really but I think an apology is appropriate? S x"

If a guy held my head and face fucked me, he would get a slap as its not my thing. Where does the need for an apology come in?

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By *orrow my wifeCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

I think it went wrong from this point!"

No it was from the "punch" a couple of thrusts mmmm surely that's not an issue ? S x

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By *orrow my wifeCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking.

What I said was jokingly. Anyways its okay for someone to say they would punch me in the balls and knock out is it?

And just for the record OP. Sexual violence is an absolute no no in any respect but if a man carried on with a sexual act I didn't want to do then a punch in the balls or being knocked out cold would be the least of his worries.

Wow lighten up hun . No one mentioned non consensual but you first started the mention of violence!!

I dont need to "lighten up"

What I said was in relation to his comment that came across like he would not stop, hence my comment about the slap

No read it back re your slap and punch , I am sure you are lovely really but I think an apology is appropriate? S x

If a guy held my head and face fucked me, he would get a slap as its not my thing. Where does the need for an apology come in?"

It wouldn't get that far would it ! You dont threaten to punch someone and hence lighten up and apologise ideally ? S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking.

What I said was jokingly. Anyways its okay for someone to say they would punch me in the balls and knock out is it?

And just for the record OP. Sexual violence is an absolute no no in any respect but if a man carried on with a sexual act I didn't want to do then a punch in the balls or being knocked out cold would be the least of his worries.

Wow lighten up hun . No one mentioned non consensual but you first started the mention of violence!!

I dont need to "lighten up"

What I said was in relation to his comment that came across like he would not stop, hence my comment about the slap

No read it back re your slap and punch , I am sure you are lovely really but I think an apology is appropriate? S x

If a guy held my head and face fucked me, he would get a slap as its not my thing. Where does the need for an apology come in?

It wouldn't get that far would it ! You dont threaten to punch someone and hence lighten up and apologise ideally ? S x"

Well said

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

I think it went wrong from this point!

No it was from the "punch" a couple of thrusts mmmm surely that's not an issue ? S x"

If he carried on thrusting then he would get a punch if the slap wasn't enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

I think it went wrong from this point!

No it was from the "punch" a couple of thrusts mmmm surely that's not an issue ? S x"

Yes it would be if it was unwanted.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner "

Seems like a slap and punch wouldn't deter the OP anyway!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Looks like I've been blocked by quite a few of you now SMH. Geez talk about over reacting much! "

The meaning of the communication is the response you get.

You could have explained more.

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By *urekamanfor2Man
over a year ago

Shoreham


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

I think it went wrong from this point!

No it was from the "punch" a couple of thrusts mmmm surely that's not an issue ? S x

Yes it would be if it was unwanted."

There was no mention of unwanted ! You dont threaten violence out of the blue like that , I think the lighten up comments are appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when I've been asked and at that the lady is always in control

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By *urekamanfor2Man
over a year ago

Shoreham


"Looks like I've been blocked by quite a few of you now SMH. Geez talk about over reacting much! "

Best block them back as there are some illiterate fruit cakes

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By *urekamanfor2Man
over a year ago

Shoreham


"Only when I've been asked and at that the lady is always in control "

Exactly

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

More like a punch in the balls

Oooh kinky lol I would slap you back with my boner

And you would be knocked out cold

No no.. I would have the advantage of you being down on your knees already slap!!

So are you not respectful of boundaries then?

I am when they're set before hand and if its not liked at the time then il just stop

Ah ok, just that the lady expressed her thoughts and your responses didn't reflect that.

Though I understand it would be different in a real life scenario for sure.

A lot of users take everything litterally on here.

I think people are responding to what you’re actually saying. You asked if people liked it, and then hinted that you would carry on even if they didn’t, or that their preferences and boundaries could be coerced. That’s not ok.

You didn’t ask if anyone liked CNC face fucking.

What I said was jokingly. Anyways its okay for someone to say they would punch me in the balls and knock out is it?

And just for the record OP. Sexual violence is an absolute no no in any respect but if a man carried on with a sexual act I didn't want to do then a punch in the balls or being knocked out cold would be the least of his worries.

Wow lighten up hun . No one mentioned non consensual but you first started the mention of violence!!

I dont need to "lighten up"

What I said was in relation to his comment that came across like he would not stop, hence my comment about the slap"

It “came across” in your head.

What would your response say if you had actually misinterpreted his response?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

I think it went wrong from this point!

No it was from the "punch" a couple of thrusts mmmm surely that's not an issue ? S x

Yes it would be if it was unwanted.

There was no mention of unwanted ! You dont threaten violence out of the blue like that , I think the lighten up comments are appropriate "

I think if you reply "he would get a slap" that implies if it was not consensual he would get a slap. To reply to that as he did made it look as if he was prepared to try his luck.

Perhaps just a poor choice of words.

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By *orrow my wifeCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Some people do not seem to have read the thread and jumped to ridiculous conclusion. It was surely meant as consensual like every thread on here assumes the same. You are on the wrong site believing anything more sinister but it shows you how communication can go wrong S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love having that done to me. We’re both men, so why not get rough. I can handle it

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By *orrow my wifeCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

I think it went wrong from this point!

No it was from the "punch" a couple of thrusts mmmm surely that's not an issue ? S x

Yes it would be if it was unwanted.

There was no mention of unwanted ! You dont threaten violence out of the blue like that , I think the lighten up comments are appropriate

I think if you reply "he would get a slap" that implies if it was not consensual he would get a slap. To reply to that as he did made it look as if he was prepared to try his luck.

Perhaps just a poor choice of words. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This went well I feel lost for words now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a big no no for me I’m afraid.

I didn’t even think it was something that I should have to specify beforehand but after several cases of the guy somehow thinking it was okay to just do this I find myself having to ensure any partner knows before hand now. Personally I think that’s a bit sad but it seems like more and more guys seem to think this is an everyday activity now ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK?

I think it went wrong from this point!

No it was from the "punch" a couple of thrusts mmmm surely that's not an issue ? S x

Yes it would be if it was unwanted.

There was no mention of unwanted ! You dont threaten violence out of the blue like that , I think the lighten up comments are appropriate

I think if you reply "he would get a slap" that implies if it was not consensual he would get a slap. To reply to that as he did made it look as if he was prepared to try his luck.

Perhaps just a poor choice of words. "

Yes. The slap is a warning sign to stop immediately. To ignore that...

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK? "

That would be ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This went well I feel lost for words now "

I think some are choosing to ignore what you really meant!

It did go odd I must say lol

Hey ho

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By *orrow my wifeCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"He would get a slap

Maybe a couple of thrusts OK? That would be ok. "

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

HPV is the most common sexually transmitted infection in the United States. Of the more than 100 types of HPV, about 40 types can spread through direct sexual contact to genital areas, as well as the mouth and throat. Oral HPV is transmitted to the mouth by oral sex, or possibly in other ways. Many people are exposed to oral HPV in their life. About 10% of men and 3.6% of women have oral HPV, and oral HPV infection is more common with older age. Most people clear HPV within one to two years, but HPV infection persists in some people.

HPV can infect the mouth and throat and cause cancers of the oropharynx (back of the throat, including the base of the tongue and tonsils). This is called oropharyngeal cancer. HPV is thought to cause 70% of oropharyngeal cancers in the United States.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"HPV is the most common sexually transmitted infection in the United States. Of the more than 100 types of HPV, about 40 types can spread through direct sexual contact to genital areas, as well as the mouth and throat. Oral HPV is transmitted to the mouth by oral sex, or possibly in other ways. Many people are exposed to oral HPV in their life. About 10% of men and 3.6% of women have oral HPV, and oral HPV infection is more common with older age. Most people clear HPV within one to two years, but HPV infection persists in some people.

HPV can infect the mouth and throat and cause cancers of the oropharynx (back of the throat, including the base of the tongue and tonsils). This is called oropharyngeal cancer. HPV is thought to cause 70% of oropharyngeal cancers in the United States."

yikes this is what I am talking about... definitely a no for me

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Every silver lining has a cloud .

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Personally this is a huge turn on for me but only with someone I trust.

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