Sexuality is a peculiar thing, where many years after your first sexual interests, you discover that your tastes may have changed or that you had somehow not understand yourself that well. Some could let it bother them, others just as an exciting opportunity to explore things whilst you can, learning as you go.
Som could try a badly cooked new meal and decide that they don't like it, so never try it again. A food connoisseur would probably eat more widely, as they grow more discerning in their tastes.
Accept what you know about yourself and increase your discernment about what you'd potentially be interested in exploring. Group sex is attractive for many people, though may not always be the ideal way to explore, if someone may feel group social pressure, getting corralled into doing specific things they don't want to do.
Perhaps the better scenario could be to be alone with a friend, to watch each other and to engage with touching and more, as it feels right. Or just to stay as voyeurs. As sexual activity tastes differ, aim to get with others who are well matched.
The other aspect of bisexuality is that you won't definitely fancy the same gender in the same way, or even at all, as you do the opposite gender. You're interested and comfortable with some form of sexual engagement with them but won't be checking out guys in the street, for example. You might narrow down who you could be comfortable interacting with and it may be easier if they are very similar or different to you - reflect on it. A mate who you'd get on with but you're both honest and open enough to get into each others boxers. Massage is great, it can open you up to touching between other men and doesn't have to become sexual but can ease the way in. Men who appreciate the male physique, including many who do bodybuilding, for example, can get hands-on with someone who's got good results, ssfeeling it, not just seeing it.
Lots of options, as you develop your self-awareness about your sexual being and tastes. |
