FabSwingers.com forum: attractive genitals

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?

I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab.

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

I say to myself that I don't like to see genitals in general on Fab, but I also say that I wouldn't want to go down on an untidy pussy or a weird looking cock. Sometimes it takes Mr to remind me that the genitals are only a small part of the whole person, and also that in the moment, I wouldn't care!

So in theory, if I see them in advance, I guess I look for them to be neat and tidy, but in reality, I get so excited at going down on a lady I probably wouldn't worry about what it looked like!

Sorry, that's definitely a ramble...

C (her)

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I say to myself that I don't like to see genitals in general on Fab, but I also say that I wouldn't want to go down on an untidy pussy or a weird looking cock. Sometimes it takes Mr to remind me that the genitals are only a small part of the whole person, and also that in the moment, I wouldn't care!

So in theory, if I see them in advance, I guess I look for them to be neat and tidy, but in reality, I get so excited at going down on a lady I probably wouldn't worry about what it looked like!

Sorry, that's definitely a ramble...

C (her)"

ok what about face and body? Got to remember we can only base our choices by what is shown and said to us online.

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?

I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab.

Not everything or everyone are perfect

Some will be attractive but have a smaller cock? Or not the cock you desire???

Some will be hung and have the cock / pussy you are wanting but do not have the looks / personality.

You can never win but i would say it is rare where you will find the perfect match or else you wouldnt be looking to meet more men / women??

But i am pretty sure 100% of the people on here have met up by bending their imagination / standards to have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if for play or relationship.

For play you might be more concerned about cock/pussy, for relationship more about person they are and connection so can overlook other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the same way that some people have faces that are photogenic and look better in pictures than in real life - I think the same applies to bodies and body parts as well.

Some people are far better and more attractive in real life so I try not to base everything on photos

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?

I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab.

Not everything or everyone are perfect

Some will be attractive but have a smaller cock? Or not the cock you desire???

Some will be hung and have the cock / pussy you are wanting but do not have the looks / personality.

You can never win but i would say it is rare where you will find the perfect match or else you wouldnt be looking to meet more men / women??

But i am pretty sure 100% of the people on here have met up by bending their imagination / standards to have sex"

so which one would you put as a less of an importanance? as you started the prettiest pussy thread? would you get with a fabber if they didn't have an attractive pussy but had other things you liked? liked personality but not body or pussy?

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"In the same way that some people have faces that are photogenic and look better in pictures than in real life - I think the same applies to bodies and body parts as well.

Some people are far better and more attractive in real life so I try not to base everything on photos

ok so if the person wrote to you sounded nice sweet person but you didn't find any of their photos abit attractive, would you carry on chatting hoping to meet one day (post lockdown)?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Do I have attractive junk ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction for me is both physical and mental....so no, if i didnt find them attractive entirley...i wouldnt carry on further, nor would i expect anyone to lead me on if they arent really attracted...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day we all have our own ideas and views on what we like. I think there’s enough variation on fab for people to be able to afford to be picky and only go for what they like otherwise why bother at all, it’s a definite bonus that you can pretty much check everything before ever actually having to meet X

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By *irty workmanMan
over a year ago

lincolnshire

I love mine lol

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By *heKinksCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I suppose it's all in the eye of the beholder, however there are some proper Gremlinitals out there!

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

For me, the attraction is in the personality. Looks draw me in, and to be honest, while I do have preferences in a pussy, i dont care really what it looks like. Im drawn to the entire woman.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

"I love mine lol "

I love my genitals too, and i dont have a pic on fab. The mystery bulge will be revealed to the right woman, if the meet goes well.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Do I have attractive junk ? Lol

beauty is in the eye of the beholder (but clearer photos may help too)

As someone else said some are photogenic but not sexually attractive in person. I called them types wooden planks. where some people pleasantly surprise you. I tend to go for if I find their photos physically attractive, then usually 80% of the time, I find them super hot to fuck which is what I'm mainly looking for. Hot sex with someone I find attractive. But some men have sexually attractive personality and demons in bed but not overly photogenic pretty. If ya know what i mean

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"For me, the attraction is in the personality. Looks draw me in, and to be honest, while I do have preferences in a pussy, i dont care really what it looks like. Im drawn to the entire woman. "

Hows that possible when looking through search list of who is online? I tend to go with if their profile photo and name is attractive and they say something fun in the headliner, I would wink or message them

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

"Do I have attractive junk ? Lol

beauty is in the eye of the beholder (but clearer photos may help too)

Looks like my junk is photogenic and my face and body ain’t lol

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

Fair point OP, I forgot about body/face.

As someone else has mentioned, it varies for me on whether it's for sex or for a relationship. For sex, I'm more choosy, because I'm not getting won over by personality etc (usually), so I'm looking for at least a decent face and body.

In a relationship I'm still looking for someone I find attractive, but I have definitely had relationships where they aren't "my type on paper" but I have clicked with them.

Fortunately Mr Sprite has everything I was looking for, including an exceptionally handsome face and a sexy body.

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone seems to be making very good points on this thread.

For many people the lack of a face pictures on public view is the result of the need for initial anonymity and descretion.I don't post mine publicly but do include in a message.

Although I do have one close up genital picture, I generally don't use it or like genital pictures.

Instead I prefer full length body pictures (without face) and if they happen to show the genitals, then that's fine. Again it's down to attraction, and the full length body is a great part of that.

But what really gets to me is people saying they don't want to see genital pictures, then you go on their profile and see all their own pictures are..... You guessed it..

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Fair point OP, I forgot about body/face.

In a relationship I'm still looking for someone I find attractive, but I have definitely had relationships where they aren't "my type on paper" but I have clicked with them.

Fortunately Mr Sprite has everything I was looking for, including an exceptionally handsome face and a sexy body.

C x"

lucky you and you're generous lover as you share him? And he's perfect because he lets you go off and play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more interested In what makes a cock or pussy attractive? What do attractive genitals look like? Make up ? I'm all for lipstick on my dipstick but in not going to smear it on myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose it's all in the eye of the beholder, however there are some proper Gremlinitals out there! "
Gremlinitals love it lol

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Everyone seems to be making very good points on this thread.

For many people the lack of a face pictures on public view is the result of the need for initial anonymity and descretion.I don't post mine publicly but do include in a message.

Although I do have one close up genital picture, I generally don't use it or like genital pictures.

Instead I prefer full length body pictures (without face) and if they happen to show the genitals, then that's fine. Again it's down to attraction, and the full length body is a great part of that.

But what really gets to me is people saying they don't want to see genital pictures, then you go on their profile and see all their own pictures are..... You guessed it..

yes full naked body shots for men is great. I don't think women its most important to have naked photos of her body.

some people don't want to show their face at all until the actual meet. makes me abit suspicious and I wouldn't meet or chat to anyone until i seen at least one face pic

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I'm more interested In what makes a cock or pussy attractive? What do attractive genitals look like? Make up ? I'm all for lipstick on my dipstick but in not going to smear it on myself lol"

attractive genitals are the ones you just excited about touching, sucking and licking when you see it. As we only initially judged on fab for our looks, how important is certain aspects of someone's body to us in order to have sex?

Personally great looking cock and face is most important in looks. Closely followed by personality then body

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?

I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab.

Not everything or everyone are perfect

Some will be attractive but have a smaller cock? Or not the cock you desire???

Some will be hung and have the cock / pussy you are wanting but do not have the looks / personality.

You can never win but i would say it is rare where you will find the perfect match or else you wouldnt be looking to meet more men / women??

But i am pretty sure 100% of the people on here have met up by bending their imagination / standards to have sex

I would put cock / pussy as the least importance as you will be more onto the rest of the body / face & personality... there are loads looking for huge cocks etc as they receive more pleasure and if thats the case, looks / personality should be thrown out the window.

I started the pretty pussy thread to see who actually has the best looking pussy on fab

Yes i certainly would get with a fabber if their pussy wasnt as i expected but the rest ticked my boxes

As stated by someone in the above comments which i agree with, there are people who look amazing in pictures but the opposite in person.

Then there are people who dont look so good on pictures but a lot better in person.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?

I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab.

I know that I couldn't have sex with somebody who body didn't excite me. I could be fine with an unattractive face (to a limited extent) if I love their body. It is very unusual to find genitals that would put me off but I can think of one example from my past.

In addition to what you have asked about, I couldn't have sex with somebody I disliked as a person.

Ultimately a woman's body is what I have the most engagement with during sex. A body I want to touch, kiss and explore will beat most less-favourable attributes, and a body I'm not into can't be made up for with other great attributes.

Luke

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Can someone really be with someone sexually even if they don't find their body that attractive, especially their pussy or dick?

I must insist seeing face, body and cock photos before I want to engage a proper conversation with any man on fab.

Not everything or everyone are perfect

Some will be attractive but have a smaller cock? Or not the cock you desire???

Some will be hung and have the cock / pussy you are wanting but do not have the looks / personality.

You can never win but i would say it is rare where you will find the perfect match or else you wouldnt be looking to meet more men / women??

But i am pretty sure 100% of the people on here have met up by bending their imagination / standards to have sex

I started the pretty pussy thread to see who actually has the best looking pussy on fab

Yes i certainly would get with a fabber if their pussy wasnt as i expected but the rest ticked my boxes

As stated by someone in the above comments which i agree with, there are people who look amazing in pictures but the opposite in person.

Then there are people who dont look so good on pictures but a lot better in person. "

maybe why some people love when people add videos to their profiles.

All my exes who met me online say I'm similar or better in real life and we usually have a good time. The ones I really like their profile usually just the same or better in person

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

suppose with photos and profiles, some people are better at 'marketing themselves'

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

I couldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted too, it's like if my Mr was the best looking bloke on earth but his cock was small it would be a no deal for me (even if he was good in other departments a good size dick is a must for me) but on the other hand he could be a demon in bed and have be a great size but if I don't like the face then again it would be a no from me.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

"I couldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted too, it's like if my Mr was the best looking bloke on earth but his cock was small it would be a no deal for me (even if he was good in other departments a good size dick is a must for me) but on the other hand he could be a demon in bed and have be a great size but if I don't like the face then again it would be a no from me. "
i think I need to be attracted to most aspects of a person. Including there genitals

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

"Fair point OP, I forgot about body/face.

In a relationship I'm still looking for someone I find attractive, but I have definitely had relationships where they aren't "my type on paper" but I have clicked with them.

Fortunately Mr Sprite has everything I was looking for, including an exceptionally handsome face and a sexy body.

C x

lucky you and you're generous lover as you share him? And he's perfect because he lets you go off and play? "

Thank you, I do feel lucky. It took a long time to find a good one!

And yes, he's perfect (for me) in a lot of ways, but one is definitely that we have an open and exciting sex life.