FabSwingers.com forum: Stags and Vixens

By *heKinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

So, just discovered that this is a thing. We think it fits our dynamic much more than Fuck and Bull/Hotwife etc. Anyone else play this way?

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Losing track of the terminology lol

We aren’t cuck at all. I consider my wife is a hotwife as she has / used to have sex with other men with my approval. I was almost always present (except when she met a long term friend) and I enjoyed watching and also did some occasional joining in. So does that make us stag/vixen too??!!

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By *tickyPollCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

We are the same even though we say hotwife couple. Hubby always joins in but he does enjoy some mild Cuck things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re stag/vixen , Hotwife, whatever the term in fashion for a couple where the female has sex with other guys with full approval of the Male. We never play solo and Fire is always involved to some extent (even if that’s just taking pics/vids or making sure the expensive lingerie he’s bought Smoke doesn’t go missing when she takes it off

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We're Stag and Vixen. He's always there if I play, for my saftey, he over see's the play, watches and joins in. He's in no way a cuck. He loves sharing me, and no argumemt from me being shared.

Vixen, NEVER play alone. Stag does and can play alone. Has his own single account for doing do.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London, Edinburgh

I love hearing about the different dynamics between couples. Sharing a couple’s fantasies and games is a pleasure I absolutely love and it’s great to hear what turns you all on

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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

We're stag and vixen.

S can fuck pretty much whoever she fancies, but I'll always be at the other end!

That's how we play at the moment, but I'm very much Up for S playing as a hotwife if she likes the look of a guy.

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By *heklumpsCouple
over a year ago

Mercure Bristol

We play all ways depending on our mood

Currently it’s slave and Dom!

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

"We are the same even though we say hotwife couple. Hubby always joins in but he does enjoy some mild Cuck things. "

Us too, hubby here doesn't always join in, it depends on the situation.

Hard to fulfill though.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Each to their own ...... I am sure you will find a guy willing to play whatever the scenario.

Just enjoy what you like !

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By *sScarlett_BlazeCouple
over a year ago

Local-ish

We are hotwife and cuck but understand it can be very confusing when it comes to all the different categories. If the woman in a couple is a hotwife it's never clear if the husband is a stag or cuck or anything between

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

Yes with a healthy splash of deviant sub, although actual sex is few and far between, its on the cards, safe of course, more fun playing and him seeing me have my boundaries pushed, and out of my comfort zone but safe. He likes to watch but nor is he going to stand there and just jack off, i can multitask when needed. The reclaim sex is fab, like hes re marking his territory, telling me how much of a naughty girl ive been

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

I am a stag and really would like to meet a single female who would like to become a stag vixen couple with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really want this!!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I really want this!! "

What a guy that you can be a hotwife / vixen for and turn him into a cuck / stag ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really want this!!

What a guy that you can be a hotwife / vixen for and turn him into a cuck / stag ? "

Yes.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I really want this!!

What a guy that you can be a hotwife / vixen for and turn him into a cuck / stag ?

Yes."

I am sure you will have loads of offers after posting this !

I love your pics by the way, but i am too old to volunteer and whilst i have played 'bull' not sure cuck is my mind set most of the time xxx

good luck though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same with us , Mrs has freedom to have fun , brilliant dynamic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same with us , Mrs has freedom to have fun , brilliant dynamic x"

Opposite in our house, he goes off for the fun, sometimes I join in.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is such a horny dynamic. Fair play to any couples enjoying this lifestyle. Takes complete trust and the fun had from it must be unreal!!!!!

Sexy scenario for any single guy to be involved with.

As a single guy you gotta respect the boundaries of the couple but also be able to be open minded about what turns them both on.

Not easy!! But rewarding if it all works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same with us , Mrs has freedom to have fun , brilliant dynamic x

Opposite in our house, he goes off for the fun, sometimes I join in.

Danish x"

Hey guys whatever works and keeps both happy , defo leads to More fun between us though x

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Would love to team up with a Single Lady for this as it is my favourite way to play if anyone is interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s really interesting on threads with this topic is the number of single men who say they’d like to be involved with a woman in this sort of dynamic.

In our experience there are an awful lot of single guys who, when single, would quite happily play with cpls as the “extra guy”, but when they get into a relationship they won’t, as a cpl, meet single guys

And, in our opinion, the Stag and Vixen dynamic isn’t as effective in a casual relationship - it’s more suited to cpls in a dedicated relationship.

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

We still haven't found a term for when both hubby and wife can play without cuck connotations.

Vixen and the male equivalent (hot-husband).

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

If there are any single vixens looking for a single stag for this dynamic please get in touch. This is exactly how i want to play.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

"What’s really interesting on threads with this topic is the number of single men who say they’d like to be involved with a woman in this sort of dynamic.

And, in our opinion, the Stag and Vixen dynamic isn’t as effective in a casual relationship - it’s more suited to cpls in a dedicated relationship."

I can imagine this is the case, however it is my biggest turn on and ideally if i meet a willing single vixen i would love to continue this.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We swing between cuckold/hotwife/stag and vixen. There are times when I (Bry) enjoy mild humiliation (cuckold) and there are times when Char does the picking and arranging (hotwife) but in general it's me that does most of the selection and organising (stag and vixen). Think a lot of couples are fluid in this way.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"We swing between cuckold/hotwife/stag and vixen. There are times when I (Bry) enjoy mild humiliation (cuckold) and there are times when Char does the picking and arranging (hotwife) but in general it's me that does most of the selection and organising (stag and vixen). Think a lot of couples are fluid in this way."

Spot on, always thought this even though we're quite strictly Stag and vixen, think the numbers of the couples that are fluid is higher than we probably think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’re stag/vixen , Hotwife, whatever the term in fashion for a couple where the female has sex with other guys with full approval of the Male. We never play solo and Fire is always involved to some extent (even if that’s just taking pics/vids or making sure the expensive lingerie he’s bought Smoke doesn’t go missing when she takes it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be a hotwife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to be a hotwife"

Then we'll be married in the Spring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to be a hotwife

Then we'll be married in the Spring!"

That didn't take long

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I'd love to be a hotwife

Then we'll be married in the Spring!"

Can Char have a go before you marry yourself off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, just discovered that this is a thing. We think it fits our dynamic much more than Fuck and Bull/Hotwife etc. Anyone else play this way?

Yes us x

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Oh wow. Some beautiful Vixens on this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give up with terms tbh. I'm a hotwife with no cuck element, or just a married woman playing solo. He has knowledge and awareness of my extra marital sex life, and has the right to stop it, but he's always left me to do what I want and fuck anyone I want. He's joined in on a couple of occasions, and will come with me to gangbangs and clubs in the post covid era. But I just play solo otherwise xx

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"I give up with terms tbh. I'm a hotwife with no cuck element, or just a married woman playing solo. He has knowledge and awareness of my extra marital sex life, and has the right to stop it, but he's always left me to do what I want and fuck anyone I want. He's joined in on a couple of occasions, and will come with me to gangbangs and clubs in the post covid era. But I just play solo otherwise xx"
I don't get too caught up on terms either. You are a beautiful hot wife that's for sure!

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By *aleflirt2007Man
over a year ago

swindon

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I think that's the best description of the three scenarios I've seen so far.4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Covid-19 has seriously hampered any chances of getting a social let alone a meet especially as I'm a new ish member...(not having a single veri makes it difficult to convince anyone I'm not a time wasting let down) but with that said I would love to help put your hot wife/ vixen at the centre of our attention. Hopefully this summer things might change ...until then I woukd happily chat/flirt and build some chemistry with any possible couples who woukd like to.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

So hard to find local unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, just discovered that this is a thing. We think it fits our dynamic much more than Fuck and Bull/Hotwife etc. Anyone else play this way?

We do

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By *own and countryCouple
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

And us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And, in our opinion, the Stag and Vixen dynamic isn’t as effective in a casual relationship - it’s more suited to cpls in a dedicated relationship."

yes and yes!!!

A stag vixen or swinging dynamic is heavily influenced by the bond between partners, compersion being a big, if not the biggest element. So personally I wouldn't consider doing it any other way.

sharing is caring guys!

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