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"Neither of Chris Rhea's sisters are good news. Gonnor is scary ad Diah is nasty. Avoid or face the consequences ![]() ![]() What about the cousin, piya? ![]() | |||
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"are you kidding me? a swinger gave me oral gonorrhoea!" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"are you kidding me? a swinger gave me oral gonorrhoea!" oral gonorrhoea is how its most comanly spread there are at the moment only 3 treatments and each one can only be used once so if you get gonorrhoea 4 times you are basicly fucked the other problem is the GUM clinic if you both go to the clinick and one of you get's a false possitive they will treat you both for gonorrhoea then retest you both and if nether of you had it in the first place its still 1 down 2 to go and before any one says a word condoms dont stop gonorrhoea due to it being spread by oral unlees of course the women uses a femedom the male a condom and you dont kiss then you MIGHT be safe scary isnt it | |||
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"What is higher risk for a guy: receiving a blowjob or licking pussy? ![]() its about the same there is one tip if he or she has bleeding gums when brushing the teeth or a gum infection then forget it | |||
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"What is higher risk for a guy: receiving a blowjob or licking pussy? ![]() I know this is a stupid question but what if say there was a small cut in the mouth but then performed oral sex on an unaffected person, is there still a risk of contracting any STI? | |||
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"What is higher risk for a guy: receiving a blowjob or licking pussy? ![]() if the person with the cut is clear and the person reciving oral is also clear then there is nothing to catch | |||
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"Errrrr this might sound really stupid but what is it? What are its symptoms? " might be worth spending some time looking up 'sexual health' and reading about the wide range of different conditions. | |||
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"So to protect ourselves are we to use condoms and dental dams for oral sex?" reguler check ups and only play with guys or couples who do the same | |||
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"we met a cpl once and the guy said he couldn't put one on lol so I told him to go away and practise and then come back to us.Funnily he never did lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"are you kidding me? a swinger gave me oral gonorrhoea!" ok well thanks for that imformation.! | |||
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"are you kidding me? a swinger gave me oral gonorrhoea!" Do they make tongue condom yet? This may signal the end of swing ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"are you kidding me? a swinger gave me oral gonorrhoea! Do they make tongue condom yet? This may signal the end of swing ![]() ![]() ![]() yes, its called a dental dam lol...and you could always wear safety goggles to protect the eyes hehe | |||
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"Gonorrhoea is that the one you can get in the eyes too? correct me if im wrong...... the only way to be sure is no sex!!!! aaaaaaggghhhhh nooooo" if your talking about the red and yellow staining in the corner of the eyes by the nose that after a while goes clear leaving what looks like a whole in the corner of the eye and can sometimes leave you blind then no that syphilis also sends you rather mad | |||
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"are you kidding me? a swinger gave me oral gonorrhoea! Do they make tongue condom yet? This may signal the end of swing ![]() ![]() ![]() All this is precisely the reason we dont/wont swing...we are indeed envious though of those who do because it looks like a lot of fun.. Serious question..where does the excitement come from now? when faced with a situation where you have to insist that your prospective partner uses condoms, dental dams, kissing is risky etc etc..in case they are riddled with something? Having to use (and rightly so) a dental dam to lick a female or (a condom in the case of a male) 'just in case' s/he has an STD...wheres the enjoyment there?..with that in the back of your mind? I just thank god that most swingers are probably more responsible than any other group...good on ya too. ![]() | |||
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"are you kidding me? a swinger gave me oral gonorrhoea! Do they make tongue condom yet? This may signal the end of swing ![]() ![]() ![]() All that just for a shag? I rather settle for one very naughty girl lol | |||
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"Errrrr this might sound really stupid but what is it? What are its symptoms? might be worth spending some time looking up 'sexual health' and reading about the wide range of different conditions. " Indeed and to be honest fella , yeh it does sound really stupid, Im not being funny here but your playing a high risk game, and you havnt got a clue about the possible consequences..You have never heard of Gonorrhoea?, Chlamydia?, Syphilis?, NSU?...this is taught/discussed in school...where have you been?? Do yourself a favour, get off of here for half an hour, and google/Wiki it..it might just save yours, and somebody elses life one day. You know it makes sense.. ![]() | |||
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"Errrrr this might sound really stupid but what is it? What are its symptoms? might be worth spending some time looking up 'sexual health' and reading about the wide range of different conditions. Indeed and to be honest fella , yeh it does sound really stupid, Im not being funny here but your playing a high risk game, and you havnt got a clue about the possible consequences..You have never heard of Gonorrhoea?, Chlamydia?, Syphilis?, NSU?...this is taught/discussed in school...where have you been?? Do yourself a favour, get off of here for half an hour, and google/Wiki it..it might just save yours, and somebody elses life one day. You know it makes sense.. ![]() I'm not sure I want to know to tell you the truth! Life is for living, I always wear a condom but that's defiantly as far as its going for me. | |||
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"Errrrr this might sound really stupid but what is it? What are its symptoms? might be worth spending some time looking up 'sexual health' and reading about the wide range of different conditions. Indeed and to be honest fella , yeh it does sound really stupid, Im not being funny here but your playing a high risk game, and you havnt got a clue about the possible consequences..You have never heard of Gonorrhoea?, Chlamydia?, Syphilis?, NSU?...this is taught/discussed in school...where have you been?? Do yourself a favour, get off of here for half an hour, and google/Wiki it..it might just save yours, and somebody elses life one day. You know it makes sense.. ![]() right not being funny but if you think a condom is going to give you 100% protection i think your next step after reading this thats if you read it is to delete you acount and take up kniting as you realy do need to know the risks your takeing by being clue less | |||
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"So to protect ourselves are we to use condoms and dental dams for oral sex?reguler check ups and only play with guys or couples who do the same " How do you know they do though? Lots of people elaborate the truth or are sparse with it when swinging...unless I went with someone & sat in on that test I'm not taking anyone's word. I look after me, me and me. | |||
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"Gonorrhoea...used to be a killer...now making a come back, thats two bullets in the chamber in the game of Russian roulette..Siff will be a third one day.. Thank heavens swingers appear to be responsible people..its when they play out of he circle it probably becomes risky..and for those that are in it..." Syphilis is already on the rise, primarily in Bi/Gay men but also in hetrosexual. 11 fold increase over the last decade and treatment (if and when dignosed) very painful antibiotic injections into muscle ... until that's resitant too! Remember a lot of STI's are symptomless in early stages. | |||
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"are you kidding me? a swinger gave me oral gonorrhoea!" Omg really???? Lady L ![]() | |||
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"are you kidding me? a swinger gave me oral gonorrhoea! Do they make tongue condom yet? This may signal the end of swing ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() smoking is also said to have afew risks! | |||
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"Gonorrhoea...used to be a killer...now making a come back, thats two bullets in the chamber in the game of Russian roulette..Siff will be a third one day.. Thank heavens swingers appear to be responsible people..its when they play out of he circle it probably becomes risky..and for those that are in it... Syphilis is already on the rise, primarily in Bi/Gay men but also in hetrosexual. 11 fold increase over the last decade and treatment (if and when dignosed) very painful antibiotic injections into muscle ... until that's resitant too! Remember a lot of STI's are symptomless in early stages." years ago, someone I played with had syphilis and as a precaution I got the injections.... bloody hell one in each cheek, it goes in slow and deep and then you have to go for a second one. agony..... mind ya, I haven't given birth but have had loads of tattoos and I would rather have twins and tattoo my cock than go thro that again | |||
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" one in each cheek, it goes in slow and deep and then you have to go for a second one. agony..... mind ya, I haven't given birth but have had loads of tattoos and I would rather have twins and tattoo my cock than go thro that again" Wow, I didn't know it was that bad! There are 17,000 new cases in the UK each year, so it's too high a number, the biggest groups being young people - either more risky behaviour, more sex, more stupid, I don't know. I refuse antibiotics, and have for many years, unless absolutely necessary, and assume that most others now do. The problem for the pharmaceutical industry is that there's little profit (according to them!) in antibiotics, so little development has been done on researching new ones etc, and the development time is slow. We need global changes in prescribing behaviour, but this is harder if people can just buy drugs and self 'prescribe', and any locally built resistance is easily passed globally. As another poster said, bacteria are incredibly flexible/'intelligent', in that traits acquired by one type of bacteria can be passed on to a completely different type of bacteria, so resitstance could become the norm very fast. | |||
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" one in each cheek, it goes in slow and deep and then you have to go for a second one. agony..... mind ya, I haven't given birth but have had loads of tattoos and I would rather have twins and tattoo my cock than go thro that again Wow, I didn't know it was that bad! There are 17,000 new cases in the UK each year, so it's too high a number, the biggest groups being young people - either more risky behaviour, more sex, more stupid, I don't know. I refuse antibiotics, and have for many years, unless absolutely necessary, and assume that most others now do. The problem for the pharmaceutical industry is that there's little profit (according to them!) in antibiotics, so little development has been done on researching new ones etc, and the development time is slow. We need global changes in prescribing behaviour, but this is harder if people can just buy drugs and self 'prescribe', and any locally built resistance is easily passed globally. As another poster said, bacteria are incredibly flexible/'intelligent', in that traits acquired by one type of bacteria can be passed on to a completely different type of bacteria, so resitstance could become the norm very fast." there was 2 nurses, 1 injects and the other slowly massages the spot, whilst the other goes round to the other cheek and starts again ![]() | |||
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"are you kidding me? a swinger gave me oral gonorrhoea! Do they make tongue condom yet? This may signal the end of swing ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Indeed, as does fried food, alcohol, and taking 3 paracetamol when you have a tooth ache instead of 2.. Difference being the user is in control of those risks..there are no outside influences such as a partner (or all their partners over the months) who might be carrying something.. | |||
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" there was 2 nurses, 1 injects and the other slowly massages the spot, whilst the other goes round to the other cheek and starts again ![]() At least this is not the standard treatment for gonorrhea, where I think it's tablets! | |||
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"So to protect ourselves are we to use condoms and dental dams for oral sex?reguler check ups and only play with guys or couples who do the same How do you know they do though? Lots of people elaborate the truth or are sparse with it when swinging...unless I went with someone & sat in on that test I'm not taking anyone's word. I look after me, me and me." thats is a very valid point but the last time we were tested it was a bit on the funny side as we were sat in the gum clinic and the 3 guys Jane plays with reguler walked in we had already told them when we were going and they turned up to be tested the same time as we did | |||
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"So to protect ourselves are we to use condoms and dental dams for oral sex?reguler check ups and only play with guys or couples who do the same How do you know they do though? Lots of people elaborate the truth or are sparse with it when swinging...unless I went with someone & sat in on that test I'm not taking anyone's word. I look after me, me and me.thats is a very valid point but the last time we were tested it was a bit on the funny side as we were sat in the gum clinic and the 3 guys Jane plays with reguler walked in we had already told them when we were going and they turned up to be tested the same time as we did " Bloody sensible I call it!! I play with someone I was tested at the same time as. We started playing after we both got the old clear with no play between test and result days. I still get tested every 4 months, don't swallow cum and never fuck without condoms. | |||
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"For oral, the only treatment is an injection in the butt. But I only had one and it didn't hurt at all. It can do though apparently. Perhaps I am just hard?! I think not swallowing cum may be the answer. I know many swingers who play expensively and they still suck cock but don't swallow." in men the gonorrhea in fection lives mainly in the urethra thats why the guy carnt have a pee for atleast one hour before being tested because in most cases if he does the bactiria would be flushed away so giving a false negative when being tested so because of this wether you swollow or not if he has it you could get it its a shame you dont get a certificate when being tested now but even then that proves you were only clear the day you were tested | |||
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" there was 2 nurses, 1 injects and the other slowly massages the spot, whilst the other goes round to the other cheek and starts again ![]() The treatment for all types of gonorrhra is a rather large injection in the bottom, I can't speak for everyone as we all have different pain thresholds, personally injections are just an unpleasant sting in my opinion. Chlymdia is often treated at the same time as gonorrhea and that treatment is 4 tablets. Nurses tend to offer this treatment for both gonorrhea and chlymdia if there was a risk, so at the time of testing it is usually offered. People can wait for their results and have the treatment if they have the infection or have the treatment there and then as it won't do any harm if you're not infection, maybe give you diarrhoea or feel a bit sick. The thing with all bacteria is that they don't stay the same but mutate to form different strains which the previous antibiotic used may not clear up efficiently. That is why we have ongoing medical research. If people are regularly attending GUM clinics, like they claim to be, they would know this info, the doctors do talk to their patients and explain. | |||
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"Gonorrhoea is that the one you can get in the eyes too? correct me if im wrong...... the only way to be sure is no sex!!!! aaaaaaggghhhhh nooooo if your talking about the red and yellow staining in the corner of the eyes by the nose that after a while goes clear leaving what looks like a whole in the corner of the eye and can sometimes leave you blind then no that syphilis also sends you rather mad " Actually you can get gonorrhea infection in the eye,s, | |||
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"I play orally to completion a lot... Always swallow or taste it... And have never ever caught anything. I'm tested often though... There are always things that are out there... As always the risks your prepared to take need to be your own. When at the clinics take time to talk to The staff and they will give you good advice... They never judge and the more honest you are the more they can help... I play bare from time to time and would never use a condom for oral...( would rather not do it) with sexual health you always are responsible for your own....and only you can decide what risks you are prepared to take. Cali " ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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