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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right, i have a little problem that perhaps some of you might be able to help ive never suffered this before until recently, i can go for 20 minutes plus with my wife but recently i had a great encounter with two female partners at the same time who could squirt for england which really turned me on and still does just thinking about it, the problem i have now is as soon as i enter a nice juicy love tube i can't seem to last long at all and want to explode, i'm ok have a bj or even a wank, its the hot juicy sensation that is making me come way too soon Any sexperts out there care to offer me any help or solutions? Ive tried to think about other things at the same time but this isn't working.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Just pace yourself, its what i do. When you feel yourself getting close to cumming, slow down. Wait a few second for the sensation to pass over, and then resume.

Rinse and repeat.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Knock one out before your meet lol

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

Don't be afraid to stop, pull out and go down on her, it usually surprises them and buys you time, keeping her excited while you calm down, other delaying tactics like a change of position or some close contact, passionate kissing, etc work well too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try a adjustable cock ring if you wanted to go a bit longer just remember don't put balls through it especially if it's not adjustable

Husband learnt the HARD way excuse the pun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eeeer condoms? especially the extended pleasure ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knock one out before your meet lol"
damn you beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could just be a passing phase which might burn itself out. I was like that as a teenager, I used to enter, think 'wow what an amazing place for wolf jr to be' and just go off like a rocket. You got three angles to try...

some sort of delay cream/spray

condoms ... like's already been said

and a psychosexual technique like thinking about something else while all that sensation is going off to delay you from the inevitable. Try not to concentrate on cumming and the feeling that trips it. It takes time and practice on this one, but it does work. Just be careful you don't overdo it as you'll end up lasting forever.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knock one out before your meet lol"

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the suggestions so far, its difficult not to think about what i'm doing when i'm thursting one girl from behind while she has her tongue deep inside her partner lapping up all her juices, Keep the suggestions coming though I think what i need is a partner that i can practice various controlled techniques with and not be in a situation of sexual pleasure only. Offers on a post card

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I feel myself getting to the point of no return too early, I usually get a mental image of the ex wife, or mother in law naked

Works every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read many years ago two pieces advice;

1. a guy to make sure he emptied his bladder before sex- will help prolong ejaculaion

2. leaving your bladder full will enhance your errection

Now to be honest the latter i tried a few times and it doe have some effect- so wider survey needed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tactical wank..

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Just think of your Wife at home with the kids ...that should do it.

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast


"Knock one out before your meet lol"

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By *iketotrynewpeopleCouple
over a year ago

meath


"Thanks for all the suggestions so far, its difficult not to think about what i'm doing when i'm thursting one girl from behind while she has her tongue deep inside her partner lapping up all her juices, Keep the suggestions coming though I think what i need is a partner that i can practice various controlled techniques with and not be in a situation of sexual pleasure only. Offers on a post card "

your wife could be your partner to practice with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask your wife, just say i last ages when i'm doing you but with these other ladies i cum in seconds, what do you do different?

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

poster of maggie thatcher above the beed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knock one out before your meet lol"

I would not recommend this... Tried it once and ended up not being able to cum once I met up! She thought there was a problem with her... Not pretty!!

Hahah

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By *ursevampsWoman
over a year ago

bucks

have you started a new couse of tablets that may actaully effect it as well not normally thought about tbh but it is there as said above relax just dont try hard enjoy it you can always just use different things like toys or even tongue or fingers till you calm down again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her to bite ur arm or bit ur own tounge til its uncomfortable just to take ur mind off it.. Or sing postman pat in ur head has worked for me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and a psychosexual technique like thinking about something else while all that sensation is going off to delay you from the inevitable. Try not to concentrate on cumming and the feeling that trips it. It takes time and practice on this one, but it does work. Just be careful you don't overdo it as you'll end up lasting forever.

Wolf

"

Yep ejaculation control works best for me. Learnt it years ago and once you've mastered it, its like riding a bike (perhaps I should rephrase that before I am assassinated on here!!). Have a google for anything related to Ron Jeremy and see if there are interviews with him - he discusses E.C. when talking about his porn career quite often.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"have you started a new couse of tablets that may actaully effect it as well not normally thought about tbh but it is there as said above relax just dont try hard enjoy it you can always just use different things like toys or even tongue or fingers till you calm down again "

No, no tablets, i don't smoke or drink either, unless its love juice.

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By *1ckeyMan
over a year ago

Camberley

Try having an orgasm without ejaculating, it can be a heap load of fun once you get over the electric tingling just after you peak, but it means the cannons still loaded for more fun

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!

Get them to verify you on here and then we can ask them what they are doing to mske the big gun salute go off before midday lol.

Unless they are both

not on tbis site of course

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham

I don't think it's a problem if you can reload quickly!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Had this problem when first discovering the joys of sex, but fortunately was able to get hard and go back in very soon after cumming. A bit later on, realized if I didn't pull out after I'd cum but kept going instead, I'd keep hard. Still works for me today, give it a try!

There are other alternatives - you can train yourself to 'dry cum' and have a mini-orgasm which will delay your shooting your load until you (and the woman) want. Another way I use is to stop thrusting when I feel cummy, stay inside the female and have a long kissing session before starting again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you have a dry cum? Its always a full load for me

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