FabSwingers.com forum: Sub space good.

By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Drop bad.

Not animal farm however, is one worth the other?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

For me, the space and the cathartic release is worth the drop. But aftercare is essential when it comes to drop, i get quite anxious and quite down on myself (I once nearly quit my degree because of it)

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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"For me, the space and the cathartic release is worth the drop. But aftercare is essential when it comes to drop, i get quite anxious and quite down on myself (I once nearly quit my degree because of it) "

I personally think it is a massive drop from euphoria to...

You move from a non cognitive space to, well cognitive domestic place.

There are ways to to bridge it, you are right after care is one of them.

Thank you lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please excuse my ignorance. Is there somewhere i could read up on this process? Just so i understand the terms better.

Why is there a drop after sub space?

Im not submissive but would very much like to increase my understanding.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Yes more often than not the release and catharsis of subspace is worth the drop. Initially before I learnt to manage the drop, is was a bit hellish. But developed better aftercare over time.

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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Please excuse my ignorance. Is there somewhere i could read up on this process? Just so i understand the terms better.

Why is there a drop after sub space?

Im not submissive but would very much like to increase my understanding. "

There is no right answer.

Subspace is when the cognitive mind is overcome by sensual overload.

It often creates a orgasm that can roll and multiply.

So your high is very high.

George Miller and 7+/-2 cognitive thinking is your friend with this.

The sub drop is a massive difference from all the happy hormones to (I suspect) a feeling of insecurity (my words), perhaps vulnerability might be a better word.

You would need to talk to subs, don’t talk to people like me, my perspective comes from one view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please excuse my ignorance. Is there somewhere i could read up on this process? Just so i understand the terms better.

Why is there a drop after sub space?

Im not submissive but would very much like to increase my understanding.

There is no right answer.

Subspace is when the cognitive mind is overcome by sensual overload.

It often creates a orgasm that can roll and multiply.

So your high is very high.

George Miller and 7+/-2 cognitive thinking is your friend with this.

The sub drop is a massive difference from all the happy hormones to (I suspect) a feeling of insecurity (my words), perhaps vulnerability might be a better word.

You would need to talk to subs, don’t talk to people like me, my perspective comes from one view."

Thank you for the pointers xxx

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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Please excuse my ignorance. Is there somewhere i could read up on this process? Just so i understand the terms better.

Why is there a drop after sub space?

Im not submissive but would very much like to increase my understanding.

There is no right answer.

Subspace is when the cognitive mind is overcome by sensual overload.

It often creates a orgasm that can roll and multiply.

So your high is very high.

George Miller and 7+/-2 cognitive thinking is your friend with this.

The sub drop is a massive difference from all the happy hormones to (I suspect) a feeling of insecurity (my words), perhaps vulnerability might be a better word.

You would need to talk to subs, don’t talk to people like me, my perspective comes from one view.

Thank you for the pointers xxx"

You are welcome,

Have fun.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"I personally think it is a massive drop from euphoria to...

You move from a non cognitive space to, well cognitive domestic place.

There are ways to to bridge it, you are right after care is one of them.

Thank you lady."

You're more than welcome. Take care lovely.

Do the nice things to make you feel more secure and protected.

I can't do much other than tell you nice things about you. Put my messages are always open x

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

You never know if your gonna get sub drop, or even Top drop. I've had one masdive sub drop. We'd been to Birmingham for the weekend. Had fun in out hotel. Been to a swingers club in the evening, then the BBB daytime and after party.

Such an amazing weekend, but the drop lasted around 3 days. Such an amazing weekend, I didn't it to end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%.

the drop is worth the euphoria i feel while in ss.

As highlighted above, aftercare is so so SO important. if you don't already have communication with your partner re: what happens next, then (from personal, naive experience) the drop could be horrific, depressing, and in some cases dangerous.

that being said, when you have someone you've built the relationship with, both mental, emotional and physical, and have communication with, being worked up to that point where you're at that height, and you purge every other thought or feeling you have.. the release is overwhelming. That mind-altering, floating in the stars, deliciously tingly feeling you get when you just relinquish everything, and are just there in your ss bubble.

im generalising here.. but aren't we all chasing that perfect high?

great thread OP

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