FabSwingers.com forum: username and avatar

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Have you ever NOT want to reply to a message in your inbox solely because of their username and avatar photo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many times

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By *xyBs2022Couple
over a year ago

Lancs

Yes very often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of times

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Yes i think username and especially pictures can tell you a lot about the person behind them

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

Yes, quite a few actually,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever NOT want to reply to a message in your inbox solely because of their username and avatar photo? "

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but its always blokes for some reason,

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Have you ever NOT want to reply to a message in your inbox solely because of their username and avatar photo? "

Yes, either can be a killer. A cock avatar is likely to have the message deleted with no reply. In our experience users with names like "DaveWithTheMassiveCockToFuckYourMrsUpTheArseWhileYouWatch" rarely have anything interesting to say in a message anyway.

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Have you ever NOT want to reply to a message in your inbox solely because of their username and avatar photo?

Yup, this.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

You mean this is why I didn't have much success when I was pussycrusher69?

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Very often. Close-up shots of erect cocks for profile pictures are a sure fire way to get a quick delete.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Everyday

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

My original user name wasn't outrageous, but was still embarrassed to change it when I said it out loud - I think that's well worth doing as a test!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm what does my username and avatar tell about me i wonder?

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes....it does put me off a bit if I do not like either. Might take us longer to reply.

MsD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Numerous times

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

Names with "dirty" in them make us think twice... I'm sure they are referring to how kinky they like to play, but what if its a reference to their hygiene???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, we also rarely reply if the message consists of just a ‘hi’ or ‘wassup sexy?’.

Make the effort or don’t bother? There seems to be a massive misconception especially with single males that being on a swinger site means you’re desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep we have definitely done this. It also makes us think what image we should use. And for some reason pictures of me always lower the responses!

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

Also names with "virgin" in them. We want someone who knows what their doing, not desperate to lose the tag.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Lots of times, and I don't reply either.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

yep!

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By *airyChestedDaveMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I want to change my user name just don’t what to call myself, any suggestions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. And if the message first line is in txt spk then its deleted wothout being read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah definitely

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By *siancouplehantsCouple
over a year ago

K-PAX

Everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aye 100%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Have you ever NOT want to reply to a message in your inbox solely because of their username and avatar photo? "

Yes

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

All the time

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By *ackardMan
over a year ago

North West & beyond

Mine username is the make of PC I had at the time I joined up as I couldn’t think of anything else. Lol.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

We hope that our user name is taken as a tounge in cheek humour than as something sleezy in a Columbo mac...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm to ugly to be that picky

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Far too often

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By *oldFeetMan
over a year ago

leeds

You should try have the name "cold feet" ha ha...!

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Yep and it's usually the men, cock pics and names like pussy destroyer (not sure if that is an actual username on here)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever NOT want to reply to a message in your inbox solely because of their username and avatar photo? "

More times than I can count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wonder if mine does? Not sure what to use as an avatar, if I don’t want to show my face to everyone woman and her dog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the stripper on YouTube that looks like He Man... His name was Cunt Smasher

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

"I always wonder if mine does? Not sure what to use as an avatar, if I don’t want to show my face to everyone woman and her dog. "

No issues there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever NOT want to reply to a message in your inbox solely because of their username and avatar photo? "

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oupGA_QVVUE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was under the impression this is how women decided to reply. I can't change my face unfortunately and given up trying to second guess what my username says about me (so currently related to a bowling for soup song) That's why I rely on meeting at clubs.

*sigh* can't wait for the clubs to re open.

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

Goes without saying

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"You mean this is why I didn't have much success when I was pussycrusher69? "

some women might like 69rs

not me if anyone ask

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I was under the impression this is how women decided to reply. I can't change my face unfortunately and given up trying to second guess what my username says about me (so currently related to a bowling for soup song) That's why I rely on meeting at clubs.

*sigh* can't wait for the clubs to re open. "

do you have much easier time at clubs with women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*sigh* can't wait for the clubs to re open.

do you have much easier time at clubs with women? "

Yeah definitely. Not claiming to be a Don Juan by any stretch, but I do ok. So much easier when you can start a conversation and get to know people. It's hard to even get messages opened on here.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every day. "

Bet you love being Mrs Popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyday "

This.....

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

*sigh* can't wait for the clubs to re open.

do you have much easier time at clubs with women?

Yeah definitely. Not claiming to be a Don Juan by any stretch, but I do ok. So much easier when you can start a conversation and get to know people. It's hard to even get messages opened on here. "

Yeah i think online, people are too judgemental or more fussier. Where in clubs, people can see in person if there's a spark or they get too horny because they in that environment to be horny. I duno if I like someone to be interested in me for only my body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*sigh* can't wait for the clubs to re open.

do you have much easier time at clubs with women?

Yeah definitely. Not claiming to be a Don Juan by any stretch, but I do ok. So much easier when you can start a conversation and get to know people. It's hard to even get messages opened on here.

I'm a lot like that. Don't get me wrong there has to be an attraction, but that isn't strictly limited to looks. Hard to convey warmth, humour, and fun over a profile sometimes (without going slapstick I mean haha)

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