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By *ondon_Mark OP   Man
over a year ago

Central London

Have enjoyed a few mmf and mff with the wife but she wants to enjoy some more play alone now, both one on one and mmf. I am fine with this but just wondering what road we end up going down as enjoy the mixed play with her. Anyone had this, does the play tend to carry on as a couple too or does it disappear and each enjoying their own mixed play elsewhere? Comments welcome.

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By *edGMan
over a year ago

Daventry

My wife plays alone both with other guys and I also play alone with others. Does she let you play with others alone?

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Does she have her own profile like you do and do you play alone?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Do you have a couples profile ?

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By *ondon_Mark OP   Man
over a year ago

Central London

We both have a singles profile and a couples one. We discussed that we would both play alone.

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By *enedict2020Man
over a year ago

London

Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both have a singles profile and a couples one. We discussed that we would both play alone."

What is your couples profile

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over"
I can't see how that would be the case.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over"

Not necessarily, we know several couples on here that play alone and are happily married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're probably better discussing it with her

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"We both have a singles profile and a couples one. We discussed that we would both play alone."
you have to accept she will get more messages and attention than you. Does she tell you all about it on her return?

Does she want to play alone or just extra cock?

Does she just need more??

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By *ondon_Mark OP   Man
over a year ago

Central London

When having done swaps in different rooms we always talk about it. What she enjoyed etc.

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By *ondon_Mark OP   Man
over a year ago

Central London

We have a couple of regular couples and a guy we see regularly. Well, not for 3 months!

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By *bbott24Couple
over a year ago

Devizes

Jane plays alone a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have you got a single guy profile if you have a wife ?

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

I play alone but hubby doesnt , it was his idea as it turns him on but to be honest most of my meets end up socials its something i would choose to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over"

Sounds like an accurate assessment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it is different in every case - sometimes one partner is trying to find a way out and get a New relationship- in other cases they just want a little bit of independence.

Hard to make a general statement

More to life and relationships than just sex

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

This is something we are discussing at the moment as I would like to meet select men or even women, who we both know one to one. I thoroughly enjoy mmf and couple play with hubby and can't see me wanting to stop that as I get a huge thrill of doing that together. I just want to experience a different dynamic and be able to concentrate on one person.

Of course I understand this is a huge change for us so we're in no rush and at the moment all we can do is talk about it anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play alone and hubby and I have sex more the more I play elsewhere, it spurs us on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I really love Minnie doing and hope she does in the future but it’s a subject you have to really talk over and make sure it’s right for both of you, not just one!

We had this discussion over the weekend and we were adamant that if it felt wrong for one of us then it doesn’t happen! Only fun if both want it and will end very badly if that isn’t the case. I couldn’t live with myself if I thought I’d pressured Minnie into doing this and knowing she only did it to make me happy and vice versa. I’d rather go without than live with that thought, we’ve got too much respect for each other than to do that and I’d hope you guys would be exactly the same

Mickey x

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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over"
Not necessarilly depends on the relationship.My wife meets now on her own this is a cuckold marriage and she must act as if she is a single woman now .Cuck very happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have enjoyed a few mmf and mff with the wife but she wants to enjoy some more play alone now, both one on one and mmf. I am fine with this but just wondering what road we end up going down as enjoy the mixed play with her. Anyone had this, does the play tend to carry on as a couple too or does it disappear and each enjoying their own mixed play elsewhere? Comments welcome."

Husband and I started as meeting together only. Later we decided that meeting separately is also an option. We're still looking to meet together (via couple's profile) as well as separately.

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"We both have a singles profile and a couples one. We discussed that we would both play alone."

So if you both have singles profiles and discussed that you'll both play alone then go ahead and do it the see if it has a positive or negative effect on you relationship

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over"

And some couples say it makes their relationship stronger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always meet together on the first date.After that I have met guys alone.

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton

A couple that plays together stays together seen it many times with couples who start playing alone never ends well and we been playing for 35 years

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"We always meet together on the first date.After that I have met guys alone.

"

This is the best advise, you don’t want your loved one alone with a stranger you’ve never met.

Only go this way if you like the idea of her with other guys (hotwife/cuck) or you’ll regret it I suspect.

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

We play as a couple as well as alone.

It can be difficult for us both to play at the same time due to family commitments or the fact one of us is not attracted to the other party.

It just adds another dimension to our relationship.

Communication is key as with most things on the "scene"

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By *arystark40Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I play alone and hubby and I have sex more the more I play elsewhere, it spurs us on."

I can see how it would too...lol

And has anyone said what a long tongue you have.

Gorgeous girl.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over"

Who is this some people? Ridiculous comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always meet together on the first date.After that I have met guys alone.

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By *enedict2020Man
over a year ago

London


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over

Who is this some people? Ridiculous comment. "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over

Who is this some people? Ridiculous comment.

Why?"

Because its not effectively over, most cases I've seen have actually enhanced the relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over

Who is this some people? Ridiculous comment.

Why?

Because its not effectively over, most cases I've seen have actually enhanced the relationships. "

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes


"We both have a singles profile and a couples one. We discussed that we would both play alone.

What is your couples profile "

The silence is deafening

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By *enedict2020Man
over a year ago

London


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over

Who is this some people? Ridiculous comment.

Why?

Because its not effectively over, most cases I've seen have actually enhanced the relationships. "

The ones I’ve seen and the people I’ve spoken to have said the opposite! Funny that. But that’s the beauty of this life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over"

Not necessarily the case; could well be just a new stage. There’s more to being with someone than sex.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over

Who is this some people? Ridiculous comment.

Why?

Because its not effectively over, most cases I've seen have actually enhanced the relationships.

The ones I’ve seen and the people I’ve spoken to have said the opposite! Funny that. But that’s the beauty of this life "

Definitly a ridiculous comment . If you wasnt in a strong relationship in the first place you wouldnt go down that route .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprised she hasn’t spotted this post yet. Ultimately you just need to decide together what you’re both comfortable with and take it from there. Small steps might be best!

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over"

Ha! What utter drivel!

We've been doing this for 14 years now and are closer than ever

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over

Sounds like an accurate assessment"

Wrong!

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over

And some couples say it makes their relationship stronger "

This

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Have enjoyed a few mmf and mff with the wife but she wants to enjoy some more play alone now, both one on one and mmf. I am fine with this but just wondering what road we end up going down as enjoy the mixed play with her. Anyone had this, does the play tend to carry on as a couple too or does it disappear and each enjoying their own mixed play elsewhere? Comments welcome."

In my case the play as a couple stopped, I liked it, she didn't so we stopped, now she does her thing which turns me on hugely and which I love to hear and or see about, and if I sometimes get a chance, then I do mine, which honestly doesn't turn her on as much but which she is fine with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both play alone as well as playing as a couple, it’s what you’re comfortable with at the end of the day. We both enjoy hearing about the others experience when playing alone and have great sex while talking about it!

I guess if the thought of it doesn’t turn you on then when it actually happens it also won’t turn you on.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

correct

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over

Who is this some people? Ridiculous comment. "

its true ones she meets men on her own she will find one that gives her more sex than you and then want to play with him and others not you

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Its all about the reclaim ...and all the sordid details afterwards ..

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe


"Its all about the reclaim ...and all the sordid details afterwards .."

I really agree with that bit but its happened to me and other women I know I can only go off passed experiences.

the knowing what went on is the biggest turn on any man can here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over"
Not in our case. Worked for us for years.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively overNot in our case. Worked for us for years."

Depends on how strong the relationship is to start with. I knew a couple who split up after they started playing alone.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I've been playing alone for 25 years and hubby waits at home to hear the naughty details

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
over a year ago

Highbridge


"I've been playing alone for 25 years and hubby waits at home to hear the naughty details "

I'm sure that there would be far fewer divorces if more couples experimented in the lifestyle.

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By *arystark40Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I've been playing alone for 25 years and hubby waits at home to hear the naughty details

I'm sure that there would be far fewer divorces if more couples experimented in the lifestyle.

"

This

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By *rit-gentMan
over a year ago

cannock

I would just relax and let her do as she pleases... let’s face it you can’t stop her if she wants to do it she will best to know what’s she’s doing rather than behind your back... who knows you might love it

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Welcome to the wonderful world of being a cuckold. Embrace it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over"
In some cases this may be true, but it is a bit of a black and white assumption. Sandra has played alone for many years and we are still ok.

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby


"Have enjoyed a few mmf and mff with the wife but she wants to enjoy some more play alone now, both one on one and mmf. I am fine with this but just wondering what road we end up going down as enjoy the mixed play with her. Anyone had this, does the play tend to carry on as a couple too or does it disappear and each enjoying their own mixed play elsewhere? Comments welcome.

In my case the play as a couple stopped, I liked it, she didn't so we stopped, now she does her thing which turns me on hugely and which I love to hear and or see about, and if I sometimes get a chance, then I do mine, which honestly doesn't turn her on as much but which she is fine with. "

If if doesn't turn her on why would you do it? Being 'fine with it' sounds like she's taking one for the team, which imho is a recipe for disaster.

Mrs.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

As a cuck, I’ve always encouraged my wife to play solo, she can tell me as much or less as she wants afterwards but surely it’s about her pleasure so she doesn’t want me getting in the way, OP should take the same approach.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Have enjoyed a few mmf and mff with the wife but she wants to enjoy some more play alone now, both one on one and mmf. I am fine with this but just wondering what road we end up going down as enjoy the mixed play with her. Anyone had this, does the play tend to carry on as a couple too or does it disappear and each enjoying their own mixed play elsewhere? Comments welcome.

In my case the play as a couple stopped, I liked it, she didn't so we stopped, now she does her thing which turns me on hugely and which I love to hear and or see about, and if I sometimes get a chance, then I do mine, which honestly doesn't turn her on as much but which she is fine with.

If if doesn't turn her on why would you do it? Being 'fine with it' sounds like she's taking one for the team, which imho is a recipe for disaster.

Mrs.

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No she does her thing which she loves to do. What makes you think she's taking anything for the team?

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Some people say that once you get this stage your relationship is effectively over"

Wow so all the hotwife. Stag/vixen and cuckold couples on here are a waste of time ehh

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby


"Have enjoyed a few mmf and mff with the wife but she wants to enjoy some more play alone now, both one on one and mmf. I am fine with this but just wondering what road we end up going down as enjoy the mixed play with her. Anyone had this, does the play tend to carry on as a couple too or does it disappear and each enjoying their own mixed play elsewhere? Comments welcome.

In my case the play as a couple stopped, I liked it, she didn't so we stopped, now she does her thing which turns me on hugely and which I love to hear and or see about, and if I sometimes get a chance, then I do mine, which honestly doesn't turn her on as much but which she is fine with.

If if doesn't turn her on why would you do it? Being 'fine with it' sounds like she's taking one for the team, which imho is a recipe for disaster.

Mrs.

No she does her thing which she loves to do. What makes you think she's taking anything for the team? "

Which is fine but swinging isnt tit for tat, its about mutual pleasure. If she doesn't enjoy you doing 'your thing', why would you put her through it?

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