FabSwingers.com forum: Odd thing with fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unattractive is subjective surely?

Most cpls I've spoken too, have been great to briefly chat to, on here and in clubs x

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Unattractive is subjective surely?

Most cpls I've spoken too, have been great to briefly chat to, on here and in clubs x

This

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

We give everyone the benefit of the doubt.... we either click and have the attraction or we dont its not all about looks its also how someone's attitude is towards others.

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Supply and demand mate.

Thousands of single guys fighting for the attention of a hundreds of couples.

I don't blame them for being selective.

Why would you want to fuck someone you would normally not give a second look?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Supply and demand mate.

Thousands of single guys fighting for the attention of a hundreds of couples.

I don't blame them for being selective.

Why would you want to fuck someone you would normally not give a second look?"

You are missing the point tbh, I was just starting a debate, I understand that they are obviously in demand.

Its the rude and arrogant nature of some not all on fab, and are usually mf couples, kindness and respect costs nothing.

I am always respectful and kind to everyone.

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Supply and demand mate.

Thousands of single guys fighting for the attention of a hundreds of couples.

I don't blame them for being selective.

Why would you want to fuck someone you would normally not give a second look?

You are missing the point tbh, I was just starting a debate, I understand that they are obviously in demand.

Its the rude and arrogant nature of some not all on fab, and are usually mf couples, kindness and respect costs nothing.

I am always respectful and kind to everyone. "

I get you.

I know a couple really well that I often meet at the club, they have shown me some of the messages they receive from single guys.

They had 54 messages from single guys with the bulk being a cock pic asking if the could meet.

They don't even reply, they automatically delete the messages as they state what they are looking for in thier profile.

As for kindness and respect, the rules of fab state no reply not interested.

Some guys have a hard time accepting this.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Some people are just very rude to the visitors to their inbox in general, some of the things I’ve heard that women and couples have replied to folk make my hairs stand on end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good replies here, defo works both ways. Always stay polite & respectful, as long as you do your but then any shitty response from a couple / single guy or woman just tells you that's not somebody you want to be meeting

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Some people are just very rude to the visitors to their inbox in general, some of the things I’ve heard that women and couples have replied to folk make my hairs stand on end "

To that end, also some of the inboxes I have witnessed are not much nicer either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*do your bit

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Supply and demand mate.

Thousands of single guys fighting for the attention of a hundreds of couples.

I don't blame them for being selective.

Why would you want to fuck someone you would normally not give a second look?

You are missing the point tbh, I was just starting a debate, I understand that they are obviously in demand.

Its the rude and arrogant nature of some not all on fab, and are usually mf couples, kindness and respect costs nothing.

I am always respectful and kind to everyone. "

Your original post wasn't respectful or kind.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The long and the short of it is that some people are horrible to other people and some people aren't. This applies to couples, single woman, single men and every other combination of fab members.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Couples are taking the leap of bringing someone into a personal situation, their entitled to be choosy.

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

The amount of inboxes we get for single guys that’s start with...you are stunning, I would love to fuck you etc etc, when we reply but I’m straight, they always send back isn’t this a couples profile???

We always reply with yes so why didn’t you address us both?

Swiftly followed by a block

We’re not horrible or rude, if most addresses couples in the first message they may get a decent reply back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s because they can

It’s a sellers market in effect

And if they’re that ugly why do folks need to contact them etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of inboxes we get for single guys that’s start with...you are stunning, I would love to fuck you etc etc, when we reply but I’m straight, they always send back isn’t this a couples profile???

We always reply with yes so why didn’t you address us both?

Yes in the main these people have only themselves to blame

Lack of basic social skills and presumptuous attitudes are all too common

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We’re not horrible or rude, if most addresses couples in the first message they may get a decent reply back

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation. "

Just an observation of my own. Why would someone as mega attractive as you feel you are be communicating with these unattractive people?

They definitely don't deserve anyone so shallow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation. "

Just had a look at your bio and you say you are very selective, so why communicate in the first place with people you wouldn’t give a second look in real life?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation. "

I'm confused, if you wouldn't give them a second look in the real world then why would you message them?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Ugly is at a premium?

Thank fuck for that

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation. "

I don't think I have seen much of what you are referring to but that could be we see things from the side of the fence we are each on.

We are polite and respectful to anybody who is polite and respectful on Fab, whether it's to us or in general on the forums. I do tend to get shitty with people who think they are entitled and/or have no idea how to talk to a couple. That sounds like a fair balance to me and I hope we get it right most of the time. Luke

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I found fab to getting or as gone to nothing more than a limited talking shop .... others might disagree but that’s what I’ve found... changed so much recently from what it was a few years ago ... but hey ho

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

What’s wrong op has an ugly person turned you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In almost the reverse though I find myself sometimes with messages from guys who are way out of my league. Like in the real world I know they wouldn't so much as look, let alone look twice. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In almost the reverse though I find myself sometimes with messages from guys who are way out of my league. Like in the real world I know they wouldn't so much as look, let alone look twice. X"

Guys that wouldn't look twice at you?? Dont think there would be many of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In almost the reverse though I find myself sometimes with messages from guys who are way out of my league. Like in the real world I know they wouldn't so much as look, let alone look twice. X

Guys that wouldn't look twice at you?? Dont think there would be many of them

Hahah there are plenty, I've got my feet perfectly on the ground, don't float around the clouds

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By *aretobareCouple
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Is that why you don't show the verifications from the presumably "unattractive" couples that you have met? Taking tips from Donald Trump on how to ingratiate yourself. Surely attractiveness is subjective, we sometimes find it surprising how often we meet "attractive couples" and when they open their mouths they suddenly become extremely unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always reply with yes so why didn’t you address us both?

Swiftly followed by a block

We’re not horrible or rude, if most addresses couples in the first message they may get a decent reply back

This.

For us, the world of Fabs is the same as the “normal” world. If people are disrespectful to us in their messages to us then they cannot expect sweetness and light in return.

Have some replies to messages like that been sarcastic - yep - guilty (Fire).

Have some been blunt - yep - Guilty (both of us).

And do we just delete some messages - yes. We always try to reply to nice polite messages but why some people think they’re entitled to a reply ....well as others have said, the site makes it clear about what no reply means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that why you don't show the verifications from the presumably "unattractive" couples that you have met? Taking tips from Donald Trump on how to ingratiate yourself. Surely attractiveness is subjective, we sometimes find it surprising how often we meet "attractive couples" and when they open their mouths they suddenly become extremely unattractive."

So true - physical attraction is only a small part of the equation for us. There has to be a connection and that comes from peoples personalities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In almost the reverse though I find myself sometimes with messages from guys who are way out of my league. Like in the real world I know they wouldn't so much as look, let alone look twice. X"

This

Guys who wouldn’t look twice in a nightclub but can’t handle being rejected on here or think they’re gonna get a meet just because they have a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In almost the reverse though I find myself sometimes with messages from guys who are way out of my league. Like in the real world I know they wouldn't so much as look, let alone look twice. X

This

Guys who wouldn’t look twice in a nightclub but can’t handle being rejected on here or think they’re gonna get a meet just because they have a dick."

Exactly. I'm not stupid and clearly have eyes. Hahaha! X

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation. "

This must be why we hardly receive messages. People assume we’re unattractive and don’t want to be lorded over?! Sigh although in the real world we wouldn’t be inviting people to join us for sex so we wouldn’t expect anyone to give us a second look there anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love this lol,the so called attractive looking couples seem to have the shittiest of attitudes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people are just very rude to the visitors to their inbox in general, some of the things I’ve heard that women and couples have replied to folk make my hairs stand on end "

Exactly my point, kindness cost's nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Supply and demand mate.

Thousands of single guys fighting for the attention of a hundreds of couples.

I don't blame them for being selective.

Why would you want to fuck someone you would normally not give a second look?

You are missing the point tbh, I was just starting a debate, I understand that they are obviously in demand.

Its the rude and arrogant nature of some not all on fab, and are usually mf couples, kindness and respect costs nothing.

I am always respectful and kind to everyone.

Your original post wasn't respectful or kind. "

It was to start a conversation it wasn't aimed at anyone in particular.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"What’s wrong op has an ugly person turned you down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Unfortunately I don't show my verifications to everyone as I find that some people I meet prefer me not to.

I would gladly share one privately if I see a point to it, and have permission from the lady/couple who posted it to me

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Honestly we’re here to meet couples & single females were both mutually attracted to and to have fun with

We’re not here to reply to every single person who sends us a message just to keep them happy

Same way we wouldn’t go around a club introducing ourselves and blowing smoke up peoples arse who we don’t find attractive, have no intention of playing with, just to massage some egos

We’ve replied to messages in the past trying to be polite and then get bombarded with cock pics, demands for face pics, people demanding meets and replies instantly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Loving the debate btw much better than what would you do to the profile above thread's that are here every day

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Haha - weird conversation starter. Here's another one.

I find that every once in a while you'll hear a self-entitled moan from someone who thinks those he deems to be below his normal standards should be grateful that he's deigned to offer them a specimen which is well beyond what they deserve, and is annoyed when they turn it down.

Just an observation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haha - weird conversation starter. Here's another one.

Just an observation. "

So don't think I'm self entitled and never will be, just a normal man starting an interesting debate.

I'll know not to do it again.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Haha - weird conversation starter. Here's another one.

Just an observation.

So don't think I'm self entitled and never will be, just a normal man starting an interesting debate.

I'll know not to do it again. "

Debate is welcome but to be fair you started this one with a post skewed towards your point of view. If you'd posted a neutral question putting your observation forward as one possibility and asking for alternatives it might have gone differently but not necessarily.

Unfortunately you will always get people commenting in the way they have assuming you've been turned down etc.

For what it's worth I think that fab reflects the real world and some people will exploit a position of advantage if they can.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

oh no.. i seen these kinda threads before and they don't end well...

good luck op

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Loving the debate btw much better than what would you do to the profile above thread's that are here every day

keep digging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haha - weird conversation starter. Here's another one.

Just an observation.

So don't think I'm self entitled and never will be, just a normal man starting an interesting debate.

I'll know not to do it again.

Unfortunately you will always get people commenting in the way they have assuming you've been turned down etc.

For what it's worth I think that fab reflects the real world and some people will exploit a position of advantage if they can. "

Wise word's, I must add I've chatted to and met some wonderful people on fab, its by no means all negative and sorry if I sounded a bit like a moaner

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation. "

Why are these guys contacting people who they do not find attractive?

What do you mean by 'lording it?'

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton

"We give everyone the benefit of the doubt.... we either click and have the attraction or we dont its not all about looks its also how someone's attitude is towards others.

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We agree wholeheartedly

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By *otstuffbabeCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"What’s wrong op has an ugly person turned you down

it would seem so - brilliant!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Haha - weird conversation starter. Here's another one.

Just an observation.

So don't think I'm self entitled and never will be, just a normal man starting an interesting debate.

I'll know not to do it again.

Unfortunately you will always get people commenting in the way they have assuming you've been turned down etc.

For what it's worth I think that fab reflects the real world and some people will exploit a position of advantage if they can.

Wise word's, I must add I've chatted to and met some wonderful people on fab, its by no means all negative and sorry if I sounded a bit like a moaner "

No need to apologise. You triggered some of the usual responses and it can feel a bit like people are piling in on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has there own likes same as every couple has their own likes and dislikes. Their preferences and those that are definitely not for them. We have a profile we've written and someday get bombarded with messages friend requests winks 99% of which aren't of interest to us for one reason or another. As many say its hard to respond to all and many dont like being rejected even if done in a polite way. When people say they've read your profile and ask or offer things your not into then it gets frustrating..so it possibly can appear that some people appear to take a superior attitude when they are being bombarded with offers, its not personal just facts of life..lets face it there are days when people don't feel like socialising or being as open and friendly as on another day....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly we’re here to meet couples & single females were both mutually attracted to and to have fun with

We’re not here to reply to every single person who sends us a message just to keep them happy

Same way we wouldn’t go around a club introducing ourselves and blowing smoke up peoples arse who we don’t find attractive, have no intention of playing with, just to massage some egos

We’ve replied to messages in the past trying to be polite and then get bombarded with cock pics, demands for face pics, people demanding meets and replies instantly

Yep - this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly we’re here to meet couples & single females were both mutually attracted to and to have fun with

We’re not here to reply to every single person who sends us a message just to keep them happy

Same way we wouldn’t go around a club introducing ourselves and blowing smoke up peoples arse who we don’t find attractive, have no intention of playing with, just to massage some egos

We’ve replied to messages in the past trying to be polite and then get bombarded with cock pics, demands for face pics, people demanding meets and replies instantly

Exactly this but pretty sure we have sent more than dick pics to your inbox lol

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"The long and the short of it is that some people are horrible to other people and some people aren't. This applies to couples, single woman, single men and every other combination of fab members. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that there are some people on here with overinflated egos, but that doesn't just go for couples.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"I would say that there are some people on here with overinflated egos, but that doesn't just go for couples."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation.

Why are these guys contacting people who they do not find attractive?

What do you mean by 'lording it?'"

I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation. "

Unfortunately it's because so many single men are clueless when it comes to talking to couples.

We have had so many "hey" or "nice tits" messages from them and of course cock pics.

If you put in the effort then you get the same back but usually it's a delete as we have nothing to work with.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation.

Why are these guys contacting people who they do not find attractive?

What do you mean by 'lording it?'

I'm not "

If you're not, then I'm wondering what information you are basing your initial observations on?

I hang about the forums quite a lot & I've not seen much evidence of couples, unattractive or otherwise, 'lording it' over anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loving the debate btw much better than what would you do to the profile above thread's that are here every day

Each to their own. Room on this forum for everything to be spoke about.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unattractive is subjective surely?

Most cpls I've spoken too, have been great to briefly chat to, on here and in clubs x

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By *unandlaughter69Couple
over a year ago

Boston

Have chatted to lovely peeps on here and at clubs. Havnt been physically attracted to some, but then again we dont really have a type, so once we got to know them and enjoyed the banter, dancing and chat, have ended up enjoying spending time in the bedroom with them.

Couples and single girls do get to pick from a large pack of men on here, which is why we can punch way above our weight

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By *east88Couple
over a year ago

darlington

We get that a lot

Guys just sending a Hi and that’s it.

I mean if your going to spend the night with us having a crazy time. The least you can do out of respect is strike up a conversation.

We find it really rude when guys dont seem to give a damn.

I suspect it’s like spam. Send out loads of messages hoping for one to bite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation.

Why are these guys contacting people who they do not find attractive?

What do you mean by 'lording it?'

I'm not

If you're not, then I'm wondering what information you are basing your initial observations on?

I hang about the forums quite a lot & I've not seen much evidence of couples, unattractive or otherwise, 'lording it' over anyone. "

As even tho almost all couples request pictures, they often do not reciprocate, so you chat for a while until they finally show you one.

And at that point you then see that you are not attracted to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Loving the debate btw much better than what would you do to the profile above thread's that are here every day

Each to their own. Room on this forum for everything to be spoke about.....

Exactly, I was just starting a debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get that a lot

Guys just sending a Hi and that’s it.

I mean if your going to spend the night with us having a crazy time. The least you can do out of respect is strike up a conversation.

We find it really rude when guys dont seem to give a damn.

I suspect it’s like spam. Send out loads of messages hoping for one to bite.

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By *east88Couple
over a year ago

darlington

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation.

Why are these guys contacting people who they do not find attractive?

Yeah it’s got to work both ways

We always like to see a face pic but share ours pretty quickly after that. And it’s absolutely fine if they don’t find you attractive.

What do you mean by 'lording it?'

I'm not

If you're not, then I'm wondering what information you are basing your initial observations on?

I hang about the forums quite a lot & I've not seen much evidence of couples, unattractive or otherwise, 'lording it' over anyone.

As even tho almost all couples request pictures, they often do not reciprocate, so you chat for a while until they finally show you one.

And at that point you then see that you are not attracted to them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation. "

I guess you have to take your “wins” where you can.

Lol

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation.

Why are these guys contacting people who they do not find attractive?

What do you mean by 'lording it?'

I'm not "

By that I assume you mean you are not contacting them

There were 2 questions, the 2nd being what do you mean by lording it? If you are not you are not contacting couples who you deem unattractive how do you know they are 'lording'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation.

Why are these guys contacting people who they do not find attractive?

What do you mean by 'lording it?'

I'm not

If you're not, then I'm wondering what information you are basing your initial observations on?

I hang about the forums quite a lot & I've not seen much evidence of couples, unattractive or otherwise, 'lording it' over anyone.

As even tho almost all couples request pictures, they often do not reciprocate, so you chat for a while until they finally show you one.

And at that point you then see that you are not attracted to them. "

Well you can't meet anyone atm. So unless you and the cpl have decided to do so, more pics of each other are pointless at this moment in time!

I'd just enjoy chatting if I was in your shoes!

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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham, Gloucestershire

"Its the rude and arrogant nature of some not all on fab, and are usually mf couples, kindness and respect costs nothing.

I am always respectful and kind to everyone. "

If you think couples are rude, you should spend a day dealing with my/our inbox, that might change your perspective somewhat.

I don't think it's entirely fair to categorise couples as rude, any more than it is to say single men are rude - some individuals are, but generally I find most people are perfectly polite and lovely, even when the nature of their message is sexual in some way.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh couples can afford to be picky as if they don't like anyone on here they can still at least have sex with each other. Obviously swinging is more exciting for most but it's not like they have to go completely without so it's not as big of a deal.

Being a bigger girl I probably come under the umbrella of those that people like you love to have a go at for aiming "outside my league" but what am I meant to do, just NOT sleep with all these beautiful men vying for my attention?! Behave.

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By *riendly and hornyMan
over a year ago

Crewe

Whenever I’ve met someone who’s been looking for a meet, and found out how many offers the person has had I’m always amazed that I’ve been selected as the chosen one.

I look back at my messages to discover what irresistible words I’d written and they’re normally pretty dull. I’ve been told a few times it’s because I sounded genuine. It must be mint to be a woman on here having the pick of the bunch!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I find that people who are unattractive (mf couples) usually. who are obviously at a premium on fab lord it over guys who wouldn't give them a second look in the real world.

Just an observation. "

We don’t lord it over anyone, well unless they are a snivelling weak sissy.

In domestic or fab world.

Trust nobody has lorded it over you OP.

Have fun.

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