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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone, sometimes I get a feeling like I don't have big or fat enough cock. But that's normal I guess. You just live with what you got !

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

It's what you do with it that counts. Be better at foreplay and you get a great response from your lover that way

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Well I have two strap ons I'm happy with them and rather like Dick s member

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have never had any worries about the size of mine or wished it was bigger or thicker - it's what I have got and I can't do a thing to change that (short of drastic risky surgery that is not guaranteed) even if I wanted to.

It's neither big, nor small, thick nor thin, it's simply what I have - the way I look at it, if someone was more concerned about the size of my cock than me the person, then they wouldn't be for me anyway

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

I'm quite happy with my very average little fella. Not had any complaints, though prefer to use my hands and tongue anyway

Bry (and Char I hope!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for me it's always a bit on the back of my mind . My first sexual relationship ( not first shag) the girl I was with only had massive dick in the past . So she always had bad comments on the size of mine . And I do believe that wound me for life ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feared this thread would be an offer of organ donation.

Thankfully not.

My view changes, some women like mine, others don't.

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By *urious8812Couple
over a year ago

dorchester

I’d take a considerate and responsive lover with great oral and finger skills over a big cock pounding any day of the week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d take a considerate and responsive lover with great oral and finger skills over a big cock pounding any day of the week. "

That's why I love give oral (cuni,rimming) and fingering during a good time and everything goes well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d take a considerate and responsive lover with great oral and finger skills over a big cock pounding any day of the week. "

Why so far away lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, im not happy with mine, been told its fine and ive never had anyone say its too small but i just cant help but want a bigger beast

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’m happy with mine, but it looks as though women lately aren’t happy with it or it could be the knob attached to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anybody wants to Have a look and give me their opinion id be happy with that, nothing like piece of mind

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Well I have two strap ons I'm happy with them and rather like Dick s member "

So could a man wear a strap on to satisfy a woman if they don't think their own dick will suffice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have two strap ons I'm happy with them and rather like Dick s member

So could a man wear a strap on to satisfy a woman if they don't think their own dick will suffice? "

There is some strap on / cockring where you got your cock inside .. and the dildo is big

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By *ovelock4Man
over a year ago

Croydon

We all have what we have and can’t change that. Embrace it, make the most of it and most importantly have fun with it.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Every man is unhappy with his cock.

I've got 7" and slightly over average girth.

Girls love it! Apparently I'm the perfect length, but... Hmm I'd like to be a bit thicker.

You are never going to be happy with what you have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every man is unhappy with his cock.

I've got 7" and slightly over average girth.

Girls love it! Apparently I'm the perfect length, but... Hmm I'd like to be a bit thicker.

You are never going to be happy with what you have.

I am probably the same as you but like you say never happy

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your cock could double as a flute and someone out there would be unhappy with that. Honestly I think people's insecurities hold them back much more than what they have. So long as you can get it all the way through a letterbox does it really matter?

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By *winfrozrMan
over a year ago

Carnoustie

My cock is tiny soft and average hard

I’m also 40 and have got used to it

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By *hatsthisMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Also small and being sub ive come to quite like the inferiority i get seeing other guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every man is unhappy with his cock.

"

That's not true

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"Well I have two strap ons I'm happy with them and rather like Dick s member

So could a man wear a strap on to satisfy a woman if they don't think their own dick will suffice? "

I am very happy with the size of my cock and so is my FwB but I/we have 3 large and 1 huge strap on. We both enjoy playing with them I really enjoy using them on her

and she loves the full feeling she get from them they are good fun. it's got nothing to do with the size of the mans cock.

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By *onkey_boy87Man
over a year ago

derby

I'm more than happy with mine. There is always going to be people bigger and smaller than you. Different women have different preferences anyway.

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

More than happy with what I’ve got. Not the biggest but works great

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Oh god...you're all perfectly lovely. Be confident

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By *hybuthornydanMan
over a year ago

grays

Nope I'm not happy with my size I wished that I was a bit thicker and longer but I have what I have

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I am really happy with mine, it's cut, clean, nice and long, quite thick and has plenty of precum, just the way I like it ,

Xx

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket


"I am really happy with mine, it's cut, clean, nice and long, quite thick and has plenty of precum, just the way I like it ,

Xx"

Love thick and precum

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I'm happy with mine got length and girth blessed lol

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Hubby is very happy with his little 4 and a half inch cock. He knows he can watch me enjoying bigger when we play x

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket


"I'm happy with mine got length and girth blessed lol"

Nice

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Hi naughty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If an extra inch magically appeared overnight I wouldn’t mind, but as it’s not going to....I’ll take what I’ve got!

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Getting rusty out of action for months wonder who will e the lucky one or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anybody wants to Have a look and give me their opinion id be happy with that, nothing like piece of mind "

Sure, if it’s just an opinion you’re after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your cock could double as a flute and someone out there would be unhappy with that. Honestly I think people's insecurities hold them back much more than what they have. So long as you can get it all the way through a letterbox does it really matter?"

I totally agree with this.

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By *iptonblokeMan
over a year ago

tipton

Not happy with my 5 and1/2 inch but stuck with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I'm not happy with my size I wished that I was a bit thicker and longer but I have what I have "

Hey bud.

Hope you don’t mind a bloke looking at your pics.

I don’t think your dick is that small.

I think that a lot of it is hidden.

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By *hybuthornydanMan
over a year ago

grays


"Nope I'm not happy with my size I wished that I was a bit thicker and longer but I have what I have

Hey bud.

Hope you don’t mind a bloke looking at your pics.

I don’t think your dick is that small.

I think that a lot of it is hidden."

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I just love the average and below guys, but they gotta love themselves too.

Have confidence about your cock, it's sexy!

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Well said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I just love the average and below guys, but they gotta love themselves too.

Have confidence about your cock, it's sexy! "

I forgot my disclaimer, no direct messages please.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I have what I have. I’m happy with it and know

Exactly how to use it. But I still wouldn’t mind to be a horse for one day

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Also small and being sub ive come to quite like the inferiority i get seeing other guys on here "

I do admit to getting a thrill when I see Char take someone much bigger than me

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By *rafficvanMan
over a year ago

Middletown

Lad not about the size. Mine ain't that big. Ive never had complaints .

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

I’m delighted with mine, just need to find women to share that delight with!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Lad not about the size. Mine ain't that big. Ive never had complaints . "

BTW I never ever tell a man he didn't perform well in bed. Just made excuses not to sleep with him again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lad not about the size. Mine ain't that big. Ive never had complaints .

BTW I never ever tell a man he didn't perform well in bed. Just made excuses not to sleep with him again"

Same with me and women.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I’d take a considerate and responsive lover with great oral and finger skills over a big cock pounding any day of the week. "

Definitely but icing on the cake is the good pounding of the big cock for me. I feel starved of it if I don't get it

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Anyways, I read most women prefer average size cocks as too big can be painful for most women. More to do with their relationship with each other, how you please each other in other ways that counts more than the actual penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im happy with mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always been a bit worried about my size. Always think it’s small but I now see it is as average. I love oral tho and I’ve been complimented on my finger skills I guess this helps .

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I’ve always been a bit worried about my size. Always think it’s small but I now see it is as average. I love oral tho and I’ve been complimented on my finger skills I guess this helps . "

I'm quite a cock expert. Let me see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always been a bit worried about my size. Always think it’s small but I now see it is as average. I love oral tho and I’ve been complimented on my finger skills I guess this helps .

I'm quite a cock expert. Let me see "

I require some expertise also lol

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

We live with what we got lol its not always about size!

I'm not massive or small! I'm happy as with mine!

Sex ain't always about ya cock either

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Every now and then I catch a glimpse of other guys.. obviously only when I am perving errr I mean looking at pictures of you lovely ladies in action and, if you don't mind me saying.. mine is a rather good looking chap..

I would put up a picture of him but I don't want to go round waving him in women's faces all day long.........

Hang on a sec, not sure I have really thought this one through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think guys worry too much. For every size queen there's 20 women who don't like their cervix bashed.

It's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think guys worry too much. For every size queen there's 20 women who don't like their cervix bashed.

It's all good."

Well

Said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size doesn't matter? Bollocks! I know technique is the most important factor but all things being equal, in my experience, women would go for the larger cock. Just so I'm making my point clearly. If I had sex with a woman with what I currently have and a few days later it grew an inch and got half an inch more girth and we had sex again I'm willing to bet she'd prefer the larger cock. Nothing else has changed just the size of the cock. I Find that when a lady has had an orgasm and is wet and relaxed they can get used to the size and enjoy it(not talking about myself here).

My ex used t tell me of when she had a guy with a big cock. She said he was a least 2 inches longer and quite a bit thicker than me. She described it as obscene lol. She said he hurt a bit at first because he was so thick but when she got used to it she really enjoyed it. She took him all hard an fast too and he made her cum multiple times. She's only 4'11". I used to love her telling me that he went so much deeper and filled her better as I was fucking her.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It's interesting to hear all the guys talking about their size. As the female in a hot wife couple I find myself now only interested in guys who have a bigger cock than hubby. It's not that I get more pleasure from it but more the fact I like the different sensations it gives me. X

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

mine is on the smaller size of average ive probably had over 300 sexual partners over the last 50 years

ive had 2 refusals on the grounds its to small

the only way you can really judge your performance is how many come back for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be defined by your cock size. If someone is looking for a certain cock size and you don't fit their requirements, move on as there's plenty who will be more than happy with you and what you have to offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the bigger the cock the more driven you are by it. You only have to look at the amount of big dicks on here amongst the single lads. It's way more than in the general population

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the bigger the cock the more driven you are by it. You only have to look at the amount of big dicks on here amongst the single lads. It's way more than in the general population "

And among them some monster one !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the bigger the cock the more driven you are by it. You only have to look at the amount of big dicks on here amongst the single lads. It's way more than in the general population "

And it looks like they are the one who meet the most .. don't you think so ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I won the lottery, I would have a penis reduction

Dragging this thing around all day is hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a teen maybe, I had similar self conscious thoughts but now I walk round like I’m bullet proof and nothing can killl me

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By *azza72Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m happy with mine and never had any complaints, wouldn’t waste time fretting over wanting a larger cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the bigger the cock the more driven you are by it. You only have to look at the amount of big dicks on here amongst the single lads. It's way more than in the general population

And it looks like they are the one who meet the most .. don't you think so ?"

No I dont think that's the case.

I still stand by my statement that the very large majority of women prefer a penis that is average.

Hung guys will disagree and call me delusional etc.

That's just fine, I'm happy with my cock and so are all the women on FAB that I've met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would hope mine was a lil bigger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge cocks hurt some people

So happy with mine. It suits me anyway

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Not much you can do about it really is there

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'm happy with what I've got. It's the larger end of average. Women are happy because I know what I'm doing rather than assessing my cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's interesting to hear all the guys talking about their size. As the female in a hot wife couple I find myself now only interested in guys who have a bigger cock than hubby. It's not that I get more pleasure from it but more the fact I like the different sensations it gives me. X"

Good to hear an honest opinion from a hotwife. Just as I thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the bigger the cock the more driven you are by it. You only have to look at the amount of big dicks on here amongst the single lads. It's way more than in the general population "

I think it gives the man more confidence if he has a bigger cock. I think that they think the ladies will fall at there feet to get a piece of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I does amaze me how many men describe themselves as VWE. From what I can see the majority of these are no bigger than average. Be interested to see what the ladies think of these so called very well endowed self assessments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im happy with mine and as you say you cant change it but from a sexual perspective its just one thing, you can use like lips,tongue fingers toys etc which enhances the whole experience

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I does amaze me how many men describe themselves as VWE. From what I can see the majority of these are no bigger than average. Be interested to see what the ladies think of these so called very well endowed self assessments. "

trust Dr Girthlover, men always add afew inches and take it at clever angles. i know when i see a real big cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I does amaze me how many men describe themselves as VWE. From what I can see the majority of these are no bigger than average. Be interested to see what the ladies think of these so called very well endowed self assessments.

trust Dr Girthlover, men always add afew inches and take it at clever angles. i know when i see a real big cock "

I am waiting for DR Girthlove to give me her opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have never had any worries about the size of mine or wished it was bigger or thicker - it's what I have got and I can't do a thing to change that (short of drastic risky surgery that is not guaranteed) even if I wanted to.

It's neither big, nor small, thick nor thin, it's simply what I have - the way I look at it, if someone was more concerned about the size of my cock than me the person, then they wouldn't be for me anyway"

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Have never had any worries about the size of mine or wished it was bigger or thicker - it's what I have got and I can't do a thing to change that (short of drastic risky surgery that is not guaranteed) even if I wanted to.

It's neither big, nor small, thick nor thin, it's simply what I have - the way I look at it, if someone was more concerned about the size of my cock than me the person, then they wouldn't be for me anyway"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are more picky online than they are in real life.

Be happy and content with what you have. Unless you have a micro cock, most don't care about cock size.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very interesting views on this one...

Thanks for your comments everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You gotta be comfortable in your own skin and content with who you are and what you have, or you will never be truly happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If porn didn’t exist, don’t think many men would be worried about the size.

Watching porn and seeing huge cocks everywhere , gives everyone a distorted perception of average cock size.

Also , if your cocks to big actually could limit what you can do with women.

Kitten has limits on cock size for anal play, so not always a bad thing being average size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely not all about size. I am above average but not massive either pretty much average and its how you use it with other things you can do especially with foreplay. Yes there are some people out there that prefer bigger but on average most aren't bothered as long as you can use what you have.

Maybe I have been lucky with the women I have been with or had relationships with as even when the shit hits the fan I have never had any of them say well your cock was too small just to hurt me and some have even wanted to come back to me just for sex so I must be doing something right (god knows what that is lol)

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By *ew swingers wxmCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

I am hopefully within the average range but who knows! Ann does like the larger male which we fulfill whenever we can but our sex life is great regardless.

Ann will use her bigger toys if needed or we have a few extenders too.

As people say it is what you do with it that counts.

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

Before I was sexually active as I teenager I used to worry about the size of the cock all the time.

since becoming sexually active, I’ve never thought about it. Mines not massive, it’s average length with has a bit of girth and I have big balls too.

I only go by the comments other people have made.

Obviously if I could have an extra inch. I’d test drive it. But overall I think mines a keeper. Good job really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have never had any worries about the size of mine or wished it was bigger or thicker - it's what I have got and I can't do a thing to change that (short of drastic risky surgery that is not guaranteed) even if I wanted to.

It's neither big, nor small, thick nor thin, it's simply what I have - the way I look at it, if someone was more concerned about the size of my cock than me the person, then they wouldn't be for me anyway"

I think all guys have similar cocerns...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't enjoy big cocks, so there's always a woman for every cock! I like average size xxx

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By *asmartsCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

I’m very happy with mine, gives me hours of pleasure ??

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