FabSwingers.com forum: How many messages do you get a day??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm just curious as to how many messages people get a day on average. I always see people state they've had hundreds of messages in one day and can't get though them all. Myself I never get messages by fems or couples but loads from guys. Which unknown to me I could of blocked with filters

. But I'm curious is it that bad for some they struggle to get through there fab mail??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These days, around 10ish, from people I don't know already... When I was active, sex wise, I could get a good 50 to 100 at least... More if I had posted a pic or status

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

If I post a new pic I get more messages than usual but I’d say I’m averaging around 30 a day at the moment

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

1 maybe, had 2 today so we are at a 100% increase today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero chance of any messages for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most days it's a pretty consistent S.F.A.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get about 10-15 a day, mostly from women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excluding those I already know and talk to, 1 or 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've put my filters on to block guys messaging me. But I may change that so I get some correspondence. It's a lonely life being single guy on fabs

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

0 today....

It’s usually 2 if that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 maybe, had 2 today so we are at a 100% increase today

Sounds like that 2nd wave everyone keeps banging on about

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

"1 maybe, had 2 today so we are at a 100% increase today

Sounds like that 2nd wave everyone keeps banging on about "

hope it don't make me poorly then

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've only had one in a week, we do have filters on. If we post a pic we'll get a few.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Depends if we post pic normally a few off friends and 5 to 10 randoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very very rarely from fems and couples now messages normally read or just deleted few blocked me etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I update my status I cannot keep up with them - my update this morning lasted no more than a few hrs as I got sick of messages. As soon as it came down the messages went to about 2 an hr.

It has got to do with how active you are and what time. If I log on any time between 11pm and 5 am then messages come flying in as I hit the 'who is near you section'

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Very few, normally one or two from friends or more if we are exchanging rude stories and kinky chat.

Rarely from new people, although last week I did get one from a hot couple local to me; I know it is never going to be more than messages on here, but it was nice to get the message anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None really, unless i initiate the conversation then im either told to fuck off, im not their type, they arent meeting or just plain bad attitude because i havent come up with an essay to impress them or whatever

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By *ymparaCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Around 1 or 2... a month

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By *akbearMan
over a year ago

Newbury

Very few, but then I only send a few as I actually read the profiles and if I meet the criteria I may well send a message.

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

I get around 5 a day on average, 98% of the messages I receive are from guys.

Rarely, if I'm lucky, a couple or a single female might message. I maybe get those once a month.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Depends, usually around 30+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very few, but then I only send a few as I actually read the profiles and if I meet the criteria I may well send a message."

You READ the profile first ??!! And only message if u fit the criteria !!?? Most ridiculous thing I’ve read posted from a single male all year. You are clearly doing it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely get any

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between 1 and 10 but generally from people we have met or people we intend to meet after covid but were chatting to for now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Between 1 and 10 but generally from people we have met or people we intend to meet after covid but were chatting to for now."
im not surprised with that profile pic hehe if i thought i had half a chance id be in your inbox aswell lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Between 1 and 10 but generally from people we have met or people we intend to meet after covid but were chatting to for now. im not surprised with that profile pic hehe if i thought i had half a chance id be in your inbox aswell lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely doing some wrong then here as normally never more than a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely doing some wrong then here as normally never more than a few."

If I was closer to you guys , I would love to be messaging you

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Probably about 5 on average

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We were getting 20 to 30 a day but after putting up filters, blocking a huge number of guys before they even have a chance to message, and also making some clear statements on our profile of what we are looking for and how to approach us, we maybe get between 2 and 5 a day.

Amazingly put of the hundreds of messages we get there are only 4 guys who have really taken our interest we would potentially to meet but only two we are actively talking to atm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say 0 but weekly maibe 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 50, and then when i post a pic or am active on the forums it can be 200 plus. Ive got 615 unread messages at the moment so I probably need to do a bulk delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always 0 messages, not had a message in 10 years

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By *orkcouple888Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Sweet F A, if we do get a message it’s a shock, only to find out our site supporters pass is out

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

On a quiet day, maybe 10-15. If we update our status then maybe 30. Add some photos and 50 on a busy day. It varies a lot.

90% of them are one line "how are you" messages, generally from guys with no profile pic and who've obviously not read our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you was closer I'd definitely take a good look at that tool belt hehe

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By *ElectricityMan
over a year ago

Preston

a big fat zero

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By *j321Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Around 10 to 15

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 2, from some regular chatters

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By *nique_78Woman
over a year ago

Home, somewhere in Norfolk

5 ish from those who I've had multiple conversations with, maybe 2 or 3 from random people but not guaranteed every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0.005 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days 4/5,Other days 0,Blokes always seem keen to text tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you was closer I'd definitely take a good look at that tool belt hehe"

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

If there's a bit of a conversation on going then could receive quite a few.

Apart from that its usually zero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30ish if I post a status or picture. If I’m quiet and not using the forums probably 5-10.

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By *exy Black JenWoman
over a year ago

London/Eastbourne weekends

I still get a lot, but I'm more interested in the quality of a message rather than quantity..

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Between 50 and 100 during lockdown but more usually and mostly guys asking to meet now !

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Zero. maybe if I prey I’ll get one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies depending on how active we are - never too many to get through but always plenty from guys who either can’t or don’t read

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By *lamourpussyCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

Usually a handful every day but a lot more if I post a pic or are active in forums. I can imagine new members and younger ladies getting a lot more!

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We average 8-10 messages a week. We do have filters on though, before the filters it would be around 30 a week.

Lily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very difficult question, sometimes lots sometimes very few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much depends on what I'm up to on the site. Anywhere between 0 and 30.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 or 5 a day sometimes more, but if we upload photos lots more.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

It varies between null and nichts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get any, breaks my heart

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By *nkedviolet69Woman
over a year ago

Twickenham

Well I'm fairly new and in the honeymoon of posting lots of pictures.. plus I have a underwear shopping problem which has got worse since lockdown.. so generally about 50 plus a day.. for every one I reply to..I seem to get 3 more come through.. I think also because I just leave this on in the background it says I'm online alot.. not complaining it's nice to feel wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On 102 unread atm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

non always have get stuck in

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"I'm just curious as to how many messages people get a day on average. I always see people state they've had hundreds of messages in one day and can't get though them all. Myself I never get messages by fems or couples but loads from guys. Which unknown to me I could of blocked with filters

. But I'm curious is it that bad for some they struggle to get through there fab mail??"

I average 3 or 4 a day which are always polite and very welcome you lovely ladies X

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We’ve had 3 this week from people we don’t know. Usually it’s about that per month!!

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By *evam27Man
over a year ago

London

Once in a blue moon

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

10-15 a day and more if I put up statuses. I’m usually quite sarcastic in my status updates so I get a bit of banter going.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Depends really from 20 to 500

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I tightened my filters so get less now

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

None to be true , one time to times

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By *night40Man
over a year ago

stafford

Don’t get any I would be so shocked

Love to chat too ????

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By *hybuthornydanMan
over a year ago

grays

None at all

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By *andymanpaulMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Very rare for me. But just used to it now

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