FabSwingers.com forum: average swinging age

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi all u sexy swingers 26 male here but i look about 18 lol. And that is why i am posting this post for a little feedback and advice i have been told i have got a very youthfull look about me and have to admit i do get asked for id alot at clubs ect.

Kinda shy by nature but have got a wil side to me and would just love to go to a swingers club only thing stopping me is the reaction i might get.

I would say the average swinger is in there 30s now i havent got a problem with older peeps age just a number to me but can u see where im coming from i wouldent want people staring at me for the wrong reasons what u thinck i should do guys wait a few years and get abit more exp or just go for it and dont care what others thinck thx for reading u sexy swingers xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just go for it, if i looked 18 id be flaunting it everywhere lmao

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

We'd say the average age of people we have met in clubs and for the most part are around 40/45.

Not saying there are not lots of younger people around. Swinging seems to be a pastime for older couples. Those who are more secure in their relationships and are looking for extra fun.

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By *antsanddorsetMan
over a year ago

southampton

"We'd say the average age of people we have met in clubs and for the most part are around 40/45.

Not saying there are not lots of younger people around. Swinging seems to be a pastime for older couples. Those who are more secure in their relationships and are looking for extra fun."

think there are more swingers at the lower end of the age range now than there used to me.. i started in the mid 90s at which point most guys were getting into this sometime in their mid to late 30s.. average does seem to have dropped now among couples as well as males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We'd say the average age of people we have met in clubs and for the most part are around 40/45.

Not saying there are not lots of younger people around. Swinging seems to be a pastime for older couples. Those who are more secure in their relationships and are looking for extra fun."

i dont think its a case of being more secure in their relationship, when your young and in a new relationship you dont need to spice it up, i think more older couples tent to swing to stop their sex lifes going stale, i mean lets be honest theres only so much two people can do together befor it starts getting boring, but in all honestly i think more older ladies swing because their kids have grown up and they now have the time to do things for themselves rather than just being mum

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

very interesting, views of singles is somewhat different to the only couple who have so far posted in this thread.

I suppose we are at the upper end of the spectrum and agree with the other couple that in our experience the average age has been in the 40's rather than any younger. Having said that we have met couples in their 20's, 30's, 40's and 50's!

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We have talked about swinging for years, but due to the kids we held back, but now they have left home we have decided to give it a go and we love it and now wish we had started sooner as we have a very secure relationship but just needed some extra fun, we are closer now than ever.

Yours

Caravancouple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WE ARE BOTH MID 40S,N ONLY STARTED SWINGING A COUPLE OF MONTHS BACK,MUST SAY WE LOVE IT

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

we'v been doing it about 5yrs now altho dont do it very often due to kids etc!! i was 30 when we started doing it and because its only now and again we enjoy the thrill of it all, we also like going to parties as the social side is just as exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must say to the young man who posted most of the ladies will be older than you at clubs and will have kids your age maybe !! you would be too young for me but hey nothing stopping you going and enjoying yourself good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

young man lol made me giggle that i haven't been called that in years since i was in school lol i do feel young now i will have to grow a beard or something.

thx for all your posts guys there was some really good advice in there also i was surprised to learn most of you guys only had only there first experience when they was in there mid 30s i thought it would have younger.

and after reading your post i have come to the decision I'm gonna wait a few years until I'm a bit older have had a bit more experience. also going with the right partner. I'm kinda glad i haven't been to one now tho would have just confirmed my worries that i had

not saying any of you guys have put me off or anything.i would say u have opened my eyes abit lol anyone know of any swinging websites or clubs aimed at a younger audience i would appreciate it thx everyone esp candyorks lol I've got a picture of u in my head of being a teacher

or a boss something along the lines.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a year younger than you and it would never really have occured to me that I would be too young!

But then most of my friends and lovers are older than me by quite a bit, I just don't seem to get on that well with people my age or younger. People are much more interesting when they've got a bit of life behind them

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By *eznhannahCouple
over a year ago

leeds

age should be no barrier for anyone, there is someone out there for everyone in the swinging world, we ar 37 m and 24 f by the way, and we always can find people within our age ranges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"age should be no barrier for anyone, there is someone out there for everyone in the swinging world, we ar 37 m and 24 f by the way, and we always can find people within our age ranges"

We agree, then we were a little confused and dismayed at the age criteria/restraints in your profile which eliminated us from being your side of the barrier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think to me its not really about the age its more about how they look, some guys look older than others the same age, i put an age range on my profile basically to cut down the amount of mail i get, but i would meet someone younger than 30 if he didnt still have that 'baby face' look about him lol

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By *eznhannahCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"age should be no barrier for anyone, there is someone out there for everyone in the swinging world, we ar 37 m and 24 f by the way, and we always can find people within our age ranges

We agree, then we were a little confused and dismayed at the age criteria/restraints in your profile which eliminated us from being your side of the barrier

these things are never set in stone lol, but what i mean is whatever age range people set themselves they will allways meet someone compatible within there age range x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i think to me its not really about the age its more about how they look, some guys look older than others the same age,"

"babyface" Yep thats me down to t, hope i look as young when im 50 loll, but i dont think anyone should be really judged on looks alone. Same with insurance companys on young male drivers. Ive been driving for 7 years and have never had a accident, i have been pulled by the police on numeris occasions all because i drive vw passat and i look young we get put into all the same caterogry, its a cruel world lol.

U should get to know someone b4 u write them off but on the other hand i would have to agree with u ladys who have sons around the same age range, rant over lol love all u guys xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

one last thing lol would we be having this conversation if i was a 26 year old woman who looked 19?

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

We started in our 30's too and have never looked back lol. Never had a hang up about age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have always had a great sex life . We just wanted to share it with other sexy peeps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have always had a great sex life . We just wanted to share it with other sexy peeps x "

And we started when we was 22 .

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By *xxcouple2009Couple
over a year ago

watford

shes 21 and i'm 40, so our age is large anyway

we have met couples our own age

and keen to meet more!

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

m44 f32 but does age really come into it? just enjoy an have lots an lots of fun....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree that older folks are in the majority and in demand, experience brings relaxation about sex with others and will often try most things on offer. Couples in a secure realtionship see swinging as fun, an extension of there own sex life and no hang ups about another bloke with there Partner.

Younger Males are popular with older Women and older Men all want a younger Lady, but often never do.

Swinging is for everyone - great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think to me its not really about the age its more about how they look, some guys look older than others the same age,

U should get to know someone b4 u write them off but on the other hand i would have to agree with u ladys who have sons around the same age range, rant over lol love all u guys xxxxxx

Very easy to say but in practice you need to come into the real world, in your own profile you say you like "older ladies" is that not an age criteria ?, are you looking for anyone given that they meet your age criteria (max 50 again age is relevant to you and over 50 unacceptable) or are you happy to meet women that you would personally class as ugly and not judge them by thier looks ?

There is nothing wrong with having preferences, the truth is we all have them, you apparently fall foul of those who despite your actual age, prefer thier sexual partners to look older and welcome to life

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