FabSwingers.com forum: First time impromptu NSA meet

By *.D.I.D.A.S OP Man
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Let's say you are just meeting someone for sex. I know, could happen right? So anyway...Could be in a car or outdoors or anywhere. But the idea is just to fuck having not shared much conversation pre meet. What is your protocol? Do you have a little small talk to settle each other's nerves? Or do you come out with something sexual before stripping naked? Or do you bypass all talk and go for a kiss or grope each other? Or straight down to business?

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton

"Let's say you are just meeting someone for sex. I know, could happen right? So anyway...Could be in a car or outdoors or anywhere. But the idea is just to fuck having not shared much conversation pre meet. What is your protocol? Do you have a little small talk to settle each other's nerves? Or do you come out with something sexual before stripping naked? Or do you bypass all talk and go for a kiss or grope each other? Or straight down to business? "

We normally make sure everyone is on the same page to play

Then strip off and start fucking at the end of the day isn’t that why we swing

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By *.D.I.D.A.S OP Man
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

It is I agree. Just wondered what people's preferred etiquette was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it. Chatted for maybe an hour in the living room with a coffee, and then went upstairs to the bedroom.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"Done it. Chatted for maybe an hour in the living room with a coffee, and then went upstairs to the bedroom."

Same here, need to have at the very least some cozy chat first to form a connection, hate 'cold' sex.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

How each meet goes varies depending on the situ and people involved. There is always some cozy chat first, then hands start wandering, kissing, then maybe a change of location before the clothes fly off and heavy stuff starts. When meeting couples as a couple they often agree with my idea of swapping partners straight away (usually in a bar/pub) And pretending they were actually our real partners. Great ice breaker and allows under the table touching and kissing without barriers or strange looks from others in the area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it as part of a meet.

Husband of couple picked me to meet his wife in hotel, we met, we fucked, barely said a word and left.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Done it. Chatted for maybe an hour in the living room with a coffee, and then went upstairs to the bedroom.

Same here, need to have at the very least some cozy chat first to form a connection, hate 'cold' sex."

As part of a fantasy a couple of times have met and had sex immediately without exchanging any words , it takes sine planning by the guy, essentially it’s scripted in detail then carried out. Extremely sexy

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would need to talk a bit. Not dirty talk just enough to break the ice.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Done it. Chatted for maybe an hour in the living room with a coffee, and then went upstairs to the bedroom."

An hour! Chatting ! That’s probably considered a long engagement by many on here ! That scenario is actually very common , house social and fuck within an hour or two

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

It's been quite a while since I did this, but my ground rules these days would be to set the record straight immediately what is on or off the table, and how to signal to the other that I'm (or he is) not comfortable with what's going on.

After that---fair play, go to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the people and the dynamics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done it. Chatted for maybe an hour in the living room with a coffee, and then went upstairs to the bedroom.

An hour! Chatting ! That’s probably considered a long engagement by many on here ! That scenario is actually very common , house social and fuck within an hour or two "

Yeah, done a few like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a while ago. Chatted on this site for a while .... booked a nice hotel and arranged for Miss X to check in with an agreement that she would wait blindfolded on the bed on all fours facing away. Little bit of spanking and then fucking before the blindfold came off.

Risky of course but it worked for us both and we had a good few more nights away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my meets have been with zero prior meet/chat (ie straight to whatever we agreed, not always simple fucking).

Just make sure you've talked through everything in advance and agreed that both of you can call time on it and walk away for any reason at any point. Agree a safeword and clearly spell out each others red lines (I tend not to meet people who can't do this, it's too risky), then stick to them and have fun.

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