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"it is always an interesting topic.... the one thing that puts me off visiting more clubs is that especially if i am travelling, you have to pay both membership and entry upon 1st entry.... absolutely fine if you are going to a club lets say 3-4 times a year..... not so good if you go once in a blue moon, or are going for a special occasion, where you are not likely to use it again.. or if you do then you have to go thru the whole thing again because you haven't been there for so long... I know chams for example will do a waiver for special occasions (pussy posse ect)... do other clubs do this? sometimes I feel that people would love to try clubs... but the costs of going 1st time when you may find its not for you can be expensive.... I would love it if the 1st time you went the membership charges would be waived... and then membership would commence upon the 2nd time someone was to go...... not knocking clubs at all... just more of a suggestion that would likely get more people trying them.... and discuss..... ![]() Weve been to some clubs that are free membership and some you can just attend on the night! however we arent sure if this rule applies to single blokes who do seem to get a hard deal. Though to be honest i believe clubs do it to stop what is happening on sites likes this, poor singlemen pestering and being a nuisance, if its cost you more you are more likely to behave and not take chance of being thrown out. As in paying membership on second visit how would the club owners know if you,ve been before or not? too many faces to reconise anyone and always a chance you might be wrong and blame someone for attending before. As a couple we just pay entry fee which is usually only a little dearer if not a memember. But they are few clubs we,d like to try and sometimes cost is one aspect why we dont. But im sure nearly all clubs look after couples on first entry dont they? | |||
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"I agree Fabio , there are times where people have been put off coming down to try abfabs because of that reason , would love the option of 'Try before you buy' so to speak." I agree with Fabio too - what a great idea! On the subject of AbFabs though, people can go there during the day in its 'Kestrels' guise on a day pass. If they did it on a special occasion (such as on Sunday when it was the diamond jubilee), the whole house is open, they lay on a BBQ and you can stay on into the evening at no extra cost. Just an idea ![]() | |||
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"Some clubs like VA and Libs wave the membership fee on the first visit, so you can see if its for you or not before you join, which seems reasonable. VA also does two price points, one for visitors and one for members, so you just pay slightly higher if your a tourist and only visiting once in a while. La Chambre use to do a lifetime membership as well as an annual one fee, but now we think its only the annual one. " I think liberty elite do not wave the membership completely as I'm sure you still have to pay £15 for temporary membership | |||
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"sjust to clarify what I am saying.... I don't dispute the different pricing, and that isn't the conversation and point I was making... the thing I was generally questioning was paying both the Membership AND Entry for first Occasion... such as the example Pinktherapy said where people were on holiday... and as HPC said.... it came up because of the long weekend I thought "why not?" but after travel costs.. and hotel accomadation, I looked at what they wanted for both membership and entry (of which I would probably only use once) and I couldn't really justify it.... which is a shame...." Well until the clubs listen the only answer I can see is to either curb your urges or find a job that pays more.... If people keep paying clubs will keep charging and remember all they are doing is providing venues for people to hopefully satisfy their base desires.... | |||
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"HI I can see this for couples, But for single guys if the first visit was free you get loads guys turning up once, been pain in the arse. But I agree for the single guys that would be gents all night then that does seem unfair. Ian" ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Agree entirely ... we thought about attending our first club on Sat but tbh the price put us off. we would prob attend a clun twice a yr if we were lucky (depending if we liked it obviously) so the cost involved put us off x " thats is club not clun lol x | |||
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"only thing which has put me off going to a club is the way single guys have to pay more. " i underdstand what you mean but the simple fact is i wouldnt play the same as guys to get in and nor would lots of women I mean lets be honest how easy would it be for me to find a single guy to pair up with on here who would pay for my entry if i went in as a couple with him? bloody easy, so if i had to pay £30/£40 entry id just find a single guy and go in as a couple, thing is lots of people who go want single woman, theres lots of couples looking for FFM and lots of men would sooner play with single women than couples, so there for the people going for single female wouldnt find any as all the single woman are now coupled up, its in the clubs interest to keep fees for women down to a minimum to ensure they go in to cater for the people looking for them When i go to clubs alone i play with single men but the times i have gone in with a guy i havnt as guys dont really take women to clubs to play with other guys they take women so they can find other couples easier, so you'd just be cutting down on the amount of women playing with guys | |||
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"Another thing to bear in mind is that most clubs are not drinks licenced so do not make any profit from bar sales. In fact ones like AbFabs provided free water/ice/soft drinks/tea/coffee The high single male charges are an easy way to keep numbers manageable and subsidise the couples. If it were not for the single male fees everybody elses would have to rise." so you are saying keep the prices high for single guys as it keeps the price low for couples????????? | |||
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"It's still cheaper than golf after you've bought your golf bats, v necked jumpers, green fees and membership. A lot more fun too. Not sure where I'm going with that analogy but all hobbies cost money I guess. " no not sure where you are going either! lol if you can afford to play golf the costs involved swinging are probably your bar bill.. | |||
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"Another thing to bear in mind is that most clubs are not drinks licenced so do not make any profit from bar sales. In fact ones like AbFabs provided free water/ice/soft drinks/tea/coffee The high single male charges are an easy way to keep numbers manageable and subsidise the couples. If it were not for the single male fees everybody elses would have to rise. so you are saying keep the prices high for single guys as it keeps the price low for couples?????????" sounds like it dont it ![]() | |||
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"Another thing to bear in mind is that most clubs are not drinks licenced so do not make any profit from bar sales. In fact ones like AbFabs provided free water/ice/soft drinks/tea/coffee The high single male charges are an easy way to keep numbers manageable and subsidise the couples. If it were not for the single male fees everybody elses would have to rise." so lets rip them off! ![]() ![]() | |||
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" what most don't seem to realise that under the 2010 Equality act that what the clubs are doing is illegal and they know only to well that the likely hood of anyone complaining is way to remote so lets carry on.. i in myself continue to pay because should I wish to enjoy the facilities I have to as I'm not going to broadcast in a court room what my 'hobby' is.. still pees me off though! lol " Actually what they are doing is not illegal as they are offering an incentive to an under-represented group so the amount of single males vs the amount of single fems and even couples that would want to attend on a single guys night are vastly different.. sooo many more single guys would go if they had to pay £10 like a single fem... and i don't think any single fems would go if they had to pay £35 like couples... so you would have unbalanced numbers and end up with a massive sausagefest... they are legally allowed to offer incentives to gain more people from an under-represented group. | |||
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" what most don't seem to realise that under the 2010 Equality act that what the clubs are doing is illegal and they know only to well that the likely hood of anyone complaining is way to remote so lets carry on.. i in myself continue to pay because should I wish to enjoy the facilities I have to as I'm not going to broadcast in a court room what my 'hobby' is.. still pees me off though! lol Actually what they are doing is not illegal as they are offering an incentive to an under-represented group so the amount of single males vs the amount of single fems and even couples that would want to attend on a single guys night are vastly different.. sooo many more single guys would go if they had to pay £10 like a single fem... and i don't think any single fems would go if they had to pay £35 like couples... so you would have unbalanced numbers and end up with a massive sausagefest... they are legally allowed to offer incentives to gain more people from an under-represented group." you misunderstand you cannot differentiate price/entry fee by gender.. they are allowed to offer incentives for a qualified period ie 3 months half price if a gender is under represented this offer must be clearly stated and after that period the fees must revert.. hope that clears that up for you check out the legislation its easy to find or look it up re golf clubs as they have had the most to loose from a financial perspective.. | |||
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"No, I was suggesting that is what the club owners are doing! Oh and just so you know I am serious !!!!!!!!!!!! ![]() why doe the fees need to be higher? £15 pounds ahead for everyone.. most couples will generally have 2 incomes.. would you prefer that your weekly shop was cheaper because you're a couple? should you pay less at your local swimming pool or cinema? I have to say the argument that it would reduce the amount of single ladies attending clubs doesn't really stack up as you never see an equal number at the moment and thats with getting in for free.. equality is great when your getting it.. lol | |||
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"why doe the fees need to be higher?" Based on a recent non weekend club night Single men 40@£40 = £1600 Couples 20@£25 = £500 Single fem 5@£10 =£50 85 bodies in total Flat rate fee to give club same income 2150/85 = £25 approx Or £50 a couple which is what they charge on couples only nights "£15 pounds ahead for everyone.." And in my fantasy world all poor people would be given free winning lottery tickets. ![]() "most couples will generally have 2 incomes.." Maybe in your experience but not in mine. And those two incomes might be less than one single males with a good job and no family to support "would you prefer that your weekly shop was cheaper because you're a couple?" Economies of scale, shopping and eating for two is cheaper than for one. Better use of 241 promotions etc "should you pay less at your local swimming pool or cinema?" Couples, families, those on Income support etc do. The principle of differential pricing is well established "I have to say the argument that it would reduce the amount of single ladies attending clubs doesn't really stack up as you never see an equal number at the moment and thats with getting in for free.. equality is great when your getting it.. lol" But the arguement does stand because even with such low entrance fees the clubs cannot attract enough single fems to match demand. Without differential pricing they would just pair up before they got to the club and be a couple, taking them out of circulation. All this has been explained already on this thread but somebody doesn't want to hear it. | |||
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"Why did I know this would end up being in effect hijacked into a discussion about single guy pricing..." its hardly a hijack, its called progression of conversation All because you start a thread you cant stop little branch lines coming out of it if the conversation starts going that way | |||
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"why doe the fees need to be higher? Based on a recent non weekend club night Single men 40@£40 = £1600 Couples 20@£25 = £500 Single fem 5@£10 =£50 85 bodies in total Flat rate fee to give club same income 2150/85 = £25 approx Or £50 a couple which is what they charge on couples only nights £15 pounds ahead for everyone.. And in my fantasy world all poor people would be given free winning lottery tickets. ![]() Oh dear let's start quoting stats shall we! We all know you can make figures show what you want depending on your point of view. I did like the 241 and that would work well as you say eating for 2 is cheaper. Let me see single guy good income No family to support. Well not in my experience... Friend of mine has been skinned alive by what was the CSA. Still has a mortgage to pay and as you say it's cheaper to shop for 2, 241... I provide a roof for my son and fund his uni, so in my experience a couple who both work and have decent incomes can afford to pay more. See how things can be made to look when you have a vested interest in keeping prices low to benefit your self... I did say generally, of course individuals circumstances can vary. And if they do you cut your cloth accordingly and as some have said they go where it's best value for them and go less often. See how clubs are missing a trick here... People cant just magic more money but if they do have more in the pot they may visit more often if they believe the prices are reasonable. the clubs revenues will still come in and because it feels like good value people will encourage others to visit and this will possibly increase membership... I know that every business needs to maximise revenue streams and in any club there's only a maximum number of people can attend at any one time due to fire regs etc so they need to be creative. But this still doesn't detract from the fact that they should still be charging the same fee rof all Regardless of gender and that's the equality act 2010... No body likes to think they are being ripped off do they? I bet you always look for the best deals especially if you're on a tight budget and who isn't at the moment, oh yes I forgot us well paid single males? lol By the way in May i was made redundant for the 2nd time in 3 years and I'm Not looking for sympathy vote ! | |||
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