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Do you message profiles that don’t have a pic?

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By *hat Bloke OP   Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I will send a message to silhouettes to see if the women behind them would like to strike up a conversation. Obviously I don’t know if I will fancy them but I think it’s polite to start a dialogue and you can have friendships without having to have sex. Does anyone else have any thoughts on this?

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't engage with silhouettes

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Absolutely not, what's the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never and also ignore ones from them if the message doesn't have a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't engage with silhouettes"

Me neither

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

If the profile is well written, intelligent and intriguing, yes we would every time over a cock shot.

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By *hat Bloke OP   Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I dare say there is a hierarchy of acceptable pics. I think the cock shot is below the silhouette. I have noticed that some profile have pics on them but they have no profile pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never send a message in the first instance but do answer all messages sent to us and that includes blank picture ones as it’s their time they are wasting not ours.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. There's no excuse not to have a pic public, you can be discreet without showing identifying features.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Nope any pic can do even a torso pic ,hate blank profile pics ..

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By *hat Bloke OP   Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.

Nothing would make me even read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. There's no excuse not to have a pic public, you can be discreet without showing identifying features. "
This

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Nope or without that first verification thingy.

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By *oulja_01000Man
over a year ago

North East

Nope...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't message profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will send a message to silhouettes to see if the women behind them would like to strike up a conversation. Obviously I don’t know if I will fancy them but I think it’s polite to start a dialogue and you can have friendships without having to have sex. Does anyone else have any thoughts on this?"

I agree.

I prefer profiles with few or no pics. There is a person behind every profile. I want to know the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh i feel discriminated against

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I have done and will continue to. Some off my best meets have been without pics on profile.

Ofcourse pics are exchanged afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never msg profiles with no pictures or even a write up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this is out there but I read the profile and then deside on that basis whether I message, there is loads of time to see the person or persons later on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don't do blank profiles at all. No excuse for no pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *iercedlotsCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"Ahh i feel discriminated against "

Well why would you have no photos? Believe me , Im not blessed with looks but Im not after shallow people anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I want to see upfront if there's potential for physical attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh i feel discriminated against

Well why would you have no photos? Believe me , Im not blessed with looks but Im not after shallow people anyway."

Whos shallow ?

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By *iercedlotsCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"Ahh i feel discriminated against

Well why would you have no photos? Believe me , Im not blessed with looks but Im not after shallow people anyway.

Whos shallow ? "

For me, its people who are only concerned with looks, but every one is different and after different things. If I met a Brad Pit and he had an attitude , I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh i feel discriminated against

Well why would you have no photos? Believe me , Im not blessed with looks but Im not after shallow people anyway.

Whos shallow ?

For me, its people who are only concerned with looks, but every one is different and after different things. If I met a Brad Pit and he had an attitude , I wouldn't."

100% agree .. might look the part but being ugly on the inside ... isnt my thing at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not, all fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely not, all fakes "

Not all of us are fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Why would I message someone I can't see? Similarly with hidden profiles.

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Nope we don’t message blank profiles or new profiles just found we got bitten in past sending face pics etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dare say there is a hierarchy of acceptable pics. I think the cock shot is below the silhouette. I have noticed that some profile have pics on them but they have no profile pic. "

Some people think you have to have a face as your profile pic, so as they would rather not do that they think the silhouette is acceptable... the best way is to send a face pic with the first message but some people won't do that either..

And then they wonder why they got no response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely not, all fakes

Not all of us are fakes"

And your hidden, sorry but doesn’t make any sense to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely not, all fakes

Not all of us are fakes

And your hidden, sorry but doesn’t make any sense to us "

Currently not hidden, changes day by day. Reasons include the need to be discreet, people stealing pics before, being hounded by men and tbh the main reason is thay its the way that i have decided to use fab from now on. I really dont care about making sense on here, hardly anybody does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will send a message to silhouettes to see if the women behind them would like to strike up a conversation. Obviously I don’t know if I will fancy them but I think it’s polite to start a dialogue and you can have friendships without having to have sex. Does anyone else have any thoughts on this?"

They may well just of joined no harming saying hello my don’t reply anyway so I’ve nothing to lose

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By *hedireCouple
over a year ago

wigan

We don't discriminate people have their own reasons for no face or public photos. We have had great meets and great conversations with people who don't need to be exhibitionist.

From this thread I expect some will bypass us . Looks are skin deep, engaging our brains scores over photos any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely not.

Px

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By *el_123Woman
over a year ago

portsmouth

Nope. Never

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Nah if they arent bothered enough to have at least a picture, they won't be any good in a conversation in our opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined I was keen and tried to contact any profile that looked interesting

I’ve now become “ seasoned” and know from a few key factors who are likely to be real and worth trying to make contact with

And these are usually those with pictures, references and full profiles that match mine

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No excuse for no pics. I will presume they are not confident so therefore not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely not, all fakes

Not all of us are fakes

And your hidden, sorry but doesn’t make any sense to us

Currently not hidden, changes day by day. Reasons include the need to be discreet, people stealing pics before, being hounded by men and tbh the main reason is thay its the way that i have decided to use fab from now on. I really dont care about making sense on here, hardly anybody does"

True,

Just our take on it so far,

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By *hat Bloke OP   Man
over a year ago

Harrogate


"We don't discriminate people have their own reasons for no face or public photos. We have had great meets and great conversations with people who don't need to be exhibitionist.

From this thread I expect some will bypass us . Looks are skin deep, engaging our brains scores over photos any day. "
I personally don’t think there is any right or wrong, just opinions and every bodies are valid as we form our opinions from experiences. Because I am a born again optimist I will give folk a chance. If they choose to remain anonymous and not reply, that is their choice.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

never have engaged with silhouettes, never will.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Only if they have a very compelling written presence and/or have shared a reason for keeping it blank, but generally no, I won't bother.

In fairness I can understand why some very shy people might not want to share any public images at all, especially if they know that family or close friends might be on here. But what *REALLY* grinds my gears is when people on regular, vanilla dating sites don't use a picture of themselves... it seems kinda basic.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We don't engage with anyone without a profile pic. If they can't be bothered to put some effort in then we will move on.....too many messages to deal with to be asking to see faces, etc.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd love to engage with people on a personal level but unfortunately contacting someone on that basis alone often leads to accusations of time wasting because most people are here to meet for sex. For this reason and because being as shallow as a puddle I only want to get up close and personal with someone I find attractive we don't contact profiles without pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I’ll message anyone as long as they’re breathing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many genuine people on here who have put effort into their profiles. Why would we waste our time on the profiles that haven't.

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By *uts123Man
over a year ago

Nr Ipswich

I think many women and couples receive so many messages, unlike us men, that the profiles without photos do not stand out from the zillions that have them so they aren’t bothered with!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do women message at all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silhouettes Matter

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I do msg blankers. It usually goes like this.

Where is your fuckin pic?

Or, are you a feckin ghost?

Or. Did your mother give birth to a silhouette?

Just joking.

I used to just ignore but now I find them intriguing, it could someone famous like.......Michael Gove

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. It's unlikely that I will ever know the people behind them even exist. There are too many people here for me to ever know all of them. I don't have enough time to waste ob those that make it difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some nice people messaged us before we put up our first pics. But to be honest I’m not a fan of it, and I can understand why people don’t! X

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Supply and demand. If you are popular (for whatever reason, but often by virtue one of you looks like you have a vagina) you want a profile pic, good text and sometimes pics of the business end. If you are one of the horde (generally single men) you will talk to silhouettes, blank profiles - pretty much anything - if you thought it would give you a chance of seeing the hallowed lady parts.

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