FabSwingers.com forum: Dirty talk

By *unguy_4_u OP Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Hi All,

Be interested in knowing if dirty talk is something that you like when having sex?

Is it a man thing or a women thing or both

How dirty is dirty?

I personally love it when a lady is talking dirty to me, 'egging' me on. I find it very erotic and a big ego boost that I'm doing something right.

Although I'm not great at talking dirty back - more practise required lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends, sometimes it can be soo cringey that you feel like your in a bad porno and other times its just the right moment.

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By *ndrew999Man
over a year ago

Cumbria area

Yes love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely yes although very occasionally we keep it vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it's not forced and natural. It's something that has certainly become hotter for me, which I wasn't as aware or caring of in the past.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Huge fans of talking dirty, mrs likes a bit of light humiliation too

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

It’s nice to get some interaction and feedback!

But nothing too cringey.

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

Also big fans of dirty talk during some of our sessions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive just told the truth..

I'll fuck you the best ever and you might get pregnant but you won't be able to tell the grandkids what I'd done to yer

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

I'm a lady in the living room and a whore in bedroom so talk to me like the bitch I am

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

In a physical situation we like it but on here no bit cringey

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Not so much during sex but whilst on a night out I love him giving me a little rub somewhere and telling me what's going to happen later

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Most definitely. Silent or near silent sex is just weird. It certainly adds more spice to the eroticism.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Love it when Sue talks dirty ..coz normally she does not swear at all ...trigger words do it every time ..

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

FUCK YES!

LOVE it - the filthier the better

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading

Im in total agreement with OP i love it when a lady is talking dirty to me in the sheets & telling me what she wants me to do etc. I find silent sex so boring

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"FUCK YES!

LOVE it - the filthier the better

After some messages I will just add..... ONLY in person and in the heat of passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ABSOFUCKINGLUTELY

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By *ambofkMan
over a year ago

Hamilton

Ohh yes im a gentleman on the street but a beast in the sheets i am not one for quiet sex it just doesn’t work like that, when a woman is screaming with please its a mental stimulation for the mind and this works for a woman as well ive found that when a man grunts or shouts or name calls it can stimulate a woman almost as much as just normal sex, so why wouldn’t you do both and really stimulate all the senses at once x

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Oh yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes absolutely xx

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead

The power of the spoken and written word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love hearing it and getting better at talking it myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh treat me good at the bar like a gent but talk filthy to me later yes please adds some erotic fun to an already hot situation

Mind is a powerful sexy organ!

DD x

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

Dirty talk doesnt do much for me. It used to when i was a teanager

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right words at the right time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes.

Dirty talk during sex, before hand, sexing, flirty / suggestive messages, dirty phone calls... it’s all good. All of it. Words have amazing power!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

filthier the better. Cock, cunt and pussy are the order of the day. Funny thing is autocorrect didn't even suggest an alternative to those words. Shame on us

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By *orth_hantscplCouple
over a year ago

camberley

We love dirty talk when we’re on our own, we normally like to tell each other about what we’ve got planned for the future

Hopefully the lockdown ends soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it feels natural it’s hot as fuck! Huge turn on! X

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By *averick86xxxMan
over a year ago

lincoln

Love it

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

If they can do it well, then yes please.

Otherwise it can be a bit cringe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I don’t mind

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I like to go into Japanese Manga mode, very fem, very girly, slight wimper between made up Japanese gibberish phrases that mean absolutely nothing, possibly saying "I'm going to paint the fridge next tuesday" inadvertently in Japanese.

Very elotic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a yes yes yes from me

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to go into Japanese Manga mode, very fem, very girly, slight wimper between made up Japanese gibberish phrases that mean absolutely nothing, possibly saying "I'm going to paint the fridge next tuesday" inadvertently in Japanese.

Very elotic.

what’s funny about that is I know a handful of guys who would love that! Haha

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Very elotic.

what’s funny about that is I know a handful of guys who would love that! Haha"

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I think it depends, sometimes it can be soo cringey that you feel like your in a bad porno and other times its just the right moment. "

We’re like this , we like it a lot, but sometimes when it builds up I’ll end up just going that little bit too far and we both burst out laughing and lose the moment

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Yes definitely it turns me on so much.

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By *abybearandthebossCouple
over a year ago

COLCHESTER

Definitely a huge turn on. X

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

Massive turn on for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much talk as it can be off putting or porn like. I'm more of an expressional word lover. When you can't hold in how good it feels and the gasping words slip out.

I had a guy once giving me the oral session of my life and I actually said "what the hell are you doing to me?" He raised his head, ever so slightly, so I could see the smile on his glistening lips and then gleefully carried on.

Words do not have to be dirty to encourage xx

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

I like a little dirty talk, especially in whispers when we are out and about on a date or just shopping, being told what he's going to do to me later!M M Mmmm I like a few words whispered in my ear when we are having sex and during foreplay.. But I'm still not great at taking dirty myself..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Huge fans of talking dirty, mrs likes a bit of light humiliation too"

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its compliments your hot, tight, sexy etc or about what you want to do or have done yes and can be a turn on..if its such as slut whore etc then a major turn off for O..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love been told what a slut i am when having sex. Especially with strangers

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Very elotic.

Bet theres some reading your last word thought it was typing error..

I cant remember the group that wrote the song especially for you

"I'm talking Japanese "

Anyway back on track re the theme of the thread..

I can honestly say with being "welsh chapel" (fellow taffs will get my drift!) Hand on heart , very very rarely will I use the f word in daily conversation.

However in the bedroom there is a time and place for everything and when the time is right ...and at the right time its fucking hot being told or telling someone you're going to or they want you to them fuck them..then there are times when it's not required..

By not using the language in day to day life certainly adds to the stimulus when used in the bedroom.

Or wherever else one is covorting.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

very hot if done at the right time, at the wrong time can be a bit of a turn of

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By *unguy_4_u OP Man
over a year ago

Kettering

I think the general consensus is that its a YES but done at the right time.

And not a dropping of the 'trousers and suck my cock bitch' Although in certain role play scenarios that works

It can be a full on fuck me harder, or a whisper in the ear of ohh baby please fuck me harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FUCK YES!

LOVE it - the filthier the better

It's always the nice ones that are the worst HP you bad bad girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew a high ranking police officer who liked the C bomb.

She didn't swear and was the nicest person with a difficult job but in bed she was a disgusting lowlife CUNT and I'll teach you a lesson you won't ever forget you dirty blonde cunt ...

I blame her for me calling everyone CUNT

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Definitely I love it. I use it as a form of sexual control and dominance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore it, adds to the sexual tension

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Really enjoy it brings fantasy up a level, gets you speaking more easily to each other to lose inhibitions

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Oh fuck yes, dirty talk is so hot!

When someone whispers in your ear just exactly what they are going to do to you in explicit detail... especially if you're in a setting where you can do nothing about it. That's gets me so wet..

Also love text sex and reading erotica - i find if you turn my mind on as well as my body, the sex can be utterly fantastic.

Getting turned on just thinking about it ...

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