FabSwingers.com forum: Where did you meet your Partner?

By *inks_n_Giggles OP Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'm interested to know where r how couples who swing together met? Did you meet on the scene and knew you were both into the lifestyle from the outset or did you meet the more traditional way off the scene and get into it together?

I'm single and looking for a future partner so interested to know what's worked for others.

Bobby

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We met on a dating website

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By *inks_n_Giggles OP Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"We met on a dating website"

Cool, did you progress to swinging after you were in a relationship or was it discussed from the outset?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my partner met at a party of a mutual friend, way off this "scene". We have only had a handful, if that, of encounters, but are open with each other which is so important and trust between each other also.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We met here on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Traditional way. We’re high school sweethearts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet through football after she wrote a letter into my fanzine and her writing is so bad I thought the letter was written by Clive and not Carol.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Are you a researcher for Sydney University?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We knew each other to look at from pubs then actually met at a friend's party over 30 years ago and the rest is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Karate class.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At our local fetish social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

University

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

I was a Waitress in a hotel bar in Stockholm and Mr was a guest for the week! One year of commuting I moved England

14 years on I’m still here!! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

School

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

We met on dating app that requires you swipe a certain direction, once we got chatting our mutual interests where discussed and swinging was a pre requisite for us to be compatible, its been working fine and a strong bond has formed

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By *inks_n_Giggles OP Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Thanks all, interesting split of those meeting in and outside of the scene.

I'm thinking if I use a traditional dating app, I should leave a subtle hint about what I'm into, maybe a reference to vanilla?

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Thanks all, interesting split of those meeting in and outside of the scene.

I'm thinking if I use a traditional dating app, I should leave a subtle hint about what I'm into, maybe a reference to vanilla?"

Mr did leave a subtle reference to the fact he was into parties of the adult variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met via a certain fishy dating app, then discussed and tried the swing scene for the first time together after about a year of dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my other half and i met on the scene, so already knew the other was into the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through work - I (Fire) literally ended up shagging the boss

We’d both had experience on the scene before we got together, both as singles and with other people. We were both open with each-other about it, and our first “date” weekend actually included Smoke having her first gangbang

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By *inks_n_Giggles OP Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"We met through work - I (Fire) literally ended up shagging the boss

Lol and I thought a Nandos was the entry level expectation for a first date!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We met through work - I (Fire) literally ended up shagging the boss

Lol and I thought a Nandos was the entry level expectation for a first date!"

It was collect from airport - go to a fetishwear shop as she wanted to do some shopping , back to mine , spend rest of the day in bed , next day afternoon gangbang, drop her at airport , and home she flew lol

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We met on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In college, some 24 years ago, now happily married with him for over 20 years now.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I haven’t a partner

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We met on here nearly 5 years ago

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

At a dog show

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By *xx90292Man
over a year ago

London

She was working as a waitress in a cocktail bar when I met her. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met at work

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Single now but my ex was my boss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While picking up our kids from school, lisa was wearing a surmfette,just as the first smurfs film was at the cinema, I messaged her on Facebook and asked her if she wanted to and see the film, she said yes, we never did watch the film at the cinema lol

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

University.

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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Dating website then met at a local pub. Kink got brought up pretty early on and we’ve never looked back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on an internet chat site 15 yrs ago x

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

We met through a mutual friend whilst both on the scene ...decided as a couple what we were happy with doing and establishing boundaries...the rest is within our verifications....we mean history....lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We knew each other from work initially... but ‘bumped into each other’ on a well know dating site, and off it went from there...

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We met by chance in a bar in town, long long before either of us got into this lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my other half via another swinging website.

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

We met in school xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through a mutual friend and started swinging a couple of months in and still 11 years on

Guess we are both just randy devils

lol

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

A mutual friend put us in touch with each other

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By *reenlanerCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

Car club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met here on Fab

Her x

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

In a carpet shop and he laid me that night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if you follow our lead you will be waiting for a while lol,

We met almost 20 years ago in a night club but only started swinging in January,

Everyone has a different story though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a carpet shop and he laid me that night.

Love this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like one

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"In a carpet shop and he laid me that night.

Love this lol "
True no joke.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

We met in adam and eves. Was lust at 1st sight ... k

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

We met on a Kik group

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We met on a blind date sent up by friends, and we also had 3 some away from fab as hubby new I liked the ladies but never acted on it. TheN one new years eve we botH decided to check fab out rest is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We met in school xx"

Also love this

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

First and love when I was 16 now 23 years later we are together again 4 years strong

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside (West Oxfordshire)

Secondary school for us

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By *ustKeepSwinging999Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Met on a dating app, chatted for a few months before meeting as J was out of the country with work.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Many moons ago at College

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By *woforfun 1000Couple
over a year ago

surrey

Me and Mrs c met at school we have been together 20 years and started swinging 2 years ago after, you only live once chat

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Wet met through a car club. Bry was divorced, Char messaged him one evening to ask about his hospital appointment. Following Monday we met up, a year later and we're living our very best lives.

We talked a lot that first weekend online and all sorts of things came out so we both sort of knew what we were looking for.

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By *inks_n_Giggles OP Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Thanks for sharing, lovely stories about how people met.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We met in a coffee shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been in a relarionship since 2016. I met her on the tube, her eyes captivated me and i did the one thing no one does, i spoke to her. A few weeks of chatting turned into coffee turned into a 2 year affair (she was married).

Not sure if i want another partner now tbh

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

We met on POF back at the end of 2018.

I wanted to just use him for sex....apparently!! He said he was fine with that.

Things progressed and now MrD fully moved in with me and my 2 kids last week. Who knew??!!!! Lol. Love him to bits. Been my rock since I met him, going through a nasty nasty separation.

MsD

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

On a potato farm in Lithuania.

I said I'm Cara I like to swing.

She said something in Lithuanian which I later found out meant ....fuck off and leave me alone or I'll stab you with this knife.

We kind of had a spark which diminished rapidly after 3 months. Went to a couple of swingers clubs in Hamburg where she fell for a black guy with an enormous smile. Miss her constant angry death looks she used to give me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on a bdsm/fetish website... Old fashioned chat room six and a half years !!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We met on POF.

However, my profile was clear that I was ultimately looking for an unconventional relationship.

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Me n the hubby , met though my dad 16 years ago, went out on a date, stayed over and never went back to his parents again lol

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

At Eureka 5 years ago

Who would have thought Swinging could actually be the fairtytale ending haha

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

We met at work x

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We met on a site a little kinkier than here, and must not be named, was love at first spank. Kink now filled with emotions perfect partner a long time looking.

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

On another fuck site. She`d been swinging for a few years on her own. She said (verbatim) "We`ll meet for a drink. If we get on, I`ll take you to my local fuck club. If we don`t, you can fuck off, and I will still go to my local fuck club." Fell in love with her at that instant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1985 when l first met liz on the 331 bus on way back from lido and 35yrs later with 4 kids and 3 grandkids

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