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By *auriceF OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

One of my biggest pet hates in the lifestyle is this conversation:

“We like to take pictures and videos of everything”

“Ok. I’d be open to that. But if that’s the case, I’d like a copy of the footage too.”

*Outraged* “Oh absolutely not!”

I’m not a performer: we can both take pics & vids or neither of us can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my biggest pet hates in the lifestyle is this conversation:

“We like to take pictures and videos of everything”

“Ok. I’d be open to that. But if that’s the case, I’d like a copy of the footage too.”

*Outraged* “Oh absolutely not!”

I’m not a performer: we can both take pics & vids or neither of us can. "

Maybe you should try a single girl rather than a couple?

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We would be the same in that situation, if we were ever filmed it would 100% be with there permission for both of us to have a copy.

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

There's a lot of trust involved, OP, and a couple may feel they have more to lose than you. Hence previous posters suggestion. But if you can build up that trust, they may relent, that's how we are.

But I take your point that it doesn't feel fair. Your only power here is to walk away if you can't accept their terms.

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By *auriceF OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *auriceF OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"There's a lot of trust involved, OP, and a couple may feel they have more to lose than you. Hence previous posters suggestion. But if you can build up that trust, they may relent, that's how we are.

But I take your point that it doesn't feel fair. Your only power here is to walk away if you can't accept their terms. "

The thing is, if they feel like they have too much to lose, they shouldn’t insist on taking any pictures or videos at all.

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