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Couples profile - male only playing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s this all about?

I’m constantly contacted by profiles of apparent married couples and asked if I’ll fuck the husband only?! The wife is never available to play...

To me this looks like gay/bisexual husbands using the couple’s profile to exploit any men looking for couples to play with alone. Why not just have a singles profile to meet men?!

I love pleasuring and pleasing a couple together but solo male play does nothing for me.

Feel like it’s always a smokescreen for a solo male to ask men for sex

Thoughts

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By *hrisUB3Man
over a year ago

Heathrow

Just say "OK, after I speak to the wife on the phone".

They soon disappear.

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

Agreed- have had a few recently- new profiles with lots of info about "her" but no pics. When messaging, informed that shes not playing.

One even told me he set up.the profile to meet men. He didnt even have a partner. Reported him obviously

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I get that quite a lot. Always the guy looking to meet and the lady not interested and the guy is straight,

Xx

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Often see profiles or status updates like this. Generally just assume it's a bloke using a couples profile because he thinks it improves his odds

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

If the wife isn't playing, create a single guy profile and get her to verify you are indeed a tool.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agreed- have had a few recently- new profiles with lots of info about "her" but no pics. When messaging, informed that shes not playing.

One even told me he set up.the profile to meet men. He didnt even have a partner. Reported him obviously

"

Pretty sure thing is more common then!

I get the same mrandmrs profile msg me week in week out and always the same - wife wants to watch the hubby get fucked!!!! She’s not playing etc etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get that quite a lot. Always the guy looking to meet and the lady not interested and the guy is straight,

Xx"

Yes wants to ‘experiment’ with my cock on his arse yeah ok mate like I believe that!

I’m not against bi play at all but include your wife for god sake or get a gay profile for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed- have had a few recently- new profiles with lots of info about "her" but no pics. When messaging, informed that shes not playing.

One even told me he set up.the profile to meet men. He didnt even have a partner. Reported him obviously

Pretty sure thing is more common then!

I get the same mrandmrs profile msg me week in week out and always the same - wife wants to watch the hubby get fucked!!!! She’s not playing etc etc

"

Yep, it's quite sad really. I get it a lot because I only really play bi with couples. It takes a really special man to get me alone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agreed- have had a few recently- new profiles with lots of info about "her" but no pics. When messaging, informed that shes not playing.

One even told me he set up.the profile to meet men. He didnt even have a partner. Reported him obviously

Pretty sure thing is more common then!

I get the same mrandmrs profile msg me week in week out and always the same - wife wants to watch the hubby get fucked!!!! She’s not playing etc etc

Yep, it's quite sad really. I get it a lot because I only really play bi with couples. It takes a really special man to get me alone! "

Exactly this! And to be honest wouldn’t play alone. The reason my cock is hard In the first place is the wife’s wet pussy I’ve been filling.

Without that I’m sure I wouldn’t be too excited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things change we started only meeting as a couple can see vierys but since meeting a nice couple mrs only wants to meet single guys at clubs we can arrange to meet there but male still wants to play so don't think there any need to create a single profile as she still gets turned seeing if i have message anyone and reading them

Also she is happy to chat on phone if anyone dont think we real

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Things change we started only meeting as a couple can see vierys but since meeting a nice couple mrs only wants to meet single guys at clubs we can arrange to meet there but male still wants to play so don't think there any need to create a single profile as she still gets turned seeing if i have message anyone and reading them

Also she is happy to chat on phone if anyone dont think we real "

I hear what you’re saying but if you use your guise of cpls profile to msg solely men for 1 on 1 without the wife that’s not really what a cold profile is for and I’m Addition to that you’re looking for a solo gay meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Things change we started only meeting as a couple can see vierys but since meeting a nice couple mrs only wants to meet single guys at clubs we can arrange to meet there but male still wants to play so don't think there any need to create a single profile as she still gets turned seeing if i have message anyone and reading them

Also she is happy to chat on phone if anyone dont think we real

I hear what you’re saying but if you use your guise of cpls profile to msg solely men for 1 on 1 without the wife that’s not really what a cold profile is for and I’m Addition to that you’re looking for a solo gay meet... "

Just cos she not at the meet dont mean she not involved in the build up and we still meet couples but still chat no need to have a single profile and if the guy turn out to be a nice guy she might be tempted to get involved later on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A block serves well to such profiles

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

This is really common. We previously chatted with a “couple”. Female half wanted to meet and play with us, then she wanted to have a social with the 4 of us to be safe, fair enough. Then wanted us to meet just husband for a social to confirm we’re genuine. This developed into we could have a play meet with just husband if we wanted. Needless to say it was an unverified profile and didn’t get very far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick to meeting those with a few verifications you will know there is another half who is real

There are times when a Male is available and not the female. Due to safety reasons I doubt it will be the other way round

As you all know so many frauds on here it’s making everyone more cautious

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is really common. We previously chatted with a “couple”. Female half wanted to meet and play with us, then she wanted to have a social with the 4 of us to be safe, fair enough. Then wanted us to meet just husband for a social to confirm we’re genuine. This developed into we could have a play meet with just husband if we wanted. Needless to say it was an unverified profile and didn’t get very far! "

Sounds like dejavu to me!!

Silly sad men In my opinion.

1. Does the wife even know they are looking for men solo....

2. Does the wife even exist

3. If she’s ok with him meeting a man alone. He’s not Bi he’s gay. She’s married a gay man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So your saying no man can be bi if he meets a guy on his own?

You can like both men and women if you meet them separately don't mean your gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your saying no man can be bi if he meets a guy on his own?

You can like both men and women if you meet them separately don't mean your gay "

Totally agree. While I prefer to play with couples, it's not unknown for me to meet the odd single guy. Totally depends on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I get so many couple profiles message me and it’s all from the man part or interaction only in person with the guy .

Even single female profiles I find that roughly 3/4 within 3 messages steer it onto if I can fuck the partner that is not mentioned.

On weekend some woman started banging on about her Domme I declined and said seems we are incompatible , started offering me money

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"What’s this all about?

I’m constantly contacted by profiles of apparent married couples and asked if I’ll fuck the husband only?! The wife is never available to play...

To me this looks like gay/bisexual husbands using the couple’s profile to exploit any men looking for couples to play with alone. Why not just have a singles profile to meet men?!

I love pleasuring and pleasing a couple together but solo male play does nothing for me.

Feel like it’s always a smokescreen for a solo male to ask men for sex

Thoughts

"

Instant red flag for us when part of the ‘couple’ isn’t available to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're the opposite as in it's mainly the female playing and hubby watching, we try to explain everything on our profile without boring everyone with a massive write up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're the opposite as in it's mainly the female playing and hubby watching, we try to explain everything on our profile without boring everyone with a massive write up. "

Nice to meet you

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Normally gets a reply about speaking to the wife on the phone, followed by a report for using the wrong profile type.

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