FabSwingers.com forum: Meets with out a Picture

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies and Gentlemen

Do I really need to lighten up ? Now I know as a Tv all we get as Tv’s is what is known as after dark Lover’s, only the few are brave enough to visit us in our home in the day light, due to being seen. But hey that’s cool. That’s life. It’s well know that tv admires are only brave after dark.

But would you meet with out a face picture. ????

Then “ No I don’t have a face pic ! But trust me you will like me “

Me “ it’s ok because you will be coming into my home so I need to see you first”

Them. “ your loss “

Me LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone without a face pic, much less have them in my home.

Do what you feel is comfortable, its most certainly not a loss if you aren't comfortable.

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

Personally I want the other person to fancy me. Much as I am pained to admit it, not everyone does, but I couldn't have sex without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet for social only first so yes, I would and have met without seeing a face pic first.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Never ever. Not even for a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never ever. Not even for a social. "

Agreed what’s the point

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Only time I have or will meet without a face pic is when/if they turn up at a club.

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By *ust fun9TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

"I always meet for social only first so yes, I would and have met without seeing a face pic first."

Only met twice from here, but usually a brief social meet first to test the waters and find out if we actually click and want to maybe progress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a social first so i do meet without a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always used to say that if you weren’t proud to be seen with me in the daylight then you’re never going to be with me when the lights are off.

It took me a while to get that self respect of course and gave far too much understanding for men who thought otherwise, but please this goes out to all gender incongruous people, believe in yourself and give yourself that respect you deserve even if it is for a quick meet.

And no, never without a face pick, ever

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

No face pic within the first few messages, then we don't bother. No way would we want to meet anyone that either one of us didn't fancy.

Bry (and Char)

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex

Never meet without a pic

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

No I would never meet anyone without a face picture

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

No ifs no buts no excuses face pic or do one for me mine im return if i like what i see . To be fair they never look like their pics anyway when you get there . Most are actually better in the flesh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t see how you could possibly be attracted to a potential meet if you haven’t seen what they look like, so, no, no picture, no interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I state very clearly on my profile that they need a face picture, but alas...

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Some folk like blind dates ....we dont ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Omg I never ever meet anyone without seeing their face and doing a cam chat before hand. Call me old fashion but i need to know plenty of info as I think about my personal safety as well as I need to be really attracted to the person to exchange body fluids

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Blind Date was shit back in 1987, it doesn't play in my house in 2020.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

"Ladies and Gentlemen

But would you meet with out a face picture. ????

Then “ No I don’t have a face pic ! But trust me you will like me “

Me “ it’s ok because you will be coming into my home so I need to see you first”

Them. “ your loss “

Me LOL "

Can I just say, you look incredible

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

If we meet for a social how I'm supposed to know I'm meeting the right person without a face pic I'm not mystic meg lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't even chat on here without a face pic, never mind give someone my time in my offline life

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By *unguy_4_uMan
over a year ago

Kettering

In this day and age with camera phones etc, why would you meet (or expect to meet) anybody without seeing a picture first?

Baffles me

OP - looking at your profile pic.. i think it will be their loss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have pics on here. But i always send via kik. ...just the way i am

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

I met someone once without seeing her face pic. She'd seen mine and we arranged a social. She realised just before the meet that I hadn't hassled her for a pic so asked if I wanted one.

I decided that a bit of mystery was in order so said it was ok- as she had offered. Met that evening and definitely wasn't disappointed!

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London

Would be a no from me, despite many expecting a three word message and a pic of someone else's cock to be enough

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By *ustagentMan
over a year ago

wa14

just had a couple messaging me, same thing, no picture of anything, one dodgy veri and they want my address? now I know im not the youngest,and be thankfull but I do like to see a human I maybe a guy but I still have some standards as they say not blind date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent to OP
" Can I just say, you look incredible "

Omg, doesn’t she just?! I’m well jealous and there’s no one that you could ever reject that would be anything less than their loss !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sent to OP Can I just say, you look incredible

Omg, doesn’t she just?! I’m well jealous and there’s no one that you could ever reject that would be anything less than their loss !"

I agree we have a lovely looking OP here xx

I always send a face pic and expect the same before a meet and also explore by chat exactly what we are expecting from each other so no unpleasant surprises

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ladies and Gentlemen

But would you meet with out a face picture. ????

Then “ No I don’t have a face pic ! But trust me you will like me “

Me “ it’s ok because you will be coming into my home so I need to see you first”

Them. “ your loss “

Me LOL

Can I just say, you look incredible "

Thank you, I tried sending a message but couldn’t xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d definitely send you a face pic OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def need a face pic wouldn’t it be embarrassing if you met and it was a member of your family or a close friend or neighbour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Def need a face pic wouldn’t it be embarrassing if you met and it was a member of your family or a close friend or neighbour "

was just about to write this...

face pics for a reason, this being just one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, its time and effort I am not willing to waste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't respect your wishes they ain't good enough.

You can still have standards and be on fab x

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

In the days before fab I’ve meet a couple of people without seeing a face pic and it’s proved to be a big mistake. So if face pics are not exchanged within the first couple of messages then it’s usually a thanks but no thanks from us

Mrs J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually won't even start a conversation without a face pic... Why would you meet someone without... I turned down a coffee with a guy that swore he looked just like Thor... His veris pretty much said the same... But he wouldn't send me a pic, so that was the end of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies and Gentlemen

But would you meet with out a face picture. ????

Then “ No I don’t have a face pic ! But trust me you will like me “

Me “ it’s ok because you will be coming into my home so I need to see you first”

Them. “ your loss “

Me LOL "

Won't arrange a social without a face pic. Won't arrange a play meet without a social.

Feeling safe is more important than anything in my opinion x

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I don't like to put a face pic in the first message. Unfortunately a lot of women say No face pic, no reply

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By *amfabMan
over a year ago

Luton

Defo facepic before a meeting .. normally I'll ask for a face pic if the convo is flowing but yeah many ladies ask for one right away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A definite no

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Absolutely not, but even more so if he or she turned up and didn’t look like their pictures either.

I also prefer to meet at clubs or in a venue, so if they’re not prepared to be seen with me, forget it buster

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

"Ladies and Gentlemen

But would you meet with out a face picture. ????

Then “ No I don’t have a face pic ! But trust me you will like me “

Me “ it’s ok because you will be coming into my home so I need to see you first”

Them. “ your loss “

Me LOL "

Lol if i had a pound for thw amount of time ive heard this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face is on my profile to save time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the age old “you won’t be disappointed”

I get that all the time. Why are people so confident but won’t send a photo? Very creepy

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I don’t even understand why anyone can’t send a face pic, unless they are so hideous that even their own mother has trouble looking at them.

You can send a pic on here and choose the option for it to disappear once opened on here, if privacy is the worry that is.

OP, I would also like to say that you are gorgeous and I would be proud to be seen in public with you at any time of day x.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Oh the age old “you won’t be disappointed”

I get that all the time. Why are people so confident but won’t send a photo? Very creepy "

omg I be a millionaire if I got £10 for every time that's said to me... usually I am very disappointed when they eventually show up... never again will I make that mistake relying on their opinion. beauty is definitely in the eye of beholder

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By *tm321Man
over a year ago

ask

About 10 years ago I did once. I was a little apprehensive but claimed to be well known in the community and I wouldn't be disappointed.

No idea who she was so couldn't have been that well known, I certainly wasn't disappointed though!

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

It one of our games as floats both our boats. Hers she likes Humiliation and a lot of use. Mine the delivering hef yoan address and then driving home to await a ‘come get me text’. Love the reclaim and the mental pictures

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By *cac9186Couple
over a year ago

london

No pic no meet sorry

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

"I always meet for social only first so yes, I would and have met without seeing a face pic first."

Same with us! We've had two socials and a club meet without face pics with no horrors

We're usually very reluctant to swap face pics. Some people have refused to meet us because of this and that's fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh the age old “you won’t be disappointed”

I get that all the time. Why are people so confident but won’t send a photo? Very creepy

Annoying isn’t it! How many times have you taken a chance on someone saying it?

I must admit I’ve done the same - they never match their description of themselves and it becomes clear the reason they didn’t send a photo was deception. So now a photo is a must.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

You can often judge a book by its cover but I need more than a face pic and I don't mean a cock.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Don’t know what’s worse hidden profiles or no pictures both time wasters

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By *rjimMan
over a year ago

nr bristol

Have been asked to meet 3 times this week by single guys, no veris and wont send face pics.

Do they think people have nothing better to do than blind dates ?

Muppets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have arranged many such meets for my wife in the past, she wasn't interested in their looks only their cocks. We never had any problems, but of course it wouldn't be safe for a single lady I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ladies and Gentlemen

But would you meet with out a face picture. ????

Then “ No I don’t have a face pic ! But trust me you will like me “

Me “ it’s ok because you will be coming into my home so I need to see you first”

Them. “ your loss “

Me LOL

Can I just say, you look incredible "

Thank you xx

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

If they msg me

That is always my first question especially wen they dont have one on their profile but seem so keen to meet , and they say nif u dont have a face piccy u will b blocked,

W.T.F. there thrn

Yeah sayin u wont be disappointed

Ie they wont send one

Or think they cant send one

Obvs have summit to hide

THEN

Wats ur kik address i'll send u one there

SORRY

Send on here or getting blocked

Then piccy comes through years old

Ill ask agsin send a RECENT one

If they still say they cant

They are lyin shits obvs shaggin behind a partner

SO SORRY FELLA

ITS A BLOCK FROM ME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I require to see a person's face but if it were local would consider a coffee meet to establish that.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"I require to see a person's face but if it were local would consider a coffee meet to establish that. "

Just agree with everyone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone once without seeing her face pic. She'd seen mine and we arranged a social. She realised just before the meet that I hadn't hassled her for a pic so asked if I wanted one.

I decided that a bit of mystery was in order so said it was ok- as she had offered. Met that evening and definitely wasn't disappointed!"

Wow no way would i meet someone who hadn't asked to see my face first, shouts of 'any holes a goal' rather than genuine attraction to me

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester

no way would I met without a picture.

Also only met people I already know from the clubs. Best way

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By *euve4usCouple
over a year ago

Teddington

We have partial face pics on here but don’t send as we explain in our profile - it’s everyone’s individual choice and we haven’t had anyone run out...yet lol. Verifications also help. So if people don’t want to meet without face photos they can choose to contact or not

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