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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Std's, getting pregnant...but people still insist on playing unsafe..

Can anyone shed some light??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how can anyone find shagging strangers appealing?

how can anyone get turned on by pissing on each other?

how can people want sex with other of the same sex?

because we all like different and ours is not to reason why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well....ill consider myself told off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol not at all

thing is everyone likes different dont they, theres no point trying to work out why people like what they do we just have to accept we all like different

Protect yurself the best you feel fit and sod everyone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, some people like to take risks and they may think they wont catch anything, and old women cant get pregnant anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback sex is spontaneous and enjoyable, I can feel my partner responding to my every move as he is inside me. However. This is something only indulged in when in a monogamous relationship as far as I am concerned. Not something to indulge in when meeting strangers for sex. I love the feel and the freedom but it's too risky in this lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked this on the thread about who brings the condoms but go no answer so thought would just ask again .

I always have them in my bag.

Ok please please dont all start jumping up and down I am asking because I really dont understand and had the conversation with someone the other day and he didnt either.

How does a condom protect from getting anything if you have swapped spit licked pussy given blow jobs sucked fingers after being in pussy you know every thing apart from penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I asked this on the thread about who brings the condoms but go no answer so thought would just ask again .

I always have them in my bag.

Ok please please dont all start jumping up and down I am asking because I really dont understand and had the conversation with someone the other day and he didnt either.

How does a condom protect from getting anything if you have swapped spit licked pussy given blow jobs sucked fingers after being in pussy you know every thing apart from penetration."

got

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"how can anyone find shagging strangers appealing?

how can anyone get turned on by pissing on each other?

how can people want sex with other of the same sex?

because we all like different and ours is not to reason why "

Couldn't have put it better myself!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Would never 'expect' the guy to have them, I always have my own supply, just in case.

For me the responsibility is joint

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" I asked this on the thread about who brings the condoms but go no answer so thought would just ask again .

I always have them in my bag.

Ok please please dont all start jumping up and down I am asking because I really dont understand and had the conversation with someone the other day and he didnt either.

How does a condom protect from getting anything if you have swapped spit licked pussy given blow jobs sucked fingers after being in pussy you know every thing apart from penetration."

It doesn't it just helps minimise some of the risks.

Personally if I were to analyse every aspect of this lifestyle I'd dump my toys, turn my play lingerie into toilet roll covers and start playing canaster and bridge with the other old dears.

All we can do is try and protect ourselves the best we can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I asked this on the thread about who brings the condoms but go no answer so thought would just ask again .

I always have them in my bag.

Ok please please dont all start jumping up and down I am asking because I really dont understand and had the conversation with someone the other day and he didnt either.

How does a condom protect from getting anything if you have swapped spit licked pussy given blow jobs sucked fingers after being in pussy you know every thing apart from penetration.

It doesn't it just helps minimise some of the risks.

Personally if I were to analyse every aspect of this lifestyle I'd dump my toys, turn my play lingerie into toilet roll covers and start playing canaster and bridge with the other old dears.

All we can do is try and protect ourselves the best we can.

"

So again please I am only asking so I understand , am I right in thinking that for a condom to be safe you have to have no other contact apart from penetration?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

A couple messaged me asking if I went safe or bareback. I responded safe and they blocked me lol. Guess they didn't want to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own. We're all aduts here.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"Std's, getting pregnant...but people still insist on playing unsafe..

Can anyone shed some light??"

Looking at your age, you will have sexually matured in a time of safe sex due to the the dangers of HIV etc so will probably be more comfortable than some wearing condoms.

For those of my age or older, I think there is still a hankering to the days of bareback when the only main worry was pregnancy.

Sadly just a distant memory now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was asked to do this last week but I declined. I asked why she wanted bareback, her reply was for both our cum to mix together. She found that really sexy but too many risks imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback sex is spontaneous and enjoyable, I can feel my partner responding to my every move as he is inside me. However. This is something only indulged in when in a monogamous relationship as far as I am concerned. Not something to indulge in when meeting strangers for sex. I love the feel and the freedom but it's too risky in this lifestyle. "

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

Safe sex is essential imo. No concom, no fucky wucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how can anyone find shagging strangers appealing?

how can anyone get turned on by pissing on each other?

how can people want sex with other of the same sex?

because we all like different and ours is not to reason why "

Ours is just to do or die

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By *amnationsedgeMan
over a year ago

Ashborne

It feels better, simple fact. Rubber doesn't feel good.

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By *ummysarahWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

spontanious, risky, feels better, may be wrong thing to do but the fact remains...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How does a condom protect from getting anything if you have swapped spit licked pussy given blow jobs sucked fingers after being in pussy you know every thing apart from penetration."

you can use condoms for blow jobs, dental dams for oral on women, dont kiss and wear gloves for masterbation and dont suck fingers if your really that paranoid about catching something

Everything comes at a risk, some are just lower risk than others but everything you do sexually can be protected if you think about it

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By *imples_and_TBearCouple
over a year ago

bristol

Condoms are basically what some people use to reduce risks and all forms of play holds some risk or another. For some it gives them the confidence to do more than they would consider normally.

Its part of the risk of the lifestyle and if anyone is unable to accept the risk then they should not be playing at all.

There is no such thing as SAFE SEX!!!

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By *imples_and_TBearCouple
over a year ago

bristol

If your going to cover everything and prevent contact to the other persons bodily fluids then what's the point of taking part?

You would be better off jacking off to porn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always get those painting and decorating suits they sell in Wilko's, or get down the army surplus for an NBC suit and gasmask if you're feeling a bit kinkier...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never bare back any woman on the site , we all move in a small circle of friends and if a woman or man has HIV or any STD it will spread like wild fire. I vaue my sexual health and I wont have sex unless its safe !!

No if or buts

No condom=No sex+ no STD

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


" I asked this on the thread about who brings the condoms but go no answer so thought would just ask again .

I always have them in my bag.

Ok please please dont all start jumping up and down I am asking because I really dont understand and had the conversation with someone the other day and he didnt either.

How does a condom protect from getting anything if you have swapped spit licked pussy given blow jobs sucked fingers after being in pussy you know every thing apart from penetration."

Very good point, Ms. Shoeburyness! The truth is good sex is a dangerous thing right now, lol!!

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

nobed

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By *umlovinggirlCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Std's, getting pregnant...but people still insist on playing unsafe..

Can anyone shed some light??"

I don't know what I find more offensive, The fact that you wrote this post or the fact that you messaged us last week asking to use the wife as a cum dump....

Strange how some people say they don't or wouldn't play BB, Yet when they see it on a females profile can't resist messaging saying. Oh yeah they are up for that, they dont mind playing BB.

As for shedding light, Yes its our fetish, So get over it

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Std's, getting pregnant...but people still insist on playing unsafe..

Can anyone shed some light??

I don't know what I find more offensive, The fact that you wrote this post or the fact that you messaged us last week asking to use the wife as a cum dump....

Strange how some people say they don't or wouldn't play BB, Yet when they see it on a females profile can't resist messaging saying. Oh yeah they are up for that, they dont mind playing BB.

As for shedding light, Yes its our fetish, So get over it

"

Christ - some people are so hypocritical - what a clown! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No glove no love its simple as that...i waited 5 months before i went BB with nat we both got tested (we met on here) in my eyes its not worth the risk.. but all to there own if its your thing then go for it

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"Std's, getting pregnant...but people still insist on playing unsafe..

Can anyone shed some light??

I don't know what I find more offensive, The fact that you wrote this post or the fact that you messaged us last week asking to use the wife as a cum dump....

Strange how some people say they don't or wouldn't play BB, Yet when they see it on a females profile can't resist messaging saying. Oh yeah they are up for that, they dont mind playing BB.

As for shedding light, Yes its our fetish, So get over it

"

What a hypocrite!! Just be yourself, mate!! And herein lies the problem...people who want to indulge their fantasies but can't be honest with themselves. I imagine we ate gonna hear from you??

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

just as we said ... knobhead

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Hahaha, oh man.

Everyone has preferences. Simple as that.

Meeting anyone new, should be safe sex...period. If you grow to trust the person/ people you are seeing/ playing with, and are sure they are clean or tested, then bareback all you like.

Not that hard really.

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By *pecial bbCouple
over a year ago

london

everyone has preferences but when you're risking your health I think you need to go the safe route. keep safe and healthy

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Std's, getting pregnant...but people still insist on playing unsafe..

Can anyone shed some light??

I don't know what I find more offensive, The fact that you wrote this post or the fact that you messaged us last week asking to use the wife as a cum dump....

Strange how some people say they don't or wouldn't play BB, Yet when they see it on a females profile can't resist messaging saying. Oh yeah they are up for that, they dont mind playing BB.

As for shedding light, Yes its our fetish, So get over it

"

Aaah...so that explains this pointless thread: he got knocked back by you. What a hypocrite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I asked this on the thread about who brings the condoms but go no answer so thought would just ask again .

I always have them in my bag.

Ok please please dont all start jumping up and down I am asking because I really dont understand and had the conversation with someone the other day and he didnt either.

How does a condom protect from getting anything if you have swapped spit licked pussy given blow jobs sucked fingers after being in pussy you know every thing apart from penetration.

It doesn't it just helps minimise some of the risks.

Personally if I were to analyse every aspect of this lifestyle I'd dump my toys, turn my play lingerie into toilet roll covers and start playing canaster and bridge with the other old dears.

All we can do is try and protect ourselves the best we can.

"

Very true, you wouldn't do anything if you worried about what may go wrong! You could get run over by a bus just stepping out the house, so play as safely as you want to and enjoy the lifestyle. Ps we always take condoms, I don't care about others, it's up to them, but I keep myself safe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea about this either, we all know sex feels better without a condom but the risks outweigh the pleasure for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Std's, getting pregnant...but people still insist on playing unsafe..

Can anyone shed some light??"

Why do you find sex with someone on here appealing...?

Because its what you want to do... We normally play safe... But on occasion will play bare... It's just better for us that way... So much so that over half the meets I have are oral only... Because I dislike condoms... So choose to have mostly oral (me giving)

But we get messages every week asking can someone fill me... So plenty of people say one thing and do another. They to me are The real risks.... Because at least we are honest about it.

Cali

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Std's, getting pregnant...but people still insist on playing unsafe..

Can anyone shed some light??

I don't know what I find more offensive, The fact that you wrote this post or the fact that you messaged us last week asking to use the wife as a cum dump....

Strange how some people say they don't or wouldn't play BB, Yet when they see it on a females profile can't resist messaging saying. Oh yeah they are up for that, they dont mind playing BB.

As for shedding light, Yes its our fetish, So get over it

"
What a hypocritical clown! Reason we don't meet single guys, there are too many weird disturbed ones on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Std's, getting pregnant...but people still insist on playing unsafe..

Can anyone shed some light??

Why do you find sex with someone on here appealing...?

Because its what you want to do... We normally play safe... But on occasion will play bare... It's just better for us that way... So much so that over half the meets I have are oral only... Because I dislike condoms... So choose to have mostly oral (me giving)

But we get messages every week asking can someone fill me... So plenty of people say one thing and do another. They to me are The real risks.... Because at least we are honest about it.

Cali "

Couldnt have said it any better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha, oh man.

Everyone has preferences. Simple as that.

Meeting anyone new, should be safe sex...period. If you grow to trust the person/ people you are seeing/ playing with, and are sure they are clean or tested, then bareback all you like.

Not that hard really."

Perfect post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a mutant strain of gonorrhoea going round now. The most responsible thing for EVERYONE on this site to do is get tested very regularly and to notify anyone you have played with if you have caught anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how can anyone find shagging strangers appealing?

how can anyone get turned on by pissing on each other?

how can people want sex with other of the same sex?

because we all like different and ours is not to reason why "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as both parties agree then bareback is absolutely fine. But if either person wants safety be safe then safe it has to be. No arguements. There is always a risk with bare back but is that part of the fun?

Personally, safe is best but wouldn't rule out unsafe sex

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


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What a hypocritical clown! Reason we don't meet single guys, there are too many weird disturbed ones on here. "

No...reason you don't meet single guys is because of bad experiences you may have had in the past, or just your preference. I don't tar every couple with the same brush do i? (and there are plenty of couples that ask for/ prefer no condom sex on here too)

Besides, your post was way off topic i=with relation to the OP's discussion...about barebacking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback sex is spontaneous and enjoyable, I can feel my partner responding to my every move as he is inside me. However. This is something only indulged in when in a monogamous relationship as far as I am concerned. Not something to indulge in when meeting strangers for sex. I love the feel and the freedom but it's too risky in this lifestyle. "
your right and i see it the same as you ... if a partner theres nothing better when your close x

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By *outhlondondudeMan
over a year ago

london


"A couple messaged me asking if I went safe or bareback. I responded safe and they blocked me lol. Guess they didn't want to hear that"
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LOL! They may not have been a couple, but a single bloke wanting wanking

material!

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"

What a hypocritical clown! Reason we don't meet single guys, there are too many weird disturbed ones on here.

No...reason you don't meet single guys is because of bad experiences you may have had in the past, or just your preference. I don't tar every couple with the same brush do i? (and there are plenty of couples that ask for/ prefer no condom sex on here too)

Besides, your post was way off topic i=with relation to the OP's discussion...about barebacking."
Wateva the fuck eva!

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