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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston

Ladies, on an average day how many messages would you send. We all know guys sent a lot of messages, but I wondered if ladies send messages to guys they like or if they just wait to see who pops up in their inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 I'm afraid, sorry. Just reply.

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"0 I'm afraid, sorry. Just reply."

I thought as much just wonder if this is typical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very rare I send the first message. Perhaps one or two a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send first messages if i like the profile bio and pictures and i feel they match who i’m looking for.

Ive had messages read and deleted, i’ve also had polite thanks but no thanks messages

In numbers i send 2 messages for every 20 received

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Probably several a day.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve probably sent about 5 first messages in all the time I’ve been on here. I’ve not really needed to send any

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By *aughty_Nat69Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don’t really send messages first. If someone catches my eye I send a wink x

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston

There seems to be a general consensus then.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I'm happy to send the first message whenever someone catches my eye...trouble is I'm a fussy bugger and it's rare for me to find anyone that I like the look of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send messages to my fab friends only. I don't contact a new fabber first, I only reply if I'm interested. Which is very rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far none

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By *old1974Man
over a year ago

Manchester

The women in this thread are gorgeous.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send first messages if i like the profile bio and pictures and i feel they match who i’m looking for.

Ive had messages read and deleted, i’ve also had polite thanks but no thanks messages

In numbers i send 2 messages for every 20 received "

Thank you for being honest

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

None. I just reply to some messages sent to me.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

It's rare for me to send the first message ,try to reply to all that seems to have read my profile,if not just delete

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston

Thanks ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes one or two, but usually I just reply to those who message me.

I tend to have better chats with guys if I message them first tbh. Maybe I should message more often lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issues messaging, have done and will do if a profile grabs my attention. Generally... few and far due to the amount of messages women receive anyway tbh

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By *aughty_builder87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Keston


"Sometimes one or two, but usually I just reply to those who message me.

I tend to have better chats with guys if I message them first tbh. Maybe I should message more often lol"

Sounds like you should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send that many first messages, but I will if I stumble across a profile I like.

Maybe 1 for every 15 I receive.

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