FabSwingers.com forum: How did you get into swinging???

By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

On this site there are thousands of people into swinging. It would be nice to know how people got into and started swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an orgy 22 years ago. Not looked back x

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Turned 40, and thought life is for living..

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Turned 40, and thought life is for living..

Love that! As they say, life begins at 40. Live your best life

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

I accidentally few pampas grass in the front garden and down hill from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YOLO.

Always curious then took the plunge

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By *wingamajigsCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

Started with pictures on xhamster, got invited to stickings and heels and met some great friends through there.

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Did anyone start and said " I'm only trying it out and I will get back to my vanilla lifestyle"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started with a conversation with a couple in a pub many years ago whilst working away and never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was porn magazine stories and videos that got us thinking and experimenting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invited to join friends after a night out.... loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a club with a fellow newbie, dived in at the deep end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trudy was out drinking with her friend, and when they got home her friend suggested a 3 sum , unfortunately a few months later on she asked me to leave Trudy for her

, was still a good night though

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By *heshire-cat74Woman
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

About 13 years ago I was single and bored so joined had some amazing times met fantastic people then I found someone got married etc, I’m single again now missed the scene so came back

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Lonliness......on my own for few yrs was told about adam and eves .that was 8 yrs ago. Never looked back..even met del there 3vyrs married in 2 weeks . K

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By *ustagentMan
over a year ago

wa14

got a job in a sex shop to do repairs ,owner had a swinger club so did job there and got invited back at night! could not sleep for days after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a great sex life and wanted to share our bodies with others.

It's all fun

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

We were 6 couples and very young , and we been surfing for few years already all together. On that night we decided as many times before, surfing andcamp in the beach , viana Do Castelo in Portugal Cabedelo beach , and make barbecue.

After the barbecue we started drink and singing , some of us have turn the car lights to the sea this way we could keep surfing , was very nostalgic . As the night goes and all d*unk and happy one of my friends she started to undress and went to the sea , we all 11 done the same and went to the water . Things started to become more warm and to not go so long in this my iniciation on swing , we all wake up with the feel we felt free and we all enjoyed . I kept this group till i come to England , last time i was with them was 8 years ago . Beautiful memories and times we all keep to ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hooked up with an older women on a night out and she told me about it lol

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

It was all a big misunderstanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy on a dating site,met him for the first time when we booked a hotel and went to The Vanilla Alternative which was a first for us both although he's been on here for years and that was that! Not seen him since but have chatted and actually met up with his (now) ex gf at the same club who he got with after we met and are now friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have always had a steamy sexlife, wanted to share our bodies with others... and Wasn't disappointed! Partners in bury was our starting point back then, don't regret a single minute.

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By *ady and DjCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

DJ had some threesums in the past, I was intrigued, and was getting turned on by his stories. We had a friend over one night, playing a few games, drinks following, and it started from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dared my wife to ask the singer at a social club we frequented to come back with us for a threesome

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By *imon the welderMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I signed up to AFF about 16 years ago looking for NSA....

Been bouncing in and out of the scene ever since really....

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"About 13 years ago I was single and bored so joined had some amazing times met fantastic people then I found someone got married etc, I’m single again now missed the scene so came back "

This sounds just like my story

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By *eachrunner1Man
over a year ago

Farnham

On a nude beach in Ibiza about 15 yrs ago.

Watched a couple in the sand dunes playing and thought - I'd like to experience more of this.

Went to Kestrel Spa nr Heathrow a short time after and hooked since then!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I split up with my partner of 25yrs and wasony. I needed sex but did not want dated so took myself off to a swingers club. Never looked back.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Watched Sue having naturist massage at our home with a guy.....looked so horny to see my wife receiving pleasure ..like hours of foreplay ..sex later was so good as she dirty talked how good it felt to have some one else touch/ pleasure her....then did a naturist /swinger cruise Florida to Mexico ...which was a blast ...realised swinger folk where "nice" normal people who just were open about sex ..5 yrs later we still dabble ...

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

I imagine our story is similar to many others: it started off with dirty talk involving swinging scenarios and then slowly evolved into us researching swingers clubs before we eventually built up the courage and visited Libs.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

We just wanted to be nosy so went to a club and ended up getting addicted

then after a few months we realised that couples was not for us its more about single men. Husband likes the hotwife scenario

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By *iger-NWMan
over a year ago

Preston

When I first got into swinging, there were no swinger clubs and no internet. It was done via contact magazines with some pretty naff black and white polaroid pics in them. Meets were arranged by post. You really had to make an effort then, but when it paid off, it was fantastic. It was very 'underground' in those days which made it even more exciting.

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By *ub_n_wifeCouple
over a year ago

Spilsby

We’ve been together since being teens and back then were were babysitting overnight for someone and hubby’s BFF was stopping with us.

We were watching a film quite late, had the lights off and got a bit playful with each other and we let his bff join in.

It continued over the years, sometimes with different people we knew and bringing it to the present time we found fab and clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first discovered Fab when a fwb wanted a threesome and I looked how we could find someone. Started a profile but didn’t really do much with it and ended up deleting. A few years later and being single for quite a number of years and not ever getting any luck on dating sites I thought I would give fab a try to find a regular fb but as time has gone on I’ve met some great people and I’m wanting to experience much more. I attended a club for the first time just before lockdown and very much looking forward to more once we are able

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

"On this site there are thousands of people into swinging. It would be nice to know how people got into and started swinging.

I had my suspicions of a colleague of the Mr and being me, I approached him for info and he was quite shocked with my interest and he suggested we try Fab and I’m glad we did...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got lost on the way back from the shops

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By *lack UhuruMan
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *lack UhuruMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"On this site there are thousands of people into swinging. It would be nice to know how people got into and started swinging.

A FWB mentioned it 10 years ago and I've not looked back since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did anyone start and said " I'm only trying it out and I will get back to my vanilla lifestyle""

Can you ever go back to vanilla?

I don't think I can

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

Used to cheat on exes, told hubby on day one I have never managed to stay faithful and wont make that promise ever, he said that was fine. Just didnt realise it was a thing until much later.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Was recommended it by a lush Para from Cardiff for my needs as tradional dating websites weren't providing the NSA that I required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found my then bf was into hotwife porn, then had the discussion about turning it into reality! Started using tinder but that was pretty crap, google search on swinging and finding an extra for a threesome came up with Fab.

Since we split I’ve ended up back here twice with single profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 20 and single in london I did not like disco so I went swinging party

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"We just wanted to be nosy so went to a club and ended up getting addicted

then after a few months we realised that couples was not for us its more about single men. Husband likes the hotwife scenario

That's a good kind of addiction don't you reckon? Interesting to know your story along with all the rest here

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By *yanShireMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

In all honesty as a very young guy I was curious, used those old fashioned dating lines which was a nightmare to pay for without my folks knowing, found a couple who were keen to meet so showered straight after a shift at the fast-food place I worked at and met them outside in their van and then went to a secluded park. Yup... and boom, I was hooked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a man i met when out dogging told me about fab.i still meet the guy now and then when we can.

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

A woman I worked with told me I was exactly her type but she couldn't fuck me unless I was a fabs member. So I joined, messaged her, she cleared it with her partner & 1 week later she spent the full night at mine.

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By *cotlandHotWifeCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Perth

I was caught cheating with a few different guys so swinging was a way of making things work in a way we both enjoy

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading

A woman who started a one of my customers turned FWB suggested this site a few years back! Unfortunately she moved away but im still here and loving every min !

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

We were looking for garden play equipment ..... never did buy that swing !

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Met a couple in a pub and ended up back at there place..

They told me about this place , then the lady made a profile up for me and said I’d do well on here ..

That was 10 years ago and this is my third profile ..

And I have done very well on here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been in abusive controlling past..

Time to move forward and take control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm not a swinger.. but here I am!

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Well I'm not a swinger.. but here I am!

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By *astispairCouple
over a year ago

Hornchurch

As a couple we joined the scene in 2005. We already had an open relationship, so I joined it 7 years earlier. She had all sorts of weird perceptions until my persuasion, her curiosity & greater self confidence got her to join me. Went to an adult party but I was worried, in case she got spooked. I needn't have worried, we had a great night despite getting a flat tyre on the way home!! Not easy changing a tyre in white chinos.

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

Overseas, at a house party. Didn't know it was a "swing party." Spent most of the evening in the kitchen talking to colleagues about the joys of scuba diving in Asia, then went to the lounge and, well got invited to join in.

Never looked back

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

My ex wanted to watch me with another man so we joined another site. Ive never looked back since x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always interested in swinging but never thought it would happen for me.

My ex confessed to me one night to having had an affair with a married neighbour and also about a couple of other guys. So I suggested we try swinging and she jumped at the idea. Had some great times and made some great friends.

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By *nemichaelMan
over a year ago

kings lynn

I lived out a 3some for months. It wasn't swinging it didn't have a name in the 70s. I wrote about it here https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/739473

It made me realise most ladies had inner desires that they would never allow to come out. When I met my future wife we had a 3 some with a friend of mine, which didn't work out that well as he was d*unk. But it excited her and she admitted she wouldn't mind trying again either with a man or women. It was left at that, after we got married in 1980 we put an ad in a contact mag. From there we got into the local party seen, we were the youngest couple involved by about 10/15 years years so seem quite. popular

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Met a couple in a pub and ended up back at there place..

They told me about this place , then the lady made a profile up for me and said I’d do well on here ..

That was 10 years ago and this is my third profile ..

And I have done very well on here.."

Who would of thought that pub visit lead to you being in this lifestyle

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By *lassy90Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

My ex bf was insurcure about his size and half way through the relationship used to nag to want to watch me with his hung best mate, in the end i said yes so he used to invite him around on a weekend and watch me give him a blowjob then have sex untill we broke up then i came on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Found my then bf was into hotwife porn, then had the discussion about turning it into reality! Started using tinder but that was pretty crap, google search on swinging and finding an extra for a threesome came up with Fab.

Since we split I’ve ended up back here twice with single profiles!

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what a girlfriend !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always had a very high sex drive And it’s something I always fancied trying, so just went for it. Was nervous going to a club at first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advert in local paper for club peeked my interest. Visited and was hooked. Visited a few times but club then closed down. Internet search for swinging led me here. Hooked up with a few local couples on here and have enjoyed playing with hot wives while hubby watched filmed and took pics which are on my profile

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I was introduced to it via a G/f back in the early 90's but we split up.

I stayed off the scene for a few years, deciding to try Dating sites, but one "date" and I found we were more suited to swinging and she introduced me to related parties in London.

Haven't looked back since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago, my gf at the time and 2 mates had a night out.

All went home for late drinks, gf asked if I was coming upstairs. I jokingly said we all are and amazingly she said ok!

We all had a very horny night and I've been hooked ever since.

Wasnt until I met Licky that I found anybody else like minded, but now...!!

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Did anyone start and said " I'm only trying it out and I will get back to my vanilla lifestyle"

Can you ever go back to vanilla?

I don't think I can "

Definitely, I don't think I can, if I did she would have to be easily converted into this scene haha

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By *uncouple31Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

"It was all a big misunderstanding "

This is either a good joke or a better story?

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By *uit and bootsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

An ex FWB introduced me to swinging and clubs. She’s now a priest!

(Probably an ordained minister, but it doesn’t quite have the same punch to it.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watched a documentary about it with my first GF. We tried it and enjoyed it although it was mostly with older couples to start with we found we both got off more on her being fucked by a guy so we looked for men more than couples.

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By *urious8812Couple
over a year ago

dorchester

Me and the husband had talked about it for years. Then out of the blue I suffered a heart attack, realised life is short, so we stopped talking about it and decided to go do it! It’s only ever bought us closer and given me more confidence. Life is for living and having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been an exhibitionist and having discovered the internet found i could take photos and post them on sites such as ukex and ukflirts.

This led to meeting several people with similar interests. And then onto clubs and joys of swinging.

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By *he Jizz PlayerMan
over a year ago

Hatfield

A male friend of mine mentioned swinging to me years ago. I was a bit dubious but he said he would see about taking me along to his next meet (different website). Having put it down to just talk, after a couple of months he suggested I go along with him to a hotel in Luton for a gang bang. Having called my bluff I went along. It was a small(ish) affair with 2 ladies and 6 guys plus me. My mate dived in straight away and then the "organiser" said "come on Gary, join in, everyone gets a chance to play here". Everyone was so friendly I thought why not, went into autopilot, stripped off and joined in the fun. Never looked back.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Are there any on here who were part of a couple or married and wanted to start exploring and experimenting with nonmonogamy but your partner was upset by it and didn't want to. What were the things that you did to help turn things around and make the journey a successful one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a program on swinging and researched it on the net. Then someone told me about this site.....then no looking back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I split up from my partner and had a long break then one day i was offered to go a club so i tagged along and enjoyed it, being a single dad makes it hard to meet new people but atlest at the clubs i was able to have some fun and not have to worry so much about introducing someone new to my children

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Extension of our bedroom fantasies. We got to our mid 40s and decided that if we were going to.live out any of those fantasies we needed to start before we got too old. One of the best decisions we ever made.

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Being a slut

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"Being a slut"

'Sup.

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Being a slut

'Sup.

Lol

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Me and the husband had talked about it for years. Then out of the blue I suffered a heart attack, realised life is short, so we stopped talking about it and decided to go do it! It’s only ever bought us closer and given me more confidence. Life is for living and having fun. "
Life is for living for sure

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By *ilkyladyWoman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

I went through a time of no sex for couple years due to being single. Thought to myself, why? So joined a local online site and went to a house party and met some really nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my ex went to chams in the early naughties. We met 4 couples and enjoyed each other for 7-8 years. Became good friends, mostly meeting at each other’s homes. Wild times. Games aplenty. Now I’ve joined fab a second time and looking for more fun. When it all works nothing compares.

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

leeds

I know this may sound strange but the way the Romans were ( minus the forced sex ) always appealed to me. Sexually free, orgies and sex parties galore. So that made me curious about swinging and a friend took me to a club and I was hooked from then on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On this site there are thousands of people into swinging. It would be nice to know how people got into and started swinging.

By a lady no longer on here We met on a dating site we had a meet and chatted on and off and online she sent me a link to FAB I’m thinking she wanted to become a couple on here cannot be sure though I’ve been in an off ever since No action though

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By *ondongreg79Man
over a year ago

london

"Being a slut "

Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two 18 year olds in there first year of uni, looking to try new things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Extension of our bedroom fantasies. We got to our mid 40s and decided that if we were going to.live out any of those fantasies we needed to start before we got too old. One of the best decisions we ever made."

Very similar to us really as done our bit of porn watching etc and just wanted to try out something else.

It has been fun,friendly and naughty at times. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend suggested the site after a messy breakup several years ago...Haven't look back.

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