FabSwingers.com forum: Couples meeting couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

With an obvious exponential increase in the combination of people needing to find the other people attractive/compatible, do other couples find it difficult to find other compatible/ interested couples?

We do feel that our age differences adds an additional obstacle but finding couples for even a social (before and after lockdown) has been a fruitless task!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes absolutely, it’s not easy finding a couple who we’re both attracted to and who we have a connection with. I suspect this is true for most couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t find it age but as others have said joint attraction. Definitely the hardest part

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

We'e now got seperate profiles as well as our couples one. The longer we've been on the scene the more we've realised finding the right 4 way match is much harder than being individually attracted so we explore both together and apart (not that this is a desired option for many couples).

In our ideal utopia we love to find the right couple together and have before. Just takes effort, time and a sprinkle of luck so keep plugging away OP

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We have managed it but it can be difficult. Organised socials can be a good way of getting to know couples without the pressure.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It depends on your expectations, we could probably meet a couple most weekends if we put the effort into messaging back but it’s time consuming and people like to chat and mess around too much. Sometimes finding 2 singles is actually easier !

We generally search and find couples only with profiles showing they are actually meeting, straight, or will play straight, and into separate room, hotels, seduction etc not a just pile of bodies on some dirty carpet. These types tend to be less time wasters

Your age may be an issue as women can be very picky !

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Finding 4 people who all wanna play together and feel the connection /attraction can be a challenge sometimes for sure....we find it easier now bi fem fun is on the menu so the girls can play ..boys get to watch & join up later

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes. A lot of effort can go into finding the right couple. It's great when it works though. Many factors some into it but the attraction for everyone is the main thing that we struggle with xx

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

"Yes. A lot of effort can go into finding the right couple. It's great when it works though. Many factors some into it but the attraction for everyone is the main thing that we struggle with xx"

Or when you find the attraction they're 260 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very hard to meet couples even in a club

Sometimes you just want to play and not talk this is why we play with single men a lot more than couples as one smile and they are over with there cock or several cocks in my mouth

Do like to talk and get to know people on some occasions as well

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

Definitely hard to find a couple that ticks both our boxes and there is no taking one for the team lol. Hopefully we are going to meet a few in the near future once this all dies down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We learnt the hard way here about preferences.

So wait for someone who are genuinely interested in meeting us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We must of been lucky, had some nice meets with some great couples. Never really struggled

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Yes. A lot of effort can go into finding the right couple. It's great when it works though. Many factors some into it but the attraction for everyone is the main thing that we struggle with xx

Or when you find the attraction they're 260 miles away

Yes usually the way unfortunately. Like your profile x

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By *na_Luv_4PlayCouple
over a year ago

Santa lucia de Tirajana

"With an obvious exponential increase in the combination of people needing to find the other people attractive/compatible, do other couples find it difficult to find other compatible/ interested couples?

We do feel that our age differences adds an additional obstacle but finding couples for even a social (before and after lockdown) has been a fruitless task!"

Had a few amazing foursomes.. but not easy finding other couples who are all attracted to each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Them hardiest thing is to make sure all four likes each other! Lots of couples on fabs got a big age difference between her and him. So group or party fun is much better x

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

We have struggled to find a four way match, it is very difficult to A) find a couple that you’re both interested in and B) they’re interested in both of you, obviously recent events have become another obstacle for us as we can’t visit our usual haunt to chat and explore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we find it difficult. Our best meets have been at house party's.

Its much easier to find a couple who you can connect with.

Fab is hard work because it ends up a three way as the other female never talks as much, so when it comes to meeting, I know the other half very well but Mr BC doesn't.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"We have managed it but it can be difficult. Organised socials can be a good way of getting to know couples without the pressure. "
We tend go social meet up first just to see if we gel....no pressure ..suits us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it hard .. and have found it much easier visiting clubs...

We struggle to find couple we both like .. and obviously then the other couple have to both be attracted to us...

Then several.other factors , distances. Times your all available to meet , it's hard work ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have managed it but it can be difficult. Organised socials can be a good way of getting to know couples without the pressure. "

Yeah we usually do this although we’ve been chatting to some hot couples since lockdown so can definitely skip the social for those few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our age difference, location, availability and inability to travel makes it really hard. Not impossible though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha, just as we supposed, no such thing as an easy ride lol

Guess we should accept it'll be 95% male meets, 4% female and 1% couple, not that there is anything wrong with that

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Very difficult indeed

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By *r_N_MrsCumslutCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

We have pretty much gave up on that search

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

As Mr M doesn't play with others that adds another obstacle to our search but if we are at a club and we click with the right people then he is happy for me to enjoy them both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have no problems, get lots of offers, obviously they're more interested in Amy than me but that's ok with me,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why we host parties, sometimes looks wise doesn't work for all 4 but in a large social gathering personality will shine through and that can turn the tide, some people think house parties are a free for all, but we're all adults and make it what we want it to be, very rarely do we end up in a group session, just find a room with another couple and...... let your imagination run wild

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s only a challenge and difficult if you make it like that, for us it’s about meeting nice people who fit our criteria and want to have fun and it’s fairly easy to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean this with all due respect....

But one of you might have to take one for the team if you want to actually have sex.....

I’ve tried swinging as a couple and it was a nightmare.....

You can easily find couples to meet for a drink or dinner.... but progressing to the bedroom was another story.....

Just stay positive and something good will happen....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean this with all due respect....

But one of you might have to take one for the team if you want to actually have sex.....

I’ve tried swinging as a couple and it was a nightmare.....

You can easily find couples to meet for a drink or dinner.... but progressing to the bedroom was another story.....

Just stay positive and something good will happen...."

Never take one for the team, if that's going to be the case then you end the evening or explain it's not going any further than a social, things like that show a couple isnt that strong and only builds resentment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean this with all due respect....

But one of you might have to take one for the team if you want to actually have sex.....

I’ve tried swinging as a couple and it was a nightmare.....

You can easily find couples to meet for a drink or dinner.... but progressing to the bedroom was another story.....

Just stay positive and something good will happen....

You’re 100% correct.... that is the reason we stopped swinging......

But honestly it was my fault, I pushed her to take a few for the team ... I couldn’t spend another evening drinking and chatting for hours. To hear my partner say “ I’ll play with the wife , but I’m not touching the husband “

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do feel that our age differences adds an additional obstacle but finding couples for even a social (before and after lockdown) has been a fruitless task!"

That's why despite a lot of effort we have never met another couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been looking for the right couple for a long time now. Finding a couple we're both attracted to AND have chemistry with is nearly impossible, it's always one or the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it quite hard work to meet suitable couples on here, combination of our ages as she's the older one, also people a lot of people don't like hair. Although, we have chatted with plenty of couples who we would love to meet with (and they would meet us) but they are always 150+ miles away.

Saying all that though we have 3 or 4 couples to meet with who we first got to know socially and more in clubs, just a shame we can't meet right now!

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

We are still new to all of this. However, we have attended quite a few organised socials and club visits which have given us the opportunity to socialise with a few couples that we may look to play with after lockdown and we have 1 or 2 lined up for sure and are in the process of messaging etc. It is hard when playing as a couple to ensure that everyone is happy and that no one is taking one for the team. We aren’t anything special, but we do have to make sure there is a physical attraction as well as a connection for any play to commence...

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We have met lots of lovely couples on here that have become very good friends of ours inside and outside of the bedroom. We are very lucky.

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

We have been very lucky. We’ve met some great couples who we’ve had some naughty fun with and also become good friends.

It often takes time to find the right couples but when we do it leads to some very sexy fun!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean this with all due respect....

But one of you might have to take one for the team if you want to actually have sex.....

I’ve tried swinging as a couple and it was a nightmare.....

You can easily find couples to meet for a drink or dinner.... but progressing to the bedroom was another story.....

Just stay positive and something good will happen...."

We would rather go without than either of us take one for the team. I never ever will nor would I ask E to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do feel that our age differences adds an additional obstacle but finding couples for even a social (before and after lockdown) has been a fruitless task!"

Yes, we found it difficult to find a couple who we both are attracted to. Also as i am straight seeing some couples heavily emphasize on FF play puts me right off.

We mainly look at single guys or single women, if a couple comes along then bonus.

Age is an issue for us as my other half doesn't care on age as long as he gets along with them etc. Where as i have an upper and lower age limit for men (plus our 9 year age gap lol)

We found (before lockdown) clubs were the best place to be. We use to go in chill and see what happens and we met more couples there then singles who took our interest.

Good luck in your search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean this with all due respect....

But one of you might have to take one for the team if you want to actually have sex.....

I’ve tried swinging as a couple and it was a nightmare.....

You can easily find couples to meet for a drink or dinner.... but progressing to the bedroom was another story.....

Just stay positive and something good will happen...."

i would prefer to go without then "take one for the team" it leads to resentment and self loathing that you shagged someone under pressure from partner etc. Been there done that never ever again.

Swinging as a couple does have more obstacles and requires a lot more work but when you come across someone who both interested in its worth it

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