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Getting over a failed relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is fab a good idea for this? Will it help?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Could do what are you looking for?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

No.. if it’s another rejection yr after, then you’ll find it on here .. so if yr delicate, leave now, but if yr am hard skinned fucker, then stick around and good luck ... plus don’t expect knickers off come flying yr way ...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

it depends what you're after and how you feel you can deal with fab life

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

As a guy on here, hell no! You'll be served far more rejection

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"As a guy on here, hell no! You'll be served far more rejection"

Be positive

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By *ingAlive999Man
over a year ago

London

I'm here cause of same reason. At least this place takes my mind away... you serfing and bump into new exiting things...

Basically chin up and good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking to re find myself. I used to be full of beans and have a sex life that would make a porn star blush. Now I find myself a shadow of the man I once was and struggle to last more than a minute while having penetrative sex. I used to be able to go for hours. I want to be me again

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I'm here cause of same reason. At least this place takes my mind away... you serfing and bump into new exiting things...

Basically chin up and good luck"

Your cute

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Looking to re find myself. I used to be full of beans and have a sex life that would make a porn star blush. Now I find myself a shadow of the man I once was and struggle to last more than a minute while having penetrative sex. I used to be able to go for hours. I want to be me again"

what are you hoping to find on fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can deal with rejection, I'm a man not a pussy, what I struggle with is the fact I've lost my sexual ability after a long sexless relationship and am now a 1minute wonder. I just want to find someone that understands this and can help me get back to the stud I once was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I could get any life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking to re find myself. I used to be full of beans and have a sex life that would make a porn star blush. Now I find myself a shadow of the man I once was and struggle to last more than a minute while having penetrative sex. I used to be able to go for hours. I want to be me again

what are you hoping to find on fab? "

Just some mutual fun and someone who will put up with my premature ejaculation without being judged and is willing to try and help me overcome it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Looking to re find myself. I used to be full of beans and have a sex life that would make a porn star blush. Now I find myself a shadow of the man I once was and struggle to last more than a minute while having penetrative sex. I used to be able to go for hours. I want to be me again

what are you hoping to find on fab?

Just some mutual fun and someone who will put up with my premature ejaculation without being judged and is willing to try and help me overcome it"

oh right. Well good luck in what you're looking for

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

My opinion, worst way ever!

Times a healer!

I split from my ex of 10 years 1 daughter, ruined me! Felt lost! There wasn't anyone in the world in my eyes I wanted or would replace her! Always told I'll get over her or find better and you never believe all this at the time!

3 years ago this was!

I stayed on my own, found myself, become happy in my own company! Best thing in the world! Got over the split, couldn't be happier.

Time is the key!

You can't move on make anyone else happy if your not happy yourself!

Never feels possible at the time but it gets better!

I slept around at first but honestly that made me feel worse!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah not the most attractive or appealing trait. Am I weird or is it quite common?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My opinion, worst way ever!

Times a healer!

I split from my ex of 10 years 1 daughter, ruined me! Felt lost! There wasn't anyone in the world in my eyes I wanted or would replace her! Always told I'll get over her or find better and you never believe all this at the time!

3 years ago this was!

I stayed on my own, found myself, become happy in my own company! Best thing in the world! Got over the split, couldn't be happier.

Time is the key!

You can't move on make anyone else happy if your not happy yourself!

Never feels possible at the time but it gets better!

I slept around at first but honestly that made me feel worse!

"

This is not my first failed relationship but it is the only time when I've become less of a man after it. Since leaving this relationship I've struggled with premature ejaculation and thought maybe with all the sexperts on here I might be able to get help to become the stud I once was lol

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Look for friendship first then see where is goes...

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"My opinion, worst way ever!

Times a healer!

I split from my ex of 10 years 1 daughter, ruined me! Felt lost! There wasn't anyone in the world in my eyes I wanted or would replace her! Always told I'll get over her or find better and you never believe all this at the time!

3 years ago this was!

I stayed on my own, found myself, become happy in my own company! Best thing in the world! Got over the split, couldn't be happier.

Time is the key!

You can't move on make anyone else happy if your not happy yourself!

Never feels possible at the time but it gets better!

I slept around at first but honestly that made me feel worse!

This is not my first failed relationship but it is the only time when I've become less of a man after it. Since leaving this relationship I've struggled with premature ejaculation and thought maybe with all the sexperts on here I might be able to get help to become the stud I once was lol"

Ever thought it could be mentally connected?? Do you worry about it happening all the time??

When it comes down to it are you thinking about if its gonna happen??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, that's all I think about and it just makes it worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My opinion, worst way ever!

Times a healer!

I split from my ex of 10 years 1 daughter, ruined me! Felt lost! There wasn't anyone in the world in my eyes I wanted or would replace her! Always told I'll get over her or find better and you never believe all this at the time!

3 years ago this was!

I stayed on my own, found myself, become happy in my own company! Best thing in the world! Got over the split, couldn't be happier.

Time is the key!

You can't move on make anyone else happy if your not happy yourself!

Never feels possible at the time but it gets better!

I slept around at first but honestly that made me feel worse!

This is not my first failed relationship but it is the only time when I've become less of a man after it. Since leaving this relationship I've struggled with premature ejaculation and thought maybe with all the sexperts on here I might be able to get help to become the stud I once was lol"

Have you tried viagra or cialis ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking to re find myself. I used to be full of beans and have a sex life that would make a porn star blush. Now I find myself a shadow of the man I once was and struggle to last more than a minute while having penetrative sex. I used to be able to go for hours. I want to be me again

what are you hoping to find on fab?

Just some mutual fun and someone who will put up with my premature ejaculation without being judged and is willing to try and help me overcome it"

The women on here are far more likely to take the piss and make you feel even worse.

A few would be decent about it, but is it worth the risk?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah tried viagra, that's not the problem, I can get it up like a 13 year old that's just discovered viagra. I've used stud 100 spray before and that works good and helps just quite embarrassing if I have to say give me 15 minutes to put my spray on and let it kick in lol

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"Yeah, that's all I think about and it just makes it worse"

Maybe a bit of time away sex (as hard as that is) lol

My opinion the more it happens the worse its gonna get!

Mentally and physically!

Its not making ya happy!

Like I said go make yaself happy and maybe after some time your mindset will be different for the better and possibly improve on that area! Just my thoughts!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, that's all I think about and it just makes it worse

Maybe a bit of time away sex (as hard as that is) lol

My opinion the more it happens the worse its gonna get!

Mentally and physically!

Its not making ya happy!

Like I said go make yaself happy and maybe after some time your mindset will be different for the better and possibly improve on that area! Just my thoughts! "

I have been trying this option and have over the last couple of weeks lost 1and a 1/2stone and and quit smoking, I'm hoping this will help physically but mentally it's always on my mind and I worry about meeting anyone new

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I don't think the women on here will take the piss with regards to premature ejaculation.

But mysognistic crap like saying you're 'a man not a pussy' might piss people off.

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